Well if you were going to meet me irl Vergil I'd want to wait a few more months after serious OOC chatting lol. I am very cautious and timid when it comes to meeting people irl. I often have a group with me, or have my Big Bro go with me because yeah. . . You fuck with me and he will kill you lol. He beat cancer so be afraid, very afraid. Rofl.<br/><br/>And sometimes moving to a different town can change things. Where I'm currently at versus where I'm at for school are completely different towns, so they're great for certain things but horrid for others. And I've been much more social online than real time lately because of everything going on with my Grandmother. However yesterday I did go to the bay with a friend and am going to her place for the 4th to bbq. So that will be a nice escape.<br/><br/>Things ended badly and I got hurt yeah, but it also made me stronger. What happened back then seems so insignificant compared to what happened to me with my most recent ex, so it really doesn't bug me that much. If the married woman ever gets on my nerves, I simply stop talking to her for a few weeks or start talking about my Dom or the girl who's desperately trying to date me and that'll get her to back off for a bit.<br/><br/>Ciro, no lube does equal ouch lol. I learned that back on that last play date with the married woman. And yes, having sexual experience can help before getting into the D/s dynamic, but not all the time. A majority of people on adult role play forums do the extreme things, the hardcore BDSM in their role plays. However, there is a completely non-sexual side to D/s that many tend to neglect. I've had subs who were or weren't sexual with me. It's fine either way. There's the whole concept of power play, and emotional/spiritual/mental domination and submission can be very pleasurable.