"No, no, let her speak. I have no issue with harsh words. Both harsh and soft have their places, and only in hindsight can you tell which was the right one.<br/><br/>As for the mind set and lifespan, well, I was born with one, and got the other without seeking it. Guess which one was which."<br/><br/>He smiled softly, thinking for a moment, before shrugging slightly. "Pain is how you know you alive. An end of pain is an end of life, look at any undead you can name, and ask if a lack of pain is a good thing. It lets you know you are wounded, and to cover that spot. I never had the luxury of healing before, and like any sickness, you either get better somehow or you die. I couldn't die, so this was how I got better, a stop gap measure until I could slow for real healing."