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Her: Hey how are you doing?
Amazing! How are you?
Her: I’m very well thank you Her: What are you up to today?
Just finishing up writing an article. Yourself?
This message leaves room for her to get curious and ask about the article. If she asks about the article, he can tell her about it, maybe even brag about it, and it doesn’t seem as try herd as if he had just told her all about the article straight away.
Her: I’m doing a course online so did that for a bit and just chilling otherwise Her: What kind of articles do you write?
What course? Its generally around how men can improve themselves and understand women on a deeper level. The one I’m writing about now is dirty talk to improve pleasure in the bedroom
This topic is something that will get her a little excited or turned on.
Her: I’m doing a course in data science. I wanna learn analytics and programming so it’s a foundation course Her: Alright okay well that’s interesting Her: Do you publish them somewhere?
That makes sense, I think that would suit youYeah it’s online we have a premium membership group that pay monthly and we provide content on there
This is challenging because it is unlikely that a hot blonde girl looks like they suit analytics. This message tells her that he has some level of authority on the subject of his articles as there are people who are willing to pay for his service.
Her: Alright that’s cool Her: So what else do you do with your time than write? When a girl asks you questions like ‘how's your day?’, ‘what are your hobbies?’ etc it is a great opportunity to show off your personality.
Well I was traveling the world doing workshops and seminars. Since covid I’ve been spending a lot of time with family, and now that the beaches are open doing some divingSo you have hobbies?
Her: Well I used to go to the gym but now I just mainly go for walks and explore random areas Her: Just trying to think of more things to do I guess given the situation
Explore? Where abouts do you live?
The purpose of this message is to figure out logistics.
Her: I live near (location) Her: I found a cool nature reserve the other day I didn’t even know was here hahaha Her: Where abouts are you?
(Location) How far is that from you?
The reason he asks how far his address is from her is because he wants the girl to look it up as this suggests a good level of investment from her. It also adds to her level of comfort as, when you invite her over later in the interaction, she has already typed your address into her phone and knows where you live so it reduces the likelihood that she will flake.
Her: According to google maps 20min by car Her: Not too bad
PerfectHey, can I be honest with you?
Her: Yeah of course Her: What’s up?
I’m a little cautious about this covid situation. Have you been distancing or living as normal?
This message flips the frame and he preemptively brings up a potential objection she would have. This provided comfort for the girl that you have similar concerns. It also calls for her to qualify herself.
Her: I’ve been home the whole time cause I lost my job so haven’t really had a reason to leave the house besides going for walks Her: How about you?
Ah that makes me feel a lot more comfortable. I have been working from home. I wanted to check first. It’s a bit hard to give a socially distant body massage, you know
This message seeds the date in the flow of conversation. It seems natural.
Her: Hahaha that’s fair enough
Are you allergic to coconut oil?
Her: Nope Her: What exactly are you planning? 😂
It’s what I use for my world famous massages! 😏
This message seeds the date in a man-to-woman frame. He seems confident and sure of himself.
Her: Hahah Alright alright Her: And when shall I be expecting to experience it?
I’m busy with work this weekend, but I can make some time for us early next week. Does that work for you?
Her: Yeah that works fine, can’t think of anything at the moment at least that I have to do
Perfect! Do you use WhatsApp?
Her: Yep Her: What’s your number?
(his phone number) shoot me a text
Her: Hey (student’s name), it’s (her name)
This is the girl from tinder with the cute submissive smile right? 😏
The aim of this message is to continue the vibe that started on tinder.
Her: Very likely
Good! Btw is that your dog??
Her: No I wish 😩 Her: It’s just a random dog that came to chill with me in the philippines hahah
Ah :/ I love dogs!He looks so adorable. Did you travel through Asia?
Her: I love dogs, we have one at home but I wish I had him here Her: Do you have any? Her: And yes I backpacked through a few countries a few years back
Do you live by yourself? My parents and sister have a dog, but I travel too often to have a pet
Her: I have two roommates, we share a flat
Oh where are you from?
Her: Finland Her: You ever been?
Don’t tell me your Finnish 😏I’ve never been actually. But my ex and my business are Swedish, so I spent a lot of time there
Her: Everyone always goes to Sweden I don't understand it 😂 Her: But that’s cool at least you’ve been to Scandinavia
Have you spent much time in Sweden?
Her: I’ve been in and around Stockholm many times but not really further than that Her: How about you?
Spent most of my time in Stockholm. Although my friend is from the north so also visited his home townSo what are you doing in Australia?
Her: I’m finishing my bachelors here
but, why did you choose Australia?
Her: It’s a part of the course I’m doing to spend the last two years in Australia. Living in Sydney right now but haven’t had the chance to experience it properly yet.
Living i the best city in the world and you don’t even know it yet smh
Her: Well I guess I just need to be convinced 😉 Student: I think I know just the thing.. Her: Alright it better be good
As long as you can handle it 😈
Her: Well I guess we need to find out
Yes, very soon 😏Hey trouble!
Her: Good morning Her: How are you?
Her: I’m feeling good not too shabby Her: What are you up to today?
A little bit of work but then I’m free
Her: We’re hosting a games night at my place so prepping for that. How about you?
What game? I don’t have anything planned as of yet
Her: Just a bunch of games like uno and cards and stuff like that and then snacks and drinks Her: Nothing too extravagant
Sounds fun! Well I’’ have to invite you over for that booty massage another night then
Her: Hahaha sure sounds good! Her: Do you wanna go for a walk or something before?
A walk?
Her: yeah, or anything just to hang out for a bit, get more familiar first
Oh of course. Do you like wine?
Her: Yes I do
Perfect! Let’s split a bottle of wine and hangout sometime this week
Her: Alright sounds good!
Friday is the earliest I can be free
Her: That works for me
Great, well have fun tonight and chat soon
Her: Thanks!
I’ve picked up the wine for tomorrow!
Her: Sounds great! Her: What time are you free?
I’ll be free after seven. You didn’t drive right? Do you need me to pick you up?
Her: It depends on where we’re going. I can take the train/bus
Can you get to (location) station?
Her: Yes I can! It’ll take me a while so I’ll just need to know when to get there but should be fine!
Does 7:30 work for you?
Her: yep that’s good
Perfect! I’ll pick you up from there
They match on Tinder. Her bio says: ‘ 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 living in Sydney. Not on here for hook up! I like to cuddle but also like a party 😜 I won’t message first because I think that’s your job 🤷‍♀️’. She didn’t super like him but that is his opener to get a reaction out of her.
Thanks for the super like!
Her: Haha no worries Her: I was very intrigued so didn’t want you to skip past me 😜
Hmm what intrigued you the most?
This message gives her the opportunity to verbalize what she likes about him and qualify him.
Her: I’ve never met a traveling sex writer before and I wondered what that entails 🤔 Her: You’re also tall and dominant which i love
I usually travel the world city to city running workshops coaching men with topic on sex, dominance foreplay, understanding women etc etc.
Her: Wow thats very impressive 😯 Her: So as a sex/dating coach what’s your take on tinder?
I’ve met some amazing girls from here, I tend to be a good judge of character though. I know a lot of people find it frustrating. Personally I like meeting people in person
This message is very easy for the girl to agree to.
Her: For sure, in person is always better Her: You’re really close, you live in (location) too?
(Location) How close is that to you?
Her: 8 min drive
So close! Are you feeling spontaneous?
Her: Lol what do you have in mind?
Glass of wine, and my famous booty massage if there’s chemistry
Her: I do love a massage 😝
Perfect, I do give amazing massages!
Her: Do you have white wine at your place? I hate red. If not I’ll see if I can grab a bottle
I only have red, that would be great
Her: I could leave in around 15/20 minutes Her: Are you up early tomorrow?
What time do you think you could be here?No, I just have plans at midday, feel free to leave whenever you want
Her: Lol just checking you don’t need to be in bed in an hour
No bed time hereI’m jumping in the shower now, just let me know when you’re close and I’ll come down and let you in
Her: Yeah I’ll message you when im leaving Her: Leaving now
Perfect
Her: 2 mins away
No problem, I’ll be out the front
The student met the girl in the club. The conversation was made sexual in person. He opens her with a callback to the sexual conversation from their in-person interaction. His first message was sent on the night they met at 3:34am.
Hey is this the girl who loves blindfolds & handcuffs?
Her: Yas its me
Where are you right now?
Her: Im in home Her: Do you have any plans on Monday or are you free?
My plan for Monday is to use my blindfold on you!You’re going to absolutely love every moment of it…
Her: Trust you
How’s 9pm for you?
Her: Yeah
Perfect. I’ll message you the exact address later tonight ;)
Her: Okey Her: I hope you don’t turn out to be a serial killer ahah
Hey you’re the one that could steal all my stuff 🤣 but we have security & cameras in this big building so you’re lucky lol
Her: Ahahahah
How close are you to (student’s address)?
Her: 5 minutes but I will be a little late
That’s okay! Let’s meet around 9:30 then!
The met at the club.The interaction goes well and he messages her on WhatsApp the next day at 13:14. She is wearing a collar in her WhatsApp photo so he uses that to open her.
You should’ve worn that collar last night!
Her: Ohh you’re right! I even thought about wearing it but forgot about it when I was leaving my house in a rush haha Her: I’ll wear it or something similar when we meet next time ;)
Good girl.
Her: Aww 🥹 you’re so nice..
As long as you behave yourself.
Her: Do you mean that as long as I’m myself you’ll be nice? Her: Asking cause I don’t know if I understood you correctly
Likely not. I’ll always find ways to punish you…
Her: Oh my god 😯 I think I can’t wait for you to do so..
And I can’t wait to see how I’m going to punish you and when…
Her: I don’t know when yet, but I think we should meet up before you punish me so you can at least have a reason 🤪
That’s a great idea! What’s your schedule like next week?
Her: I have holidays now so I don’t have much planned, I only have to go to work on Tuesday for an hour cause I have training and then after 2PM I’m free. And on Wednesday I have a house party Her: So choose a day and I’ll tell you if I can meet
Monday would actually work really well for me!
Her: Great 😇 what time and place would you like?
We’ll meet at (location) @ 4pm. And bring the collar.
Her: Unfortunately I don’t have it with me, I’m sorry.. 😔 Her: I hope you still want to see me without it haha
It’s okay. Maybe I’ll get you one with my name on one day ;)
Her: Hahaha okay ;p
If you can meet at 6 instead, I’ll have something special for you…
Her: Yeah, of course I can. And I can’t wait to see what’s the surprise! 😍 oh and also I wanted to tell you that I might not look as pretty today as in the club.. I’ve got different clothes on and less makeup
You’re absolutely going to love it. And wear what you want. I just want you as you are.
Her: Aww thank you 🥺
I’m hopping in the shower. Let me know when you’re on your way. Meet me at (location).
Her: I’m already on my way, most likely I’ll be there at 6:10
Send live location
Her: What do you need it for?
I mean if you’re close or can’t find you
Her: Now I’m in (Location) so I’m quite far away 🤪 don’t worry, I’ll find my way, I have Google maps 😛
Perfect!
Her: Okay I’m here
Did you get home safe babygirl?
Her: I’m already in bed
Good! Now I can relax!
They met during day game. They are organizing the date but she is trying to reschedule on him.
What’s your schedule like?
Her: I’m free after 9, or saturday after 8
I’m busy tonight. I think I can make time for us tomorrow or Friday night around 9:30.
Her: I’m busy tomorrow. Friday sounds good to me
Friday it is. Be ready by 10
Her: Wait I’m done work at 9 Her: Actually I can be ready for 10 I think Her: Daddy I just realized I have work at 8am on Saturday. Can we reschedule?
Yes. But if you reschedule again I’ll have to punish you..
Her: Are you still near? Thank you for paying for my breakfast
No problem! I’m back at my penthouse. 3 mins away
Her: So, write me in the evening if you’re free and I’ll see you
Perfect! I’ll message you thenHow’s 8pm?
Her: Its ok!
Perfect, I’ll send you the address later ;)
Her: Are you free at 7pm? Cause I have a dinner later…
That actually works even better for me!
Her: Ok or 6:30 haha its up to you
Fine I’ll do 6:30 but I want a striptease the moment you walk in…
Her: Hahahahaha ill try
Good girl!
Her: I know i change two times the time haha but im late, so at 7? And im near
How close are you to (student’s address)?If you change one more time, I’m going to punish you…
Her: 😏 Her: See you at seven, anyway ill write you when im near
I’ll grab you from security gate when you’re here
Her: Im coming Her: Im here
Coming
They matched on Tinder. She was giving submissive signals using body language in her profile. He messaged her first.
You’re such a good girl.
This message conveys sexual dominance.
Her: Not sure about it
You will be after I’m done with you.
This message doubles down on the sexual dominance.
Her: Sounds convincing 😈 Her: so tell me what you would like to do with me?
First, I’m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I’m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.
This message conveys that he is sexually dominant and knows what he is doing in the bedroom. It is important to wait for her to give you the green light before going this sexual over message, otherwise you risk coming off as creepy.
Her: oh fuck im wet already hahaha
After I’ve slid my hard cock down your throat and made you gag on it, I’m going to throw you on the bed, flip you over with your ass up and slide my hard cock in you from behind
This message escalates the sexting because she has given the green light to double down in her last message.
Her: mmm. Yes please!
Bring your ass over here.
Her: i wish, but i am busy till saturday, cause my friend is staying with me Her: and maybe if they dont want to go to the party tomorrow. Can be tomorrow evening.
Tomorrow evening could actually work for me! Do you have WhatsApp?
Her: yes i do Her: (her phone number)
Good girl
Her: i will be Her: So if they don’t want to go to the party I will be free tomorrow from 10pm Her: we are going to the party but I am free tomorrow evening
Perfect. Let’s do tomorrow evening