It's one of the things about me that makes it difficult for people to grasp why I consider myself transgender.<br/><br/>"....so... you like men. You're marrying a man."<br/><br/>"Yep."<br/><br/>"...and you like wearing high heels and women's clothing and makeup occasionally, and growing your hair and nails long and shaving your legs and whatnot."<br/><br/>"Uh huh."<br/><br/>"...but you're already girl, doesn't that mean you're fine how you are?"<br/><br/>No, no it doesn't. I like the idea of dressing up to perform, it doesn't mean I want to be a woman full-time. I'd rather spend 90% of my time as a man. >.>