As a whole it comes down to narcissism and desire to feel &#x27;special&#x27;. Sexuality is a spectrum with nearly infinite points and we&#x27;re all fluid on the spectrum. Labeling a select hundreds of points on the spectrum is needles. Being happy doesn&#x27;t require a label. It requires the acceptance of your peers, and I don&#x27;t think insistence on corrrect labels or new pronoun&#x27;s help with that.