I&#x27;m more recently a believer that the best way to make friends as a guy is to be in an environment where you make loose connections but have long-term repeated interactions. In short, join a club. Work is mildly effective at this but because of other factors not as good as a club. Work-related meetup groups aren&#x27;t as awesome for it either - it should be more like a side interest so it feels more like play. It doesn&#x27;t even have to be a club that aligns with your true core passions, just something you enjoy enough and have a good chance of running into the same people semi-frequently. After a few months you&#x27;ve increased your odds of finding a new friend massively.