I'll be 50 this year. My experiences match the guy you're trying to call "very young."<p>&#62; <i>When you get a little older and thoughts turn to finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, that sort of behavior just seems idiotic.</i><p>True, but then my office is full of people who've been divorced more than 3 times, and each spouse isn't significantly different from the preceeding one (or at least what the co-workers complain about). I don't think that most people are that logical when looking for a mate.