<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=128789.msg5761399#msg5761399">Quote from: Gary Stargazer on 22-01-2012, 08:52:09</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Hmm... you know I can't help but be curious. I've never been able to understand the whole RPing a female char as a male. at least not in a sexual way. Don't get me wrong it doesn't bother me. Gered thinks Zitka is a delicious looking fox girl and will probably fuck the hell out of her given the chance. It just confused me that you're uncomfy RPing a m/m scene but not a m/f scene with you playing the female.<br/><br/>I guess since I'm bi I still realize who is behind the char but it doesn't bother me, but I think if I were straight I would feel uncomfy playing with a female char that a guy was playing, at least in an overtly sexual way.<br/><br/>Oh sorry, look at me getting all overly analytical in our game ooc thread.<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>Well, in my case I've always been one to play as female characters, even before I was old enough to understand the whole concept of sex.  I've also fantasized about all sorts of naughty things happening to characters I was playing.  So, playing as a female in erotic scenes was just a natural extension of that.<br/><br/>As for my orientation, I'm completely straight, and slightly... I think homophobic would be the word?  Pure m/m just doesn't do anything for me, which is why I avoid it (although it's not going to turn me off from a game if two other characters are doing it).  I also don't like dominating other male characters, even as female, I think partly because it puts me in control of doing things to another male character (whereas a M/f scene with me as the female still focuses on what's happening to the girl).<br/><br/>Admittedly, that doesn't really explain why I don't want to play the male in a F/m scene... such scenes in other stories and art aren't my thing, but playing as the male myself might change things.  Possibly something I need to try out sometime, now that I think about it.<br/><br/>As for playing with other cross-gender players, partly because I'm doing the same thing it doesn't bother me, but my first foray into ERP was Second Life, where you don't always know what gender your partner is behind the computer screen, so it kind of desensitized me to anything I might have against it.