Look, I'm not some lunatic who's saying that all women are equally attractive, or that partners never influence each other's dress. It's the tone of your post that I object to, but I can see this is lost on you. I doubt it will be lost on women that you date, though.<p>&#62; No. It's ok to have standards.<p>Some standards are ok, some aren't. I'm not objecting to your having standards, just the particular standards that you appear to have.