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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Snooped, found something, should I admit what I found so we can have a more honest conversation about it with less denial on her part? | I snooped, we talked about it, she wants to work it out, I'm not sure. Is the snooping worth it? | -5.055843 | -8.038351 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | I snooped, gf has new male friend, I'm not sure whether to confess snooping to try and get us back on track. | I snooped, we talked about it, she wants to work it out, I'm not sure. Is the snooping worth it? | -5.838545 | -8.038349 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Opened up snooping and found a google search for a guy's name and views of his facebook profile. Girlfriend denies any feelings for him and insists that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, I'm not sure if I should admit to snooping and get to the bottom of this? | Snooped, found something, should I admit what I found so we can have a more honest conversation about it with less denial on her part? | -5.05584 | -3.030304 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To admit or not to admit snooping...
POST: I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years. We talked it through. It had been a year or two since the last time. That's an issue I'm working on.
Now she has a new close male work friend. I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious. So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.
I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).
I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on. But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.
Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
TL;DR: | Opened up snooping and found a google search for a guy's name and views of his facebook profile. Girlfriend denies any feelings for him and insists that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, I'm not sure if I should admit to snooping and get to the bottom of this? | I snooped, gf has new male friend, I'm not sure whether to confess snooping to try and get us back on track. | -5.838547 | -3.030308 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | -6.506918 | -5.923077 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -3.106964 | -5.923077 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -3.10696 | -8.234359 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -8.234362 | -6.506918 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -5.827597 | -6.217693 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I'm not happy but she thinks it's her fault. Should I do it anyway? | -3.378956 | -6.217691 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | I want to break up with girlfriend but she'll blame herself. Is it okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy? | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -3.37896 | -8.38741 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] want to break up with girlfriend [20F] who has done nothing wrong
POST: We have had our relationship for two and a half years and she is one of the sweetest and nicest people I know but I just don't feel happy around her anymore. We're both going to college and see each other on the weekends (about an hour train ride) but our relationship doesn't feel the same as it used to. She hasn't done anything wrong and I dont know how to make her feel like she hasn't done anything wrong when I break up with her because she will think it's her fault. Is it even okay to break up with someone just because you're not happy even though they try to make you happy?
TL;DR: | Good girlfriend I'm just not happy don't know how to break up with her | I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel like I can be happy around her | -5.827595 | -8.38741 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Let's Make a Deal and its ilk portrey human beings as crack-embued gerbils. Is this normal, or am I just an emotionless husk? | Have you ever watched a game show and thought, "this is better than reality"? | -6.252647 | -8.415878 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Are people really as excited and excited as they seem in game shows? | I'm wondering if people really can get so excited about trivialities. | -3.821715 | -7.33016 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | Are people really as excited and excited as they seem in game shows? | Let's Make a Deal and its ilk portrey human beings as crack-embued gerbils. Is this normal, or am I just an emotionless husk? | -3.821716 | -6.25264 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most exciting thing ever!
Get to actually *be* the next contestant? Undulate wildly as if having a seizure.
Pick a case? Jump up and down like it contains an actual genie.
Someone pick your case to open? That person is a closer friend to you than your entire family, scream encouragement at them!
I just don't get it. They clearly tart it up for syndication, but I keep thinking I'm missing something here. Surely, people don't get this keyed-up over such trivialities.
TL;DR: | I'm wondering if people really can get so excited about trivialities. | Have you ever watched a game show and thought, "this is better than reality"? | -7.33016 | -8.415878 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I met things with for a few weeks ends things with the phrase "let's be friends" when I ask for more information on the meaning of the phrase. | What is the true meaning of the phrase "Let's be Friends"? Is it pathetic to continue seeing someone as friends after a short relationship. | -3.261736 | -2.532166 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I have been talking to "Let's be Friends" with over a week was actually just telling me to cut contact with her and get rid of the thought that we ever were actually dating. I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us but I am wondering if the phrasing of the phrase is just a way to make me feel better about myself. | Girl I used to be friends with ended a three week thing with me with the line "Let's be Friends." However, if I was to continue seeing her I would have to believe that she was telling the truth. How can I approach this issue? | -6.893944 | -5.43718 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | What is the true meaning of the phrase "Let's be Friends"? Is it pathetic to continue seeing someone as friends after a short relationship. | Girl I have been talking to "Let's be Friends" with over a week was actually just telling me to cut contact with her and get rid of the thought that we ever were actually dating. I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us but I am wondering if the phrasing of the phrase is just a way to make me feel better about myself. | -3.261736 | -5.43718 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [21 F] just ended a three week "thing" with me [24 M] with the line "let's be friends." What does she actually mean?
POST: I used the word "thing" because I am not sure if three weeks constitutes as a relationship even though sex was involved.
I met a girl online and we have been chatting for about a week to a week and a half before we met up in person. She invited me over to her place for the first time and I ended up staying the night. From the looks of it, things seemed to have taken off really well. However, by week three she decided to give me the "Let's be Friends" speech via text which included her informing me that she came to the realization that it wasn't working between us over the duration of a single weekend. She also included in her text that if I needed anything that she would be there.
Miraculously, I have taken the news with a positive stride and walked away from this without falling into a pit of depression and sorrow. However, over the course of the week that I haven't contacted her I have come up with some questions that I need help with.
1) What is the true meaning to the phrase "Let's be Friends"? I have always been puzzled by this phrase. If she did not want anything to do with me, why did she bother including that phrase and basically tease me with any hopeful thoughts. Wouldn't it be more efficient to be direct and cut contact entirely? Is this just a method to make someone feel better about themselves?
2) Why would she also tell me if I needed anything that she is there for me? We are no longer in a relationship, we are nothing but acquaintances so why bother telling me that. She is not obliged to help me and frankly, I am not either.
3) I accept the fact that nothing will come about between us. However, I have lost contact with a lot of really great women in the past just because I was either too afraid or had a large sense of pride to continue seeing that person as "friends". Would it be pathetic on my behalf to continue seeing her even though something went on previously between us?
TL;DR: | Girl I met things with for a few weeks ends things with the phrase "let's be friends" when I ask for more information on the meaning of the phrase. | Girl I used to be friends with ended a three week thing with me with the line "Let's be Friends." However, if I was to continue seeing her I would have to believe that she was telling the truth. How can I approach this issue? | -6.893944 | -2.532166 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.107563 | -7.123352 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.092552 | -7.123352 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.107563 | -6.695654 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.092552 | -6.695654 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.144764 | -6.609724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609722 | -0.191483 |
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TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.609724 | -2.144764 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -0.191483 | -6.609722 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.144764 | -6.434969 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -0.191486 | -6.434971 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -2.066444 | -6.527914 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, but I want to make it clear that we broke up lightly, because it's not going to work. What do I say to the folks who will be trying to talk to me about it? | My girlfriend broke up with me, and I feel like I need to let folks know this without giving them the impression I'm still mad. | -6.527914 | -0.867588 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [22 F] of 1.75 years broke up with me [26 M], yet I hold no ill will to her. What do I say to people who might try to talk bad about her to "cheer me up"?
POST: It's a pretty simple question, but one I feel like I need to ask because it's going to come up, especially, I fear, with my parents.
So over the last several weeks, I've noticed that my girlfriend was becoming more withdrawn from me, not really talking to me or wanting any sort of intimacy. Last night we had the talk, and while we do still care for each other, she just wasn't wanting to be in the relationship anymore and had felt that it had run its course. While it does suck on my end, there's not a whole lot I can do, and I really do think the best of her even right now. Chances are we'll see each other again, maybe even an occasional hookup if we're both single and feel like it, but our lives are going in two different directions and a relationship just isn't going to work.
But really, that's not the problem. The problem is that now I have to explain to folks that we've broken up, and I don't want to give them the wrong idea that it was a bad breakup filled with gnashing and weeping, laying in the fetal position listening to Nickleback. I really don't want people saying some bad shit about her when I mention that we've broken up, but I feel like it's going to happen when I say "We've broken up" and they'll just respond immediately "Oh man, well she sucks, you're too good for her." At the same time, I don't want to come across as being hung up on her, and that's why I'm refusing to say anything bad because that's not true. The relationship has run its course, but I literally can't say anything bad about her because there's nothing bad to say.
So, what's the best way of letting folks know we've broken up, but without giving the impression I'm mad at her or that I'm still pining after her?
TL;DR: | GF broke up with me, I don't hate her but I don't want other people trying to comfort me by calling her a bitch, wat do? | My girlfriend broke up with me, I don't want people thinking we're still together, so I just won't say anything bad about her. | -2.066444 | -6.583517 |
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