I was wondering if either wisdom or intelligence are important to her character class.  A bard is supposed to know lore after all.  But if wisdom isn't something she needs for her class I might actually make it her low stat.  She's not stupid, but she's likely rather naive since this is her first time adventuring like this.<br/><br/>As for the bonds thing, it just seems to me that it would be courteous to ask someone before hand if I'm going to do something that would affect their character's past (or would require their character to do something -one of the possible ones for a bard is for another character to have shared a secret with the bard).  At any rate I may need to give the bonds issue some thought as its proving to be a bit of a challenge.