Made a bot that was used for dating. Nothing smart, just visiting pages of other persons randomly between 1&#x2F;3 days and normally triggering alarms.<p>Girls thought I was shy.<p>I thought nothing, only that my model of human beings was right: people prefer 100 bouquet of one rose then 1 bouquet of 100 roses.<p>Since then, I stopped using bots even though it was successful and I prefered to learn from the bots : just be considerate, and even if you don&#x27;t think of it consciously, because you may come back to where you were, you might influence positively people&#x27;s opinion. Even cats and animals comes to me on a regular basis now (probably uncorrelated, but who knows?)<p>Being polite and considerate does not always mean being lowering your eyes when you see a bully :)<p>Since then, I make friends slower, but with more quality. and since my &quot;turn over&quot; in friendship is low, I kind of do not mind having enough time to share quality time with them.