And that's great that you can. But the rest of us don't necessarily enjoy it. You can't volunteer other people's characters up like that without talking to them first. I don't dominate men. Period. I have to deal with the giant three year old that I married [he's really almost 38 believe it or not] and I refuse to have to dominate men in a fantasy in any way, sexually or nonsexually. It makes me cringe.