Hmm, well, since I have no real life sexual experience at all, I couldn't really tell you for sure lol.  However, I see your point and I was kidding with that remark anyway.  If you got past the fact I'm in a wheelchair and have a vent and trach and stuff then we'd be alright.  I don't like being treated like I'm fragile or anything like that, it drives me nuts.  Before you ask if it's ok to ask questions, so long as they aren't stupid ones go for it.  Example of a stupid question is something like do you enjoy being sick, which I answer in a variety of ways depending on my mood lol.  Mentally I run their ass over every time lol.  Anyway, I like trying to be in control but unfortunately I'm easy to push around in RL, which sucks or I don't get heard correctly or something like that.  I deal with it as best I can but it gets tiring at times.  Still, that's why I have a sense of humor a mile wide, hence all the lols lol.