Yeah, you kind of have to keep the context in mind when reading about Feynman&#x27;s &quot;pick up artist&quot; stories. Much of it takes place not only in the context of the &quot;hook up scene&quot;, but also in the hook up scene fifty-plus years ago. The guy giving him lessons in how to pick up girls was basically telling him there&#x27;s a certain <i>process</i> to the hook up scene, and part of it involved women taking advantage of men who will allow it. The key bit of advice was to recognize when they were pushing for freebies, and to push right back. It established a relationship of equals, which then had a fairly good chance of resulting in the casual sex both parties were ultimately looking for. From our perspective some of the behavior seems pretty crass, but that&#x27;s because the subtleties of the hook up scene change over time. The cultural anchors have shifted, and what was once simply an offhand citation of the normative gender roles now sounds downright boorish.