Elli didn't think her offer was<em>that</em>shocking; what else would a knight of love and beauty do but help in such a troubled relation?  It was a letter, a love letter, a poem and some... lustful thoughts... well, that gave Elli an idea for the problem right there as she downed the rest of the tea in one go.<br/><br/>"Well... I think part of the problem is that you are... well, as you say, have an insatiable appetite." Elli began, and took a deep breath before beginning anew "See, especially since she saw you kiss a client, Shelynite's believe that sex and love are mutually exclusive, that a woman could easily eat out thirty other women before returning to her lesbian lover for a kiss.  However, it could be that she feels you see sex and love as the same thing, or that she feels you're only interested in sex with her, not love... and she's looking for more than just sex."<br/><br/>She paused, and thought, leaning back, then let her thoughts come to mind.<br/><br/>"Perhaps... you should try asking her out for a date, or something of the sort." Elli mused, aloud "Show her that you care for her, that you can spend time with her without sex... I know this may not be in line with Calistria's teachings of lust and sex, and I'll try to talk to the Commander as well to let her see your side, but you may have to make that effort to show her you can love her, not just lust for her body... that isn't too much, I hope?"