&gt;<i>Secondly if the guy was so unstable that he kept sending money why didn&#x27;t his family intervene by taking away his ability to send money</i><p>One day you&#x27;re going to be old, and we&#x27;ll see how easily you give up certain perks of being an adult.  And let&#x27;s hope you have loved ones to &quot;intervene&quot; and care for you.<p>&gt;<i>such sever Alzheimer&#x27;s</i><p>It doesn&#x27;t sound like you know what severe Alzheimer&#x27;s looks like.