I see this as an echo of the makers and takers debate.<p>&quot;Give me a job.&quot; &quot;MAKE me feel comfortable.&quot; &quot;I am at your mercy.&quot; ... This the subtext I read. Other people want to create their own world; when someone tells them no or gets in their way, the attitude is &quot;fuck you&quot; not &quot;change to accommodate me.&quot;<p>This reaction may be biologically ingrained as a difference in the sexes; I am not sure- But I rarely, if ever, come across articles about women who have been fed up with some job and formed their own companies with other fed up women and strove to put their former coworkers&#x2F;employers out of business, whereas for hackers &quot;I&#x27;ll show you!&quot; seems a very common motivator.<p>We should be trying to give women (and men) more confidence, integrity and fortitude, and quit with the shaming and guilt tactics.