I understand some of the authors sentiments. Still, they come off as entitled.<p>Perhaps OP should try avoiding recruiters and big sexy firms.<p>They report having a positive interview experience but were disappointed for being passed over.<p>&quot;How is this possible — I have received emails from people all over the world, who praise and give me thanks for the work I’ve done on my open-source projects and tutorials (#humblebrag)&quot;<p>Perhaps there was simply another qualified candidate? OP could use a little actual humility.<p>I do understand OPs point that the interview process can feel disconnected from the actual work. However writing software is only part of being a software engineer. Communication &#x2F; working with others is also important. This is where attitude fits in. Being a professional isn&#x27;t just about wearing the right clothes&#x2F;etc.<p>Don&#x27;t mean to beat up on the OP. Perhaps they would be a great employee and are feeling a little discouraged. Still, seems like all the praise for developers (e.g. being solicited by recruiters) has gone to their head.