<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=157589.msg7274024#msg7274024">Quote from: Innocence on 25-11-2012, 02:43:08</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Boo to him, at least you get to raise her exactly how you want to =]<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>I wouldn't actually Boo him. I had the right to decide if I wanted to be a mother or not, I have always said that men should have that same right. it was a belief that was strongly tested while I was pregnant (and hormonal as HELL!!! lol) but in the end it stuck. He made his choice and so long as he simply stays out of our lives I am content with it. I have a decent job and a loving family around me who give us all the emotional support (and plenty of<em>solid</em>male role models for the mini) that we could ever ask for. This way she doesn't have to deal with the stress of someone who can't make up his mind if he wants to be around, or is only around out of spite or because he feels he should get<em>something</em>for paying child support.<br/><br/>The unspoken agreement is that so long as he stays gone; I leave his bank account alone. He ever comes knocking on the door and I sick lawyers on him and suck every last penny of back support out of him before he ever gets to step foot one through my door. :) It works out well for everyone.