“Okay, no more blaming. I will be understanding and supportive. Since the chocolate and the gift I left for you was no good will you at least let me go out with you and take you to a movie? I just want to spend some time with you… You are right – I don’t think sometimes about what I am doing and blaming is the easiest way so I do it and it is not so rare to put the blame on you but I love you – you are my daughter and there is nothing I wouldn’t do to see you happy.”