As an aside to Shade, Yusanis and Arren Kae<em>did</em>get caught. That's why she was kicked out of the order. He just kept his marriage in tact, likely out of political convenience. You'd probably know more with the Galactic Lore check over the perception.<br/><br/>Also, I wondered what to make Arren Kae look like... Although as tempting as it is to subscribe to the theory that Kreia is the Handmaiden's mother, I don't believe it. I don't believe Kreia had an impulsive or romantic bone in her body, even decades before KOTOR 2.