You almost certainly do know men like that in your personal life. They&#x27;re just not creeping on <i>you</i>. Abusers and harassers are typically VERY charming to folks they&#x27;re not abusing, which is why women tend not to speak up - because we know from plenty of bitter personal and secondhand experience that the response is going to be, &quot;But he&#x27;s such a great guy! You must have just misunderstood what was happening.&quot;