You seem to think that I am against people being candid, but I'm not. Don't assume that everyone secretly thinks what you think but is afraid to say so. I'm perfectly candid, I just don't share your views.<p>&#62;Snark aside, the great thing about being human is that you get to set your own standards<p>And the great thing about writing about your standards on a public forum is that you get to hear other people's opinions on them, right?<p>&#62;We could compare and contrast, if you like, how your politically correct pseudo-chivalry is working vs. my slightly more gritty candidness.<p>Actually I'm gay, so I'm afraid we can't compare our vaginal insemination success rates. But maybe we can lock horns? Or compare penis size? FWIW I do ok with other guys (and I   generally allow them to dress themselves).<p>But if you just want to boast about your love/sex life, please don't feel that you need my cooperation. This is an open forum, after all.