Affinities and Titles are gained as the game develops depending on how you play. For example, if your character gets into a few battles, he'll get some battle-based affinity that caters to the style that he used (all freeform; so if you decide you want your character to dual wield crossbows or literally anything, that would be your 'style'). If he were to change his style later, he could gain a different affinity for that new style. If your character decides that he'd rather sleep with a few cute girls in the town instead, he'd start to unlock sex-based affinities. The exact unlock interval is unknown for now, but it'll begin quickly and become more occasional as you unlock more in that affinity.<br/><br/>A title is rewarded when you get a few affinities - it basically looks at how your character has developed. Does he have a lot of battle affinities? Then he might get a title that gives him a bonus in battle. Or if he has a mix of a bunch of affinities (battling then sleeping with his spoils of war, etc.), then he would get a title based on that.<br/><br/>Edit: you won't be able to see a list of affinities, because it doesn't exist. It's not really something you plan for, but something that happens as you play. So I'd look at your posts and see that you lean towards certain tendencies, and create an affinity for you.