Just stop talking.<p>Like any bad breakup, it&#x27;s in <i>everyone&#x27;s</i> best interest to just stay quiet, not take sides, and hope this blows over.<p>You are digging the hole deeper and have been with every Facebook post, the Medium post, and HN comment.<p>Stop talking. Take a long weekend. Take a week and go do something else. You&#x27;re only making it worse.