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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Snooped, found something, should I admit what I found so we can have a more honest conversation about it with less denial on her part? | I snooped, we talked about it, she wants to work it out, I'm not sure. Is the snooping worth it? | -5.055843 | -8.038351 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | I snooped, gf has new male friend, I'm not sure whether to confess snooping to try and get us back on track. | I snooped, we talked about it, she wants to work it out, I'm not sure. Is the snooping worth it? | -5.838545 | -8.038349 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Opened up snooping and found a google search for a guy's name and views of his facebook profile. Girlfriend denies any feelings for him and insists that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, I'm not sure if I should admit to snooping and get to the bottom of this? | Snooped, found something, should I admit what I found so we can have a more honest conversation about it with less denial on her part? | -5.05584 | -3.030304 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Opened up snooping and found a google search for a guy's name and views of his facebook profile. Girlfriend denies any feelings for him and insists that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, I'm not sure if I should admit to snooping and get to the bottom of this? | I snooped, gf has new male friend, I'm not sure whether to confess snooping to try and get us back on track. | -5.838547 | -3.030308 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | -6.506918 | -5.923077 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -3.106964 | -5.923077 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -3.10696 | -8.234359 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -8.234362 | -6.506918 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -5.827597 | -6.217693 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -3.378956 | -6.217691 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -3.37896 | -8.38741 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -5.827595 | -8.38741 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Let's Make a Deal and its ilk portrey human beings as crack-embued gerbils. Is this normal, or am I just an emotionless husk? | Have you ever watched a game show and thought, "this is better than reality"? | -6.252647 | -8.415878 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Are people really as excited and excited as they seem in game shows? | I'm wondering if people really can get so excited about trivialities. | -3.821715 | -7.33016 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Are people really as excited and excited as they seem in game shows? | Let's Make a Deal and its ilk portrey human beings as crack-embued gerbils. Is this normal, or am I just an emotionless husk? | -3.821716 | -6.25264 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | I'm wondering if people really can get so excited about trivialities. | Have you ever watched a game show and thought, "this is better than reality"? | -7.33016 | -8.415878 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I met things with for a few weeks ends things with the phrase "let's be friends" when I ask for more information on the meaning of the phrase. | What is the true meaning of the phrase "Let's be Friends"? Is it pathetic to continue seeing someone as friends after a short relationship. | -3.261736 | -2.532166 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I have been talking to "Let's be Friends" with over a week was actually just telling me to cut contact with her and get rid of the thought that we ever were actually dating. I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us but I am wondering if the phrasing of the phrase is just a way to make me feel better about myself. | Girl I used to be friends with ended a three week thing with me with the line "Let's be Friends." However, if I was to continue seeing her I would have to believe that she was telling the truth. How can I approach this issue? | -6.893944 | -5.43718 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | What is the true meaning of the phrase "Let's be Friends"? Is it pathetic to continue seeing someone as friends after a short relationship. | Girl I have been talking to "Let's be Friends" with over a week was actually just telling me to cut contact with her and get rid of the thought that we ever were actually dating. I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us but I am wondering if the phrasing of the phrase is just a way to make me feel better about myself. | -3.261736 | -5.43718 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I met things with for a few weeks ends things with the phrase "let's be friends" when I ask for more information on the meaning of the phrase. | Girl I used to be friends with ended a three week thing with me with the line "Let's be Friends." However, if I was to continue seeing her I would have to believe that she was telling the truth. How can I approach this issue? | -6.893944 | -2.532166 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.107563 | -7.123352 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.092552 | -7.123352 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.107563 | -6.695654 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.092552 | -6.695654 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.066444 | -6.527914 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.527914 | -0.867588 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.066444 | -6.583517 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.867588 | -6.583517 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] & my Ex [24]. We were together for two years...Long story...
POST: So pretty much we had been together for two years and she tells me that her heart simply isn't in it anymore. At first the break up was really messy with both of us just constantly hurting each other for no reason. We went back and fourth between being on good terms and being at each others throats. I'll admit that a lot of that had to do with me not being able to let go.
I had found out later that for the first 3 or so months of us being apart she had been going back to visit an old ex of hers. When I found that out I backed off. We stopped talking for awhile and that was pretty much it.
Recently, within the last month or so things suddenly started to get better between us. We're able to hang out and talk to each other with absolutely no drama. we play and joke around with each other. I found out that she no longer talks to or visits her other ex. Both of us actually recently met other people, nothing serious, just friends we've been on a date with. She's been pretty open about that with me and even asks me questions about the girl I had met (I know it sounds weird)....
I still do have feelings for her, and if the opportunity did come up I would consider trying our relationship again. I couple nights ago we were talking and i kind of alluded to that. I brought up things that, looking back, i could have done differently, and if I had a second chance I most definitely would. She told me that because of how bad things were hen we first split up, she didn't know if doing that would be a good idea, but neither of us ever really brought up the subject. We just kind of skate around it and hint at it. Her more so saying she doesn't know if it would work or be a good idea.
Should I just let this play out and see what happens? I'm afraid to say anything because of what happened in the past. I really don't want to ruin this good thing we have going right now. she is my ex but she's also one of my closest friends. I feel more comfortable with her than almost anyone else I know.
TL;DR: | ex and i were broken up for a while and she just told me she doesn't think we should try and be more than friends anymore. I still want to try. what do I do? | After two years, my ex wants to try again but we not sure if it's is a good idea or not. | -4.376335 | -8.189651 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] & my Ex [24]. We were together for two years...Long story...
POST: So pretty much we had been together for two years and she tells me that her heart simply isn't in it anymore. At first the break up was really messy with both of us just constantly hurting each other for no reason. We went back and fourth between being on good terms and being at each others throats. I'll admit that a lot of that had to do with me not being able to let go.
I had found out later that for the first 3 or so months of us being apart she had been going back to visit an old ex of hers. When I found that out I backed off. We stopped talking for awhile and that was pretty much it.
Recently, within the last month or so things suddenly started to get better between us. We're able to hang out and talk to each other with absolutely no drama. we play and joke around with each other. I found out that she no longer talks to or visits her other ex. Both of us actually recently met other people, nothing serious, just friends we've been on a date with. She's been pretty open about that with me and even asks me questions about the girl I had met (I know it sounds weird)....
I still do have feelings for her, and if the opportunity did come up I would consider trying our relationship again. I couple nights ago we were talking and i kind of alluded to that. I brought up things that, looking back, i could have done differently, and if I had a second chance I most definitely would. She told me that because of how bad things were hen we first split up, she didn't know if doing that would be a good idea, but neither of us ever really brought up the subject. We just kind of skate around it and hint at it. Her more so saying she doesn't know if it would work or be a good idea.
Should I just let this play out and see what happens? I'm afraid to say anything because of what happened in the past. I really don't want to ruin this good thing we have going right now. she is my ex but she's also one of my closest friends. I feel more comfortable with her than almost anyone else I know.
TL;DR: | broke up, things were bad but lately things seem to be getting better, at least when it comes to our friendship. Should I wait and see or should I just come out right and ask her if she can see us happening again? | my ex and I are getting back together after two years of being apart. She and I haven't spoken for a while and we recently started talking again. I don't know if I should do it or not. | -4.216217 | -5.55611 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] & my Ex [24]. We were together for two years...Long story...
POST: So pretty much we had been together for two years and she tells me that her heart simply isn't in it anymore. At first the break up was really messy with both of us just constantly hurting each other for no reason. We went back and fourth between being on good terms and being at each others throats. I'll admit that a lot of that had to do with me not being able to let go.
I had found out later that for the first 3 or so months of us being apart she had been going back to visit an old ex of hers. When I found that out I backed off. We stopped talking for awhile and that was pretty much it.
Recently, within the last month or so things suddenly started to get better between us. We're able to hang out and talk to each other with absolutely no drama. we play and joke around with each other. I found out that she no longer talks to or visits her other ex. Both of us actually recently met other people, nothing serious, just friends we've been on a date with. She's been pretty open about that with me and even asks me questions about the girl I had met (I know it sounds weird)....
I still do have feelings for her, and if the opportunity did come up I would consider trying our relationship again. I couple nights ago we were talking and i kind of alluded to that. I brought up things that, looking back, i could have done differently, and if I had a second chance I most definitely would. She told me that because of how bad things were hen we first split up, she didn't know if doing that would be a good idea, but neither of us ever really brought up the subject. We just kind of skate around it and hint at it. Her more so saying she doesn't know if it would work or be a good idea.
Should I just let this play out and see what happens? I'm afraid to say anything because of what happened in the past. I really don't want to ruin this good thing we have going right now. she is my ex but she's also one of my closest friends. I feel more comfortable with her than almost anyone else I know.
TL;DR: | broke up, things were bad but lately things seem to be getting better, at least when it comes to our friendship. Should I wait and see or should I just come out right and ask her if she can see us happening again? | After two years, my ex wants to try again but we not sure if it's is a good idea or not. | -4.216217 | -8.189651 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] & my Ex [24]. We were together for two years...Long story...
POST: So pretty much we had been together for two years and she tells me that her heart simply isn't in it anymore. At first the break up was really messy with both of us just constantly hurting each other for no reason. We went back and fourth between being on good terms and being at each others throats. I'll admit that a lot of that had to do with me not being able to let go.
I had found out later that for the first 3 or so months of us being apart she had been going back to visit an old ex of hers. When I found that out I backed off. We stopped talking for awhile and that was pretty much it.
Recently, within the last month or so things suddenly started to get better between us. We're able to hang out and talk to each other with absolutely no drama. we play and joke around with each other. I found out that she no longer talks to or visits her other ex. Both of us actually recently met other people, nothing serious, just friends we've been on a date with. She's been pretty open about that with me and even asks me questions about the girl I had met (I know it sounds weird)....
I still do have feelings for her, and if the opportunity did come up I would consider trying our relationship again. I couple nights ago we were talking and i kind of alluded to that. I brought up things that, looking back, i could have done differently, and if I had a second chance I most definitely would. She told me that because of how bad things were hen we first split up, she didn't know if doing that would be a good idea, but neither of us ever really brought up the subject. We just kind of skate around it and hint at it. Her more so saying she doesn't know if it would work or be a good idea.
Should I just let this play out and see what happens? I'm afraid to say anything because of what happened in the past. I really don't want to ruin this good thing we have going right now. she is my ex but she's also one of my closest friends. I feel more comfortable with her than almost anyone else I know.
TL;DR: | ex and i were broken up for a while and she just told me she doesn't think we should try and be more than friends anymore. I still want to try. what do I do? | my ex and I are getting back together after two years of being apart. She and I haven't spoken for a while and we recently started talking again. I don't know if I should do it or not. | -5.55611 | -4.376335 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Illegal alien, identity theft, domestic abuse
POST: I know Reddit is an odd place to turn for this, but if anyone has specific experience or anecdotes about this or similar topics, anything would help.
Summary: friend wound up very entangled in a long term abusive relationship with a manipulative parasite who has, over the years, embedded himself deeper into her financial situation. He's here illegally, has no credit card or bank account, so he literally lives off her. At one point, he browbeat her into letting him use her social security number to get a paltry tax return, but I think she has since convinced him to discontinue the practice. They're also living together (she holds the lease, obviously) which I think is technically "harboring an illegal."
He has a violent criminal record in his home country, but has laid low here. The police have been called to respond to domestic incidents at their apartment, but no charges were filed (as is very typical in cases of abuse).
If he were to be reported (by me) for being here illegally and/or identity theft, what are the chances she will be implicated for "letting" him use her SSN or harboring him?
Specific knowledge on the topic would be extremely helpful, as opposed to conjecture without having actually seen this play out in real life... I know she technically COULD be implicated, but is it likely to go in that direction?
TL;DR: | what are the chances I can get this illegal dirtbag out of the country without getting my abused friend in trouble??? | friend has a manipulative girlfriend with a violent criminal background living with her. Not sure if she's going to be implicated for harboring an illegal. | -6.469971 | -6.536806 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Illegal alien, identity theft, domestic abuse
POST: I know Reddit is an odd place to turn for this, but if anyone has specific experience or anecdotes about this or similar topics, anything would help.
Summary: friend wound up very entangled in a long term abusive relationship with a manipulative parasite who has, over the years, embedded himself deeper into her financial situation. He's here illegally, has no credit card or bank account, so he literally lives off her. At one point, he browbeat her into letting him use her social security number to get a paltry tax return, but I think she has since convinced him to discontinue the practice. They're also living together (she holds the lease, obviously) which I think is technically "harboring an illegal."
He has a violent criminal record in his home country, but has laid low here. The police have been called to respond to domestic incidents at their apartment, but no charges were filed (as is very typical in cases of abuse).
If he were to be reported (by me) for being here illegally and/or identity theft, what are the chances she will be implicated for "letting" him use her SSN or harboring him?
Specific knowledge on the topic would be extremely helpful, as opposed to conjecture without having actually seen this play out in real life... I know she technically COULD be implicated, but is it likely to go in that direction?
TL;DR: | friend got ensnared in abusive relationship with foreign citizen. What will happen if he is reported for abuse of her SSN/hiding/etc? | what are the chances I can get this illegal dirtbag out of the country without getting my abused friend in trouble??? | -4.695866 | -6.469975 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Illegal alien, identity theft, domestic abuse
POST: I know Reddit is an odd place to turn for this, but if anyone has specific experience or anecdotes about this or similar topics, anything would help.
Summary: friend wound up very entangled in a long term abusive relationship with a manipulative parasite who has, over the years, embedded himself deeper into her financial situation. He's here illegally, has no credit card or bank account, so he literally lives off her. At one point, he browbeat her into letting him use her social security number to get a paltry tax return, but I think she has since convinced him to discontinue the practice. They're also living together (she holds the lease, obviously) which I think is technically "harboring an illegal."
He has a violent criminal record in his home country, but has laid low here. The police have been called to respond to domestic incidents at their apartment, but no charges were filed (as is very typical in cases of abuse).
If he were to be reported (by me) for being here illegally and/or identity theft, what are the chances she will be implicated for "letting" him use her SSN or harboring him?
Specific knowledge on the topic would be extremely helpful, as opposed to conjecture without having actually seen this play out in real life... I know she technically COULD be implicated, but is it likely to go in that direction?
TL;DR: | friend got ensnared in abusive relationship with foreign citizen. What will happen if he is reported for abuse of her SSN/hiding/etc? | Unwanted illegal alien is living in the US illegally, gets his pound of flesh by threatening to withhold social security and/or identity. How likely is it she will be implicated? | -5.533466 | -4.695869 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Illegal alien, identity theft, domestic abuse
POST: I know Reddit is an odd place to turn for this, but if anyone has specific experience or anecdotes about this or similar topics, anything would help.
Summary: friend wound up very entangled in a long term abusive relationship with a manipulative parasite who has, over the years, embedded himself deeper into her financial situation. He's here illegally, has no credit card or bank account, so he literally lives off her. At one point, he browbeat her into letting him use her social security number to get a paltry tax return, but I think she has since convinced him to discontinue the practice. They're also living together (she holds the lease, obviously) which I think is technically "harboring an illegal."
He has a violent criminal record in his home country, but has laid low here. The police have been called to respond to domestic incidents at their apartment, but no charges were filed (as is very typical in cases of abuse).
If he were to be reported (by me) for being here illegally and/or identity theft, what are the chances she will be implicated for "letting" him use her SSN or harboring him?
Specific knowledge on the topic would be extremely helpful, as opposed to conjecture without having actually seen this play out in real life... I know she technically COULD be implicated, but is it likely to go in that direction?
TL;DR: | Unwanted illegal alien is living in the US illegally, gets his pound of flesh by threatening to withhold social security and/or identity. How likely is it she will be implicated? | friend has a manipulative girlfriend with a violent criminal background living with her. Not sure if she's going to be implicated for harboring an illegal. | -5.533466 | -6.536808 |