That&#x27;s YOU bub.  That&#x27;s not HER.<p>YOU learned to accept responsibility.  SHE didn&#x27;t.
YOU learned to acknowledge your mistakes.  SHE didn&#x27;t.<p>Now she IS learning and she&#x27;s learning it the HARD way instead of the EASY way, namely, by haranguing from the Internet Mob.<p>Buddy, you need to really think about this.  Are you so callous that you can&#x27;t see that there wasn&#x27;t a single person in this girl&#x27;s life that showed her how to stand on her own two feet?  She&#x27;ll either learn or she won&#x27;t.  It&#x27;s going to be hard for her either way.  Are you so indifferent to someone&#x27;s struggle that you can&#x27;t at a minimum think about how hard it must be to live their life and be thankful you&#x27;re not similarly burdened?