If you don't want to continue this game, I'm sorry to hear that, but its your choice and if your not having fun then there's no point spending more time here.<br/><br/>I will however say a few things. It may not change your mind, that's fine, its possible we just have different perspectives on the game. You went into this encounter with the assumption that you were facing bandits, and were arranged to lure them into a trap, and what you found was a group of well equipped, co-ordinated and determent enemies, not what what one expects your average bandits to be, plus the woman had some tricks of her own. You were caught off guard, a lot of your party members a way back from the encounter, and found yourselves fighting an enemy stronger than you would have expected. And, even considering the above, it was only because a lucky crit that Ares even ended up unconscious. Has I rolled 11-19, he would have taken 7 damage I think, not 9.<br/><br/>If you still don't want to continue, then I hope things work out better with your next DM/game.