i wanted to take pics and video at a funeral as there was a family member who couldn&#x27;t be there, and was told to stop (by other family).  Same family member who couldn&#x27;t there was, days later, at a funeral of her own (in a different country) and received a DVD of the service.  Very much &#x27;cultural norms&#x27; at play, and it&#x27;ll be many more years before video of funerals is considered &#x27;normal&#x27;.