Driders are more disliked as they are outcastes and considered failures by eyes of the drow. But some younger generation has struck bargains with them to form some respectable position in drow society as their shapes are more closely resembling Lolth's true form than normal drows do. So in failure they may have got<em>second chance</em>to prove themselves. True failures being those spider leg walking heads or the other creature with lots of spider legs.<br/><br/>So drider is option but do not expect any NPC give good looks on your kind, it's kind same as playing half-orc in normal average human city.