Sarah smiles, surprisingly gently, and nods.  "That sounds like the perfect idea.  But if I ask something you'd rather not answer, say so.  I would not wound you unintentionally."<br/><br/>She pauses to think a moment, then nods again, asking. "I know your name... but do you have another?  Do you have any family?"<br/><br/>Guesturing to the board, she adds.  "Feel free to continue the game as you talk... you never know, it may distract me from MY game."<br/><br/>She winks.