We might want to think of doing 2 games, one more smut-oriented and one more story- or action-oriented. I would not in any way expect everyone to play in both, or even either of them. In my experience if there is more action in a game than smut (and vice-versa) it tends to head almost completely in that direction simply because of the slow nature of play-by-post games. A short action scene that in game time could take an hour or two can easily occupy the players for a real time month. The same with a sex scene, which is why sex and action/plot rarely seem to combine well.