If you read the edit:<p><i>In order to go see him right now I have to take a 14hr plane flight. Which means I would be staying a week, and I'm not sure I'm quite at that point yet.</i><p>Im guessing that's a fair thing; going to stay with someone for a week is pretty intense if you've only dated briefly.<p>(looks like the age old problem of not wanting to go too fast :))