I've seen her argument made by a lot of people.  For some reason, social mechanics seem to be a sensitive thing for both freeform and system lovers.  People tend to avoid it entirely, use it only on NPCs (perhaps the most common) or use it every time they talk.  There's a difficult balance to strike with it.  Many do object to having their characters do something against the player's will for social reasons, yet have no problem with their characters being mind controlled, injured or outright killed.  I think there is a fear of admitting that one's actions can be affected by the words of others, but that is just speculation.<br/><br/>At any rate, the main reason I removed her was that I noticed how hostile she became when she didn't agree with something.  I thought that by asking her to PM me when she had a concern I could minimize that, but when that request was disregarded, I felt removing her was for the best.