Jess sighed and closed her eyes, shaking her head a bit at that. "You don't get it. There can be a middle-ground between trying to copy someone entirely and just looking up to them as an example to draw your own inspiration from. She doesn't have to choose between trying to imitate everything about her brother and having no brother at all, which is how she feels at the moment. My younger brother looks up to me for guidance, but that doesn't mean he has to do everything I do. I mean, Jesus, he just got engaged to a girl who makes dolls for a living, which I find really weird, but he doesn't have to think the way I do about everything. You don't have to choose between having no independence and having no one close to you..."