&gt; unless it cheats by using my wife&#x27;s private information, in which case she&#x27;s going to hate me either way<p>The should be no such thing as private information. The fact that you&#x27;re saying that access to it is &quot;cheating&quot; seems to indicate that access to it is the best outcome on a productivity point of view. Why makes things more difficult in the name of privacy when transparency makes everything easier?