Yes.  Very boys versus girls.  That's why there are so many lieges in this game, right?<br/><br/>Aribeth, no one has been singling you out, no one has been trying to be an ass to you.<br/><br/>You have been hurting people's feelings.  You have been making people upset.  It has *nothing* to do with you being female, and this game is certainly not 'us' versus 'them'.  *ABSOLUTELY* not, out of character.<br/><br/>We've been kind and playful.  If someone *ever* made a comment to ask us to stop directly our form of play toward them, I'm *positive* we would stop doing so.<br/><br/>You must remember, however, that this is in Extremes.  :)<br/><br/>Also note that quite a few games use their interest thread for important information.  I've seen it on a number of occasions, here on E, whether it's usual or not.  If you would prefer this game to have an 'information' thread, then I would suggest writing a *kind* PM to Fedora or Saerra to ask for one, not posting something angry here in a thread where it can *cough* get lost.  :3<br/><br/>And, sure, it's up to perspective.  My perspective is that it was really only relevant between your target player and yourself.  Should it have really affected the game or the other shipmates, I might agree with you.  ... But, this seems to be quite a more personal game than perhaps you're accustomed to?