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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Can't tell if she likes me?!? POST: It's a long story, hold on Months ago, I was getting close with a new school friend of mine (f). We talked and texted alot, and wow generally a kinda of bland person to talk to in public, she got very personal when talking to me in private. She would hug me alot, generally start the conversation with me. One day she even walked with me to the engineering department, holding my hand the entire time. My friends had never supported me in girls I liked until now. So finally I asked her out. Not interested in me at all, damaged our friendship severely. Anyways her best friend(let's call her L)texted me saying how adorable it qas, and she was upset I didn't talk to her about it. She's and honest 10/10, I'm a 6/10, fat, but a nice face, and a 20/10 personality, leader, confident, top of our class, valedictorian in High School. Every single one of my friends was interested in her, except me. Anyways me and L became very close friends the months after. I even set her up with a friend of mine she liked, but they just didn't fit. Anyways lately she's been hugging all over me, and is very sexual and open in our conversations. One day while I was sitting, she came up and leaned down and hugged me for like five minutes straight, breasts all in my face. Lately she has been just putting them all over me. My best friend keeps telling me he ships it and that she likes me, but I can't see it. I'm to scared too ruin another friendship by asking her out, and I just can't accept "the signs" after the bullshit I've dealt with all my life in false signs. Does she like me? I'm not attractive, and most people would kill to be with her, and the type of guys she's generally likes are generally very fit, nice jawline, vapes of smokes, sports cars (i drive a 2002 altima). TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have dealt with false signs all my life. Now an amazing woman is giving some off, but I'm scared of ruining a friendship. Does she like me? What should I do?	I have dealt with false signs all my life. Now an amazing woman is giving some off, but I'm scared of ruining a friendship. Does she like me? What should I do?	6,300
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: CC transfer student need help with deciding on major. POST: Hey everyone, This is my third year at community college and I'm going to be applying to colleges this year. Throughout the years at community college, I've been thinking about what kind of major I should be doing or career path after college. I've never had solid grasp on what I wanted to do, so I usually followed what my parents and friends guided me towards. In my first year at CC I thought about majoring in computer science, but after taking some programming classes I was shocked to find out it was completely different from what I thought computer science was. Then in my second year, I thought about doing electrical engineering because my dad told me it was a safe and stable major to choose, also because he works in a engineering company himself. I thought to myself this was going to be the major I'm gonna stick to, but after getting obliterated by physics classes I was discouraged and changed my mind about engineering major. Now here I am in my third year, still debating what major I should be considering. However, I was considering maybe majoring in mathematics because it is somewhat related to a career path I was interested in, which is cryptography. However, I've read about some stories about math majors who've went onto upper division classes and ended up changing their majors because it was not what they expected. I'm aware of what the upper division courses for maths are like because I've looked up some problems people post, and it does terrify me quite a bit. I guess I'm worried because if I do end up majoring in mathematics, I may end up switching my major when I transfer because I don't have enough guts to handle it. I'm sure a lot of people on here had similar problems or anxiety like me, having doubts about one's ability, how did you guys decide on your major and what advice can you guys give me? Sorry for my disorganized post, my thoughts are jumbled up so I can't put together my thoughts well together. I appreciate any feedback or comments. TL;DR: . Assistant:	A CC student who will be applying to colleges this year. Worried about what to major in and worried about my ability to do well after transferring. Need guidance.	A CC student who will be applying to colleges this year. Worried about what to major in and worried about my ability to do well after transferring. Need guidance.	469
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My fiance [27/F] just broke it off with me [28/M] and I'm feeling lost and confused. POST: We've been dating for 3 years and we've been great friends since high school. We got engaged in November and were about to lock up a venue for our wedding when everything came down. We talked on Sunday because she had been stalling on signing the agreement with the venue, and she said she wasn't sure she was ready to get married. She then said that she needed some time to get her head straight and then said that she wanted to take a break for a few months to figure out what she wants. We got a house together in July, and things had been going great. We were both happy. I feel like she is scared of the responsibility and commitment that a relationship requires. I don't know how to get her back and I'm terrified that I won't be able to. I love her to death and the last few days have been brutally tough. Any advice or thoughts on this to help me out would be much appreciated. I'm in the dark here. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friends since high school, dating 3 years, engaged for 5 months, fiance broke it off saying she needs time to figure out what she wants. Feeling lost.	Friends since high school, dating 3 years, engaged for 5 months, fiance broke it off saying she needs time to figure out what she wants. Feeling lost.	655
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with [19 F], dating for 2 months. Never had a serious relationship before, looking for advice. POST: We're both in college, and as with many college relationships it started as a hookup at a party. It pretty quickly reached a level of emotional intimacy that I haven't experienced before and we've kept seeing each other. We've both gotten around a bit (had sex with multiple of each others friends) but we've both been upfront about it and are comfortable with it. A few weeks ago we talked about being exclusive and both agreed to it. A few days later she had a tough night with a friend and was drunk and expressed to me some doubts. She's a freshman and I'm a junior, and she said that I'd already gotten to experience being single and on the scene my freshman year and she thought she might want it too. A couple days later when we were both sober we talked about it again and I made it clear that if she felt that way then I'd rather we end things now before it got too serious, and that we should only keep going if she really wanted to. She said that she did and that I'm the only guy she's met in college that has made her feel important and not just like she's being used. Other than that issue things have been going great. I've had the opportunity to have a relationship before but from a combination of fear of commitment / high standards for relationships vs. hookups / insert other excuse I've always backed out before things got too serious. This is different and I really like where we are and would like to see where things go. Due to my lack of previous relationship experience, I'd love outside advice. What are good practices and tips to help build and strengthen a new relationship? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Never been in a serious/long-term relationship before, what can I do in my current one to help it last?	Never been in a serious/long-term relationship before, what can I do in my current one to help it last?	5,356
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my [26 F] short, fast love online POST: This is more of a rant, but feedback appreciated. I met a woman online a couple of months ago and we chatted at first only about things of a sexual nature, roleplayed etc. Soon after, we became what I thought is emotionally involved with one another. We'd talk every night usually and were in the process of making plans to meet (we live a 2 hour plane ride apart). I had made the assumption things were going great, and we had a very open relationship with honesty and the openness to say anything to each other. I heard this woman cry over things, chatted while she cooked, cleaned or whatever. I really feel for this woman and have never felt this way about anyone, even when I dated my ex for 7 years. Over the past week, she has gotten extremely busy at work and hasn't had much time to chat (we texted fairly frequently during this time). Now, over the last couple of days, I asked her to be my valentine (she said yes) and then I had to go so the conversation ended. I texted her a bit on V-day and got a few responses and suddenly I haven;t heard anything. I've called and gone to the answering machine, sent a few texts and haven't gotten a response. Now, I feel like I am maybe just being too needy, but its such a drastic change from what was the norm for us, I feel the right to know whats going on. I know "the internet is the internet arguments" but I don't find them valid. Am I just being ignorant to what is going on or is it fair to assume something has happened to prevent our communication? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Feel incredibly strong towards girl I met online and things have changed recently. Am i just being a worry-wort?	Feel incredibly strong towards girl I met online and things have changed recently. Am i just being a worry-wort?	1,093
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [23M] of 5 months, I got a part time job and now I'm worried what will happen to our relationship? POST: So I'm in my 2nd year of college beginning September and two days ago I finally landed a job. It's nothing in the field I want to do, just something to earn a bit of money, its a waitressing job. For the entire summer all I wanted was a job, to not have to rely on parents, and to be able to buy or do whatever I want. My boyfriend works in a clothes shop but currently isn't really working cause he has a repeat college exam and is busy studying for that. We don't live together and lately because of the exam we haven't seen each other in almost 2 weeks. I guess I'm worried that now that I have a job, we won't get to see each other as much, and worried that after his exam, he'll be off out on nights out with his friends and I won't be able cause I work from around 5.00pm till 1-2am. I know this sounds ridiculous but I know I'm going to feel left out. I don't know why I'm feeling like this because it's irrational and all I wanted for months was a job. Maybe because his hours are always morning/evening and mine are evening/night so I wonder when we will get to see each other. Right now, I feel like quitting because it doesn't seem worth it. Am I being crazy? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Finally got a job, but now worried how my relationship with boyfriend will be as working opposite hours. Feel like quitting.	Finally got a job, but now worried how my relationship with boyfriend will be as working opposite hours. Feel like quitting.	4,931
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: My 1 1/2 year old cat has apparently forgotten about the litterbox. Any advice greatly appreciated! POST: My roommate moved in in Sept. with two cats, each 1 1/2 years. I have since adopted the slightly-overweight male cat, and roommate moved home 2 days ago and took the other cat with her. Today while doing laundry I found cat turds in my towel pile...and upon checking the litterbox realized that he hasn't been using it at all. It's in the same place, it's the same one he's always used, litter is the same brand. A few hours later I walk by the litterbox and he's pooping three feet away from it on the rug... My roommate never really kept the box clean, so could it maybe be that I cleaned it & put new litter in it soon as she left? I thought maybe it could be the absence of the other cat in some way, but they've been separated for up to two months before. He's eating the same brand & amount of food. Has this happened to anyone? What could be causing this, & how do I stop it before there are secret turds everywhere?! (I will add that this is the first cat I've had.) TL;DR: . Assistant:	My 1 1/2 year old cat started shitting in random piles of clothes despite his litterbox being in the same location that it's been for months.	My 1 1/2 year old cat started shitting in random piles of clothes despite his litterbox being in the same location that it's been for months.	926
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18/F] with my mom [~50/F] and dad [~50/M] want to give my room to my younger brother when I go to college? POST: I'm new to this posting thing, so please bear with me. I'm at that age where college is in the equation, which has sparked many fights between me and my parents. One of the most frequent arguments is about how my younger brother [16/M] gets to take over my bedroom when I go to college due to his being the size of nice walk-in closet. I don't know if I'm overreacting or just being unreasonable, but I told them that I felt as though they were giving away my living space. I plan on returning home during breaks and during the summer to work in my hometown (I have a great summer job) and I don't want to return to the "guest bedroom" (as they have put it) instead of the room that I have grown up in. I have stated countless times that many other families don't give away their child's bedrooms when they go to college, but they just won't have it. I have been called "dramatic" and "drama queen" countless times. The question here is: what should I do? Am I being unreasonable in expecting them to preserve my room for my return home? If I'm not, then what should I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Parents want to give my room away to my brother when I go away to college and I feel like I'm going to be homeless. What next?	Parents want to give my room away to my brother when I go away to college and I feel like I'm going to be homeless. What next?	1,123
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [25 M] of a 1 yr chats up other women to assist friend on nights out, in full view of myself [21 F] Obvious double standard as he's been dread gaming me throughout the relationship, apparent whenever I even joke about other guys. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more then a year. Our relationship is pretty good and he's a really awesome person to be around. Since our relationship commenced, a common theme on our nights out is my boyfriends newly divorced room mate not making enough effort to chat to women, despite clearly wanting to. At first I took my boyfriends desire to help his mate out, as pretty considerate. However as I'm now trying to restrict my drinking when we go out (something which my boyfriend made a point of), I'm much more aware of how my boyfriend is really just inflating his own ego through chatting to these women. This culminated a few weeks ago when my boyfriend, while rather drunk, told me there was no point of him going out while in a relationship unless his mate was going to fuck a random chick. When I then asked what the point of a night out was for me, he replied 'to provide social validation [for previously mentioned friend]' awesome right? I trust he's been faithful throughout our relationship & will continue to be so, but it still makes me feel shitty when he spends extended periods talking to these other women,or pointing out 'cuties' for his mate to chat to, while I'm struggling with boredom because I can't drink as much as I used to. He talks about leaving me whenever I even joke about other guys (guys need to give up dread game -.- I value the relationship not because I fear losing him but because he genuinely adds to my life.) On the one night someone ever approached me my bf got annoyingly angry with me for talking to him, despite me only telling the random dude that I was in a relationship (but my bf was pretty drunk so I didn't think too much of this reaction). TL;DR: . Assistant:	Don't know whether I can bring up my boyfriends obvious flirtation with other women, without sounding like a jealous freak.	Don't know whether I can bring up my boyfriends obvious flirtation with other women, without sounding like a jealous freak.	4,600
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my bf [21M] 3 years, how do I do with being apart? Miss him... POST: We've been together for years and have been inseparable. We don't live together but we've never had to go long periods apart and we have talked to each other and seen each other every day since day 1. Now our circumstances have changed and I'm finding it hard. How do I deal with the separation and missing him so much? He's very much a part of my life and is basically my other half. The positive thing I'm taking away from this however is that I feel like we appreciate each other a lot more than ever. We're also each other's firsts so that also makes it more difficult as I've never experienced this before! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Life circumstances have changed. I miss my boyfriend. Hard to deal with because I've never been in this situation before.	Life circumstances have changed. I miss my boyfriend. Hard to deal with because I've never been in this situation before.	2,997
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: (19f) I've been in and out of relationships, paying no attention to the one I should have with myself. POST: Reddit, I don't know where to start, but I'll begin by telling you that I have very recently been brutally honest with myself and it made me cry for ten minutes straight. I love attention, and because I am a very outgoing attractive girl, I garner a lot of it. I'm used to guys watching me walk by on the street, women looking at me with envy or judgement, and people listening to what I have to say when I talk. Please, please, don't see this as a conceited statement, I'm just laying groundwork here. Regardless of the attention I receive, the knowledge of my beauty and intelligence, there is still so much insecurity. So what do I do? I get a boyfriend and things always seem to accelerate super quickly. We move in together in the first couple of months or the "L" word is spoken (I hate to say it but my bf at the time is usually the first to), excessive amounts of time is spent together and when I think everything is going fine, boom the relationship dissolves and I'm left with myself. I used to write, words were my art. Fashion was something I was so passionate about and I had a stronger sense of self than I do now. I look in the mirror sometimes and don't know who I am (as cliche as it sounds.) I live in a suburban town (though I am close to a city) and I don't have any friends because they have all floated away in the midst of my relationships. When people ask me what I like to do for fun or what my hobbies are, I draw a complete blank. When I pick up a pen to write, I feel uninspired. I know, in my head and now in my heart, that the only way to figure myself out is to be without a bf, but that safety and comfort of always being wanted by one specific person will be gone, and it scares me to death. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have constantly been in unhealthy relationships that consume all of my thoughts, energy and focus and when they end, I'm left with a feeling of uselessness	I have constantly been in unhealthy relationships that consume all of my thoughts, energy and focus and when they end, I'm left with a feeling of uselessness	3,409
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What is the right way to handle the breakup of two equally close friends? POST: Apologies for any language issue in advance, English is not my native tongue. My partner "John" and I are best friends with another couple who will probably be splitting up soon. "Maria" and "David" have been together for about 4 years, and John and Maria have been good friends since high school. David has been really good to and for Maria and is an all around great guy. Maria confided in me recently however that he has been thinking about breaking up for a lot of typical feelings-reasons (not ready for the long term relationship that she wants, etc). She's devastated about it. Although I'm pretty frustrated with David because he's being really wishy washy about what he wants and hurting her in the process, it's not exactly an unpardonable offense. I know that breakups are really hard. I still love both of them no matter what. That said, what is the best way to handle this from an outside perspective? We live in a small town where everybody knows each other and have a large friend group that gets together multiple times weekly and host a big party at our place once every couple weeks. We have multiple tabletop games going that both of them are involved in. How can john and I remain friends with both of them under the circumstances? Everybody involved is approximately 25. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Our best friends are breaking up. How do we handle it without any hurt feelings and with as much tact and kindness as possible?	Our best friends are breaking up. How do we handle it without any hurt feelings and with as much tact and kindness as possible?	5,902
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 F] S/O [23 M] of 6 months hangs out with his Ex's roommate (20 F) all the time, advice on how NTGAF? POST: Hey reddit, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a relatively short period of time, only about 6 months. Met and started dating pretty quickly, all within about two months. We get along great together, share a lot of interests, goof around a ton, and genuinely care for one another. From the beginning it was known that he and his ex gf were on good terms, no hard feelings and she would actually come over to his apartment a lot to hang out with his roommates because they were still good friends. At first this bothered me, but he assured me that it was nothing to worry about and I began to feel a bit more comfortable. Now he has been hanging out with his ex's roommate (21 female), mostly when me and him aren't together and also at her apartment. Not sure if this is legitimately something to worry about, but for some reason this rubs me the wrong way. I really don't have trust issues with my boyfriend, and believe that he would never cheat on me or anything. I just feel like this relationship (between him and the roommate) would solely be based on his relationship with his ex, and is a person who they have in common and probably talk a lot about. It makes me uneasy, because she obviously would have a bias to talk positively about her roommate/friend, which could in turn make my SO miss his ex. Upon writing this, I see how I could come across as jealous- i think it's more of me being insecure. I really just need advice on how not to care about this situation, or steps I could take to feel more comfortable about this relationship my SO wants to keep. Thanks for reading guys! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend continues to hang out with Ex's roommate/best friend (female), usually when I am not around, and need advice on how not to give a fuck.	Boyfriend continues to hang out with Ex's roommate/best friend (female), usually when I am not around, and need advice on how not to give a fuck.	2,856
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (23M) am having a hard time understanding GF's (23F) "connecting" behavior POST: So I've been dating this girl for about a year. Things are good, and I think we get along very well. We have our tiffs but hey what couple doesnt. What bothers me though is that shes claims that she must meet as many people as possible; shes really obsessed with "connecting" with people. The other day when we went out with a bunch of her friends to a bar, she got the number of numerous guys. From what I saw, it was rather innocent in context, but it just bothered me a bit that it seemed like she was actively coming up with "list" of people she can get with after we're done... I feel like if I did the same, shed be uncomfortable too. When I asked her about it, she said it was just for friendly encounters and that she just wanted to "connect" with people. Now mind you, she does do this a lot. Shell just go to some random store owned by a man clearly in his 50s/60s and will be very friendly with him because she wants to connect... I dont think this is sexual in nature. I just dont know if this is normal behavior but anyway. Before me, shes dated plenty of guys which is fine. But one gets to me more than the others. Apparently on a trip to thailand, she wanted a lay and hooked up with a hostel bartender. Then after the vacation, she went back to further "connect" with him. But it seems now that she has no desire to connect with him, and Im starting to think her hyper "connection" behavior is some sort of odd... I dont know scapegoat for something. Am I being a bit too jealous? Should it bother me that shes still actively seeking male friends? (its really the motive that bothers me). It seems really strange to me that someone is so desperately in need to connect with people. TL;DR: . Assistant:	gf is obsessed with "connecting" with people. Trying to figure out if its an excuse with sinister motives... or if she just is that friendly.	gf is obsessed with "connecting" with people. Trying to figure out if its an excuse with sinister motives... or if she just is that friendly.	1,643
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: [Discussion] Getting kicked down seems like the only way to get back on track.... POST: I apologize if this isn't the right subreddit to be posting in, or if I have used the wrong tag. I just really would like to get out of a slump that I am experiencing, and that I know I can get over. I'm currently a junior in high school, and have seemed to really slumped into having a halfway attitude about performance - academic and athletic especially - from where I had started at the beginning of the year and my prior high school career. In this way, the results that I produce aren't really better or worse but the difference is that I am not motivated or spurred on by anything to improve this work. I've realized that the only way to really "wake-up" and get back into a aspiring, positive, and more hard working mindset is to see the success of others, which in turn makes me realize how much harder I could have worked towards a goal and how much better the outcome could be. This feeling and mindset lasts only for at the longest a week, and this really seems to be what I am asking for help with. In what ways can I get out of this desensitization to failure slump, and maintain motivation to do better, even when things are going fine already? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Performance in a limbo state, am fine atm settling for "ok" or fine only, how can I get out of this mindset and perform better?	Performance in a limbo state, am fine atm settling for "ok" or fine only, how can I get out of this mindset and perform better?	3,314
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: am i wrong for wantin to feel validated in my relationship? POST: I [f/23] am in a relationship and have been in it on and off for awhile [since early teens]. I was explaining to my partner [m/24] the other day that I wanted to feel "worshipped" by the person I'm with. This in not in an I am amazing or selfish kind of way but in a way that I feel like he wants me and I mean a lot to him and that I feel validated WITHIN the relationship itself. I say this cause I believe he doesn't act in a way that shows that the relationship is important to him. When I said this he told me that I seem like all I want is for him to validate me all the time as a person to make me feel complete. At this I try not to get angry because I feel like I know who I am and am happy with who I am and would be validated as an individual person without the relationship. i just would like him to do more things that make me feel like I am appreciated within the relationship and that the relationship is a priority. Oscar Wilde said "we should never love anyone who treats us like we are ordinary" By asking my partner to "worship" me and do things that show me i am important, am I being unfair? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I would like my partner to do more things that's show me that our relationship is important to him, without him thinking it is just cause I need to be validated as a person by this relationship. Am I wrong for wanting this?	I would like my partner to do more things that's show me that our relationship is important to him, without him thinking it is just cause I need to be validated as a person by this relationship. Am I wrong for wanting this?	1,827
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [32/M] address potential new relationship with live-in ex gf [31/F]? POST: I will try to keep these details simple, but I am looking for advice on how to deal with the possibility of new relationships while I still live with my ex gf. My gf and I dated for five years and lived together for four. The last year of the relationship was mostly dead, and we finally broke up a month ago. My ex-gf and have talked about moving out and decided on a date in about a month and a half. Since then I started talking to someone and just this last weekend I spent the night at her place. I have no idea where that relationship is going, and frankly I have doubts, but I don't know how to deal with the end of one relationship and the possibility of a new one. To what degree do I owe my ex-gf honesty about where I have been or what I am doing? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I feel like I don't need to tell her what I am up to, but I feel guilty about lying to her. Anyone have a similar experience or any advice?	I feel like I don't need to tell her what I am up to, but I feel guilty about lying to her. Anyone have a similar experience or any advice?	5,219
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with guy I hooked up with [30M] is trying to reconnect again POST: I met this guy off reddit a while back. We connected great, and did a few things together for 3 weeks or so before we decided to meet up. We basically hooked up the first time we met, which was surprising because there was no sexual tension between us at all. Fast forward, a week or so. He suddenly stopped replying to me and is ignoring me off of everything. I confronted him, asking whats the deal, that I at least deserved a explanation. He told me that before he met me, he had a deep connection with this other woman, and that it wasn't fair that he was going to keep on going with both of us. So we ended there. Fast forward 2 months, he texted me out of the blue asking about my life. I straight up told him that he hurt my feelings and I felt like I was used. He said he never meant for that to happen (red flag I know) and that he was the dumb one to use me as a placeholder (super red flag). Hes listing a lot of reasons in any ways we could possibly be friends again, eg. just becoming gaming pals, Skype pals or whatever. He seems sincere about it. Now I have no intention of forming any kind of relationship beyond a friendship with him. But I was wondering if it's even wise to become friends with him again? I know I wont get sexually involved again but is he someone to trust, and will he even become a "good friend" in the long run? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Guy I hooked up with started to reconnect with me after straight up dumping me. Nows finding excuses for me to forgive him, should I?	Guy I hooked up with started to reconnect with me after straight up dumping me. Nows finding excuses for me to forgive him, should I?	4,810
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm having a bit of a problem. I tracked my stolen phone online but I don't know how to get it back. POST: On Saturday night I was out on the town, after running away from everyone I knew in a drunken attempt at a joke I ended up at home without my phone. So I used icloud the next morning (which is pretty cool by the way) and tracked my phone to an apartment building a few neighbourhoods over. Set a message on the screen saying "call my roommates number and i'll even give you a reward" ... But got no call. Then I called the non-emergency police to see if they could swing by and get it all serious style, but that was a no go. I can see that it's still there but it's now on 5% battery and might soon be lost forever. What do I do? Knock down every door in this apartment complex hoping some good person will give it back but potentially get shanked in the process? Or just consider it a write off and move on? TL;DR: . Assistant:	lost my phone, tracked it, it's in an apartment complex across town, police couldn't help... WHAT DO I DO	lost my phone, tracked it, it's in an apartment complex across town, police couldn't help... WHAT DO I DO	3,736
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: First kitten... my brother and I disagree on something. POST: My brother and I adopted a kitten from a friend who's roommate next year is allergic to cats. Everything's fine so far, since we grew up with cats (We know what we need to take care of them), but we disagree on what I think is a fairly major issue. My parents, when raising cats back home, would leave out a bowl of dry cat food and a bowl of water in the kitchen. That's how I wanted to feed our kitten, by just supplying a little in a bowl and keeping it at a near constant level as we notice it going down. My brother, deciding that the way our parents fed our cats contributed to our oldest cat's weight gain (He's been with us almost 16 years now, and has been fat since he was 2 or 3, and my brother has seemingly forgotten how often my mom treated the old cat with turkey and other cat treats), is trying to tell me that we need to only feed the kitten at certain times, and in certain portions. That just feels wrong to me, since it's obviously going to still be growing, and I don't think he should be worried about weight gain in a kitten. And I'm not trying to tell him to leave a full bowl out all the time, but to just leave some in there for when the kitten gets hungry at a non-brother approved time. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Bro wants to put kitten on a scheduled/controlled diet, I think we need to just let it eat when it's hungry.	Bro wants to put kitten on a scheduled/controlled diet, I think we need to just let it eat when it's hungry.	1,316
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [22M] cut contact from a girl [23F], she ended up texting me today.. need advice POST: Cut contact with this girl because she still had a boyfriend. I let her know that I saw us as more then friends and that when she becomes single for her to contact me and if not best of luck with everything. three days later I get a text (legit 10 minutes ago). She said, "Just so you know we broke up." (meaning her and her boyfriend.) Now, I do not know how to respond, do I ask why, ask her how come, ask her when... Thing is we have been friends for a few months and I just could not do the friends thing anymore, so I decided cutting contact would be in MY best interests. I can not ask her on any dates though because she is in Florida till october, and I just need advice on how to approach this situation. Such as how to handle, stay in contact, be there for her, all the while keeping attraction up to what it was beforehand so that when she comes home our lives can intertwine again. Thanks Reddit, TL;DR: . Assistant:	cut contact with a girl because she had a bf, told her text me when single if she ever is going to be, texted me today, need advice	cut contact with a girl because she had a bf, told her text me when single if she ever is going to be, texted me today, need advice	744
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] can't commit to a relationship with my [19 F] POST: I'm 18 and have never been in a serious relationship. I have, I suppose, a girlfriend. She's fun to talk to, we share a lot of the same interests, but she wants to turn it up a notch. Here's the thing, I've never really been bothered with relationships. I'm quite happy keeping my own company and I really value the freedom of being independent. But I do really like this girl, and I'd like to see more of her, but I simply can't cross that threshold. I'm really worried that I'm just going to end up upsetting her because she expects more from me. This has happened so many times now, talking to a girl, she wants to take it further, I don't want to commit. Is this going to be me now? I like companionship, someone to share experiences with, someone to talk to and someone to cuddle with. But the relationships I see seem to be about being on call 24/7, spending all day returning texts and basically throwing a whole lot of your personal time away for smalltalk. What am I to do here? Either I tell her I'm not interested and I maybe loose her as a friend if it upsets her or I go for it. The thing is, if I do, it could either go really nicely, or it just raises the stakes and makes things worse if I realise it isn't for me and want to get out. I've also gotta say, for some reason, I feel that relationships are something I need to somehow keep secret or lie about to others. I get some weird mental block there. I'm generally quite reserved, and I don't know if that's got anything to do with it, but it's like the person that I love is a personal thing, and personal things should stay private. That's a shitty way to put it, but it just seems weird to me, even though everybody does it! A psychiatrist could probably have a field day with me! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Can never quite bring myself to commit to a relationship, don't want to be an arsehole by stringing someone along either	Can never quite bring myself to commit to a relationship, don't want to be an arsehole by stringing someone along either	4,557
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20 M] struggling to understand something and I'm feeling hopeless for future relationships. POST: I know this may come across as a stupid question,but I have noticed with most long term relationships there is often a period of time where they are broken up or take a break and then getting back together. Most people on r/relationships advocate not getting back together with exes as they are exes for a reason. So how are long term relationships supposed to work? How do people stay together for so long? I feel as though there is such a fine line to having a relationship that lasts a lifetime especially in today's society. I'm having doubts that I could have a successful relationship based on this train of thought. I'd really hate to think of relationships work this way. So, /r/relationships, how do long term relationships work. TL;DR: . Assistant:	don't go back to ex + long term relationships most likely break up and get back together contradicting thoughts. How does it really work?	don't go back to ex + long term relationships most likely break up and get back together contradicting thoughts. How does it really work?	4,085
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing ladies underwear [24m] POST: So I was visiting my friend out of of town for the weekend and everything was awesome except the fact I forgot to bring clean underwear. So, no big deal I just wear the same pair since I had JUST changed them so it was all good. However, after a weekend of drinking and partying needless to say I needed to changed by the time the weekend was done. So when I finally got home to my family I decided to hop in the shower. When I got out and dried off I realized I had no boxer's clean whatsoever (wife forgot to do laundry apparently =P) and I HATE going commando, can't do it. So I looked in the dresser and all I see is my wife's underwear. We're about the same waist so I figured fuck it. I reluctantly put the panties on and went about my day (all in the while constantly tugging at my junk due to the tightness of the underwear. Fast Forward 6 or 7 hours at around 7pm: I had (sadly) gotten accustomed to the underwear (forgetting completely I was wearing them) and my friend calls me to go hang out for a bit. So I do. At least 15 people were there (most I knew but 5 or 6 I didn't). We start scrapping as we often do (Fighting MMA style for fun) and of course I fall down at one point and get back up to keep fighting but everyone is just staring at me. First looks of disbelief, followed by confusion and finally mass hilarity. EVERYONE was laughing so hard it wasn't even funny. I had COMPLETELY forgot about the panties. Tried to explain my case but doesn't matter. 2 Days later I have a few new nicknames. No one wants to hang out and I am completely embarassed. TL;DR: . Assistant:	No clean underwear so wore wife's panties. Forgot they were on and went fighting. Fell down showing I was wearing ladies underwear to every friend I have plus people I didn't know. My "reputation" is gone.	No clean underwear so wore wife's panties. Forgot they were on and went fighting. Fell down showing I was wearing ladies underwear to every friend I have plus people I didn't know. My "reputation" is gone.	5,423
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (F20) have been sleeping with a friend (M21) for a month and don't know how to ask him where we stand POST: we've known each other for 3 years, became friends about a year ago. i've always liked him and have always made it pretty obvious that i liked him, but he's had a girlfriend for most of the time that i've known him. a few months ago we started talking every day, and eventually i started going over to his house once or twice a week and spending the night without anything sexual happening other than cuddling. one night we hooked up, i told him i didn't want to sleep with him. the next time i was over we had sex, and after that the texts stopped. i figured he wanted it to be a one time thing, so i let it be and gave him some space. we remained friendly and since we work together we still hung out together frequently with our group of friends. just when i thought everything had worked itself out, we had sex again a week ago and now i don't know what to think. another detail that may be important is that i was a virgin before him and he knew this. i guess what i'm stuck on is how to ask him what the fuck is going on without sounding like a lunatic or making things weird at work, since he's pretty reserved when it comes to things like that and seems to have a hard time expressing his feelings, if he has any for me. it used to be that i could text him any time about anything, and lately i haven't texted him in days because i get the feeling he doesn't want to hear from me. TL;DR: . Assistant:	my dumb friend took my virginity and is giving me mixed signals. asking him how he feels about me is as delicate as open heart surgery - how to i word it?	my dumb friend took my virginity and is giving me mixed signals. asking him how he feels about me is as delicate as open heart surgery - how to i word it?	3,505
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I recently moved cross-country with my job and I hate it! Help! POST: Hello everyone ... let me give you a little background. About 2 months ago, my company moved my department, including my job, from New York to California. I reluctantly went with my job because I am young and felt that it would be good for my career. I don't know a single person here -- no family, friends, etc. -- and my job situation has gotten progressively more difficult every day. I really hate where I am living, and my job has gotten me so stressed out and depressed that I need to start taking anti-depressants again. I've even been having major panic attacks. The company was very shifty and unsupportive in the move, but has me locked into 2 years or else I have to pay back the moving expenses. I really wish I could transfer back home or quit, but I can't. What do I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I hate my job and want to quit, moved 2500 miles from home for it, know no one here, but I'm locked into 2 years. What can I do?	I hate my job and want to quit, moved 2500 miles from home for it, know no one here, but I'm locked into 2 years. What can I do?	2,503
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Cat getting hot spots. POST: Hey all. I'm calling all cat nutrition experts. My 7 year old orange shorthair developed a hot spot on her neck. Before I knew what a hot spot even was there was a running joke about how she would not know when to stop rubbing her head on stuff because she'd sometimes rub herself into a little scab. As far as I can remember she always would over do rubbing her head like that. It wasn't until recently she started rubbing that spot on her neck like that. We went to the vet to get her checked out. When I saw what she had done to herself I freaked the hell out. they sent us home with an ointment. I didn't know that certain foods could cause a cat to start getting really itchy spots on them like that. We have two cats. The 7 year old and a 13 year old. The 13 year old had never had any problems like this. I suspect that it has something to do with the 7 year old being a little undersized, maybe a runt. (she was also pretty undernourished when I found her 6 or so years ago trying to cross a busy street. Perhaps not the brightest.) We feed both of our girls friskies prime fillets. mostly turkey or beef. They don't like fish too much. We used to feed them fancy feast but seemingly out of no where both of them decided they didn't want to eat it any more. We have meow mix hairball control dry food out for them. I feel like we've always fed them meow mix. Oh! Another thing. The two girls fight a bunch. It's never anything too out of control. They just both seem to love the same square of living room. When it gets too rough they usually cut it out or i'll intervene with a spray bottle of water. The older cat doesn't have her front claws but the younger one does. As a result the older one will nuzzle the younger cat to get her to cut it out. Could that be the reason? If so why the spots on the her ears. I've never seen the older cat go after those spots when they are playing. Again, the older cat hasn't had any issues like this. Anyway, TL;DR: . Assistant:	does any one have any information on either of these foods causing a reaction like this? Could it be the two cats playing too rough?	does any one have any information on either of these foods causing a reaction like this? Could it be the two cats playing too rough?	836
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Want School to Write for Online Grad Degree, How to Write Proposal POST: Hey all. I have been working at my current employer for almost three years. My employer is very generous, and they send us IT technicians (I am a help desk guy, but we are a small IT group and get involved in many projects doing a lot more than that) to training yearly. This is a job abroad and this means most of the tech training must be done in region in another country or far off in the United States. Others with a higher pay grade get tuition benefits, I do not. I am not complaining, my first job out of school would not even pay for training down the street ... So I want to write a proposal that I can plan out an online MS in Computer Science, that every year would be cheaper than flying me out, putting me in a hotel, and paying for an expensive training course. Does anyone have experience with this? What format should I use? Anyone know where to even find samples? Not sure what to call this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Want to write to my employer saying I can do grad school cheaper than yearly training sessions. How would I write a report/proposal to ask?	Want to write to my employer saying I can do grad school cheaper than yearly training sessions. How would I write a report/proposal to ask?	1,302
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting that I had fish oil pills in my pocket before doing laundry. POST: So I'm on this healthy kick. I'm running a lot more, drinking at least a gallon a day and taking vitamins to supplement what I may miss in meals. One of supplements I'm taking is fish oil pills. On this day, I was busy at work so I grab a my supplements to include the fish oil, a bottle of water and left the office with the intentions on consuming everything once I was in my car. Well, I forgot! I took off my clothes from work and put them in the hamper. The next morning I put the clothes from work in the wash. I forgot that I had left the fish oil in the pockets. When I got home: Wife: "What did you put in the laundry? There's a weird smell coming from that area." Me: "Just a load of clothes" and I went back to check it out. I smelled the same weird smell. But had no idea where it came from. Wife: "I put the clothes in the dryer". Well, after drying clothes I like to smell the fresh laundry smell. I took the load out and 1 whiff and I instantly knew what happened. My whole load of clothes smelled like rotted fish! Now I'm washing them over and over hoping I can get the smell out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	TIFU by washing clothes with a fish oil pills in the pocket. Now I'm on the 3rd cycle of washing to get the smell out.	TIFU by washing clothes with a fish oil pills in the pocket. Now I'm on the 3rd cycle of washing to get the smell out.	1,176
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my now ex-bf[25M] together for 6 months, just need some kind words POST: Really close friends for almost a year, then dating, and we just broke up earlier tonight. Didn't tell a lot of people because he wasn't ready for his family to know due to religious differences. From the start I wasn't sure we would last due to said issues, but I was expecting some more time. Some things unexpectedly came up today and we talked for a long time about our future. We decided that even though we loved each other, there was no point in prolonging the inevitable and we decided to end things since love alone can't sustain a relationship. We decide set an optional deadline for one week to talk to each other if we need to, but I think I need a clean cut. I'm barely hanging on at the moment, and I just need some kind words. We didn't really tell a lot of people since we didn't want his family to hear through the grapevine. Best person to talk to would be his sister, since she knew and I was also friends with her, but I don't think it's fair to put her in the middle of this, even if it wasn't an angry breakup and there are no sides to be taken. Talking to a couple other friends that knew, but that's really all I have right now. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Love isn't enough to sustain a relationship, and I need some kind words to help me get through my break up.	Love isn't enough to sustain a relationship, and I need some kind words to help me get through my break up.	5,580
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Opinion is on strangers and photos of your kid POST: Trick or' treating with my daughter, one duplex middle aged man asks to take our picture -- thinking nothing of it I let him; no candy (I'm a bit miffed that I didn't say, uhh not comfortable with that)... Later on I started to think something is wrong. Asked the wife and she requested i go ask him to delete it. Went back asked him to remove it. He dodged by knocking on the door by his and asking for some candy. I said "I'm not interested in candy, I'd just like you to remove the photo". He started to protest "you can't come in my house". I replied "I don`t need to come in, i just want to see you delete the photo" , but his neighbour (turned out to be his mom) said "no if he asks you to delete it you must". He invited me in, talked to a guy he called his brother "I need the camera, i have to delete the picture of the little girl". I mentioned that i needed to see him delete it and his brother brought the camera over and showed me it being deleted. All this amidsts protests of "what kind of guy do you think i am", and my assurances that it was just that i didnt feel comfortable. Brother says ignore him he is drunk. So as far as i know it is deleted (could be other copies obviously). I`m a bit freaked that there is now a man near my house that wanted to take a photo of my kid (I was in the picture). I hate being paranoid, and (i think) i remember reading that pedophilia is very rare, and much more feared then warrented (compaired to say driving in a car). Funny thing is i found his protests damning. Then i thought about it and if he had been really easy and willing then that might have also been damning. Any opinions? TL;DR: . Assistant:	strange man took photo of me and my kid on halloween, i got paranoid and asked him to remove it, under protest he did. Still a bit freaked and looking for opinions.	strange man took photo of me and my kid on halloween, i got paranoid and asked him to remove it, under protest he did. Still a bit freaked and looking for opinions.	4,042
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Apparently I want to sleep with my two best girl friends who I can never touch. POST: Sorry, title sounded a little awkward but I guess it makes sense. So basically the other night the girl I've been sleeping with (call her F) regularly comes over and stays over, we have sex and then pass out before we have class the next day. I have a really hard time sleeping, especially staying asleep, and so a lot of times I'll wake up, but F is a really sound sleeper and it never really bothers her. I remember waking up at least twice, and both times F was snuggled next to me, her head on my chest, but when I looked at her, it wasn't her. I'm in a fraternity and so we have sweethearts who are some of our best friends, but one of the things is that we absolutely CANNOT sleep with them or have sexual or romantic intimacy, since that would put the relationship between the girl and the entire chapter at risk. BUT, both times I woke up, I saw a different girl. Two of our sweethearts (call them S and B) both have a lot of physical similarities to F, all short brunettes who are cute, and so somewhere along the line of waking up I saw first B, then S, instead of F when I woke up. I loved it. I like F a lot, but we're just keeping things casual so we're not in a serious relationship or anything, but I spend so much time around S and B as friends, with no romantic or sexual stuff between us (except one time with S before she was a sweetheart). But, I can't act on the feelings I have towards either one, which is that some days I feel as though I might be in love with one or two of my best friends, and that maybe the girl that would be perfect for me is standing right there, and I can't do anything about it. I just wanted to tell someone this, because obviously if I tell any of my brothers/other sweethearts shit might hit the fan and people would look at me differently. TL;DR: . Assistant:	instead of seeing the girl I was sleeping with when I woke up, I saw my two best girl friends, and now I'm worried there might be a deeper feeling than just friendship, at least on my part.	instead of seeing the girl I was sleeping with when I woke up, I saw my two best girl friends, and now I'm worried there might be a deeper feeling than just friendship, at least on my part.	413
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M/20] suspect that my [F/20] girlfriend's male best friend [M/20] has feelings for her. POST: I have been dating my girlfriend Sarah for almost a year. She has a male best friend, John, with whom she is very close, but it hasn't proved to be a problem in our relationship, so I was pretty ok with it. I don't hang out with any other girls one on one, but that's just because I'm in a major with very few females, so most of my friends are guys. Every time I've met John, he's seemed friendly, but he is always somewhat short with me. He constantly texts and snapchats Sarah, except when he knows she and I are together, in which case he just stops. He also doesn't seem to like being around us when we're together, because he is awkward and looks somewhat uncomfortable. In the past when we've all gone out together he has tried to subtly assert just how well he knows Sarah in a way that seems competitive/confrontational. John has been on and off with one of his previous girlfriends since the time I started dating Sarah, but he can't seem to make anything stick. Sarah says it's because he just can't get over his ex, but I suspect that he might not be able to commit to anyone else because he has feelings for Sarah. Now the kicker is that next semester Sarah is planning on getting a single person apartment that is literally directly beside John's apartment, which she is excited about because they're good friends. This makes me uncomfortable, but not because I don't trust my girlfriend. I totally trust Sarah, and she is by no means a flirty or overly sexual person anyway. It's John that I dont really trust, and I think that for whatever reason she can't see or accept that he might have feelings for her. My girlfriend doesn't know that I feel this way about John, because I know that she firmly believes that they have a platonic relationship (she may be right), and I think she might accuse me of being jealous or possessive if i tell her. Is it wrong for me to be feeling uncomfortable about this? Am I being jealous/possessive/controlling, or do I have any legitimate reason for concern? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend has guy best friend that I think might have feelings for her. Am I being jealous/possessive for being concerned?	Girlfriend has guy best friend that I think might have feelings for her. Am I being jealous/possessive for being concerned?	4,271
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [19M] of 4+ years, just broke up. I moved to the middle of nowhere to live with him, and have no way to leave. What can I do? POST: Long story short, it was long distance and I gave up my family, friends, and everything else to come be with him. I've lived with him for two years, minus 4-5 months that I went back home last year. He just broke up with me, but I literally have no friends here, and not even another place to sleep in the house, other than right here next to him. Does anyone have any advice for where the hell to go from here? I'm at a complete loss. I left on such a bad foot with my parents and family that even if I could find the money, I don't know if they'd take me back. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend dumped me, but I live with him and have no resources to move out or even stay the night elsewhere.	Boyfriend dumped me, but I live with him and have no resources to move out or even stay the night elsewhere.	2,747
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shitting my pants while getting my teeth cleaned POST: This happened on Wednesday fellow redditors, you time constraining fucks. Had my 6 month cleaning at the dentist today. Right before I left my apartment I realize I had to shit but I was running late, I could not afford to reschedule my appointment again (already rescheduled it twice before). So here I am, prairie dogging on the car ride there. I want to shit so bad but I have a fear of shitting in public places (my dumbass). I hold it until they call my name to go get my teeth cleaned. So, I'm getting my teeth scraped by the metal pokey tooth of death. I'm clenching my asscheeks trying to withhold my shit of a thousand suns. Suddenly I get this big burning pain sensation in my stomach, I realized I had a bowl of cereal before I left, I'm lactose intolerant. Fuck me in my poopy ass. I had this big urging need to shit all of the sudden, and let out this massive fart/shit that smelled like rotten milk and eggs. I immediately clench and lift my head upwards in agonizing embarrassment. Bad choice. The pointy park of the metal tool of death was still in my mouth, when I shot up clenching my shitty ass, it penetrated my gums in the back of my mouth and hung there like a fucking fish hook. I was a fucking fish. I pulled it out and my dental assistant lady ran out of the room looking for a first aid kit. There I was in my glory, bleeding mouth with shit pants running to the bathroom. I lock the door and shit my ever loving brains out. The sweet sweet relief. I came out of the bathroom looking like a fucking cannibal shitter who smelled like farts and ass. I left without finishing my cleaning. Needless to say I will be getting mg a new dentist. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Went for routine cleaning needing to shit, shit pants during cleaning ended up hooking my mouth with the pointy tool of death.	Went for routine cleaning needing to shit, shit pants during cleaning ended up hooking my mouth with the pointy tool of death.	5,207
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18F] jealous of my friend [17F] and it's taken a toll on my self-esteem and the friendship POST: I'm on mobile and new to Reddit so if anyone could show me how to add flair/direct me to a more appropriate subreddit that would be very appreciated. I've always had low self-esteem. I'm 5 feet tall and slightly chubby, but still within what is considered a "healthy" weight. I've suffered from acne for most of my life and while it's calmed down a bit now, I still have scars and occasional breakouts. I even posted to r/amiugly and... the results were less than satisfying. I also have anxiety and some minor depression which makes everything 10x worse. However, I'm blessed enough to have a loving and understanding boyfriend who prefers my body type and makes me feel beautiful. My friend is tall, thin, and pretty. She's always been loved by just about everyone she meets, while I've always been shy and quiet and generally forgotten about (seriously, if you asked anyone in my high school, no one knew who I was and everyone knew her). She's perfect model material, so much that she was scouted (during a shift at McDonald's, no less! I hate how the uniform makes me look, but she's model material even at work). Ever since she got scouted, I've felt worse about myself. I always knew I wasn't as pretty as her, but now it was confirmed. I'm the ugly friend. I've since been... avoiding her. I feel horrible about it, but I can't bear to look at her. The fact that she had this opportunity handed to her on a silver platter because she won the genetic lottery makes me incredibly angry and jealous and sad. The fact that I'll never be beautiful and recognized as such makes me feel worse. The fact that I'm being so petty over this... you get the picture. I don't know what to do about any of it. I can't bring myself to talk to her about it. I'd love any sort of advice. TL;DR: . Assistant:	my friend is a model and I'm jealous. It's brought down my self-esteem and made me want to avoid her.	my friend is a model and I'm jealous. It's brought down my self-esteem and made me want to avoid her.	451
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my ex boyfriend [26 M] 7 months, I broke up with him and am now regretting it POST: I dated a wonderful man last year for about 7 months. I broke up with him, I am now realizing, because of a previous relationship. This isn't so much about that, I'm working on that aspect of myself. I'm just in so much pain right now because of my regret. I broke up with him about August last year, and we remained friends after that even though I could tell he was not over me. We talked a couple of times about why we broke up, and when I realized that I broke up with him because of a past relationship, and how, without that past relationship I would still be with him, it killed me. It broke my heart. He is now dating someone else. I know he is still getting over me. I talked to him about my feelings yesterday and he essentially told me he was trying to move on and I should too. I just don't want to. I could spend the rest of my life with this man and be so happy, the regret I'm feeling is overwhelming. I can't even constructively, objectively use it to see what issues I have myself to work on, it hurts so much. Especially because I did it to myself, this was a mistake I made. How do you get over regret like this? What kind of steps can I take to alleviate this pain? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Broke up with a man, regretting it immensely. Can't figure out how to get over that regret and hurt.	Broke up with a man, regretting it immensely. Can't figure out how to get over that regret and hurt.	4,615
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Discussion] Should I get a dog if I live on my own? POST: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have. Next year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy. One thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. Anyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on. What are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? Another important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA). Anyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy TL;DR: . Assistant:	Want to get a dog but live on my own. Is it fair on the dog or what tips could single dog owners give?	Want to get a dog but live on my own. Is it fair on the dog or what tips could single dog owners give?	4,297
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Reddit, I need your help... I almost walked in on my live-in GF cheating... POST: Throw away account here. Im going to make as short as I can because I am too broken up to even sit at my computer right now, Its been a real rough night. So last night me and and my gf of 3 years who I live with decided to do our own thing. I was supposed to crash at a close friend of mines place for the night but decided against it last minute. I had tried texting and calling my gf during the course of the night to no avail. I wasn't very happy about this but just figured she was drunk with her girlfriends and that I would just catch her at the house. Well when I got home I walked up to my front door to see my girlfriend walking in the house with some dude I have never seen before. He splits when he sees me and me and my girlfriend fight all night over it. She can barely stand up or talk because she is so wasted and eventually passes out. So, I don't know what to do. Should I take her back? How do I handle this? We have been living together for 2 years and together for 3. Most of my life revolves around the relationship and Ive honestly always thought that I couldn't find a girl who would do as much as she does for me. She makes more money and pays most of the bills and yet doesn't look down on me for it. She has always been extremely supportive of me though everything and I feel like she loves me for me. I have severe anxiety and she has been there to hold my hand in the hospital through many panic attacks. Im closer to her than any person on the planet. This morning she woke up and is destroyed by what happened and is begging me to take her back. She says she was getting a ride home and was going to pass out but who knows. I don't know what to do but the trust is broken. So guys, if there is anyone I can rely on for advice it is you... Please help. TL;DR: . Assistant:	caught my gf of 3 years who i live with bringing a guy home to our place when i was supposed to stay out. help.	caught my gf of 3 years who i live with bringing a guy home to our place when i was supposed to stay out. help.	1,258
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17F] with my boyfriend [17M] are starting to have a really weird relationship, help POST: I'm in a really messed up situation right now. My boyfriend and I had been in a relationship for year and a half. Then he broke up with me because we've had many fights and he just couldn't take it. The next day after the break up I begged him to take me back. He was my first boyfriend and he treated me so well and I was afraid I'm not going to find anyone else who cares about me that much. Well.. he took me back quite easily but we made up new rules for the relationship because he said he was so anxious and wanted more freedom. I was okay with that. But then at one point I got a feeling he liked being single even though it was just one day. I asked him does he want his freedom to include fcking other girls or something. He said he is interested to experience another girl in that way. (I was his first and he was mine, we haven't been with anyone else). We discussed about that topic for a while and I was so afraid of losing him I said that he can be almost single and hang out with girls more as long as i'm the one he comes to at the end of the day. I was so scared of losing him again and at that point it felt like I have to do anything to get him back. Few weeks after that I said i'm down for ffm experience and he was excited. Then I asked him does he want my permission to fck another girl without me, he said "yeah xd….". I got him back and everything's been fine but now that I have him I'm really anxious about that he wants to experience another girl without me like that… What should I do, I don't know how I feel about this. I want to be with him and I really don't want to break up again, I feel like he's The One. We have such a good time when we're together. And he treats me so well.. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend broke up with me, took me back, now want's to f*ck another girl for experience, what should i do i don't want to lose him	Boyfriend broke up with me, took me back, now want's to f*ck another girl for experience, what should i do i don't want to lose him	2,790