I don’t “disagree with his choices.” I find it <i>frustrating</i> that our culture made him feel ashamed of liking his favourite colour. I find it <i>frustrating</i> that he is made to believe something as arbitrary as a wavelength of light is “for girls.”<p>A child should never feel ashamed of liking something as simple as a colour. That is ridiculous.<p>&gt; Maybe he&#x27;s comfortable with his gender and gender roles? Maybe that will help him get a wife someday and you grandchildren. It&#x27;s not for everyone but maybe it will be for him.<p>Are you serious? He can get a wife or whatever he wants when he knows what that is. It is amusing to think that traditional &quot;gender roles&quot; would help in any way with that.