The time it took for this back and forth led to the Gargoyle having little time to react to her sudden change of heart and acceptance of her situation. He was charging and mid bull rush. He came in contact with her hard, pushing her forward and causing him and her to move over the pit.  One set of arms taking hold of her as they fell, ensuring she would topple into the pit with him.<br/><br/>[Based on size bonuses, charging, and surprise I figure we don't need the rolls for the bull rush to go through. pit deals us both 27 points of damage. if you want t fight the grapple, you win.]<br/><br/>[From my point of view Jin is in the pit readying spells, wendy is entangled with the gargoyle, treats is missing, cleric is dead, and inflatetress is recovering.]