And see this is the part that I never got past. In your example, it&#x27;s the cop that&#x27;s committing the infraction. And yet, I&#x27;m the one that is expected to improve the situation, despite the fact that I&#x27;ve never been racist.<p>I&#x27;m all for helping people that have been disadvantaged in life. What I&#x27;m not okay with is the fact that society <i>expects</i> me to do <i>anything</i> on the basis of my skin color or gender. I will do something if I think it&#x27;s the right and moral thing to do, not because a bunch of people on the internet told me it was the right thing to do.<p>I think the disconnect lies in that many people (such as yourself) believe that it&#x27;s such a clear cut thing when in reality it&#x27;s much grayer, like everything else in life. Essentially, stop telling other people how to live their lives.