Her first instinct is to rush over to the child and kiss away the tears.  But a part of her knows that would be counterproductive.  So instead, she looks sympathetically at the little one, but nods in agreement with his father.  "Now Caden... crying isn't going to change anything.  We need to make sure everything is going well before we let you play with magic.  But you'll get to... really soon now.  Just be patient...you still have a long long life ahead of you to master that in..."