that was more a general view of E than specifically in this group. Though I can see where I went wrong in my wording. Sorry. I really didn't mean to imply that. I just flake out on how I phrase things sometimes >.><br/><br/>To be honest, it makes me cringe to be dominant by a male most of the time (mainly for bondage and BMSD, I don't mind so much if his character is just in charge). I have to have the<em>right</em>partner and the<em>right</em>story to consider it.<br/><br/>Also, dominant personality doesn't have to mean dominant sexually. Nor does submissive personality have to mean submissive sexually.  A lot of people think I would be a natural sub because of my sweet and sensitive personality. When in all reality, that personality is what makes me enjoy playing dominant so much. Since I was a child (partly due to a childhood bully (putting it mildly) I've liked to feel ...<em>in control</em>is the only thing I can think of. Though that doesn't quite fit.<br/><br/>But I can understand where you're coming from with that. Men can be so childish and annoying sometimes (all the time). I've had my share of running into that. Even though I lack in experience relationship wise.<br/><br/>Didn't really mean to make this a discussion.  I just start rambling sometimes. I should shut up now o.o