I tend to have some fun with it, so it's as much a game as anything. I'll go into Victoria's Secrets (Victoria ain't got many secrets left!) with my wife and while she's shopping, I'll pick up various things and ask, "Does this suit me?" or "Do you have this in Periwinkle?" I have actually had ex-girlfriends refuse to take me into those places anymore. *sighs dramatically* If you have to do it, at least enjoy it! ;)<br/><br/>BTW, True story! When I was in my mid 20's, I had a fairly tight group of friends who would have a party every weekend. Christmas was coming up and one of the women in the group who I was close friends with wanted to get 3 of her friends gag gifts... dildo's. She was too embarrassed to do it herself, and dared me to go and buy them...<br/><br/>So, off I went, found an adult shop and bought 4 very lifelike dildos. One in hot pink, pastel blue, neon green and the last one in crome. My friend nearly passed out when I dropped them on her kitchen table (except for the crome) and helped her wrap them. It was quite a sight to watch three women open the packages at a Christmas party... but more fun to watch my red faced friend open her own crome model in front of her girl-friends holding their own!<br/><br/>I know one of the 4 got used fairly extensively as I later dated her... one was "Stolen" in the emergency room that night when she had to run her little boy to the ER after he fell and cut his arm (yeah, it was stolen...) the other two I never heard about again... but they learned to not dare me to do things!