*offers celebratory engagement mini-cakes!*<br/><br/><div align="center">(http://www.perfect-wedding-day.com/image-files/mini-wedding-cakes-4.jpg)</div><br/>Grats Loves!  ;D  Welcome to the to-be-wed club!  It's only as "horrific" as you allow it to be, and I say this not only as someone with experience going through the process but as someone who works with brides (and at times bridezillas).  Just stay focused on what it's REALLY about (you and your man celebrating your love) and you will be just fine!