she was a little surprised by that mental contact, but less so now that she knew he could do it.  She considered the question thoughtfully, and really wasn't entirely sure how to answer, so she simply thought it out in sentence form, hoping that was enough to get the point across. "you're slender but not without strength, so its possible you -could- win, but if you want to let him feel better you can either struggle a little before winning, or let him beat you.  either way I still know how strong and sexy you are" she grinned impishly, waiting for a response, as well as waiting to see what his choice would be.