in a manner of speaking.  I mean, for example, if a guy has  penis wich is big enough to gain a bonus, then yes, but your right, it can also be a penalty.  let me try and explain this a bit.  Ok, we'll say Stan has a Penis which gives him a +1 bonus to making a sexual attack, but a -1 to sexual assault.  When's he's attacking, ie, he's the person whose "on Top" he's in control of pace, thrusting distance, echnique, etc.  Because he's in control, he can pace himself better, so the person on the recieving end recieives more pleasure.  However, if Stan is tied down, getting a blowjob, he no longer can control the pace and is at the mercy of his blower.<br/><br/>Make sense?