well, generally speaking, a person would tell me there charactors interests, and i'd try and make sure they happened.  IE, you have a thing for big breasted elves, i'd try and make sure that there was a big breasted elf there to torture somebody.  If your charactor is homosexual, then it will be a member of the same sex who is probably torturing them.<br/><br/>As far as the bonus's for charisma, basically they apply to those who find you sexually interesting, be it male or female.<br/><br/>At this point there isn't any real system set up for fetishes and the like.  Thats probablly something i can add to the gifts and flaws section some time.<br/><br/>However, people aren't going to get tortured all the time.  You have to be captured for that first.<br/><br/>I hope that answers any questions.