<p><pre><code>   &quot;Well then that depends on the relationship that you have as well as who you are married to, doesn&#x27;t it? &quot;
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Absolutely true.  But it doesn&#x27;t make other peoples choices in this wrong or inferior.<p>I don&#x27;t need to ask either, but I find the idea that someone would be considered &quot;pussy whipped&quot; if they have a different arrangement to be, well, moronic.