I know what&#x27;s up. That why I made the comment. It&#x27;s more about what is said than the actual content of the statement itself.<p>If I did the above, and someone made a stink, I&#x27;d hit &#x27;em with &quot;Are you <i>denying</i> my <i>lived</i> experience?&quot; and then reaffirm the validity of my self identity (which is what matters) over what I actually am to observers (which is immaterial and doesn&#x27;t matter).