He sighed, and reached forward, and patted her shoulder. "No one ever really does. So take a minute, calm yourself, and remember you are a noble. Keep that dignity around you, and they will actually respect you. Don't be distant, but be aware that you have power."<br/><br/>He glanced upwards, and sighed. "And sadly, the deal with the Winter Knight will be expiring in a handful of hours, so we can not wait long. I doubt she would attack a holding, so getting you there will at least have you surrounded by servants and guards, and safe as you can be. I do know the wedding is at least a month off, so you will have that long to get to know your husband."