What if we find ourselves in a relationship like this? I think both me and my gf have self love problems, and I think I'm the type that Hannah described. I go into the relationship giving and giving so I can feel fulfilled, but my girlfriend is more how Kati described it. She doesn't love herself so she's in the relationship to feel loved by me. Basically, I've found myself in a situation where I'm giving and giving so I can feel fulfilled, but she seems to just take and take and not give much back. I don't know what to do, because I honestly love her, and I love who she is, and alot of the time when we're together I have alot of fun with her. It's more like she's this amazing friend that I cherish so much, but she's a bit of a selfish lover. I don't know if that's because of her own self love issues, but I really need some advice.