&gt; So I read that your employees actually do have family (which makes the thing about staying late worse)<p>I think you&#x27;re being overly negative.<p>Nobody is forcing anyone to go to these things. If you have other stuff to do, fine. If, like some people, you actually enjoy it, you can go. Maybe you even have an understanding husband&#x2F;wife who understands that once in a while you might be out as late as 11:45pm