Now that my 2 years old son is officially diagnosed in the spectrum, I wonder if I have a toe in autism as well.<p>I have to spend a lot of mental energy to get all the social clues and body language and all the things that seems natural to most people. No matter how much effort I put on social interactions people see me as arrogant or pedantic or a plain jerk.<p>My son is my best friend, and the way he thinks make more sense for me than the rest of mankind.