&gt; I&#x27;d prefer you didn&#x27;t get to know me<p>I&#x27;d prefer not think about it and just get to know people as well. That&#x27;s what I was trying to get at.<p>It&#x27;s disappointing that my attempt to express the catch-22 from my end turns you off to the point of ending the conversation. This is part of the problem with &#x27;diversity&#x27; qua &#x27;diversity&#x27; IMO.<p>Culture blew past tolerance and on to something else a long time ago. I&#x27;m not sure we want real diversity so much.