"I think there are some unresolved issues with him and his ex at the moment.  Call me crazy, but I think he's fallen into that most mannish of ex-traps.  He still loves her, even after he left her or she dumped him."  I come towards the desk, around the side.  "I take it your 'going on' has to deal with all of this?"  I gesture to the binders that are sitting on her desk.  "Bit of a problem, I know.  Lucky me, I know something about how to deal with those."<br/><br/>Pausing at one side of the desk, I lean over, put my hands on the surface, and then crawl onto the desk as I push all the binders onto the floor.  "There."  Then, I lay down on my back on the desk, very animal-like in demanding that attention be paid to me sooner rather than later.  "You need a break, and to relax.  Here I am.  Do it."