I explained it in the character thread that it is in extreme because of all the different people that are interested.  You don't have to do anything, it just allows room for those that may want to do more than others.  It is why I explained that you should still respect each others Ons/Offs and also label and let each other know what is allowed in a certain thread and what not.  It is not saying that you have to participate or read or do anything that is extreme that you may not like, if you don't want to do something then simply do not do it.  All rules still apply, check what your role play partner wants and is into and set rules and limits.<br/><br/>Gang bangs, orgies, and punishment sessions will most likely never be extreme that way more people are comfortable in participating, however if two people want to go privately make their own little thread for like a dorm room scene with some extreme action and what not then let them.  This just gives more freedom for those that wish to express themselves and are convenient to them...I think everyone here, being 18 and older, is mature enough to handle and understand that as well as understand that what might be an on or off for you could be the opposite for someone else.