I worry about having a son all time, especially because right now I'm in a phase where I generally avoid all men. I've learned to distrust them or in general dislike them. Too many interacts with guys who seriously need to check their privilege. I've felt with too many situations where a guy is totally out of line and horrible to the point where I purposely avoid eye contact and conversation with them. But then I think what if I had a son? Would I feel negatively toward him for that? I hope not. Would I raise him better? I mean I hope so but how do you truly know?