&gt; Thus as a girl, you&#x27;re forced to act more masculine to achieve business goals. But it&#x27;s hard to suppress your natural state of being. Additionally girls are still expected to (and want to) act feminine in their personal relationships so women &quot;who want to have it all&quot; have to toggle back and forth between being masculine and feminine. It can be exhausting.<p>It&#x27;s exhausting for men too to switch from exact equals professionally, and then being dominant romantically. Sheryl Sandberg says more women should ask out men, given that equality in romance carries over into the workplace, but that seems pretty low on feminist concerns.