I am going to offer my 2 cents angel.  *sigh*  for what it's worth.  Having someone give us their "honest" opinion on us can be hard to hear--though when true is helpful.  BUT, ONLY WHEN WE ASK FOR IT AND WHEN WE WANT TO HEAR IT.  However, that being said, there are those who like to say things that they believe are true, but are in fact not true.  Or, some people, male and female are just mean ass bitches who like to make others feel small, and do it by saying they like to be painfully honest.  Excuse me?  Those two words are not meant to be joined at the hip.<br/><br/><br/>Friends will let us know when we have been full of shit, but, with such a loving glove that it doesn't feel like a spank.<br/><br/><br/>Don't let anyone spank you so that you feel demeaned.  NO ONE.  Our true friends will not allow us to get away with shit, nor will they allow us to have shit on our faces, specially not shit they but there themselves.<br/><br/><br/>*bug hug and kiss*