<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=114752.msg5104350#msg5104350">Quote from: Alliance on 23-08-2011, 08:43:04</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Well my brother and I are both autistic. We have been diagnosed. We were not trying to fight with her. But part of us cannot accept change. Or we resist change, and then we finally change. I am more mild than my brother. And he's more severe in his autism. So all she was doing by "yelling" at us, bolding letters and making big font we took as yelling was only stressing us out and making us resist the change even more. My brother had a meltdown due to stress. I handle it better. <br/><br/>I do not think that is the way a GM should behave. As well as you have to take it from my brothers POV, he was getting mixed messages. Both people gave him two different messages and he was getting confused. Not by the rule and she didn't need to point it out. However, by the fact that one GM said one thing and another GM said another thing.<br/><br/>I do not think a GM should resort to yelling or bold lettering to get a point across.<br/><br/>I didn't speak to Pale and she didn't rant to me. We both explained and shared some thoughts. I was not particularly happy about the age thing considering that if people read the comics, Cyclops and them are older than high school and they live in the academy and they are part of the X Men.<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>Had we known that you were both autistic things might have been handled differently. We did not and as this is over an internet connection it is impossible to tell.  You cannot hold information we did not have prior against us.<br/><br/>As for bolding. Krysia would have handled things a little differently trying to take it to PM for example.<br/><br/>Your brother only got mixed messages because I told him his numbers were correct, which finally they were, and then pointed out his age issue in a seperate Pm.  that was the only issue the sheet had.<br/><br/>As far as the x-men they were the teachers the characters were not part of the x-men yet. You were meant to be rookies. after completing education you would have joined the xmen so yes age had a bearing.<br/><br/><br/><div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=114752.msg5104371#msg5104371">Quote from: Seaweed on 23-08-2011, 08:48:11</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">It was very difficult with me. I am a bit slow and sometimes don't get it. But I don't need to be yelled at or need someone to get frustrated with me. I needed both GMs to be clear. It was only Kyrsia saying something and I didn't understand because another GM had made the decision beforehand. So it wasn't the rule that confused me it was the GM's protocol. I never spoke to Pale during the incidents so I don't know her side of the story.<br/><br/>But I didn't appreciate being yelled at. I am trying. You don't seem to realize how hard I try to understand things and do things. I'm particularly slow when it comes to these stat point character sheets. And I know I can be a little dumb sometimes. But I was trying to understand. Not the rule though. I understood the rule. <br/><br/>I didn't need that behavior. It just stressed me out.<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>Again if we had known about those issues before hand things might have been handled differently but we didnt. If you want people to take your issues into account you should inform them.