&gt;  I find your comment irrelevant<p>this is a plausible finding<p>&gt; and bordering an insult.<p>An <i>insult?</i> Is something in your sense of self or your psyche built around <i>the proposition that sexual self-control is substantially impossible anywhere in the human population</i>, such that any assertion contradicting it is <i>insulting</i>? Because that doesn&#x27;t seem a very healthy way to relate to an idea. In fact, I&#x27;d say that if you are unable to entertain an opinion contrary to your own, that&#x27;s the literal definition of bigotry, whether the opinion is valid or otherwise, and it is difficult or impossible to conduct rational discourse amidst such closed-mindedness.