The sites I never visit (ahem) and discussions with people younger than myself seem to indicate that &quot;inappropriate use&quot; is no longer a taboo or an exception for heterosexual couples, but the rule (or at the very least tried once). This makes the stance of it being &quot;unnatural&quot; extra hypocritical.<p>PS Don&#x27;t even get me started about saddlebacking &#x27;virgins&#x27;.