&quot;A safe reason to be hanging out.&quot;<p>That really cuts to the heart of it -- I&#x27;ve always had a &#x27;disability&#x27; where I am immensely social if I have an &#x27;excuse&#x27; and just abysmal without one.  Seeding the environment somehow would make all the difference for me; wonder to what degree it&#x27;s generalizeable?