I've no particular preference myself.<br/><br/>Given the setting and that the Drow don't have to be censored I'd imagine things would have a pretty high potential for sexual shenanigans any way you take it. I also agree with Faeli! Much funner to drag the whole party into things although 1 on 1 would be an... interesting way to purposefully sideline a specific character whether through their own actions or DM actions.