&quot;we&#x27;re all animals and sex is a thing - it gets the best of many of us and we end up acting like baboons&quot;<p>We&#x27;re primates with a large cerebral cortex.  We can think about morality and altruism, and how not to hurt each other, in spite of what our animal minds might be signaling.<p>Stop making excuses for you or your group&#x27;s inability to exercise self-control.  By hinting that the situation -- making another human <i>uncomfortable</i> -- is somehow natural, you are implicitly condoning the behavior.