She looks over at her and she puts her arms around her trying to give her comfort<br/>"I am sorry..I can't even imagine going through something like that but I'm sure he wouldn't want you to blame yourself. I've always felt that our loved ones are watching over us. I'm sure he is looking down at you right now wanting you not to blame yourself like that. I mean what do I know I don't know you but maybe. Sorry if I'm overstepping"