"I cannot say how you can approach that which is barren, that is something you must overcome on your own, but if all else fails, do not hesitate to ask others. Sometimes it can be a simple thing another tells that helps the gardener find the poison, or the weed in the garden that chokes all else." He nod his head slightly.<br/><br/>"As for the fairer sex, do your oaths demand chastity? You have promised to serve the Good, and at the same time promised to serve the kingdom, but at times you must also remember that while service can give you much, its not necessary for all time to be spent serving. This world offers many pleasures, and its not absolution that is demanded unless you take a holy wov, but moderation. Avoid that which is truely evil and tainted, but for what is beautiful in life, you should not turn away yourself entirely."<br/><br/>He smiled at this. "Ahh my boy, if memory serves you need not lie to catch a woman's interest now do you? If you can find a woman who understands you cannot belong to her fully, and she accepts that, I see no harm in sharing of yourself for a night." The old man smiled at this.