Five years was beyond reasonable time for mourning and getting on with your life.  She felt sad for his loss.  She offer up a smile to him, to bring the former sgt out of the doldrums.<br/><br/><em>"I am, not sure what my profile says.  I can cook, nothing fancy basic."</em><br/><br/>Susan would stir the conversation away.  In trying to lighten the moment and get out of the reservoir of past grief.<br/><br/>