You cannot acquire what you are looking for; you can only cultivate it and you need to interact with other people for that to happen. Unconditional love for yourself and the world around you is a quality that transcends the masculine or feminine.<p>There is no shame in avoiding conflict. Learn to love yourself consider yourself an accomplishment. Express yourself and share in this experience with the rest of your fellow travellers.<p>Ride the waves my friend and make your peace with the unknown.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=KrT_0J6m6y8" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=KrT_0J6m6y8</a>