*hugs* don't be discouraged ;) though that having been said. Honestly from my perspective I doubt we'll be able to find a game that will be green for everyone (to use the voting terminology above.) In all honesty the problem lies in the fact that to make the game super appealing to everyone you're going to wind up trying to make it be everything(smut, action, BDSM, slavery, contemporary, plot heavy, sex scene heavy, ect ect). And it's been my experience in my time GM'ing(and writing in general)  that when you try to make a story be everything you almost always wind up with nothing. Especially with role plays you have to accept that any idea is not going to appeal to everyone, there will always be at least one person who doesn't like it. That having been said out of the options above I'd say starting 2 games would probably be the best course, personally I know I'd be more than willing to participate in both and I'd most defiantly prefer two slightly smaller but excellent/pure(for lack of a better word....which will probably come to me as soon as I click 'post'), than one larger yet slightly less practical game.