I agree. The &quot;I&#x27;m not sure it&#x27;s the right approach&quot; is too easily brushed off.<p>Open, factual discussion has been my approach. It may bruise some egos, but in my experience, the alternative may be just as bad as rubber-stamping and that just isn&#x27;t compatible with my ideals.<p>I also think that people will learn to respect the results of the approach in the long run and that is infectious, promoting real growth.