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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Can we PLEASE have out saved links in easy to find Folders? POST: Hi Reddit, Long time lurker who finally got an account 479 days ago as of today... Since I have been on here I have saved exactly 497 links. These are either articles I found extremely useful and I will go back to them at a later date to re-read or use them to refresh my memory on a certain topic. I was trying to locate a specific article today and I had to scroll thru quite a few pages to get to the link that I was looking for. All the while I was trying soooo hard not to be side tracked from my task at hand by all of the other great information I have saved from this website I love so much. So I come to you, humbly, and ask this... Can we please have an option to save all these cool links in their own respected catagories? I would love to be able to click on Saved > (subreddit or like category) > "Said link" Ideas? Thoughts? I have no idea how to code this or else I would have done so and brought that forth to the community. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I think it would be an awesome idea to have all of the saved articles in an easy to find file system. What do you think?	I think it would be an awesome idea to have all of the saved articles in an easy to find file system. What do you think?	1,403
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description POST: GF and I have been dating for about 10 months (she is 21, I am 26), with a good chunk of that in an LDR as she has been studying abroad. She will be moving to NYC when she finishes undergrad for her job and family in december while I live in Baltimore. I want to move to a big city in the near future, but never wanted to go to NYC because of how expensive it is. I also just started a new job a few months ago and the earliest I could move career-wise would be roughly a year from now. She has thrown out the possibility of moving in together in NYC as a way of cutting the cost down. However, I think moving to a city I don't otherwise want to be in and immediately moving in together is generally a bad idea, especially when we have not been dating that long. But I really couldn't afford to move there on my own and I hate the idea of spending most of my money on rent. I love her, and I'd like to find a way to make things work, but I am having trouble finding a way to make moving to NYC a smart/reasonable decision. We could just delay the decision until December, but I am not sure what could change before then to make this easier. Any advice on what I should do? Am I being selfish? TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF will be moving in a few months to a city I can't afford. She offered to move in together. I think its too soon, but can't think of another option, don't know what to do.	GF will be moving in a few months to a city I can't afford. She offered to move in together. I think its too soon, but can't think of another option, don't know what to do.	4,322
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Thinking about a loved one's traumatic experiences is worsening depression/causing lack of sleep POST: I apologize in advance if this text runs a little long, but I'll try to be as detailed as possible with my situation so I receive potentially helpful replies. This past summer after graduating from college, I parted ways with my girlfriend of two years. Our relationship had always been rocky; I suffer from depression, and she has been dealing with depression/PTSD from a sexual assault she experienced at a very young age. Figuring out how to manage our conditions and stay happy together proved to be a pretty difficult endeavor, so we split up and took "breaks" over the course of our relationship. During one of those breaks, she was seeking comfort from a male friend that she trusted greatly. Since we weren't together, there wasn't much I could say about the matter, but I always had a feeling I knew what his true intentions were. One night while she was hanging out with him, he started feeding her shots of 151, got her completely drunk (she's a small girl, it probably didn't take more than two or three shots) and forced himself on her. She hid this from me until months after when we were back together, thinking I would think less of her for what happened. Nothing could be further from the truth. So, the woman I love more than anyone in the world has been raped for the second time in her life, and by someone she trusted as a close friend. Thinking about either of the instances of assault makes me feel physically ill and more angry than I can begin to express. When I'm lying in bed trying to sleep, my mind wanders from thoughts of revenge, to feeling guilty for not being able to protect her. My hands shake, and I get that horrible "lump in the throat" feeling. I guess I'm looking for advice on how to handle my feelings. Do I confront them head-on with the realization that there's nothing I can do but be supportive for her if she needs it? That it's in the past and there's nothing I can do to rectify it now? Any help will be greatly appreciated. These thoughts are unwanted, horrible, and cutting into my sleep like nothing else ever has before. TL;DR: . Assistant:	An ex-girlfriend whom I still love greatly was sexually assaulted twice in her lifetime, and thinking about it is making me feel like shit/preventing me from sleeping.	An ex-girlfriend whom I still love greatly was sexually assaulted twice in her lifetime, and thinking about it is making me feel like shit/preventing me from sleeping.	5,879
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18/M] having trouble with gf [18/F] POST: Me and my girlfriend we're in the back of my car making out when she says she has to go home to check in, I being the idiot I am convince her to stay a couple min. Acouple min later the unthinkable happens her nazi of a mother rolls up and taps on the window. Her mom takes her home and gets her phone taken away along with most of her stuff. so we don't talk till Monday(happened on Friday, and we don't talk at all barely made eye contact in our same class. And don't talk at practice. When I confronted her about not talking at all. She said that she can't get in anymore trouble, and that it's complicated. What does this mean?? Is there another guy? Did this one incident and three days just kill the whole thing? TL;DR: . Assistant:	nazi mom catches me and girlfriend takes daughter home. Won't talk to me, and dances around the question when asked.	nazi mom catches me and girlfriend takes daughter home. Won't talk to me, and dances around the question when asked.	472
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have I been taxed correctly/ can I claim it back? POST: I was working part time in an absolute shit-hole for just under 4 weeks to get a little bit of my own money while at uni. I left on the fourth week because I wanted to do some filming which would count as work experience for my course at the weekend but was supposed to work both Saturday and Sunday, I felt like a dick but I quit. So i've received all my pay slips and got my P45 today which says I earned £374 while I was there and was taxed £74. Is this right? Am I supposed to be taxed while in full time education? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Worked for a month but had to quit, earned £374 and was taxed £74 is this right can I claim it back?	Worked for a month but had to quit, earned £374 and was taxed £74 is this right can I claim it back?	3,024
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Ringing / pressure in one ear. POST: This is my first post and I'm glad this sub exists! About six days ago I went for a really hefty workout (martial arts) for about 1.5 hours. After that I felt pretty good, and the next morning I was really sore (pretty usual stuff). Anyway, now I have an uncomfortable pressure in my right ear with a non-stop ringing (I already have tinnitus, but this ringing puts that to shame). Anyone know what is causing this? Is it possible I have some kind of head cold or something? Seeing a doctor isn't a problem, I just want to know for sure it's what I should do before taking time off work. It's not terribly uncomfortable but it's not getting better... Thanks guys. TL;DR: . Assistant:	have a weird pressure/ringing in my ear after working out Tuesday, only just started the day after. Tips/suggestions on what it could be?	have a weird pressure/ringing in my ear after working out Tuesday, only just started the day after. Tips/suggestions on what it could be?	2,968
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (21M) want's to get back in touch with High school crush (21F) after 4 years no contact. POST: My first ever post so here goes So in the last 3 years of secondary school, there was this girl who had a crush on me. At the time, I was completely oblivious that this girl actually liked me more than friends. During drama and stuff where we needed to partner up, She would come to me automatically to be my partner and stuff. Gave off other subtle cues too which i never picked up. During the time I knew her in school, we used to have pretty much daily deep msn conversations about life and stuff. Heck a few times she slipped in she'd go out with me if I ever asked but I was so stupid at the time and didn't even make a move. I was pretty naive and stupid at the time but I think I took her advances towards me as teasing or something negitive, so I'd be mean to her in my last year of school. Since we finished school (4-5) years ago I haven't really spoken to her at all however I facebook messaged her around 2 years ago about something and she gave quite a nice enthusiastic reply back with kisses. I really want to get to know her again as she's a wonderful person, I've sorta struggled to find someone like her since and wouldn't mind if we became good friends again or dated (although i'd prefer the later :P) . I don't think she's had a boyfriend since then either I still have her on facebook, and I'm thinking of messaging her on that. She lives really close to me too. I know this is quite a ramble but I'd appreciate any advice on how I should go about initiating this, as it's been on my mind a lot. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl in HS had a 3 year long crush on me, I took it negatively and pushed her away. Want to get back in touch after 4 years no contact.	Girl in HS had a 3 year long crush on me, I took it negatively and pushed her away. Want to get back in touch after 4 years no contact.	1,851
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] have been with my girlfriend [20F] for 2 years, and she wants to open our relationship as of late. POST: I've known this girl for the past 6 years, and they've been amazing. We started dating after 4 years. I love her entirely, and I don't want to see her go. This was your ideal relationship up until just a few weeks ago. She told me that she wanted to experience girls, so she might not feel regret later in her life. In addition, she says that if she finds that she is better off with a girl, then she will leave me. I am getting used to the idea of her trying out new things, but I think that if she left me for another girl, it would break me. I just feel like she wants to put me on the waiting list so she can find someone better or end up settling for me. I can't think of anything else to write right now, but if there's any other information you think would be beneficial to you all helping me, just let me know, and I'll post more details. I want her to just pick one side quickly, but I know that rushing into things could get shitty. Thanks a ton, /r/relationships TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend wants open relationship to date other girls. She said that leaving me is a possibility. I'm afraid. What do?	Girlfriend wants open relationship to date other girls. She said that leaving me is a possibility. I'm afraid. What do?	2,454
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Getting a weird burning headache if I breathe too heavily through my nose. Thoughts? POST: Hey everyone, first off sorry if this has been answered before somewhere - I searched every combination of words I could think of both in this sub and on Google and haven't found anything relevant. I've been running somewhat inconsistently for about a year now. In January I ran a 10k with a friend, and did really poorly. I was really disappointed in myself, and felt like I let her down a lot because she refused to leave me behind. In the end, though, she wanted to keep doing races with me, and in an effort to not let her or myself down this time, I've been training pretty hard. One of the things that I realized was that my breathing was really holding me back, and so I started to force myself to breathe in through my nose, out through my mouth. And it's helped. A ton. I'm finding that I'm able to keep a much better pace and go for longer when I run this way.... until a certain point. Then I just hit a wall where my lungs are perfectly fine and could keep up the pace, but the inside of my nostrils are burning. It got so bad last night that I had to stop because it was giving me a headache. Like I said, I've done a good deal of searching around using various combinations of "running breathing through nose burning" and none of them are getting me close to what I'm looking for. If there's even a name for this that someone wants to throw out and I can do the research myself, I'd take even that. At this point I'm pretty much just going to push through it and hope it's another one of those "run more" things someone else posted about today, but if there's a quick solution to this, I'd love to know about it. Thanks! TL;DR: . Assistant:	when I run for a certain period of time the inside of my nostrils starts burning badly enough to give me a headache. Not sure what causes this, and would like to make it go away if possible.	when I run for a certain period of time the inside of my nostrils starts burning badly enough to give me a headache. Not sure what causes this, and would like to make it go away if possible.	6,078
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My(23F) Roomate(20f) is sabotaging relationships with mutual friends and I don't know what to do anymore. POST: Hi; first of all I live with my boyfriend in his mothers old house which we rent with 3 other roommates. This girl just so happens to be the girl that took his virginity 3 months before we started dating... so it's a little rough for me to be living with her in the first place. Lately she's been really catty and treating me like shit. She gets really snippy, yells at my dog, and had a bitch fit because I was doing laundry yesterday??? Well, I overheard her talking shit about me to a friend, saying I'm annoying and all I do is eat the food in the house. Ok; first of all, I'm 10 weeks pregnant, yeah I'm going to fucking eat. Secondly, she doesn't buy fucking groceries anyways, I only eat what my boyfriend and I buy. Anyways; now all of our mutual friends are treating me weird whenever they come over, like they are afraid to talk to me. I pulled one of them aside and asked wtf was going on... and he said that she's having a cow over living with me and that she can't wait until I move out etc etc. Which whatever, I'm happy to get away from her too, but I don't give a shit about her.. I care that she's potentially trying to turn people against me that I care about. TL;DR: . Assistant:	roomate is a catty bitch and I don't know what to do about her making our mutual friends not talk to me anymore.	roomate is a catty bitch and I don't know what to do about her making our mutual friends not talk to me anymore.	1,452
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] am into my friend's [20M] half-brother [22M], but my friend has feelings for me. How should I proceed? POST: Last week I [19F] met one of my good friend's [20M] half-brothers [22M] and we really hit it off. We have plans to go out for drinks this week (drinking age here in the UK is 18), and have been "talking" every day since we met (Facebook and texting). I've known my friend for nearly 3 years. The problem, though, is that my friend has feelings for me, although he has never told me himself. Some of our mutual friends and coworkers have told me that he wants to be with me, but I have no interest in him, and I am fairly certain he is aware of this. So right now I'm debating what to do - I feel like if I were to pursue things with the half-brother that my friend would be hurt, but I don't want to miss out on this chance to get to know someone who may turn out to be perfect for me. I'm just wondering if pursuing things with the brother would be a totally scumbag move on my part, or if anyone here has experience (good or bad) with something similar? TL;DR: . Assistant:	going on a date with my friend's brother, but my friend has feelings for me. Am I a scumbag? How should I proceed?	going on a date with my friend's brother, but my friend has feelings for me. Am I a scumbag? How should I proceed?	4,158
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: "friend" really sick; flowers? buying online? POST: So, basically I (guy) have been talking to this really great girl since January. We've never had a DTR because we've been really bad at communication. It's taken alot for both of us to open up to each other at all because of past stuff. We're getting better at it, really! I really adore this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. I'd like it to become more serious, but with both of us in school soon, I don't want to get into some unnecessary semi-ldr stress. She just got her wisdom teeth pulled out today and she's having a really rough time. I really want to send her flowers (this would be the first time I've done so. I've sent her small things but nothing big.) We haven't ever talked about flowers before. I just trawled through all her blog posts, twitter and facebook (as well as I could) but I couldn't find anything about her saying what her favorite flower was. * I know she likes flowers. (so yeah, no need to worry about that) * Purple is her favorite color. * Something kind of romantic and sweet but obviously nothing like roses. * Money isn't really a factor, but I know I want to get them delivered asap so that will probably need to be taken into consideration. * Where's the best place to get flowers? FTD.com? I'd love to pick out some flowers and bring them myself, but it's just too far to go. Sorry if this wasn't the best place to submit this, but r/dating_advice isn't very active and something like r/askreddit is just way too active. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Really special girl is sick, I want to send flowers. What do I send and where do I get them from?	Really special girl is sick, I want to send flowers. What do I send and where do I get them from?	378
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Private school kids of Reddit, did you have any false preconceptions of public school kids? Likewise, did any public school kids have false preconceptions of private school kids? POST: I went to a Christian private school for my entire life, but there were two public schools close by. We also played against those public schools in sporting events. We were always told to stay away from the kids in public schools, and were never encouraged to interact with these students during sporting events. This conditioned me into thinking that I was better than them, and that I was smarter for attending a private school. Once I got to a public university, it rocked my world that most public school kids were actually smarter than me, and they were more worldly as well. I found that being at a private school actually fucked me in a variety of ways. Part of me assumes that some public school kids may feel the same way. They may have been conditioned to hate private school kids in their area for stupid reasons, or they may have had a legitimate reason. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My private school told me that public school kids are a bunch of dumbfucks. College tells them this is not the case. Did anybody else get this?	My private school told me that public school kids are a bunch of dumbfucks. College tells them this is not the case. Did anybody else get this?	5,265
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [25f] found out my mother [50f] is selling sex and I don't know if dad [60m] knows. I want to help, should I tell them I know? POST: Throwaway account for anonymity, even though my parents don't use Reddit, I think this situation may blow up and I have friends and family that reddit. My mum has been sleeping with this man for a while, I'm not sure if he's still paying for it, or if they even still see each other. I don't know if any other men are involved. I don't know if dad had any say in this arrangement. It's obvious he at least knows 'something is up', but whether he knows everything is questionable. My mum is going to tell the wife what has been happening, I'd be willing to bet money that dad doesn't know about the confession. My parents marriage has been rocky for a while, but I don't think they'll ever divorce. I accidentally saw the confession letter, that's how I know this is true. This isn't a shock to me at all, my husband and I have joked about how much it fills in the gaps in my mums behaviour. My husband and I both agree that I have some similar life experience that could help my mum and dad. But how do I bring it up without admitting to seeing the confession? Do I just come out and say it but risk pushing her away? Do I leave hints and open conversation towards that direction in a welcoming and non-judgemental way? Do I wait and see if this situation blows up and the whole family learns about it before I offer my help? My mum and I are close, we see each other regularly. Although it's obvious we don't see each other as a trustworthy source of wise advice for our inner demons. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My mum is telling the wife of her client(?) that he is paying her for sex. I have some life experience that I could help my parents put this behind them. How do I tactfully offer my help?	My mum is telling the wife of her client(?) that he is paying her for sex. I have some life experience that I could help my parents put this behind them. How do I tactfully offer my help?	784
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19 M] with my girlfriend [19F] of nearly 2 years, growing distant and unattracted. POST: Hi, firstly, thanks for taking the time to read. I am 19 and we met at sixth form (college?). She then went to uni and I did not.. So we have a long distance relationship which she is currently back from over summer. Things were great and I visited her as much as financially possible, spent so much money, time and effort into seeing her. We argued ALOT however. Also during this time, I began to really take care of myself and my fitness levels due to family reasons which means I work out a lot. However she has done the opposite. Put on a lot of weight during uni and doesn't seem to care, unless it's for a day and then goes back to her old ways. I have also spoke to my fears and told her I no longer find her AS attractive but it did not go well. She changed her way for about 4 days and also seemed see me as a different person during that time like I had broken her trust or something when I was also trying to help her help herself, as I know she complains about her weight. I also used to be EXTREMELY overweight so I know what it's like. I don't know if it's the weight, the distance or a mixture of everything and general life taking a toll but I now feel extremely distant from her. She recently went away to see family for 5 days and we barely spoke or texted the entire time, around 10minutes on a night time and a few texts sparingly throughout the day. Does anyone have any advice? Does perhaps this situation seem familiar to you? Any advice will help TL;DR: . Assistant:	summary: Girlfriend put on weight. Also growing emotionally distant from one another due to a mix of long distance/weight and other shit.	summary: Girlfriend put on weight. Also growing emotionally distant from one another due to a mix of long distance/weight and other shit.	2,077
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my best friend's grandmother a nazi POST: This FU happened in December of last year, so forgive me, and is possibly one of my worst. So my very closest friend in the world (let's call him AssHat) loves to troll me. I, in turn, enjoy trolling him back. Recently, he received a dare to post something serious to his facebook as part of a prank. The way the prank works is that if somebody messages you about the serious thing you posted, you are given something by them to post on your wall. The joke spreads around like that, and is sort of stupid in my opinion. A few days later, I see he has posted to his wall "My Grandmother went to heaven today." With the odd wording, and me hearing nothing of his grandma's ill health, I assumed it was another one of his prank posts to lure more people in to his silly joke. I thought it would be rather funny to mess with some of the believers in the comments of the post. I type "Good riddance" into the comments and, within seconds, I receive a reply from one of his friends I did not know saying "That's horrible. Why would you say something like that?" With a lack of better judgement, I decide not to hold back. I go on a rant spreading lies about his grandmother: "She was a horrible person and a menace to society", "She even ran over my cat and never apologized", "I went to AssHat's house and saw alot of German WWII related items.", "That monster was literally a nazi!", "She's scum of the earth and we're better off without her." I felt pretty accomplished with my trolling, not even considering the possibilty his grandmother could have actually died. Later that night, I returned to facebook only to see my comments had been deleted, and AssHat's comment about the awful things I had said. Turns out his Grandmother had actually died that day, and I was the worst best friend in the world. I of course apologized profusely, and attempted to explain myself, but he was still ticked at me for a couple of days. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I called my friend's dead grandma a nazi only hours after her death thinking it was all an elaborate joke. Yes, reddit, I am the worst friend ever.	I called my friend's dead grandma a nazi only hours after her death thinking it was all an elaborate joke. Yes, reddit, I am the worst friend ever.	1,136
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has screen-sharing been throttled on Skype and are there alternatives? POST: Hello friends! I am in a long distance relationship and as such Skype has been a major boon to the quality of our lives. This has been downgraded somewhat recently. Me and my girlfriend would screen-share so we could enjoy movies and episodes together. It might not seem like much but we cherished the ability. I subscribed to the Skype service solely to keep that for us. Some time ago screen-sharing just stopped being able to cope with running video. I think this was around the time Microsoft acquired Skype although I'm not sure. This is confounding since both of us still enjoy good web connections and use high definition webcams that stream very well under normal conditions. Furthermore we have discovered that if we screen-share for any reason our call is seemingly throttled and we have to recall to regain quality. I have googled this to no avail and I was wondering if anybody has any knowledge about this situation and/or knows a working alternative? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Is the Skype screen-sharing service throttled now and are there alternatives for watching video together over the internet? Thank you.	Is the Skype screen-sharing service throttled now and are there alternatives for watching video together over the internet? Thank you.	395
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my wife [23 F] together 6 years, and my wife feels like she is living in my shadow. POST: Hey everybody, I've been married for my wife for 2 years and dating for over 6. This has been slowly building the last year or so but exploded in the past few days. My wife has told me she feels like I am always the center of attention and that she constantly lives in my shadow. And honestly I 100% agree with her. I am in law school, and all anyone asks about is how I'm doing and how proud they are of me. I do make pretty good grades, but I don't tell people my grades my wife does. I do not know what to do to make her feel like the center of attention. We have even had to switch churches because at our previous church all people would ask was how law school was going, and they seemed to ignore her. I honestly hate being the center of attention and don't desire it at all. Up until now I've never been the center of attention so I don't know what to do and how to deflect the attention back to her. I would also love some advice on steps I can do to make her feel like the center of my world. I am thinking about planning a romantic weekend away sometime soon, but I am afraid that if I plan it and surprise her with it, it will still feel like she's just "tagging along" since I did all the planning. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wife feels like I am the center of attention with family and friends and she is right! Looking for ways to deflect the attention to her and make her feel more loved and cared about.	Wife feels like I am the center of attention with family and friends and she is right! Looking for ways to deflect the attention to her and make her feel more loved and cared about.	3,156
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is my internet being throttled? What is this outside company I am forced to go through? POST: So in August I moved into a new apartment, mainly because the internet was included in the rent, and was advertised as HIGH SPEED, I also had some friends tell me the internet here was good. The first week or so we were getting ~20mbps and it was amazing. However, a weekish after moving in we had no internet, at least that is how it seemed. After a while trying to connect to various sites it took us to the [website of this company]( We went to the front office and they said just make an account with them and we would get internet. We did this, and when making an account you had to choose a speed package. The only package available was 1.5mbps...Hardly high speed as they said. What is weird is Windstream is our ISP, as they were when we first moved in, but now this company comes into the equation for no apparent reason and just slows the fuck out of our internet. You cannot connect to the internet here without signing into this website first, and it makes the internet horribly slow. When we ask people at the front desk about it they basically have no fucking clue what is going on. TL;DR: . Assistant:	does anyone know what this [NTC company] is and what the real point of it is? Is there any way to bypass it to get the internet speeds we are paying for?	does anyone know what this [NTC company] is and what the real point of it is? Is there any way to bypass it to get the internet speeds we are paying for?	2,972
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My boyfriend has an obnoxious habit of being playfully abusive and it really hurts POST: Nothing really serious. He thinks he's being playful by hitting, punching, slapping, pinching and twisting my skin. But sometimes it really hurts. He has a really bad habit of twisting my nipples all the time and it gets to a point where it hurts all day. If I ask him to stop he just moves on to other parts of my body. Like today he punched my stomach several times (like pretty hard punch) and then pinched my stomach. I am still getting stinging pains on my stomach skin every couple mins from that pinch. How do I get him to stop? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend is always hitting, punching, slapping, pinching and twisting my skin (specifically my breast and stomach). He thinks he's being playful and doesn't realize it actually hurts. How do I get him to stop?	Boyfriend is always hitting, punching, slapping, pinching and twisting my skin (specifically my breast and stomach). He thinks he's being playful and doesn't realize it actually hurts. How do I get him to stop?	5,105
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Lying jackass in need of help to get his girlfriend back POST: So about a month ago, my girlfriend of a year finally decided to break things off for good after my many lies and fabrications. I constantly lied to her about talking to other females and she'd always catch me, though the conversations weren't bad, it was the lies that mattered and it made it seem like I was cheating, though I never did and never in a million years would. For the last few months we tried working through it, but it was just too stressful for her to deal with. After she broke it off with me, I've been trying to give the perfect balance of space and still staying around showing that I care, but I either get ignored or I get put down like I'm scum. She's shown that she still gets jealous and what not, but she barely speaks to me. I love her to death, I honestly see myself with her for my entire life, (I'm 22, she's 20), the problem is, she can't trust me and no matter what I do, I don't seem to be getting through to her. Yesterday I dropped off 2 dozen roses, a Pandora bracelet with a charm on it, and a 5 page handwritten letter pouring my heart out to her, a gesture she has yet to respond to in any way. I'm literally going crazy because I love her to death. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I lied and made it seem like I was being unfaithful to my girlfriend, need a lot of help getting her trust back and her back into my life.	I lied and made it seem like I was being unfaithful to my girlfriend, need a lot of help getting her trust back and her back into my life.	4,911
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I once accidentally made my family believe I was lost in a foreign country. In what ways have you sent your family into a worried panic? POST: I was studying abroad in college a few years ago and had gone to Barcelona, Spain for spring break with a group of my friends. I had gotten separated from them for hours trying to climb a mountain path and ended up horribly lost. I was beginning to get dark, and none of my friends had working cell phones on this trip, so I started making my way back to the hostel alone. As this was far from the city and I knew no spanish, I was reasonably worried that I would be stuck overnight. For comforts sake, I ended up placing a call to my mother. I told her I was separated from my friends in Barcelona and was lost, she went into panic mode asking where I was, am I okay, etc... I was able to respond with "I'm okay, but it's getting dark and I have no clue where I am. We went out away from the city so I don't even know how to get back. " As soon as I finished that sentence my phone ran out of minutes and it hung up. I made it back eventually but had no way to contact my mother to let her know for at least 4 or 5 days. I found out later she was freaking out, crying, and had to be prevented from actually going to Spain to set out to rescue me. I felt so bad, but now we laugh about it. Well, I laugh about it at least. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got lost in Spain and called my mom just before my phone died, letting her believe I was hopelessly lost for almost a week	I got lost in Spain and called my mom just before my phone died, letting her believe I was hopelessly lost for almost a week	616
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU badly POST: Before the end of school year me and my english teacher made a deal, that she will give me higher mark, if I write 3 short essays. I wrote her an e-mail that i'm working and it may take a while. Well I log in my e-mail and see this: It is really sad that you have tricked me. She sent this 2 weeks ago. I had written the essays, but due to the laziness did not send, because they needed some corrections. Now I feel like a complete ass and don't know what to do. Don't be stupid - do your fucking job. TL;DR: . Assistant:	made a deal with teacher. Didn't do what I was suppose to do. Got an e-mail from her. Feel sad.	made a deal with teacher. Didn't do what I was suppose to do. Got an e-mail from her. Feel sad.	3,379
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Because of a misdemeanor charge over two years ago, I am having trouble finding a job. POST: Almost two years ago, my (now ex) girlfriend got caught stealing a box of condoms. I was not stealing, but I was with her when she did. I did not stop her, but I also was not aware that she was stealing. She got caught, and I went to jail with her. I lawyered up, but the lawyer said that it would be best if I plead guilty, as to avoid a costly trial with Wal-Mart that would likely result in a conviction, even if I wasn't actually guilty. I was told that Wal-Mart goes all-out on their lawyers, and that they would hire a lawyer even if the ends didn't justify the means, so that they could prove a point. The judge was nice and didn't sentence a fine or jail time to me, but he did for my girlfriend. I did plead guilty, and that is still on my record. Two years later, and I am still having trouble finding employers that will hire me. Lots of my friends have said that it would be better to just lie on an application and that many employers don't check criminal history. I currently have a job, but as the company will likely go under in the next three years, I am looking for a new career. Is it best to lie on an application? On all of the ones I have filled out, I have not lied. It seems underhanded, even if I did not commit the crime. What would you guys do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Pleaded guilty to stealing, but didn't actually steal. No jail time, no fine (aside from court costs) no community service. Trouble finding a job.	Pleaded guilty to stealing, but didn't actually steal. No jail time, no fine (aside from court costs) no community service. Trouble finding a job.	2,525
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: I need some advice about renegotiating my contract... POST: Reddit, I need some advice. I have been working for almost a year with a company who was supposed to "hire me on" 9 months ago. Everytime I ask about my chances of getting hired on, I get told "We are going to push the contract back (through a contracting service they signed me up with, I didn't have a say) another 90 days. Well it's coming up to my 1 year anniversary of working here and I want to renegotiate things. I want to contract outright with the company. No middleman. Just me. I want to ask for more money that will cover whatever taxes I'll need to pay and give myself a raise. I have been working on having my own company for a few years working freelance graphic work and some side IT jobs here and there. I think contracting outright would be a great experience for me and would look great as far as credibility for my company. And if I am to expect another year of contract work, I don't someone making money off of me that never did anything to earn my business anyway. vent So, do any of you have any suggestions as to how to approach this? What are some confidence boosters that you guys use? I think I've built up enough of a good reputation with the company and put in enough time and effort to show them how hard I work for them. I work for the IT dept and we have over 400 users with an IT Staff of 2. Me and my boss. Needless to say, we have our work cut out for us. We have a few remote sites that spread from Canada to Texas. Any advice would be great, sorry if I wasn't clear enough in my question. I am writing this as I run back and forth to offices. It it kind of a question I started typing out at noon and am finishing up now. Thanks for any help. Do any of you have any similar situations? Thanks r/jobs! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want to renegotiate my contract with my job so that instead of going through a staffing service, I can be an independent contractor through my own company name. How should I approach it?	I want to renegotiate my contract with my job so that instead of going through a staffing service, I can be an independent contractor through my own company name. How should I approach it?	151
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My best friend [f21] demands too much attention and I [f22] don´t know what to do. POST: Hello there. This girl [f21] and I [f22] have been friends for almost 6 years. We share a lot of common interests and hobbies and we work together. Our relationship has had some ups and downs (My ex fell in love with her, she rejected him and I forgave him, just to dump him later) but lately, there is something that has been bothering me. I cannot speak with her the way I used to; I do not want to tell her about some things I do, about the guy I am dating, or about anything else that is not related directly to her. She got angry when I told her some things about my life, and she seems to need the assurance that I am going to be there for her all the time. Also, she knows how to manipulate me and make me feel like everything bad that happens is my fault. I know she has problems at home but I am simply not able to give her that much attention, specially since she is the type of girl who gets a lot of attention for being pretty and interesting and all that. So, right now, I do not know what to do: I don´t want to "save" her from her problems, because I tried and it only went for the worse, I just want to stop feeling like I am walking among eggshells with her, and that anything I do in our relationship is wrong or it does not fit on what she wants. Thanks for reading. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Best friend [f21] needs a lot of attention and I cannot give it to her, I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do.	Best friend [f21] needs a lot of attention and I cannot give it to her, I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do.	1,655
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dont know if I [M,24] should end it with my gf[F,23] POST: My gf works at reception in an hotel, so she only has 1 day off work. This week they gave wednesday and she went with Two friends [m,f] to some restaurant/bar, afterwards she went with them to his friend apartment. Then they started to smoke weed and she tells me she got uncomfortable and left because she has never tried it. She was previously drinking and it was 5am, so she wasn't in her best condition. so after some time of walking and looking for a cab she was stranded in an unknown place, maybe not that secure. She called me but I was half sleep and we weren't speaking for some previous discussion. I didn't say much and she didn't told me what was happening but her voice sounded like she was sobbing. Anyway, the following day she calls and tells me that same story but that she called his ex bf because she panicked, and he picked her up and left her in her flat. she says they didn't do anything, that he just gave her a ride to her flat. We been dating for 5 months and been together as a couple for 7; I think we have a good honest relationship, sometimes we argue but after a few days we are ok and have a great time together. Also his exbf is sort of a douchebag and previously cheated on her, and uses coke so not really a trustworthy person. TL;DR: . Assistant:	she went out with some friends, then called his ex bf to pick her up because she was stranded in some sort of insecure place.	she went out with some friends, then called his ex bf to pick her up because she was stranded in some sort of insecure place.	161
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because it has gotten to the point to where she is severely depressed and thinks about hurting herself and throwing up sometimes because she doesnt feel good enough, she just as of a few months ago got over a eating disorder. I want to get her the help she needs but i obviously cant pay for it by myself. I dont know what i can do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?	serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?	1,104
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] pregnant to my [22M] boyfriend and I want to keep it POST: I'll try to sum this up best that I can. I am a 22 year old career focused female who just found out tonight that I am pregnant to my 22 year old boyfriend. We have a very tumultuous relationship and he does not want a child anytime soon. This was a complete accident. I was on the pill. I had an abortion when I became pregnant with his child 12 months ago whilst I was also on contraceptive. I do not think I can go through that again and want to keep the child but not want to upset him or ruin his life by doing so. I need some advice. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Pregnant to my boyfriend by pure accident. Had an abortion before and don't want to go through one again. Wat do?	Pregnant to my boyfriend by pure accident. Had an abortion before and don't want to go through one again. Wat do?	2,164
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/f] My boyfriend and I are both aspiring artists but I'm having a hard time respecting his (31/m) art POST: Maybe this would be better suited for an art-specific subreddit, because I'm afraid this will come off as pretentious or something, but I thought I'd start here to see if anyone has any advice. My boyfriend and I both work professionally in the photography industry (separately) but we both also have our personal creative side of photography that is separate from our jobs (like fine art - stuff you'd find in a gallery). When we first met and I found his website, it kind of turned me off because I didn't really like his work. But I got to know him and we've been together for almost 2 years. Since I've known him better I kind of "get" his art a little better, but I still kind of cringe when I see it or he does something new. I try, as a fellow artist in the same medium (but completely different style) to give constructive criticism when it's appropriate, but mostly I am just supportive and positive enough without being emphatic. Really I think that 95% of his work just plain sucks. It's not like he's parading around thinking he's great though, he rarely seems inspired or puts a lot of effort into anything. I try to inspire or motivate him, and encourage the things that would make his body of work more consistent and just...better...but he still just sucks. It's kind of dragging on me because I feel like I put a lot of effort into trying to "help" him (he does ask for my help and doesn't get defensive when I critique, so it's not like I'm just constantly giving unsolicited disapproval) but I can't tell an artist how to do their own art. I just think he has so much wasted potential and I'm tired of being supportive and positive when he creates work that I secretly hate. Where can I go from here? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I think my boyfriend's art sucks. I've tried to gently help him improve but I think he just sucks, and I feel bad!	I think my boyfriend's art sucks. I've tried to gently help him improve but I think he just sucks, and I feel bad!	4,422
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (30/m) girlfriend (31/f) snooped through my email and is moving out POST: So my girlfriend asked me for the password to my computer. There isn't one, and I told her as much. Apparently after she got done shopping, she got into my email and searched herself. She found some older gchats from a few months ago where I had talked to a couple of old friends about some fights we had. I didn't say anything derogatory, just explained what happened. These people live nowhere near us and are not in our current shared social circle, and very close to me and not judgmental, so I thought it would be ok to get things off my chest. I also had an email exchange from a while back when we had broken up and (subsequently) gotten back together with my mother, who was just saying it sounds like we just got in a fight, she really likes her, and if we get back together, she'd be happy. This very much angered her, and she claims she can never look at those people without feeling shame. Right now she's apartment hunting. I guess my main question here is if I did anything that terrible. I understand her embarrassment, but it wasn't anything bad, just arguments, that I was talking about. And she's flat out told me she's complained to her friends about me. Friends we used to see often. The other thing is that it took a bit of effort for her to find those. Even just searching her name, she had to go through a few hundred messages to find anything incriminating. It feels very violating, honestly. Thanks for reading. I'd like honest feedback so I don't repeat the same mistakes. I don't know if the relationship is salvageable though. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend found some older email exchanges of me talking about some fights. Now she's moving out. I feel like she was kind of out of line, especially since it wasn't anything too terrible.	girlfriend found some older email exchanges of me talking about some fights. Now she's moving out. I feel like she was kind of out of line, especially since it wasn't anything too terrible.	2,023
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my girlfriend [19 F] 2 years high school and a year in college with a short break in between, lack of trust and communication POST: We dated junior and senior year of high school and through the summer before I started college before taking a short break. During this break she began dating my best friend. I was devasted and the friendship was lost. After a month she realized her mistake and broke that off and we began talking again. Since then we have been a fling for the last year and some change. We have never made it official because she said she didn't want that commitment yet. I planned on dealing with this because I love her. Recently her communication has been less than stellar. I began worrying and decided to investigate. I created a fake Twitter account and was able to DM her asking about a date hoping to get a no right away. After not replying for a few hours she began asking questions trying to get to know the fake person. I asked if she was with any guys and she said she had just broken something off. She also said she wanted to take it slow. At this point I'm distraught and decide to go see her. She acts like everything is ok until I confront her about the messages. She inmediately gets pissed and starts saying she can't believe I catfished her and that I was crazy for doing so. I asked her to see it from my point of view but she refused to finish the conversation. She said she was just playing along to see if it was real and was about to say no when I went to talk to her. I just don't know what to think or do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	messaged girlfriend with fake Twitter account. She talked to the fake guy and said she had broken it off with some Guy recently. I approached her and there was a fight.	messaged girlfriend with fake Twitter account. She talked to the fake guy and said she had broken it off with some Guy recently. I approached her and there was a fight.	2,429
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] having sexual problems with my new girlfriend [23 F] for the past few days. Sex is hurting her, help? POST: So I recently met this girl and we hit it off, we've been dating for a couple weeks now and recently just started attempting to have sex. She is REALLY tight. My dick is ~6 1/2 - 7 inches and quite girthy, and she says that sex in general is very uncomfortable and ends up hurting her. I'm not sure what to do. We've had sex since, and I went a lot slower, but she said that it was nothing but uncomfortable. Is there any way around this? She's mentioned that she doesn't want to continue having sex if it's going to hurt this much. This may end up affecting our relationship majorly. Help! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Have been having sex with girlfriend of couple weeks recently, she feels really uncomfortable during the act and I end up hurting her. Is there anything i can do?	Have been having sex with girlfriend of couple weeks recently, she feels really uncomfortable during the act and I end up hurting her. Is there anything i can do?	3,925
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Breakups] Should I[28m] get back with my ex[28f] POST: I hope I'm doing this right because I'm on mobile, I'm try to make it short. Me and my exgf were together for almost 3 years, we lived together for the last year. Back in February we broke up because she wanted to go live with her sister in New York ( I'm in Baltimore) Anyway she tells me over texts the other day she misses me and wants to get back together. I loved the idea until I found out she slept with 2 other guys. I know, we were broke up so she had the right, that's not what's bothering me, it's picturing it without wanting to and trying to find a way to overcome this and live with this that's bothering me. I love this woman with all my heart and couldn't wait to get back together, until that news. What have you guys done to deal with this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	ex slept with men while we were apart. How do I move on and forgive her before we reunite the relationship?	ex slept with men while we were apart. How do I move on and forgive her before we reunite the relationship?	1,855
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: BF [23 M] broke up with me [22 F] after two years together, it was somewhat mutual POST: This happened yesterday, and we're both still in love with each other. We both love each other so deeply, but are at different stages in life. (he's finishing up college, I graduated in May) We were in a weird phase where I was commuting to work a shitty job and staying with him for half the week, and then commuting back home and living home for half the week. He's already decided that long distance would be too hard since he's finishing up his senior year. Idk it's just so hard.. and I could tell it was so hard for him too. Neither of us want to break up, but it's the best thing for right now. He said he doesn't want to close the door on having me in his life, but it seems unfair to string me along like that. I'm just so confused and in need off some advice. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Bf of two years ended our strong relationship because it's for the best, but he still loves me. Not sure how to move on.	Bf of two years ended our strong relationship because it's for the best, but he still loves me. Not sure how to move on.	33
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by jacking off at school. POST: Of course this didn't happen today but it did this previous week. Being a teenaged boy, I usually jack off twice a day; once before school, and once before I go to bed. Last Tuesday, I got up late, and didn't have time to rub one off before school, so come 3rd period, I'm pretty horny. I ask my teacher if I can go to the bathroom, and I immediately pull out my phone and pull up pictures of my ex in bikinis on Instagram. (damn, that sounds a lot more creepy than I thought it would :s) A couple of important things to remember is that: 1. My ex has third period with me and knows I went to the bathroom, 2. These were some pictures from 1-2 years ago that I've never liked and 3. It is very easy to accidentally like someone's picture because all you have to do is double tap on the image. For those of you who don't use Instagram, when you "like" a picture, the person will get a notification immediately that you liked their picture. I bet you can see where this is going now. I finish my business in the bathroom while using the pictures on Instagram as something to help speed up the process. I come back to the classroom and everybody gets kind of quiet all of a sudden. Even my math teacher was giving me a strange look. I sit down next to my best friend, and he asked me if I "had a good time in the bathroom" and some of the class laughed. I then pull out of my phone and look in horror as I see that I accidentally liked a picture of her in a polka-dot bikini from over a year ago. After that, I booked it out of the classroom, and I've faked being sick ever since. I really want to change schools, but I don't know how I could do that without telling my parents what happened. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I jacked off at school, accidentally liked a picture of my ex in a bikini on Instagram, everyone knows I jacked off to that picture of her in the bathroom, now I have to change schools.	I jacked off at school, accidentally liked a picture of my ex in a bikini on Instagram, everyone knows I jacked off to that picture of her in the bathroom, now I have to change schools.	2,268
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] am questioning if my best/only friend [18M] is actually my friend at all. POST: I have know him for ~11 years. We used to hang out all the time. Video games, metal etc. We shared a lot of interests. But then he found more friends. We spent less and less time together. Nowadays we only see each other in school. Every now and then we skype and vidya, and it's fun. He doesn't care about my things though. Anytime i am not just listening to him in a conversation, and try to talk about something i'd like to, he goes "k", and keeps going like i never said anything. I also seem to be the second choice whenever someone else is available. I don't fucking know anymore. He is the only person outside of my family that wants to spend any time with me, but i don't know if he is a friend at all. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friend doesn't care to talk about my interests, and only ever spends time with me when nobody else is available. Don't know what to do.	Friend doesn't care to talk about my interests, and only ever spends time with me when nobody else is available. Don't know what to do.	4,075
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not knowing my product knowledge. POST: This TIFU did not happen today nor did I realize IFU'd the day it happened. I sell cars for a living. I was working with a gentleman interested in a 2014 2500HD, brand new. Great! We put a deal together with out any issues. I was happy to inform him of the great coverage our vehicles come with. "The 36 month / 36,000 mile bumper to bumper, 5 year / 100,000 mile power train, AND starting this year 24 month / 24,000 miles scheduled maintenance on every model." Happy Customer. Great new program the company put out, 24 months/24,000 miles of scheduled maintenance. This includes, Replace engine oil and oil filter A thorough 27-point vehicle inspection provides a detailed assessment from COMPANY Certified Technicians 4-wheel tire rotation (excludes dual rear wheel vehicles, all SPORTSCAR models and select SPORTSCAR models – AB1 model and 1AB package cars – due to their unidirectional tires.) One day, said customer comes in for some scheduled maintenance work. I, unaware of his appointment. The service advisor came up and mentioned there was a customer of mine back there. Said he had some maintenance done but was not covered. Upon looking back at the deal folder, it all clicked. For 2014, every model got the 24/24 EXCEPT for Heavy Duty trucks. (This has since changed for 2015 Models, every model is covered.) Being an every day hero, I stepped up to the plate and kept true to my word. He was going to get his 24/24. I am now on the hook for every service visit he has pertaining to the above covered. While feeling like I did the right thing for the customer in the long run, my wallet is feeling something different. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mistakenly told a customer he had car coverage that he didn't actually qualify for, now I'm paying for it.	Mistakenly told a customer he had car coverage that he didn't actually qualify for, now I'm paying for it.	5,052
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can someone stay in your apartment for rent without signing a lease? POST: My Mom rented our upstairs studio type apartment to a 19 year old (let's call her Susan). Susan said her Dad died 2 months ago and that she was getting Social Security (IDK what the details are but I'm guessing she may be a beneficiary for her [most likely senior citizen] Dad. She apparently has nothing to do with her Mom or something. My Mom felt bad for her and said that she would do a background check on Susan. But in reality my Mom had already made up her mind about having her stay with us and didn't bother to check the background check. She moved in right away without signing the lease. When my mother presented the lease it had things like "no people sleeping over, no smoking etc." just a bunch of weird shit like that because she constantly had people sleeping over. Susan took the lease and said she would give it to my Mom the next day. The next day Susan said she lost it so my Mom gave Susan another one. The day after that she said she didn't want to sign it because she didn't agree with it and said she was going to move out a month after that day (August 5th). With payments she has excuses like "I forgot to go to the bank" or "I got robbed". Though, she does pay just not the price they spoke about. When my Mom asked about when she was leaving, Susan sounded reluctant. But I digress, so can she stay here without signing the lease? **In our state if a tenant refuses to sign the lease, but the owner of the place DOES sign then the lease is as good as if the tenant signed it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mom had apartment for rent. Rented it to a 19 year old. Didn't sign the lease because 19 year old doesn't agree with it.	Mom had apartment for rent. Rented it to a 19 year old. Didn't sign the lease because 19 year old doesn't agree with it.	5,250
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Mortgages - Understanding an Ad I heard on the radio POST: Traditionally I have understood that you don't want to be upside down on a mortgage so you normally have a larger downpayment and opt for a shorter term to get less interest accrued on your loan. However on my way into work today I heard something and I want to try to understand what/how their premise works. The ad stated that going for a long term and a minimal down payment and basically paying interest on the house is actually the way to build wealth. The ad is from a "financial adviser" agency but the does talks in my area, but I want to understand why/how this could work out to be beneficial. Does it simply have to do with them claiming that they can get a better RoR on investments (stocks, etc) off a down payment that would nullify the interest? I don't have much more information on the ad, but I thought it would be interesting to understand why/how this could work out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	How can a long term 30 year with minimal down payment that you never intend to pay off be better than a large down payment and shorter term loan 15 year for a persons future?	How can a long term 30 year with minimal down payment that you never intend to pay off be better than a large down payment and shorter term loan 15 year for a persons future?	4,057