"You make it sound like everyone doesn't do those or act like it. Some are just better than others, and they are the ones that get the label.<br/><br/>And frankly, I am not sure if I am envious or contemptuous of people that plan everything out and then get it. Sure, you lived a full life with everything you thought you wanted, but were you really alive for it? While most of my decisions were made by default or for me, at least I did what I wanted, and generally enjoyed it."