she chuckled "I suppose so, But I do have a hard time understanding their purpose." she said softly Accepting the brandy with a nod Drinking it's Normally this time instead of just throwing it back. "I mean, as abhorrent as spiders are they serve a function, But what does a leech do?  what does a Mosquito do other then suck blood?" she asked humming thoughtfully "Hmm... How strange I've never really considered it before..." she said with a smile slightly tipsy  "I know your right, I feel like I've cried a lot though there are rules for stadared mourning but it's all about what you do, what you wear, how you speak with people... Nothing about how to handle the... chest crushing feeling and knowledge someone you love is gone forever." she said softly watching the liquid swirl in her glas before finishing it and sighing "I think I can see quiet well why Brandy is preferred by men,  It dose have quiet a bite to it doesn't it sort of burns it's way down?" she chuckled face tinged pink now from the drink.