They&#x27;re losing trust, control, and piece of mind. Like if a bully comes up to you and pretends to punch you in the face every day: you can&#x27;t just say &quot;oh, I&#x27;m not hitting you&quot; and think what you&#x27;re doing is ok. It forces people to be cynical and defensive, and people don&#x27;t <i>want</i> to be cynical and defensive.