This is a wonderful reaction to that tweet, Hannah. generally i've seen you handle it very well. It's lovely that you're willing to listen and modify an opinion!\nI've learned from this as well. I was quite opposed to your tweet seeing as my girlfriend would probably say she hates herself, definitely not love, but I also really see our relationship (by now) as a very healthy one! \nWhat Kati said about self-care being maybe a more important factor in that makes a lot of sense to me though. My girlfriend does work incredibly hard to take good care of herself, and I don't think we could do it without that. \nthis has been nice. i love you both <3