All dating sites are moderated, to some degree. At least the mainstream ones. I can&#x27;t think of one where you start by posting your home phone and address and full name.<p>You start by sending messages, establish a relationship. Then you elevate it to messaging&#x2F;calling via other platforms or real world meetings at your own pace.<p>It&#x27;s not for concealing that you&#x27;re a dick (well, it could be), it&#x27;s more for protecting you from who knows how many people with who knows what intentions. It&#x27;s not a guarantee, but it&#x27;s a filter that works fairly well.