Josh picks her up and takes her over to her bed and sets her on it.  "You want Uncle Josh to stay with Kristin so you can see him all the time?  If you want that then you need to go to bed because Uncle Josh needs to talk to Kristin and daddy.  He needs to talk to them so he can come and see you.  They can tell Uncle Josh to never come back; so you and I both need to behave, right?"  He tries to help her understand, but he isn't perfect and doesn't know how to help her understand.  "Don't worry Uncle Josh loves you."