Exactly. I think I might be at that step, but am not sure. So I want to test it out but be sure that the other person knows where I'm coming from and that I don't think I can do super serious dating etc. It would really kill me if I broke someone's heart because we started things and they wanted to go more serious but I wasn't ready. So if I do decide to date someone, they are going to get filled in on what was done to me and the issues that exist because of it.