I meant more what mjevans said. Sometimes two people just don&#x27;t have anything in common, and that&#x27;s too bad, but too often blame is placed 100% on the nerdy guy for having the &quot;wrong&quot; interests, when really it&#x27;s nobody&#x27;s fault.<p>Remember a while back when someone wrote an entire awful clickbait article about the horror of discovering that the guy she was on a date with played Magic: The Gathering? Not that he was unpleasantly obsessed with it, not that he couldn&#x27;t talk about anything else, <i>just</i> that he was a frequent player.