&#62; Well, you know, just as long as she doesn't have a mind of her own.<p>You read into it too much mate - girlfriends have dressed me to their taste too, encouraging more casual, or more formal, or more scarves, or whatever. It's normal for a romantic partner to encourage and refine their partner's style of dress and aesthetics, and it's usually done willingly by flexible people.<p>Now, if a girl wrote, "I prefer to find a guy who is quality that other women might overlook, I reckon you can always teach a man how to dress better" would you have batted an eyelid? I doubt it.<p>&#62; I mean, would you be comfortable with a girl that you wanted to date reading this post?<p>Yes.<p>&#62; Speculating on her "quality" as if she was a horse.<p>No. It's okay to have standards. This isn't kindergarten where everyone is special.