how about supportingstartups.com if you want it to be about people supporting someone in a startup.<p>If you want it to be a discussion site for women, I think you need to change the name.  I'm sure they're taken but something like girltalk or womensnews or something like that woudl work.<p>And, on the 'wives' issue : in sporting teams they call them 'WAGS' for "wives and girlfriends" - covers both bases.