Coming out with something?  I can come out as being lazy.  But everyone knows this already.  I don't even have to mention it.  Also i don't think it's a fight I'm having with something I can't help.  I agree it's probably one of those your choices define who you are, rather than your choices are made for you by who you are.  I could be wrong though.  Maybe I got something wrong with me where I know I should go to the store and buy something to make a healthy meal, but instead, would rather order a pizza and watch Hannah Hart videos all day.