Old fashion. :-)<p>But, more seriously, as a counter, I&#x27;ve spent most of my adult life trying to be less &#x27;manly&#x27; and more male (xy-chromosomer ). The western traditions of what it means to be &#x27;a man&#x27; have not made my life better. Instead, they&#x27;ve given me anxiety, panic attacks, and caused a lot of feigned aggression, defensiveness, self medication, and regret.<p>I&#x27;m not against tradition, and I have a lot of respect for people who try to keep traditions alive. This one&#x27;s just not for me.