I literally cannot imagine amazing sex that doesn&#x27;t easily pass the threshold of &quot;affirmative consent&quot;.<p>As I quoted elsewhere in the thread, the definition that pops up on Google reads, &quot;Affirmative consent is a knowing, voluntary, and mutual decision among all participants to engage in sexual activity.  Consent can be given by words or actions, as long as those words or actions create clear permission regarding willingness to engage in the sexual activity.&quot; [<a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;system.suny.edu&#x2F;sexual-violence-prevention-workgroup&#x2F;policies&#x2F;affirmative-consent&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;system.suny.edu&#x2F;sexual-violence-prevention-workgroup&#x2F;...</a>]<p>Any attempt I make to imagine &quot;amazing sex&quot; involves my partner being every bit as excited about what&#x27;s going on as I am, at every step along the way. That means that when I&#x27;d signal interest in doing something new, she&#x27;d be expressing delight about it in one way or another (and vice versa). Anything of the sort would satisfy this definition with flying colors.