As i learn of Amanda's challengea i feel for her.<br/><br/>"We all hurt people at times, and we dont realize it.  But learning from our actions and trying to be better is what we should all strive for.  If you can forgive yourself , maybe he can too."<br/><br/>She talks about our journey with our new lives<br/>"We have new home.  It will take time to make friends and make an impression here.  But it will happen.  Trust me."<br/><br/>As we joke and giggle i look at Amanda and hold her hand.<br/>"We both need to move on.  You from Kathy, me from Courtney.  We can do it together as amigas."