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They matched on Tinder. She had a photo of her posing with a snowboard. He used this to send the opening message. | Do you actually know how to snowboard, or did you just want the Tinder photo? | Girls will often feel compelled to respond if you challenge them. This is what he is doing here. |
Her: I know very well, probably better than you 😘
| I challenge you to a snowboard race. If you’re brave enough, that it… | This message doubles down on the challenge. We can tell from her previous response that she responds well to being challenged. |
Her: Hahaha
Her: How
Her: I just came back from Andorra haha
Her: And from Dubai where i went for ski dubai to try it hahaha
| So you are all warmed up for the challenge already? | |
Her: yes but i still cant imagine this hahaha
Her: Do you have a slope in your home? 🤣
| Yes of course! We have a slope in (student’s apartment building) | |
Her: Baby even (student’s apartment building) doesnt have a slope. Thats why living in Warsaw is not perfect 🤣
Her: I just came here 5 days ago after 2 years in Barcelona
| I just had one installed! It slides right into my bedroom! | |
Her: I dont believe you 🤓
Her: Must see 🤣
| I’m going to show you. If you’re feeling very brave, let’s add a bet to the challenge… | |
Her: Im not feeling brave. I am brave but its more about feeling curious haha
Her: Oki, what bet? 😁
| If you win the race, I give you the best experience of your life. If you lose, you have to give me a strong back massage. Deal? | |
Her: If i win the race on the slope which slides into your bed, yea? 🤣
Her: This deal is starting to get interesting hahah
| I’m going to make you an even better deal | |
Her: Go ahead
| If you win, I’ll throw in 20-30 orgasms as a bonus. I’m feeling very nice today! | |
Her: hahaha it takes a long time
Her: Are you ready?
| It won’t take that long, maybe 1-2 hours. I was born ready. The real question is, do you think your body is ready for that many orgasms? | |
Her: No i think thats impossible for sure haha
| Oh it’s definitely possible. What’s the most you’ve ever had with a guy before? | The purpose of this message is to get her to open up and invest in the conversation more. |
Her: Not too many 😅 the most important is way to get it
Her: Better when it takes longer
Her: but of course it depends on the woman
Her: I think so
| So you prefer to have very strong & intense orgasms? | |
Her: Obviously!
| Imagine having 20 of them… you’re going to be absolutely addicted and hooked | |
Her: I need to experience it to believe it 😅
Her: Why do you think you are so strong in it?
| I know so from experience. | |
Her: usually girls pretend
Her: I dont know why
Her: but ive heard
| it's easy to tell a real orgasm from a fake one. Some things cannot be faked - such as some of the contractions, the heavy muscle convulsions. But I also always make sure to create a dynamic where we’re completely open and the girl would never feel the need to lie or fake anything. | |
Her: sounds good
Her: But im still curious why you are so focused on that
| I love giving them! It’s my passion! 👅 | |
Her: nice passion hahaha
| What about you? What are you passionate about in bed? | |
Her: haha i can show you
Her: You gonna love it 🤭
| When are you going to show me? | |
Her: When do you want?
Her: Today could be a good day 🤭
| Today may be the most perfect day actually… | |
Her: When and where🤭
| (His building) 8pm. | |
Her: We are all set
| Perfect, message me when you’re on your way | |
Her: Oki
Her: Im on way
| See you soon! | |
Her: But i will be late a little cause i need to park somewhere
Her: I hope that we are going to drink something hahah
| Yes there’s wine! | |
Her: Arrived
Her: Im in the car in front of entrance haha
| Did you park? | |
They matched on Tinder. The girl is hiding her face with her phone in the first two photos in her profile so he uses that to open her with. | You have such a beautiful smile in your first 2 photos | |
Her: Okay, thanks I guess.. But I’m not smiling in any of this photos hahah
Her: And actually.. This 2 first photos aren’t these ones where I’m hiding behind my phone? 🙈 😂
Her: But I have to tell you that you have such a nice tattoo 😅 There are many things that can be said in response to these messages. The first two messages offer little to escalate with so it would be better to open a dialogue about the tattoos.
| You’ll never guess why I got it | This is a baiting message that compels her to ask for more. |
Her: Probably I won’t, so tell me why you got it
| It’s a bit explicit. You’re not some kind of good girl, are you? | This encourages a sexual frame by framing being a ‘good girl’ as a bad thing. |
Her: I don’t know, I would say I’m something between I guess hah
Her: Sometimes I’m good, sometimes i’m not haha
Her: But you can tell, cause I’m so curious about it now hah
| As a Dominant, I can always identify a submissive girl | |
Her: Well, you right I am submissive
| i know… exactly my type | |
Her: That’s good
Her: Finally I’m in somebody’s type
Her: Hahah
| I know what you like | |
Her: Oh really?
| You love a guy that leads, who can take control in the bedroom | |
Her: Sure, but only in the bedroom
| I know it can be very hard for you to find a guy that satisfies those needs | |
Her: Yeah, unfortunately it’s so true
| Yes I totally understand. For me, there’s nothing hotter than bending a girl over and spanking her with my paddle | |
Her: Oh yes, I love when someone does this and then pulls my hair or grabs my neck so that I can barely breathe
| I can imagine my hands around your neck, and sliding my hard dick in you while you gasp for air | |
Her: Oh god, don’t say anything cause it makes me feel like I need a guy right now
| If you were here right now I’d absolutely ruin you | This is a very sexual way to soft close. |
Her: I’d like that idea
Her: I really need somebody to fuck me hard
| Do you work the next 2 days? | |
Her: Unfortunately I do
| Call in sick | |
Her: I can’t, I just got this job and that will be my first days
| There’s nothing more I’d like to do than tie you up and fuck you hard all night | |
Her: I’d really like that to
Her: Can’t imagine anything better right now
| Where’s your nearest bus station? | |
Her: Pretty far, but I’m getting this new job in Warsaw and I’m coming tomorrow or actually its today already
Her: So maybe some day we could get some wine or drinks and then go to your place or somewhere
| I’ve got great wine at my place. Just let me know what time you’re free | |
Her: Actually I don’t know when I’ll be free, it depends on my work, but I’ll find out everything at Friday
Her: But I think even at Friday, after work I should find some time
| That’s actually perfect for me. Do you have WhatsApp? | |
Her: I dont
Her: I have only ig or snapchat
| What’s your IG? | |
Student: I’m curious about something
Her: What are you curious about 😅
Student: But first I need to ask if you’re open minded
Her: Very
Student: Do men realize that you’re quite submissive to the right kind of dominant man? This is a general cold read that could apply to many women.
Her: So you are the right kind of dominant man?
| yes. | would have been more effective. |
Her: I think my type is dominant men for sure
Student: I’m very passionate and aggressive when it counts. I can tell you’d love having your hair pulled, choked, bent over randomly and being spanked
Her: This is normal sex to me haha This message is a good indicator that he can go harder with the sexualisation.
Student: Good. Now I know you can handle handcuffs, bed restraints, toys, multiple screaming oral orgasms and squirting This message doubles down on the sexting.
Her: Yes 100%, do you have a safe word?
Her: Okay the best sex I have ever had is when a guy made me squirt soooo heck yeah
Student: It’s ‘peaches’. Gotta honor the state somehow. This keeps the conversation light and playful by adding some humor.
Student: Perfect. I’ll be sure to make you squirt 4-6 times on our intense date then
Her: Shit so real question, how do you become a sexologist
| It’s a long story. I’ll tell you over a bottle of wine | . |
They matched on a dating app. They have exchanged numbers. The have organized to meet. | Let’s meet at 10:30. (Student’s address). Just message me when you’re on your way! | |
Her: Okay, do you live alone or with your friends?
| I live with my business partner, but he’s out meeting clients tonight! | |
Her: And you don’t have to?
| Tonight is my night off! I’ve been working very hard! | |
Her: Haha Okay I believe
Her: You know what, I don’t think this is a good idea, I’ve never dated a stranger that I’ve never seen to bed 😅
| We won’t be strangers… we’re going to sit down and get to know each other first! You’re going to feel like you’ve known me forever! If you want to leave, I’m going to order you an Uber and give you a hug goodbye! But that’s very, very unlikely… | This message is designed to make her feel more comfortable by assuring her that she is entering into a pressureless situation which she can leave at any time. It also reassures her that he will be as fun, interesting and attractive in person as he has been over text. |
Her: Haha you are smart
| See you at 10:30! | |
They matched on hinge. The girl liked one of his prompts. The prompt was: I’m weirdly attracted to accents, intelligence, tatts, and a nice 🍑. He sent the first message based on this prompt. | Which one do you have.. | This message makes her qualify. |
Her: Tattoos and I’ve been told I have a nice ass
| Do you have a nice ass? | This message makes her further qualify. |
Her: Yes I suppose
| Good.So what fun things have you been up to? | This message rewards her compliance so far. |
Her: Hmm gaming and work 😂 playing with my dogs
| I try to stay busy with working out, cooking, gaming, and working on my online business | This message baits her into asking about his business. |
Her: What’s your business
| It’s a little controversial… | This message makes her chase for the answer. |
Her: well let me decide that for myself
| I essentially teach men how to have better dating and sex lives | This message DHV’s him and gives him sexual authority. |
Her: Really? Like doesn’t bother me I just wanna make sure you’re serious
| I’m very serious, it’s a passion of mine | |
Her: So are you good at it though like you yourself?
| Which part? | This message forces her to verbalize what she is asking about. If she explicitly asks for it, it will come across more natural and less braggy than if her just came out and said it. |
Her: Well I guess the sex? And if you’re teaching others about how to have better dating lives why are you on here?
| Well, if you can handle 10-15 oral orgasms then yesAnd I’m on here to meet women worth my time. I’m done with the hot casual hookups. I value chemistry before I decide to see someone again. | The fact that he wants to meet women worth his time implies high standards. Saying he is done with hot casual hookups implies preselection. Saying that he values chemistry handles an objection she may have before she vocalizes it. |
Her: I think that’s the first time I’ve heard that reason. It’s hard finding guys worth my actual time and feelings. I don’t keep my hopes up but keep my expectations low. Been disappointed many times.
Her: And I’ve rarely had guys give me one let alone 10
| That’s a shame, looks like you haven’t had a guy that can give you a good time | |
Her: I haven’t had a guy that is decent enough to be called a man.
| I’m very curious about something.. | This message is a compliance test. It gives curiosity as the justification for escalating sexually. |
Her: Okay.. shoot
| Do you like being choked and eaten out? | |
Her: I haven’t been choked much.. But being dominated kinda turns me on like the thought of it. Never really explored that side of sex. And yes if a guy is good at eating out
| Then I know exactly what I’d do to you.. | This message baits her into asking what he’d do. There is an increased probability of compliance if she asks about it. |
Her: Oh yeah? What’s that?
| First I’d pin you to the wall and start kissing your neck while slowly sliding my hand down your body and over your chest, as I bite and whisper in your ear how I’m about to fuck the shit out of you, I start teasing your pussy with my fingers.. | This message conveys dominance, focuses on her pleasure and is a gradual build up where she’s always asking for him to continue and chases it. |
Her: 😏
Her: Yeah? Then what?
| Then I slowly slide my fingers over your clit and on the outside of your pussy until I put them inside of you and finger you until you start dripping, then I grab you by your thighs and lift you up as we keep kissing and throw you on the bed… | |
Her: Chemistry huh? Lol I like it keep going
| I’ll whisper into your ear that I want to get you dripping right onto the floor and tease the fuck out of you until you beg me to fuck you as I am running my hands under your shirt and taking it oof slowly as I push my body against yours. Your skin will be turning red, your breaths will be heavier, your body is going to be getting hotter as I grab the back of your neck and grab your hair while I bend you over the edge of the bed. I will hear that you’re gonna start gasping and letting them little moans coming out of you as you feel my hands against your skin as I run it down your spine on my fingertips. I will spank your ass so bad that even with your pants on you will have my handprints underneath. Your panties will be getting soaking wet and you will be driven crazy | |
Her: Damn… imma be feeling a type of way tonight
| Too bad I’m not there to lick you clean 😏 | This is a kind of sexual soft close. |
Her: 😏 😉
| I’m hard just thinking about it | |
Her: Now if you’re as good as you claim. But idk you saying you’re not looking for hookups then why go through all that?
| I’m not opposed to hookups, just has to be with the right person | |
Her: Ah
| 😏 | |
Her: I’m not saying I’m looking for a hookup. I was just wondering you said you valued chemistry before deciding to see someone
| Before seeing someone againBut yeahDon’t get me wrong, I love sex.. | |
Her: But? Seems like there’s a but coming
| But I especially love giving oral orgasms | |
Her: Oh so talented with your tongue?
| One could say :) | |
Her: Hmm I guess that makes two of us
| Yeah? You like eating pussy too? | |
Her: 😂 no
Her: I mean I wouldn’t say I enjoy sucking dick but I’m good at it
| I’d like to see how good | |
Her: 🤷♀️
| What do you like? | |
Her: Hmm what do I like to do or what do I like done?
| Both. As in what are your kinks/ what turns you on? | |
Her: Like I said I haven’t explored many kinks at all. Most guys just do their own thing. But I like being bitten softly. Again some domination though haven’t explored that a lot. Hmm my favorite position is probably doggy. But haven’t done a lot of those either
| Doggy is my favorite positionI’d softly bite your neck to tease you | |
Her: Boy you know how to talk it up don’t you
Student: 🤷🏻♂️
Her: Lol
| What are you up to right now? | |
Her: Getting food
Her: And you?
| Just ate an edibleAnd eating food | |
Her: Oh dang how’s that and what did you eat??
| Thai food. Amazing. | |
Her: Ooo yum! I love Asian food!
| Oh yeah? | |
Her: Yeah also do you have snap?
| NopeText me (student’s phone number) |