When I feel Kozzy tense I ease the pressure on both her breasts and on her clit.  As she releases I hold her against me and slow the rhythm of my tongue and soften it, gently and slowly I lap across her labia, removing the direct stimulation from her clit while maintaining attention to the area around it and across it's cap. My lips gently roll her labia, lightly stretching and releasing them.<br/><br/>Gently, softly, slowly, all the while murmuring quiet endearments to her as I hold her close in my arms.