It doesn&#x27;t hurt <i>my</i> feelings. It does, however, make it harder for most women to participate here. The correct way to handle it is to either find out my gender or speak as if you do not know what it is instead of assuming I am male. If you do not know my gender, it takes very little effort to speak in a way that admits you do not know it:<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com&#x2F;2015&#x2F;04&#x2F;what-fool-believes.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com&#x2F;2015&#x2F;04&#x2F;what-fool-be...</a>