Sure, she&#x27;s learning by moving to another extremely expensive place that could once again easily lead to financial ruin.  Whose fault will it be then?<p>I&#x27;m not disagreeing on the fact that she had a tough childhood.  All I&#x27;m saying is that blaming other people for your shortcomings should not be encouraged.  You&#x27;re talking about a struggle when I see a young white college-educated woman.  Do you know how far ahead that puts her in this country?  Struggle is getting pregnant in high school and living in section 8 housing without a chance to dig yourself out of it.<p>Got it bub?