I meant &quot;read it all the time&quot;, as I only see this on the internet.<p>Fairly sure I&#x27;m fitting in just fine. As I said, I don&#x27;t have a bad word to say about anyone I&#x27;ve met. Apparently asking you what &quot;respect the culture&quot; means gets me a negative response where you berate for me not already know what it means and telling me I should &quot;try to understand&quot;.<p>So asking you directly isn&#x27;t good enough. I think I&#x27;ll just pass, I&#x27;m doing fine and Seattle has been nothing but kind. But good luck with your approach, I&#x27;m sure making someone feel bad for moving to a new place works on someone.