Well... In real life... If you walk up and slap me... I don't get much say in that, do I? :P If you grab my arm and steer me in a direction, all I can do is pull my arm out of your grasp. Why should role play be any different.  Now if she'd taken her in and shoved her into bed with a sandwich and some cocoa and expected her to<em>stay</em>there, etc... we might not be so cool xD xD xD