It&#x27;s simply intractable to add up everyone&#x27;s advantages and disadvantages; it&#x27;s the wrong path to focus on group attributes&#x2F;trends when you start talking about individuals.<p>I could clamor for tall rich  sportsmen to &quot;send the elevator down for me&quot;. That it&#x27;s their responsibility and so on. What you should do is reflect on exactly why you&#x27;d think I should feel silly for saying that, and the other guy to not. Would you tell Michael Jordan to check his privilege if he told a group of average white male nerds to reflect on theirs?