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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).	2,044
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21F) gave my current roommate (22F) 2 months to move out and she hasn't even started looking for a new place POST: About a week ago, I told my roommate that she had to find a new place. I've been wanting to kick her out for over 5 months but I didn't have the support of my other roommates, so she refused to move. Now i have all of their support. We talked to her over group text because we were all out of town. She claimed that she never does anything wrong. We listed everything she did and she denied everything. She has a cat and never cleans it. I share a room with her and all i can smell in there is cat shit. The other roommates claim they can smell it in the hallway as well. She doesn't want my boyfriend in our room because she doesn't feel comfortable around him, yet she'll bring different guys in there even though I feel uncomfortable. She didn't tell the other roommates she was having a party and she was going to let her dad spend the night while we were gone for Christmas so he could care for her cat. She also laughs and yells at the top of her lungs in the middle of the night while every one is sleeping. I asked for a clean, consideration, and quiet roommate and she isn't any of that. She is so oblivious. She really believes she is perfect. During the group text she blamed me for all the mess and claimed that we were all attacking her for no reason. We never signed her on to the lease. I want her out in a month but she keeps trying to buy more time. I can't handle the smell of cat shit anymore. It gives me a headache and I'm not comfortable in my own room anymore. I stopped being nice but she doesn't take me seriously. I don't know how to handle her anymore. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I told my roommate that she needed to find a new place to live by mid February but she doesn't take me seriously.	I told my roommate that she needed to find a new place to live by mid February but she doesn't take me seriously.	5,704
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my wife [30 F] dated 6 years, married 1, wants a lavish lifestyle with no work POST: I met my wife in college and we hit it off pretty quickly. I'm a laid back career-minded individual and my wife is more of a fun-loving type A. I was raised in a family that has lived on both ends of the economic spectrum. We've been so poor that we were near homeless, and we've also been a family making a decent 6 figure wage. My wife was raised in a family that has always been well off, as her dad is a VP at a large company. Her mother has always been a stay at home mom, as her dad's income was more than enough for the family. I come from a home where everyone has worked since they were first able. We've been together a total of 7 years, and we started together in a tiny one bedroom apartment in college. She didn't complain when we lived there, but she understandably said she wanted to have more space. Since then, I've gotten a career and make pretty good money for my age. I showed her the houses that were available for what we make after budgeting and she wasn't satisfied. I told her that if she was willing to work, we could move into a large home, so she got a job. Since then she has decided that she hates work and isn't cut out for it. She talks about how much she hates it at least 2-3 times a week. I told her she could quit and we could move some place smaller, but she wants to have her cake and eat it too; she refuses to accept the idea that we'd have to move into a smaller home. I told her as long as she wants to live in a large house, we have to both be working. I've talked to her about getting a different job. I talked to her about doing her resume, helping her find another career, but she isn't interested. The only acceptable outcome for her is to not have to work but live in a house we cannot afford (which I am unwilling to put us through). How do I get through to her? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My wife wants to live outside of our means, and complains about having to work to achieve it. How do I get through to her?	My wife wants to live outside of our means, and complains about having to work to achieve it. How do I get through to her?	774
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you cope with a parents diagnosis of cancer? POST: I don't know why I am using reddit for this, I guess its just cause I have no one else to talk to. So about 2 hours ago I got a phone call from my mother saying my father has been diagnosed with rectal cancer and the doctors do not know how far it is along. I'm 18 and I attend college 10 hours from home so I haven't seen my father in nearly 2 months at this point, we aren't particularly close to each other but we got along better than most people do with their parents. Anyway what is impacting me most is that I am the only person who has not been there with him and I probably wont be able to see him until Christmas break, if my employer gives me a week off that is. I guess that's the thing, I feel so guilty about not being there to help him, and the rest of my family. I also feel guilty because one of the first things I thought of was about how this will impact my own life which is stressful enough since I am pursing an engineering degree will working nearly full time to cover the costs of my loans. I just.. I just don't know. I'm angry, sad, and afraid but I have no one to talk to about this. Sorry for the incoherent rambling. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm a student who lives 10 hours from home who just found out his father has cancer and I am seeking advice on how to cope with it.	I'm a student who lives 10 hours from home who just found out his father has cancer and I am seeking advice on how to cope with it.	6,130
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my long distance girlfriend [18/F] for about one year, troubles with honesty. POST: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 1 year now, and will be at one year this may. We have made it until this weekend without any major fights, mostly because of our honesty and openness. I have never doubted her, nor has she doubted me, until I gave her any reason to. So we went through an "open relationship" period when we first came to college, because we weren't sure if we should continue on with it. During this period, I walked a girl home who attempted to start making out with me, as a "thank you." I was extremely uncomfortable with the whole ordeal and never talked to the girl again. This was my extent of female interaction that has not been with my girlfriend. Whenever she would ask about the the "open period" I would say nothing had happened, because I was so uncomfortable that she would think that I had deliberately cheated on her, or something similar. Recently, this weekend, I finally got the gaul to ask her what she had done over that period. She told me a remarkably similar story, wherein a guy tried to kiss her, and she went back to her room sobbing. At this point I knew that I should tell her the whole truth. After telling her, she was extremely hurt. She has burst out at me a lot recently saying that I lied to her face. Which, honestly I have. Our relationship is now a roller coaster of us being fine, until she gets upset with me, for as she admits, no reason, and snaps at me. This is taking a toll on my mental health as well as our relationship health, and I'm worried I'm going to snap back at her, which would not be fair. I have admitted fully that what I did was wrong despite my best intentions, and I remind her every time. I've not gone out all weekend because I do not want to put her through the feeling that I'm going out and having fun while she doesn't trust me. Any feedback for this is appreciated. I'm really worried about us. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Lied to my girlfriend about things that happened over our open relationship because I was uncomfortable with myself, told her 7 months later, now we don't trust each other.	Lied to my girlfriend about things that happened over our open relationship because I was uncomfortable with myself, told her 7 months later, now we don't trust each other.	331
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Have a crush and want to take it the next level. How should I proceed? POST: OK so I like this girl (She is a junior and I'm a sophomore in highschool) and she was dating this guy I was friends with when I first met her. They broke up about 2 weeks ago and my friend keeps saying that he is over her. I'm not gonna lie this girl is a little bit out of my league but I really think she likes me because one day last week we were talking in the hallway and she randomly asked to see my hand, she then proceeded to write her number on my hand. I had never previously asked her for it so I found it a bit weird, once again I'm not gonna lie I'm not exactly a Laddies' man. Fast forward about a week nothing has happened other than talking to each other in the hall and texting daily. Homecoming is coming up on a couple of weeks and of course with my luck it is girls ask guys. I thought to myself, "Screw it, I'm just gonna ask her." This was yesterday, of course some other asshole asked her that morning. (I don't see her until lunch.) This guy is one of her ex's from last year and she said she might give him another chance. This guy has a little bit of an advantage over me because he is also a junior, taller, plays guitar, and has a sweet beard. I was texting her last night and asked her if she was with that dude and she said no, but I'm thinking about it. I replied, "I'm going to warn you, and I speak from personal experience, the relationship ended the first time for a reason." She then texted back, "You're right." The best I could think to say was, "You do you, but consider this fair warning." No response. I'm really stumped here and honestly have no idea what to do next. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I like a girl and was gonna ask her to homecoming but her ex did first and doesn't know if she is gonna take him back.	I like a girl and was gonna ask her to homecoming but her ex did first and doesn't know if she is gonna take him back.	1,010
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She said we would be together POST: I'm going to try to keep this brief. Thank you in advance. 19/M. Hurt by 18/F. We have known each other for a few years, and it's been on and off. I am a college student, while she lives back at home with her folks. We had been seriously talking for a few weeks, and I, the hopeless romantic, believed in her. Over Thanksgiving break, she said we would be together. I believed. I returned back to school in Boston, and for a few weeks, everything was fine. We were talking, and I believed we were progressing. Then two weeks ago, she said she didn't want to be together with me because of the distance. She drops contact. It stung, but I completely understand, I thought she just wanted some space. Today I signed on to facebook to see that she is in a relationship with some fella who goes to school in Florida. It just fucking stings man. She cuts deep. I wanted to believe, but she just me up into ribbons. I can't believe it. What should I do? Any advice as to how to let her go, or what my next step should be? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Initially said we would be together, then said she didn't want to be because of distance. Week later she drops contact and is in a relationship with a guy who lives 1,337 miles away.	Initially said we would be together, then said she didn't want to be because of distance. Week later she drops contact and is in a relationship with a guy who lives 1,337 miles away.	4,316
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Revenge ideas for a pompous boss. POST: Dear Reddit: Heres the sitch. So my co-worker and I made a friendly bet with one of our bosses. We work in a Physiotherapy Clinic and we have 3 members of the same family coming in to see him so I piped up and said ?I b et you can?t get the mom to make an appointment? and so it began. We drew up a contract that stated that the mom must make an appointment before 5pm on Thursday July 12, 2012. If she made the appointment my co-worker and I would have to call our boss ?Supreme Master of the Universe? for 2 straight days. If she did not make the appointment he had to sing every single request for us for 2 straight days. So she leaves and makes an appt for her and we all think the bet is over. He won. He cashes in on his bet for the next 2 days. It is now 3 days later and I find out she cancelled her appointment but he never told anyone. I need a seriously good retaliation for this. It will not go unnoticed. He can definatly take a joke and is extremely pompous. I need your ideas to exact revenge. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boss didn?t win a bet but cashed in on our punismnet anyways. How to get him back?	Boss didn?t win a bet but cashed in on our punismnet anyways. How to get him back?	1,673
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/m] Enamored of my best friend's sister [21/f] POST: Using a throwaway just to be safe. Mostly. I've known one of my friends for around 10 years, and though we no longer live near each other, I make an effort to spend time with her a few times a year. She's practically a sister to me. In that time I've become close to her family, including one of her sisters, let's call her Olivia. Olivia may or may not have been fond of me for some time. In recent years, my friend sent me teasing texts like, "When are you visiting again? Olivia misses you." At the time, I liked Olivia as much as one likes any annoying-but-somehow-endearing younger sisters of your best friend, so I rolled my eyes and humored her. I figured it was a phase, and it probably was. Well, as it happens, I hate myself; Olivia has grown on me. After teasing Olivia through her college years for being in a related discipline embroiled in a conflict with my own, she switched to my major. Funny, that. Having the ability to share in obtuse conversations certainly enabled us to spend more time together, and I find myself stupidly grinning at even the worst of her puns. Fast forward to the present. Olivia and I are both graduating in the spring. Part of me knows that keeping my mouth shut is the safer course of action, and much of this could just be me projecting, but I still want to open up to my friend before we all part ways. I'm trying to conceive how best to broach the topic with her, as it's going to be awkward regardless. I know all the risks involved, and I even considered the cataclysmic scenario in which it's my friend and not her sister who has feelings for me, which is ridiculous, but you know what they say about truth and fiction. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Falling for my best friend's sister, not sure if the feelings are reciprocal, deciding whether or not to potentially shoot myself in the foot by opening up to my friend	Falling for my best friend's sister, not sure if the feelings are reciprocal, deciding whether or not to potentially shoot myself in the foot by opening up to my friend	259
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] feel as though there is no place for me. POST: I just want to preface what is going to be a long post with some background information about myself. I am a 17 year old male, and I have a serious wealth of mental problems. I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome, ADHD, and Compulsive behaviors; we are already off to a great start! Aside from being unbelievably retarded in social situations, you could say that my physical attractiveness is average at best. I am like 5'10" and I weigh about 230 lbs. So I am not really the most beautiful person out there. I think my only strong point as a person is that I am a very caring person and an excellent listener. Although this may also be a negative because I appear unbelievably clingy (I think) to others. My compulsive behavior is repulsive; I constantly try to pluck hairs from my neck and pick my nose and eat my own god damned snot. I am like a little fucking kid and I am almost legally considered an adult. So now that you can kinda get an idea of who I am, I will move on to what I am asking for advice about. I seriously feel like I will never, ever be in a meaningful relationship, and I truly feel like I don't deserve to be in such a relationship. All of my past experiences with women have been terrible to the point where I pretty much have given up on pursuing a relationship. I've asked dozens of girls on dates before, only to be rejected, provided the standard excuses which don't register as a definitive no in my autistic head. I tend to only have feelings for my friends, because I know them and they actually talk to me, but friends are just that: friends. I automatically assume that I will be rejected now, so I really don't bother trying because I like to preserve the friendships I have, considering how hard I have worked to establish them. I am overall just a loser and have come to the conclusion that nobody wants me, nobody will ever want me, and I should stop trying. TL;DR: . Assistant:	fat, below average looking social retard who picks nose and plucks neck hair hates himself and knows that an actual relationship is out of the question.	fat, below average looking social retard who picks nose and plucks neck hair hates himself and knows that an actual relationship is out of the question.	6,455
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my fwb [29M] of ~18 months. Things are getting really confusing between us and he won't talk to me about it. POST: We originally met ~18 months ago at the gym. He asked me on a date and we went out a couple times but we both realized neither of us were really looking for a serious relationship at the time (yeah, it's a cliche but I just got out of a relationship that ended badly). So we decided to be FWB and it has been a lot of fun. Over the last year we have got closer and closer. We stay at each other's places, go out to breakfast. We go out for drinks - we never call it a date but I guess it sort of is. Last week he invited me to his work party, again never mentioning the word date. It's getting kind of complicated and I hate being in this stage of not knowing where we're at with the relationship. We don't talk about other people we've slept with but I had sex with someone else a couple weeks ago and I feel guilty about it. I've not felt like that before with him and I don't know why but I'm nervous he will find out. So it's obvious I like him and I would like to be on from just being FWB. It does almost feel like more than that already though because we spend so much time together. After his work party I got the courage to talk to him about what was going on with us. He was very reluctant to talk and kept saying he didn't want to ruin things by changing anything. But I feel things have changed between us and it is mutual. I don't think it is just me that thinks this is more than sex now. I don't know, maybe I'm wrong but he won't talk about it and I'mnot sure what to do. If he does like me then I don't want to lose him but if he doesn't like me then maybe it is time to end it. Any advice to get him to talk or can any me give some insight into what he might be thinking? Or is it even worth trying to talk to him again? TL;DR: . Assistant:	relationship status between my fwb and I has got confusing. he won't talk about it and now I'm not sure what to do.	relationship status between my fwb and I has got confusing. he won't talk about it and now I'm not sure what to do.	5,462
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today I left a job "voluntarily" after pretty much being told I was set up to fail from the moment I was hired. Reddit, what's the most frustrating thing you've ever experienced at a job, or after leaving a job? POST: Long story short, I completed my Masters in a communications-related field last May. Right after school, I was hired to work in IT, even though I had no experience or knowledge of anything IT-related. I failed to meet the expectations of the job, and today when I went in to discuss a plan of action, I was told that when I was hired, they didn't have a training plan in place to help me, nor did anyone have the time to work with me. I said to my manager, "so basically, I was set up to fail from the moment I was hired," and she agreed. My manager offered a two-week plan to "get back on track" but explained that if I didn't meet the expectations, I would most likely be terminated, so I should take the severance package and leave on my own terms. So, I voluntarily left in order to get severance, but now I don't have a job. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Was hired to work in a field where I had no experience/knowledge. They never trained me and didn't have time to work with me. They asked me to resign today.	Was hired to work in a field where I had no experience/knowledge. They never trained me and didn't have time to work with me. They asked me to resign today.	6,064
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF [21F] of 2 years broke up with me [25M] because of stress and uncertainty but hasn't been clear at all about her intentions. I want to know where we stand but I feel like NC is appropriate too. Please help?! POST: As I stated in the title, my GF broke up with me because of how stressed she is with nursing school and a stressful family situation. Her exact words were "I just want to be alone so I can figure out what I want with everything in my life without anybody or anything swaying my decision one way or the other so I think we should break up for a little while." She also said she felt bad because she knew she was being really distant and didn't think I deserved that and didn't want me to think that's how a girlfriend should act. I understand that for the most part. However, she's called me since then to check on me and see how I was doing. She said she was "only so happy since she wasn't with me" and at one point, she referred to me as "the love of her life." She has NEVER EVER been the type of girl to say really sappy, affectionate things like that so I honestly don't know what to do. I think not contacting her is probably my best bet since I doubt she'll begin to really miss me if I'm talking to her alot, but I also just want to know what she's thinking, what she wants me to do, or if this was just an easy way to be done with me for good without all the dramatics. I love this girl more than I can explain so...any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF broke up with me for what she says is "a little while" but I don't know what's she thinking or what I should do regarding contact or none	GF broke up with me for what she says is "a little while" but I don't know what's she thinking or what I should do regarding contact or none	820
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of 16 months, have been fighting all the time POST: So me and my girlfriend of 16 months moved in together 4 months ago after a year of dating. Since then, we have been fighting at least once a week over stupid reasons. While some of the reasons do become some what valid, I'm talking about full on screaming matches over the fact that I want to get something quick to eat before having to do something while she wants to go out for dinner even though I'm busy; or getting mad enough to throw things at me because I can't help her dry dishes at the current time. The thing is, it's not just her getting mad there are times I am getting mad too. We have both started our own fights over stupid things, and it results in us yelling at each other for an hour, her crying for half an hour, and then her telling me that she should never have moved in and wants to move out. We do love each other (at least I do) and we try to reconcile it, but after a week we end up in the exact same spot. We are both full time university students, and I work full time her part time to pay the bills/rent. She does alot of the housework (almost all) and cooks on the weekdays while I cook on the weekends (the days we work, basically whoever is home first cooks supper). I would tend to think, based on our jobs only, that I tend to have a busier schedule and more stress, but we do have fairly equal levels over all. I'm running out of options on what I can try to do, and don't want to end this relationship, but I fear it is coming as we are both becoming less willing to help each other out, and more angry with each other while having a shorter temper overall. I'm asking the experts here if there are things they can suggest so we can try and stop these fights. I first thought it was additional stress from us moving in together causing friction, but now I don't know anymore. I really don't want to break up with her for so many other reasons, and the other 6 days of the week we get close again, but the one day during the weekend is driving us apart. Thanks in advance, Jimmypickins. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend and me are arguing all the time and on the verge of breaking up, need help to fix the situation!	Girlfriend and me are arguing all the time and on the verge of breaking up, need help to fix the situation!	3,213
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23,F] slept with a friend [27,M] that I had been seeing for months, but then he left me the next morning. POST: Disclaimer: This is more to get things off my chest than ask for advice. I had made friends with a guy who I thought was nice and over the course of our 5 month friendship we talked about dating at some point and really seemed to have fun and do stuff together. This past Friday night we went and did some Halloween mazes, and I spent the night at his house. This was our first time having sex, being that he said he wants a relationship with me. The next morning around 8ish, he woke me up to tell me that his uncle wanted to spend time with him. So I was okay with that. He said that I could come back later that day and we could hang. Fast forward to later, and he tells me not to come over cause his dad came home from his weekend trip and was sick. Come Sunday, and there are no texts and calls at all. I sent him texts with no replies no calls back. I go to that bathroom the next night and there's a condom when I wipe! Ivrealize his condom got stuck in me at some point, and he didn't even bother to tell me. I became worried, but I'm on the pill and my period should be this Friday and I've been feeling the usual period symptoms (unless my brain is playing a trick on me and I'm not menstrating come Friday). Then today I decide to call to see if I can get through with this condom business. He answers the phone with, "Who's this?" I quickly lose my nerve and hang up. Then I get a text from his number telling me it's his girlfriend and I should leave him alone he doesn't want me and I quote, my "stanky, nasty pussy" anymore. Now, I currently feel hurt and very dumb. Granted it was only 5 months, and I should be okay come next week, for the moment this feels like he ripped my heart out with his lies, and I can't help but wonder, was anything he told me the truth. I thought I'd feel better typing out my feelings. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I had been friends with a guy for months looking to have a relationship, but he completely abandoned me after our first time having sex.	I had been friends with a guy for months looking to have a relationship, but he completely abandoned me after our first time having sex.	4,848
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Sharing an Anniversary POST: Wedding is in about a year- been thinking May 2016 since we got engaged in February. Due to bridal party members being in grad school, we are limited to the last 3 weekends, so the 14th, 21st& 28th. Originally wanted the 21st-got it in the church calendar a week ago. Find out yesterday the priest, an old family friend coming in from out of state, actually has a conflict that weekend. 28th is Memorial Day weekend, and all our families are traveling 3+ hours. Don't want to deal with booking stuff/travel on a holiday weekend. Fine, the 14th works for us and priest. Talk to my mom about this, and am reminded that the 14th is my aunt& uncles anniversary. It won't be a milestone year, and they won't be offended or anything. My main issue is a) do I have to recognize this during the ceremony/reception? And b) FIL, FH's aunt and uncle& grandparents all share an anniversary that we chose to not use. They won't be offended I don't think but it's a little rude. TL;DR: . Assistant:	had to change our date, now it's the same as a close family members anniversary. Do we recognize them day of? We also chose to avoid a date sentimental to multiple couples in FH's family, so is that awkward?	had to change our date, now it's the same as a close family members anniversary. Do we recognize them day of? We also chose to avoid a date sentimental to multiple couples in FH's family, so is that awkward?	3,792
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: BF always jokes that I'm not good enough. POST: F 23. M 24. 2 Years. My BF is always making comments and hints about my weight and hair and then posing them off as jokes. He constantly hints that I need to loose a little bit of weight. Perhaps 10 ibs. This is fine b/c I've always thought I've been a little chubby. But not my hair. I love my short hair but he really wants me to grow it out or get hair extensions. He's always joking around about how beautiful girls are with long hair. On New Years Eve, we went out and this girl who had short hair, got extensions and he joked around that I should too. I don't want to be coerced into doing something I don't want to do. I really love him and vice versa. He's been such a positive influence in my life except for this. I'd hate to change for him, but I also want to be attractive to him. I'm kind of at a loss here. Should I just grow my hair out? Lose the weight? Oh and problem number 2: I think he likes that girl that got extensions. He's always comparing me to her in a joking manner. At times it does hurt. Other times, I think I'm just being a pussy for letting it get to me. Should I just ignore all of this? Am I overreacting? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My BF jokes that I should lose weight and grow my hair. And that I should be more like this other girl. :/	My BF jokes that I should lose weight and grow my hair. And that I should be more like this other girl. :/	5,236
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: My son has been a little terror lately! POST: My 2 1/2 yr old son and I recently moved far away from all of our friends and family and because of this he's been really acting out. He's been throwing crazy fits for no reason, throwing hard, heavy toys at me, basically doing everything that I tell him not to. I understand that he's in the "terrible two's", but it's gotten so much worse since we moved and he isn't responding to the punishments that used to work. Between all of the stress that comes with moving and him acting out like he does, I've been getting migraines every other day. If someone could help a mother out, I would kiss the ground you walk on. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My 2 1/2 yr old son is being a little terror and is causing me to get horrible migraines. I've tried all I can think of but I would love some helpful ideas.	My 2 1/2 yr old son is being a little terror and is causing me to get horrible migraines. I've tried all I can think of but I would love some helpful ideas.	3,013
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [26M], together 2 years, would you break up with someone because they are infertile? POST: We love each other and there haven't been any other major things to make me question our relationship before. I was excited to be moving in with him. However, recently I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I found out I was infertile, and he said he didn't know. I asked if he found out I was infertile right now and he said he would break up with me. I am extremely upset by this, I feel that if you truly love someone you would not leave them for something they can't control. He feels bad and says he can't help how he feels, and maybe it will change the longer we are together. He says he would worry he wouldn't love an adopted child if it was my infertility stopping us having children, but not if it was his infertility. I cannot understand this at all. We are due to move in together very soon, and this has made me question whether I can be with him, whereas before I felt so sure. After 2 years is it unreasonable to expect my boyfriend to stay with me if this happened? I don't even think I am infertile, it's just the principle of leaving someone for something they cant control that I have a problem with! I could never marry someone who felt unsure they would stay with me if this was the case. What would you do/what would you have done at this point in your relationship? Do you think his feeling are likely to change the longer we are together? TL;DR: . Assistant:	If your boyfriend/girlfriend of 2 years said they would leave you if you were infertile, what would you do?	If your boyfriend/girlfriend of 2 years said they would leave you if you were infertile, what would you do?	1,188
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21m] am nervous about my gf [19f] meeting up with a guy from her hometown. POST: Hey guys, been in relationship for half a year with my lovely girl. This is my first relationship so I want to know how to deal with this situation. A while back I was using her phone and she got a message on her social media website (she knows I know about it, but not that I actually found her profile). A guy she doesnt really know (loose acquaintance she put it) measages her Saying Hes coming to our town. She's from Russia so it's in Russian and she writes blogs on it so I like to read what she says. So what he said was that he was going to surprise her with the date he was coming (I later found out using google translate). She made it seem like to me that she didn't really want to hang out with him since he's not even close to her, just a friend of a friend. Well I looked at her profile (it's public) and found out she commented on his photo being at the airport "so ambiguous." So she messaged him as soon as he got to our city. I got curious and read it. I'm feeling insecure. She doesn't know that I know. The guy is a single guy here and my gf is very pretty. I trust her, but this makes me VERY nervous even though I'm trying to rationally tell myself that it's ok. But I can't get over that she really wants to meet up with someone she's not close to. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend meeting up with an acquaintance from her hometown and I'm not sure whether or not I should be extremely nervous. I am extremely nervous.	girlfriend meeting up with an acquaintance from her hometown and I'm not sure whether or not I should be extremely nervous. I am extremely nervous.	3,044
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] cheated on my girlfriend[20F] of a year and got her back, but not sure how to deal with the insecurity. POST: In the summer of 2013, i cheated on my girlfriend. We had only been dating for 3 months, but it still hurt her like crazy, because we were so close. I cheated on her because I am an idiot, and because my "White Buffalo" text me telling me to come over while I was hanging out with 2 guys my girlfriend had previously slept with. Never mind, no excuses. I won her back in December 2014, and we have been dating since, and I have been beyond good; not going to the bar with my buddies, not texting or talking to other girls ETC. And this is fine with me. I keep telling my buddies; in the future I'll be able to come to the bar and hang out with you guys all the time, but right now, I need to make her trust me again. My friends are fine with this. But she has so many guy friends; due to working at a bar, and she is kind of unreasonably close with them. Of course I can't be the jealous type, due to what I've done, but it still bothers me that I can't even converse with other girls, but she can basically flirt with guys, even though I've been amazing to her the entire time we've been back together. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I cheated on my girfriend in the summer, she came back to me, and I've been amazing. But it bother me that she can flirt and talk with guys while I cant even converse with girls.	I cheated on my girfriend in the summer, she came back to me, and I've been amazing. But it bother me that she can flirt and talk with guys while I cant even converse with girls.	2,979
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: I've fallen back in love... POST: This is just a personal achievement for me, but I have just read my first book in months. Ever since my uncle passed away (he was like a father to me) I haven't been able to pick up a book and read. This is an issue as I had what my family rightfully explained as "book cravings". I would actually get antsy if I hadn't read for a day or so, which meant that being employed full-time I found myself reading smaller novels, mostly aimed at teens (yes this includes all those vampire fictions, it was interesting to see whether the storylines differed. I'm female which made it seem less weird I guess!), just to satisfy my mind. The week after my uncle's funeral I engrossed myself in as many books as I could, as the previous week was spent helping my mum, grandma and sisters plan his funeral The last novel I read was about a week after he passed away, was "Cleo" by Helen Brown. I am a great cat lover but it was more than a story about a cat and the antics it gets up to. It's about healing. And it was also the first book that almost brought me to tears. But since then I just couldn't read. I still borrowed books but they stayed in my bag until they were due back. Anyway, today I walked into a bookstore on a whim, and picked up "After Cleo: Came Jonah" as I loved "Cleo", and hadn't realised she had released a second book. It was beautiful. It didn't make me want to cry, and the feel of the novel was different, but it worked so well. I actually now physically feel lighter after reading it (I started it about 5:30pm, it's now 9:50pm! Not a bad time!) and it's funny how I didn't realise I had this dark weight above me. Just feels good to get back in touch with the book-craving me again :) TL;DR: . Assistant:	I read my first novel in months after not going for much more than a day of reading for as long as I can remember. Feels good, and a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.	I read my first novel in months after not going for much more than a day of reading for as long as I can remember. Feels good, and a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.	828
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31 F] with my fiancé [31 M] two years, am having hard time getting any quiet time to work at home. Help! POST: My fiancé & I started a business together & it's been going well, except for one thing... he just won't be quiet while I'm trying to work, & no amount of 'Honey, I would love to talk, but right now I'm in the middle of something, ok?' or 'Can we agree to make eye contact & check to see if the other person is busy before we start a conversation?' seems to stop him. Our apartment is way too small to get away from him, & if I put on headphones, he sees it as an opportunity to start playing music loudly (lately it's been Hotline Bling on loop, which is almost worse than the talking). I've been leaving to work in coffee shops, but I'm wearing out my welcome at the spots near our apartment, & it's dumb that I spend all day buying lattes when we have a great home office. I don't think he means ill, but (clearly) I'm frustrated, & I'd really appreciate any tips for talking to him about this in a grown-up way, because right now I just want to be like 'GODDAMMIT, MAN; I CANNOT DO MY EXCEL FUNCTIONS WITH YOUR INFERNAL BLATHERING'. A little bit more context: His side of the business is very different from mine — he works in fits & starts coding throughout the day, while I need long periods of quiet & concentration to do data analysis. He's also not great at reading social cues, so me staring down at laptop typing feverishly while wearing headphones apparently reads to him as 'a good time to explain my latest theory about why Third Eye Blind's first album is so timeless to u/PM_ME_A_PLESIOSAURUS!' TL;DR: . Assistant:	Fiancé is a sweet man, but talks at me constantly while I'm trying to work from home & is making my job very difficult.	Fiancé is a sweet man, but talks at me constantly while I'm trying to work from home & is making my job very difficult.	6,115
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Two mobiles? POST: We were given a hand-me-down mobile for our baby's crib before he was born, but my wife never liked it, and ended up buying a different one, of a very simple, wooden style. She wanted us to donate the other one but I just couldn't bring myself to do it–it's too cute, with its little animals being held up by a long giraffe neck, and I felt like getting rid of it would be depriving our son of that fun... but I stuck it in the back of the closet and until now only the wooden one has been in use. Well the wooden mobile has no motor, and yesterday I put up the jungle mobile so that I could crank it up and have the baby be entertained for a couple of minutes while I prepared our stuff for the day (I'm stay-at-home dadding for a few weeks). I realized that even if you twist up the wooden mobile as much as it will go, it spins itself out in a very short time. And of course, he loves those cute little creatures. My wife wasn't thrilled, but she gave in and said, "Fine, just take down the wooden one," which brings me to the issue: I don't want to. I think with one mobile, the crib looks like kind of a sad, lonely place, with a mobile added as a concession. With two mobiles, it looks like an actual fun, happy place to be, which is how I think I would prefer him to feel about it. My wife just thinks that with two mobiles, having different color schemes, it's bad for the aesthetics of the room. I'm sure she's right, but we're not trying to get the nursery into any magazines, so I don't think aesthetics should be that much of a concern. But is there some other reason it's not okay to have two mobiles on one baby's crib?? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want to keep two mobiles on the baby's crib. My wife thinks it's ugly. Should I stick to my guns, or am I wrong?	I want to keep two mobiles on the baby's crib. My wife thinks it's ugly. Should I stick to my guns, or am I wrong?	4,741
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[26M] with my girlfriend [32F] of over 5 years-I can't get over the trivial age difference... POST: I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for over 5 years now, and I could honestly say that I am deeply in love with her. I've never felt so loved and happy before, and I believe that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Our sex life is out of this world, and I can't keep up with her, and we also have a really deep emotional connection. I'm about to ask her to marry me, however, I'm suddenly feeling really hesitant and I think it's because she's 6 years older than me... My girlfriend has always been a lot less mature than me, and I think that stems from the fact that she lived a very sheltered life. I was also her first real boyfriend, and she lost her virginity to me. She also looks about 10 years younger than she is, and people are always amazed that she's older than me. In essence, I've always felt like the older, and more mature person in our relationship. We are also in the same place career wise, and we both discussed wanting to have kids in about 3-4 years from now. Despite this, though, I can't help but worry about our age difference...It feels nonexistent now, but I worry that It'll be evident in the future...At times I think that 6 years is such a small age gap and that my worries are incredibly immature and nonsensical. But at times I feel that our 6 year age difference is something to worry about, maybe not now, but in the future... I am deeply in love with this girl, and I've never been so physically and emotionally attracted to someone before. I'm about to ask her for marriage, but I can't get rid of the nagging thought that she's older than me. Am I crazy? Is a 6 year age difference really that big of a deal among adults? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm about to ask my beautiful girlfriend to marry me, but lately I can't get over the fact that she's 6 years older than me. Are my concerns unjustified?	I'm about to ask my beautiful girlfriend to marry me, but lately I can't get over the fact that she's 6 years older than me. Are my concerns unjustified?	3,827
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Ok Reddit, I'm essentially getting scammed here and need your help please! POST: A little background: So back in 2008 I went to WeFest and signed up for one of those "Win a free vacation!" things. Anyway a couple days later I get a call saying I won. (Here comes the stupid part) One thing leads to another I give my credit card info. Please don't just say I shouldn't have done that etc., I know I shouldn't have, lesson learned/ in progess. I agreed to $175 +$43/month over 6 months. About an hour later I realized, holy hell I'm dumb called and cancelled the 6 months but they still got me for the $175. Now, 18 months later I get a call saying I have a substantial balance of $898 due, asked what would happen if I refused to pay it and they said they would just debit the credit card they have on file. Can they do this? I never actually signed anything and know I never agreed to that much. Are they just trying to get me to agree for more money now? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Gave credit card over the phone. Now company calls me again 18 months later saying I still owe $898 or they will just charge me anyway with the account they still have on record.	Gave credit card over the phone. Now company calls me again 18 months later saying I still owe $898 or they will just charge me anyway with the account they still have on record.	3,667
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my girlfriend [22F] of 18 months, having problems due to different sex drives. POST: Lately my girlfriend has been feeling rejected and resentful towards me because I'm often not in the mood to have sex when she tries to initiate it, and I rarely initiate sex, because....I straight up just don't like having sex. It's sweaty, it's tiring, I feel grimy afterwards, it comes with expectations, it's never as enjoyable as my boner promises it's going to be. On the other hand, I love my girlfriend, she's a wonderful person, and the only person that I would willingly have sex with. My question is as follows: Am I being unreasonable? Should I just suck it up and live with doing something I don't enjoy just to keep the peace? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't like sex. Girlfriend is bummed out about my not reciprocating advances/never initiating sex. Should I just force myself to keep up just to keep her happy?	I don't like sex. Girlfriend is bummed out about my not reciprocating advances/never initiating sex. Should I just force myself to keep up just to keep her happy?	3,657
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my fwb [26F] 4 years, cheating? Should I really care? POST: So I have been in a 'forbidden' relationship with this girl who has a relationship back in her country. We are amazing friends who are also friends with benefits, for the last 4 years, while I was (and still am) single. Last week we met a guy from school, and all three of us became friends, however I can see when I take a glimpse at her phone (not staring, not spying) that she is always exchanging facebook messages with him. When we hang out, when we study, when we lie down, when we cook, eat etc. Now, a girl who already has a relationship and 'forbidden' friend with benefits wouldnt be talking to a new guy 24/7. But here's the twist: Last night when I stayed over, she was really cold, and this morning when I asked whats wrong, she said she wants to stop doing this 'fwb' thing cos she feels bad about her boyfriend (they've been together many years). What are the chances that she really meant that, I mean, if she has her bf convinced that they are together for so long, and having me aside, whats stopping her from convincing ME that she no longer wants to do it? It feels weird, cos this is a person I trust a lot (and she proved it several times that she's honest with me) At the end of the day I always knew this had no future and was just for the fun of it, but still doesn't feel nice to be kicked out the moment a new guy is introduced. Should I care? TL;DR: . Assistant:	forbidden relationship draws to an end, no idea if its cos of the new guy she became friends with. Should I really care?	forbidden relationship draws to an end, no idea if its cos of the new guy she became friends with. Should I really care?	2,205
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] and him [23 m] 2 years friendship about to go down the drain POST: We met 2 years ago on the first day of work. I unfortunately fell for him and he decided to lead me on. Now my normal core reaction to never talk to that person again. Well this time it was different. I did everything possible to forgive. We managed to form some semblance of a friendship. Granted I have to do all the calling, asking, waiting and planning for us to hangout. Now you would think that if he was going to go off and get a girlfriend he would tell me. We hangout every other week so you would think he would mention this. Nope! Didn't mention it once. Now when we go out everyone thinks we are together. Walking close, whispering in my ear, the accidental bumps into me. Constantly looking at me big pouting eyes. Am I being ridiculous for being upset he didn't mention this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	friends for two years and we hangout every other week. Am I wrong for being upset he didn't tell me about his new girl friend?	friends for two years and we hangout every other week. Am I wrong for being upset he didn't tell me about his new girl friend?	1,509
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (15f) and I (15m) just started going to different high schools, and barely see each other Now we both feel like the other is disinterested. Help? POST: So my girlfriend and I met a couple years ago and were always pretty good friends. we started dating about two years ago, but it was very on/off for 7 months, and we took a break. We started dating again almost 9 months ago. We've been really really happy and not like most teenage relationships. We really love each other. A month ago we both started going to different high schools, and its been hard. I dont know anyone at her school, and neither does she. Shes really gorgeous, so of course she attracts lots of guys and I also get hit on a lot. It makes the other person pretty protective. Theres no real problem with that, but we havent seen each other in weeks. And I feel like she's lost interest, and she feels the same about me. We feel like over text and phone, we dont talk much anymore, or the other person doesnt seem interested. We think the other doesnt feel as excited and passionate about the relationship. I am so in love with her. I adore everything about her, and she means so much to me. I cant stand the thought of not being with her. Shes my favorite thing in the world and I havent lost any interest. Does anyone know how to fix this? I want to make our relationship feel amazing and two sided again. Any help would be very appreciated. Thanks. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Great relationship, In love, Different schools, both of us feel like relationship is one sided, I still love her, need ideas on how to fix it	Great relationship, In love, Different schools, both of us feel like relationship is one sided, I still love her, need ideas on how to fix it	2,513
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33F] with [35M] when fighting leads to lack of sex POST: I'm more looking for male input and point of view here, (although female welcome too!) A little backstory, I'm 33, boyfriend is 35, we've been together almost a year now and he just moved in with me. I guess in general I'm more sexual than he is, but when we have an argument, he is literally INSTANTLY turned off and has zero interest in sex. I understand when you're pissed at someone it's hard to have those feelings, but maybe I'm just weird; I think sometimes it's fun to have makeup sex, and I don't get as mentally affected by an argument. We've never had actual make up sex, not ever. He gets so mentally affected by fighting that he has no interest and it could last for a few days at a time too, even after the argument. This wouldn't be too perplexing to me, except the fact that even when we do have arguments, I know he jerks off, even when he is turned off from having sex. Is this just normal male protocol? Get pissed at GF, get mentally turned off from sex, go play with yourself? Maybe I'm the weirdo? TL;DR: . Assistant:	BF gets completely turned off from sex if we have an argument, still jerks off, basically he can go without actual sex for much longer than I can. Wondering if this is how it is for guys.	BF gets completely turned off from sex if we have an argument, still jerks off, basically he can go without actual sex for much longer than I can. Wondering if this is how it is for guys.	5,197
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [28/F] Trying to be classy. And date several guys at once. POST: I recently got out of a long term relationship and am sick of being a serial monogamist. My goal for right now is to go out on actual dates (dinner, drinks, coffee) with different men, and go out on several dates and get to know them as people, and then selectively get physical with them if it feels right. Its working pretty well: I've made it clear to them that I am in no way ready for a commitment and they've each acknowledged that. Except I finally slept with one. And he's very into me. And texts me all the time. I hate texting in general and frequently don't return texts. (I have told him that I suck at texting but still texts me all the time). Now I'm feeling like I'm going to break his heart, even though expectations were on the table. Do I (1) need an attitude adjustment because I've been clear about my expectations with each person or (2) am I playing with fire and potentially being irresponsible by engaging with people in a romantic context and then only responding to their texts/calls when it suits me? (I'm also a genuinely busy person). I am open to general advice as well on actual dating and balancing sex and communication. (The only person I know who went on a lot of actual dates is my very old/old fashioned grandmother, and she definitely could not relate to a Tinder world.) TL;DR: . Assistant:	I need tips on how to classy date, communicate with several different men in a limited amount of my time, and not break hearts. Oh, and potentially sleep with several men at a time while maintaining my dignity.	I need tips on how to classy date, communicate with several different men in a limited amount of my time, and not break hearts. Oh, and potentially sleep with several men at a time while maintaining my dignity.	551
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23F) struggling to breakup with my boyfriend (28M) due to his panic attacks POST: I don't believe in staying with someone because of a health reason. My boyfriend who is a lovely person, but not the right fit for me in the long run due to various reasons including different interests and him seemingly forgetting to put effort into our relationship has panic attacks. He shares a very personal story which I greatly appreciated him trusting me with about how when the last girl he was seriously seeing ended things with him, he had a panic attack and ended up in the ER. He had to take a week off of work and had a very difficult time, eventually getting a psychologist. He has since stopped going to the psychologist. I do not see things going well with him. I'm bored with the relationship and were about to enter long distance which I'm just not down for. It was suppose to be our last night together and he fell asleep early. By chance I ended up staying in the city but I was so fed up by the end of that night I decided it was over. I am extremely worried about breaking up with him. It's not that I think I am his God given world or anything like that at all. For all I know he could want to breakup too. We previously got in a large fight when we were drunk and I broke up with him. He said some extremely mean things about my health and I got up and said this is not what I need. He broke down crying and couldn't breathe on his bed. I ended up staying the night and calming him down. Things got better since but I can't see this relationship lasting forever and I don't think it's fair to stay with him. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this? I'm his first serious girlfriend in 8 years and the first girl ever to meet his family. The last girl he had a breakdown over was a FwB who he said he fell in love with. I've made him promise before that if we did breakup and he got sick, he had to let me know if he wanted and I would want to help him. I do not want to see him suffer and he knows this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	boyfriend previously had massive breakdown post last girl he was seeing. I'm the first girl he's seriously seen since and when we talked previously after drinking he had a breakdown. I don't know how to do this.	boyfriend previously had massive breakdown post last girl he was seeing. I'm the first girl he's seriously seen since and when we talked previously after drinking he had a breakdown. I don't know how to do this.	1,911
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Spanish/English speakers of Reddit. What are good resources/tools to help a 20 year old Spanish speaker learn basic English? POST: I am working with the Migrant Education program in New Hampshire. This boy is 20 years old, a Spanish speaker, and knows very little English. He wants to learn basic vocabulary in English. So far I have been looking for podcasts to put on his Ipod to listen to while he works. However, most of these podcasts are too advanced. He has also expressed interest in watching movies in English with Spanish subtitles, but most of these movies move too fast for him. I am trying to find something that moves slower without being at a child's interest level. His English is EXTREMELY limited. What tools/tricks do you suggest? TL;DR: . Assistant:	He is a twenty year old Spanish speaker who wants to learn VERY basic English preferably through auditory or visual means. I'm trying to find age appropriate lessons.	He is a twenty year old Spanish speaker who wants to learn VERY basic English preferably through auditory or visual means. I'm trying to find age appropriate lessons.	628
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] mom [47F] found out that I am an Athiest. She is devastated. POST: The other day, I was helping my parents move their stuff to their new house, and I brought my laundry over so I could do it there instead of going to the laundromat. The washer and dryer units had been disconnected already, but Mom said she could take my laundry to the rental house and put it in the washer over there. I forgot that I had my Athiest t-shirt in there which I bought earlier this year to support one of my favorite Youtubers. I've been very careful not to let my Mom see it, but today, I screwed up. Sure enough, she had already washed and folded the clothes before I got there, and she was almost in tears. At first, I tried dodging by telling her that "Athiesm is Unstoppable" (which is the phrase printed on the back of the shirt) is just the guy's YouTube username (which it is), and that I don't necessarily associate with Athiesm. "Necessarily?!" she shrieked. Fuck. I shouldn't have worded it like that. I explained to her that I do tend to lean towards "some" Athiest ideas after being exposed to them throughout the years. It didn't do much to calm her down. She begged me to not tell my grandmother, and she advised me to get rid of the shirt as soon as possible. "I didn't raise you this way, catjack, and I'm not going to take credit for any of the ideas you've got in your head. Your grandmother would be mortified." I'm honestly not sure what to do at this point. Mom is extremely sad and disappointed, and I can't really change my beliefs. I could put on an act and pretend that I'm still loyal to God and I still pray at night, but it wouldn't be nearly as convincing now. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mom found out that I am an Athiest due to a t-shirt she came across, and she is urging me to get rid of it to save both of us from the scorn of my grandmother and extended family.	Mom found out that I am an Athiest due to a t-shirt she came across, and she is urging me to get rid of it to save both of us from the scorn of my grandmother and extended family.	3,914
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] worry if my boyfriend [20M] of three years never shows his love for me and I dont think its there anymore, is that normal? POST: I've been dating my boyfriend since highschool and we've worked seemingly perfectly (no fights, shave views, things in common, etc). My problem is that I can't seem to shake the feeling that he doesn't really love me anymore, let alone like me. Lately, it's gotten worse because I've started to notice how unbalanced out relationship is as I praise him all the time, initiate sexy time (lol), give him massages when he's sore, always pay for dinner/movies/etc, even tie his shoes and carry his backpack if he's lazy.. really anything. Its just my way of saying I love you since Im really bad with words so I try to show it rather than say it. But he...doesn't do anything. He never tells me why he loves me he just says he does everynight out of routine. If I'm lazy to do something he just says something like "well sucks..." etc. He never makes me feel truly wanted sexually and I just feel like any old friend of his he keeps because its easy. Kisses, yeah. You look pretty today, yeah. But it feels too robotic, like theres no real passion or love anymore. Outward appreciation gradually decreased after the first 6 months. Everytime I've brought something like this up he just acts like its so obvious that he loves me dearly.. but he never shows it. I feel like I uneccesarily compare it to other peoples relationships where men buy their SOs flowers and have romantic dates planned and elaborate love letter. I used to do all these sweet things until I felt shot down with the way he half assed or didnt reciprocate. It being such a one way street sucks. I feel like its always my job to treat him like a princess and never the other way around. I just want to feel loved and appreciated equally. What do I do about it? So do I talk to him about it again? Will it change? Is it just a guy thing? Thank you for anyone who reads all this and helps me out. I really appreciate it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Feels like my SO doesn't really like me, despite him saying he loves me daily, he doesnt do squat to show it. Confused if it's in my head or I should I talk to him about this?	Feels like my SO doesn't really like me, despite him saying he loves me daily, he doesnt do squat to show it. Confused if it's in my head or I should I talk to him about this?	3,636
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I( f/25) hooked up with my boss (m/53). Now how do I act? POST: I hooked up with my boss. He is the CEO of the company I work for. I knew he was married but didn't find out until later he had like 8 kids. Ack! I have no intentions to be a home wrecker, so that's done with. However, he was the one who invited me to his hotel room and since we were both attracted to each other, we pretty much hooked up then and there. Now that we hooked up, he calls me every so randomly to meet up with me some more. Professionally he is hard to me in front of everyone. Then he would take me aside and ask me out for drinks. Anyway we haven't hooked up since that night because I never gave him the chance. How should I put it to him lightly that I don't want to hook up anymore? Deep down I'm still sexually attracted to him, but I don't want him to know because he will keep pushing it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	hooked up with boss, only to find out later he has 8 kids. Now I want to quit but he keeps calling me and I want to go back to a professional relationship without jeopardizing my job.	hooked up with boss, only to find out later he has 8 kids. Now I want to quit but he keeps calling me and I want to go back to a professional relationship without jeopardizing my job.	827
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21M] with my exgf [20F] - She said we couldn't talk or hangout anymore, but I am almost positive its someone else telling her this. POST: Me[21M] with my exgf [20F] - It was a clean breakup and we tried to be friends afterwards. We talked a lot and hung out occasionally. Recently just got a text from her saying that we should hold off on talking and hanging out for awhile. She has told me before that her current boyfriend (she started dating him less than a month after we broke up) is insecure and feels uneasy that we have been talking and stuff. I responded with something like "If that's what you want". Got another text later that night on the lines of "It's not what I want". I don't know what I should do. Should I just go with the flow and try to ride this out, or just forget about her and try to not be her friend (but she is cool and fun to hang around and really do consider her a friend). TL;DR: . Assistant:	Think my Ex's BF doesn't want us to talk/hangout/be friends... not sure to just drop all contact or what?	Think my Ex's BF doesn't want us to talk/hangout/be friends... not sure to just drop all contact or what?	1,438
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Make me draw stuff, and save the future! POST: So, here's the deal: I should be finishing my sophomore year of college, but I'm not. I think that cleared that up enough. I haven't even finished my freshman year. I am capable but my grades are in the toilet, and I'm just now deciding that maybe I should use my artistic talent as a means of survival. Since leaving high school, though. I have lost much of my inspiration to draw! I'm not saying I'm an artist, but I know I'm creative, and I seem to have an absolute block. There is nothing I want to draw. That's where you come in Reddit, tell me what to draw, and I will do it on my brand new tablet that my girlfriend bought me. Also, if it makes my desperation sound any more convincing- if I don't put together a portfolio and get in to a college, I will not be able to pay for my computer. I just got fired from my carpentry job. Hell yeah! So, I'm ASKING you reddit, what should I draw? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have no work and don't go to school. Help me put together a portfolio by forcing me to draw you stuff with my tablet. That is, as long as I can still afford my computer while this post is up!	I have no work and don't go to school. Help me put together a portfolio by forcing me to draw you stuff with my tablet. That is, as long as I can still afford my computer while this post is up!	4,959
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is your experience with startup companies? Have you ever moved across the country to pursue a new career? POST: My friend /u/lacro038 and I are seniors in college, graduating this spring. We're determined to change the world and be on the cutting edge of technology. In this pursuit, we have decided to embark on a road trip from Minnesota to the Boulder/Longmont, Los Angeles and San Francisco areas. These areas have been known to be the frontiers of innovation and should allow us to explore opportunities at startup companies. Our trip will be for the duration of a couple weeks in the middle of January. We are really interested in meeting a lot of new people and experiencing new cultures along the way. We plan on staying at other chapters of my fraternity and utilizing the social traveling network couchsurfing.com. Our expectations are definitely tempered by our limited experience. We know that such an undertaking will require significant amount of planning, but we have been putting in hours of preparation and plan to continue doing so. This post is just a small way in which we're trying to become as educated as possible before we embark. We don't expect instant success, but we are a pair of highly motivated individuals trying to make a difference. We believe that whatever happens it will be a learning experience and a great opportunity to meet passionate people across America. What is a cool/interesting story or experience you have had while working at a startup company? Can you offer any advice on how we could succeed on this venture? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friend and I are road tripping out to California to find jobs at a startup company. We'd love to hear your stories and advice as we pursue this endeavor.	My friend and I are road tripping out to California to find jobs at a startup company. We'd love to hear your stories and advice as we pursue this endeavor.	5,222