Ming Ming- I'm not worried about it, you shouldn't be either, I'm not upset!  If BBB is fine with it, I'll bow out.  I know you're not saying that I<em>have</em>to quit, that's up to BBB which I don't want to put on him.  The fact is that I'm playing my character as I invisioned her, the style of which is frustrating to you and making the game unenjoyable for you, so if she doesn't die soon from the crown being removed I'll ask BBB to retire her in some other way, at that point I'll no longer have a character in the game and you and K can move on, no hard feelings!  Speaking of BBB at this point we should probably let him chime in here and see what he thinks/has to say about this anyway!