I'm sure she would be. lol. I'd be pissed! Nilo is more heartbroken. Afraid. She doesn't want to hate living and I think that's what she's afraid of.<br/><br/>Well, Nilofer is very Perasonian and Cirven is very Trithos, so lol...   If she was younger I think that she'd feel the same way, Nilo at least. I can't speak for Larien. Betrothals were usually agreed upon by the ones being betrothed.<br/><br/>He never wanted to get married and she wanted [not presently] someone else. lol. It's tragic and beautiful. That's why I love the plot.