I&#x27;m glad you wrote this. I feel similarly myself, although it sounds like the making of friends comes more naturally to you. I have a surplus of friends that I know could become much closer friends if I was able to dedicate more time to those relationships, but the truth is that I already have a lot of excellent close friends.<p>It&#x27;s absolutely lovely but exhausting. I too feel overwhelmed by texts, invites and the like and am trying to figure out how to handle this without compromising myself too much (life is tough right now and I feel like I need an increasing amount of time on my own right now). Honesty about it is the approach I&#x27;ve been taking - I try to be the best friend I can to all of those closest to me, but bear in mind that I am also the most important friend I have.<p>FWIW, I&#x27;m exactly with you on your points 1, 2 (replace calm with excitable sometimes though!) and 3.