If someone is into BDSM or some sort of role playing that doesn&#x27;t line up with my own (admittedly vanilla) vision, good for them. But everyone I&#x27;ve known who&#x27;s into that scene takes an even stronger position on consent than the &quot;affirmative consent&quot; standard: they negotiate boundaries with their partners up front, and they agree on specific safewords that are given absolute respect. We don&#x27;t generally ask that much of most people!<p>What models of &quot;amazing sex&quot; do you have in mind that would <i>not</i> satisfy at least an affirmative consent standard? As I said, I literally can&#x27;t imagine such a thing, so I&#x27;d welcome further insight.