That's on me.  I need to get my sheet updated. They aren't so much exes as they tried to date and just timing stuff never worked out which we discussed and I put in my post but it isn't up in the sheet yet because there have been a lot of PMs from new people making characters (okay so like three but it feels like a lot this week :P) that I've been trying to get settled first before working on my own things.  I can see how the quick summary of 'exes' fits them though. Sorry, 'll try to be better about it I hope.  Am also going to try and aim for shorter back and forth posts from me so that I don't miss mentioning people again.  I do read all of them and am excited to write with all of you, there are just a lot of balls in the air right now.  We will write all the things I promise I just need to break my posts into shorter bite sized things to make them more manageable and help things flow. <3<br/><br/>I do feel like we all might need to take a breath here and reset back to the 'fun flirty get together' premise.  I get that drama is delicious (I am guilty of injecting some of it into back story pieces as well), that people are flawed and not everyone is going to get along great, but I DO need all the characters to be able to exist peacefully and positively in the same room and for us back here to keep having a good time.<br/><br/>So just kind of a blanket statement to everyone here to focus on the upbeat fun stuff of just having a relaxed good time and we're gonna try to shuffle the other things to the side.  You don't have to be best friends, but please fall back on the 'if you've got nothing nice to say maybe don't say it' or THINK it ICly it tanks the feel of your post and the goal of the group in general.<br/><br/>Setting aside my other evening plans to for sure work on and update all this and get the game things going because I think that'll help.  Thank you all for being patient  :-*