I don't mind being asked questions either, so long as you're not rude or trying to irritate me on purpose or whatever.  And a sub to a married woman?  Do I dare ask how that got started and what was the end result to that?  Lol, did I forget to mention I'm curious by nature?  Also, you'd be perfect for me then if we didn't live so far apart probably lol.  I can't rush things, mostly because of my illness but also because I'm naturally slow to changes I guess is the best way to say it.  That is not easy to admit but I am getting better about that kind of thing, keeping stuff bottled up anyway I mean.  You couldn't drag an honest emotion out of me with a bulldozer way back when.  I'd laugh it off, smile, divert a person's attention, anything to keep from showing I was hurting.  I still do I guess but not like I used to.  My childhood wasn't rough by any means, just I wasn't an open person was all.  I'm weird that way lol.<br/><br/>I wouldn't mind that Kineas lol.  Better than sitting in front of my comp with nothing to do lol.