Well.. wile that solves the logistical problem and it being for the girls, dude, anti, you need to let other people play with you even when it doesn't seem like it, if you want to pull stuff like that talk about it OCC first and get the go ahead... "hh I decide i get voice mail so i dont have to interact with members i don't want to cause there not sexing me up" is still god modding, it isn't as bad as the other, but still dude. This is a roleplay not your fantasy, there are other people involved and you have to discuss, just because its a freform dosnt mean we all have absolute control, either talk about it OCC or get premision from Midnight who is the defacto GM.