mc-ai/counsel-chat-user-questions · Datasets at Hugging Face

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900	Should I get a new therapist?	[ "I have an eating disorder of binging. I've had gastric sleeve surgery. I need help with issues of abuse as a child, addiction, and abusive men. I have been in therapy for five months and get no feedback from my therapist." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of professional-ethics
901	How do I approach my doctor about seeing a therapist?	[ "I'm worried I should see a therapist due to past events and current mental status. I'm just so unsure of how to ask my doctor about seeing someone." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of professional-ethics
902	How can I be less stressed?	[ "I need help dealing with stress. How can I handle it all and feel less stressed out?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress
903	How can I be less stressed?	[ "I need help knowing how to deal with stress. What can I do?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress
904	How do I relieve stress and find balance?	[ "I'm in my late 20s. I have two jobs right now, I'm in school, and I feel like I just have a lot under my belt right now. I get stressed out really easily. I tend to worry and over-think. I'm just worried about money and everything." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress
905	Is it bad to fantasize about my mom?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
906	Why do I get aroused when women call me "gay"?	[ "Is it a type of fetish, or is it normal?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
907	Why do I have sexual urges for my sister?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
908	Is there a reason I have always been attracted to men much older then me?	[ "I am a young adult, and I was sexually assaulted by an older man when I was a teenager (which has really intensified the guilt/shame). However, I've been attracted to much older men since I was even younger than that." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
909	How do I deal with sexual tension?	[ "I have been experiencing a lot of sexual tension with a lot of the guys that I talk to nowadays. I keep imagining having sex with them. I have never had sex before, nor have I had a boyfriend. I feel lonely and empty. I feel like my body is not okay, and I am missing something. I talk to so many boys in school, and I always fantasize about half of them. I want this feeling to stop because it is interfering with my time to study since most of the time, I am busy thinking about sex." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
910	How can I get some closure on an experience I regret?	[ "Back in high school, my friend and I used to masturbate around each other. I hate even talking about it now because it's so weird. We didn't even realize how messed up it was at the time. One time, it escalated and we ended up doing it for each other. It wasn't supposed to be a gay thing, but it sure sounds like it now that I talk about it. I pushed this away until it recently came up in my head again. I'm having a lot of trouble." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
911	How can I control my sexual urges?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality
912	Why do I always get ignored by people?	[ "Every time I send a message to someone or a group message on Instagram, iMessage, or snapchat people will read my messages but then they won't answer me. Could it be that there is something they don't like about me? I don't understand why they won't answer my messages. How do I get people to respond to me?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
913	Why do some people try to make a joke for everything and laugh at everything?	[ "These \"jokes\" are made about everything. They seem to have the need to say something \"funny\" about everything. It's not funny, just awkward." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
914	My friends don't put effort into our relationship	[ "It's really hard to not have negative feelings about friends who don't put any effort into nourishing our relationship." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
915	Should I pull away from my best friend?	[ "Because we are on opposite coasts, we try to talk early mornings, but she is constantly interrupted by visitors. I suggested setting aside some time, but she has made it very clear she has no intention of changing her lifestyle. She is also drinking beer every day on antipsychotics." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
916	How do I repair my friendship?	[ "My best friend and I were pranking her friend, and I told her to tell him that she likes him. She said no, but I forced her. After she told him, he told her that he likes her too. Their friendship is ruined because of me. She won't forgive me, and I feel really guilty. I feel like crying." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
917	I have an old roommate who might be a psychopath	[ "I was “mentored” by this guy for a few years spiritually. It was okay at times, but other times, it was just weird. I try not to think about it too much, but a lot of manipulation and lying happened, yet no one else really believed me when I told them. It's like he's two different people, and no one else really sees that side of him. I was blamed for a lot of our troubles, and now we don't really talk much. I'm worried because he's in a trusted position of leadership and no one suspects anything. They just think I'm attacking his character. How do I know for sure?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
918	How do I stop a bully who adults wouldn't recognize as bullying without speaking to the bully?	[ "She mostly targets me on social media. The bullying used to be much worse, but it is still going on. The comments are so vague, but I know that they are meant for me. Even when I confront her, she messages me short phrases to try to get in my head. If I try to fight back, she will ruin me." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
919	How do I trust others?	[ "I'm having problems shutting them out and putting up walls." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
920	The girls at my coming-of-age party don't like their dresses	[ "I'm having a quinceañera, and the girls don't like their dresses. They never told me, and now it's a week away. I don't know what to do." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
921	How do I learn to let go of past problems and live one day at a time?	[ "I would like to be able to have more positive relationships in the present." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
922	How can I become more understanding?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
923	I feel like my friends are ganging up on me	[ "In this argument my friends are all against me so I'm wondering if I'm exaggerating my feelings. I feel like I'm being attacked and that is making me blow things out of proportion and taking the role of the victim, when in reality I'm the one being unreasonable and I am simply annoying my reasonable friends. Or are they really being insensitive and not respecting me in our friendship?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
924	My friends accusing me of having problems	[ "They're calling me names like hypocrite and a baby even when they act in the same manner as I do. I'm tired of being called names. What should I do?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of social-relationships
925	The child I nanny hates me!	[ "I nanny a three year old. When he wakes up in the morning he calls out for someone to come get him. If I am the one to go get him out of bed he gets really upset and refuses to let me near him. He screams that he wants his mom or dad (they work from home). The rest of the day he loves me. But not in the mornings.\n What can I do?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of children-adolescents
926	How do I deal with bullying at school?	[ "I've been bullied for years and the teachers have done nothing about it. I haven't been diagnosed with depression, but i have been extremely sad for years.\n How can I deal with being bullied at school when the teachers won't help?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of children-adolescents
927	How can I see my base doctor without my ID?	[ "I need to get on base to see my doctor. My ID card was in my wallet which was stolen. I’m unable to reach my husband at this time. He is only one who can take me on base in order to get a new ID so I can continue to see doctor. Is there anything I can do?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of military-issues
928	What would happen if I got caught cutting myself in school?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of self-harm
929	Why can't I stop these thoughts?	[ "I keep having these random thoughts that I don't want. Things like \"you aren't worth anything.\" I know they're my own thoughts but it feels like someone else is saying it.\n What is wrong with me, and how can I stop having these thoughts?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of diagnosis
930	How does a counselor diagnose someone with a disorder?	[ null ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of diagnosis
931	How do therapists characterize personality types?	[ "How do therapists classify the type of personality their clients have? What characteristics do they look at to decide what type of personality the client has? I've read about this online, but I'd like to understand this from a therapist's point of view." ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of diagnosis
932	I think I empathize too much	[ "I empathize so much, even with characters on tv or in video games, that I actually feel physical pain. This has made life difficult to say the least.\n I believe I have an actually case of something called hyper empathy disorder. But since it's such a new disorder I can't find any information about it. Could this be what is going on with me?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of diagnosis
933	How would I know if I have the right therapist?	[ "How do you know you have the right therapist for you?\n How would I know how to \"train\" my therapist to be able to give me what I need from treatment?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
934	Is it normal to cry at therapy?	[ "Is it normal for people to cry during therapy, or is it just me?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
935	How does counseling help people?	[ "Does counseling really do anything that can help people?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
936	How does someone approach a counselor?	[ "How does a person start the counseling process?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
937	What happens in a counseling session?	[ "After first meeting the client, what is the process that a counselor facilitates?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
938	What are the skills needed by a counselor?	[ "What are the basic skills a good counselor needs to have?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals
939	Are some clients more difficult than others?	[ "What are some difficulties that a counselor can encounter when dealing with a client?" ]	User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of counseling-fundamentals

900

Should I get a new therapist?

[ "I have an eating disorder of binging. I've had gastric sleeve surgery. I need help with issues of abuse as a child, addiction, and abusive men. I have been in therapy for five months and get no feedback from my therapist." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of professional-ethics

901

How do I approach my doctor about seeing a therapist?

[ "I'm worried I should see a therapist due to past events and current mental status. I'm just so unsure of how to ask my doctor about seeing someone." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of professional-ethics

902

How can I be less stressed?

[ "I need help dealing with stress. How can I handle it all and feel less stressed out?" ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress

903

How can I be less stressed?

[ "I need help knowing how to deal with stress. What can I do?" ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress

904

How do I relieve stress and find balance?

[ "I'm in my late 20s. I have two jobs right now, I'm in school, and I feel like I just have a lot under my belt right now. I get stressed out really easily. I tend to worry and over-think. I'm just worried about money and everything." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of stress

905

Is it bad to fantasize about my mom?

[ null ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

906

Why do I get aroused when women call me "gay"?

[ "Is it a type of fetish, or is it normal?" ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

907

Why do I have sexual urges for my sister?

[ null ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

908

Is there a reason I have always been attracted to men much older then me?

[ "I am a young adult, and I was sexually assaulted by an older man when I was a teenager (which has really intensified the guilt/shame). However, I've been attracted to much older men since I was even younger than that." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

909

How do I deal with sexual tension?

[ "I have been experiencing a lot of sexual tension with a lot of the guys that I talk to nowadays. I keep imagining having sex with them. I have never had sex before, nor have I had a boyfriend. I feel lonely and empty. I feel like my body is not okay, and I am missing something. I talk to so many boys in school, and I always fantasize about half of them. I want this feeling to stop because it is interfering with my time to study since most of the time, I am busy thinking about sex." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

910

How can I get some closure on an experience I regret?

[ "Back in high school, my friend and I used to masturbate around each other. I hate even talking about it now because it's so weird. We didn't even realize how messed up it was at the time. One time, it escalated and we ended up doing it for each other. It wasn't supposed to be a gay thing, but it sure sounds like it now that I talk about it. I pushed this away until it recently came up in my head again. I'm having a lot of trouble." ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

911

How can I control my sexual urges?

[ null ]

User needs a counseler's advice on the topic of human-sexuality

912

Why do I always get ignored by people?

[ "Every time I send a message to someone or a group message on Instagram, iMessage, or snapchat people will read my messages but then they won't answer me. Could it be that there is something they don't like about me? I don't understand why they won't answer my messages. How do I get people to respond to me?" ]