Does anyone else crave direct, honest, borderline offensive observations about themselves?  People tend to be so darn polite that sometimes I feel like I never actually know what people think of me.  Maybe it's because I was home schooled and for a long time I was socially awkward and didn't realize when I was doing or saying something weird or stupid.  Now as an adult I prefer people to just tell me what they think about what I'm saying or doing.