"Mia I often would ponder the same questions, wondering if I missed signs of her wanting a way out.  If the signs were there, then I was oblivious to them" Chris shook his head.   "She never really stayed out real late except on the occasional weekend night, dinner and drinks with her girlfriends, or to hit a club to celebrate So-n-So's birthday, but nothing out of the ordinary".   Chris did some deep reflection.   If there were signs that she was unhappy, then he certainly didnt see them.  If he had he would have done everything in his power to have fixed them before she was gone out of his life.