WELL TO BE FAIR. She said that you shouldn't be using force to get yourself<em>respect.</em>She said nothing about using force after it had been used on you<em>first.</em>:P Respect should be earned and not intimidated, yeah, but attacking a fellow crewman or a superior officer, even in an ineffectual tantrum (Also, remember that said crewman had literally just tried to shoot her)? That's a different matter entirely :P