I&#x27;m in my thirties and felt as you did until I found the right social hobby (swing dancing).  Now, my biggest social concern is balancing:<p>1. Being kind and open to new people I meet.
2. Dedicating enough time to the people I know.
3. Dedicating enough time to myself.<p>I write this as an American living in Thailand for the last five months.  I&#x27;m unfamiliar with Thai and many other Asian languages, yet in those months I&#x27;ve made friends with people from a half dozen countries in Asia and a couple in Europe. I would happily meet up with many for a meal.  For some, I would even consider hosting them or asking to crash on their couches.<p>This is less of an advertisement for swing dancing or dancing in general, and more an advertisement for exploring different subcultures. I explored many before finding this particular one.