That&#x27;s not quite my view. If the &quot;second boyfriend&quot; relationship is one that normally comes with obligations like taking someone in temporarily, then that second boyfriend is more obligated than other parties. If the other guy is just a NSA hookup, then he&#x27;s definitely not obligated - such a relationship establishes no such obligation.<p>(I&#x27;m not very familiar with the &quot;second boyfriend&quot; relationship, having never actually taken on that role.)