"What did I tell you ?" Sonim says a bit abruptly as he stops what he is doing and looks Setsun in the eye. "Nobody can defile you, but you. Nobody can use you, but you. Doing what must be done to survive isn't being used, or being defiled, it's surviving and there's no shame in that."<br/><br/>He speaks with fire to Setsun trying to get through into his thick skull. "Do you understand ?"