Going meta on the logic of the argument, you've made a quantification error.<p>The parent post said "Men need to be arrogant self-aggrandizing jerks to get women's attention" and you responded "it's definitely possible to find a mate without [being arrogant]".<p>The fact that there are exceptions does not argue against the generalization; if you want to attack his point you need to attack it <i>in general</i>.