I have about twenty friends that I regularly do things with. But only 3 of us organize 90% of our activities. A new person is a burden on that core group. We try, but some folks make it hard to bring them in. If they don&#x27;t rsvp, or use nonstandard communication methods it makes it hard. They don&#x27;t have to reach out, but they have to respond or after a while we quit trying.