They look me up on Facebook right then and there .. just type in my name, look at my friends, see my connections.  I&#x27;m connected, in some ways, with quite some movers and shakers in the security space, and I suppose there are alarm-bells in such a scenario.  I dunno, it just feels so rude, intrusive, and backwards.  I had a great time when I lived in the USA - now I just think of it as a sad, sad place.  It lost its soul.