Everytime something like this comes up a portion of men will respond with either &quot;It&#x27;s a public place, people are free to look at and talk to strangers, etc&quot; or &quot;Men are like that, deal with it.&quot; Oh, and also the &quot;It&#x27;s no big deal&quot; rendered in so many ways. Here&#x27;s a mental exercize for all the men who think this way:
You have to go to a conference, and the whole place is filled with big, muscular, thug-looking men. You walk around and you notice they&#x27;re all staring at you. Every now and then when you stop, one or two will approach you, and they will do it with <i>that</i> look in their eye. You know, like you&#x27;re their prison meat. So the huge thug comes up to you and starts some small talk, asks your name, what you do, if you&#x27;re there by yourself, and then, you know, he says you have a nice little ass, and wouldn&#x27;t you want to go there in the back with him. He&#x27;s just talking, you know, didn&#x27;t touch you or anything. Plus, it&#x27;s a public place. You&#x27;re just unconfortable because he is a huge guy, looks like a mma fighter, but, hey, he&#x27;s just talking to you, saying he wants to have sex with you. No big deal, right? You just deal with him and all the others and won&#x27;t make a fuss about this behavior, and I&#x27;m pretty sure you&#x27;ll attend all future conferences with a great mood and won&#x27;t think there&#x27;s anything wrong with all the thugs wanting to have sex with you.
Thugs are like that. No big deal.