I’ve been given permission by Wargtass to post here and set the record straight on a few matters.<br/><div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=157975.msg7662879#msg7662879">Quote from: Phaia on 03-02-2013, 09:01:33</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote"><div class="spoiler_container"><div class="spoiler_header" onclick="hideSecond (this);" role="button">warning I am no longer being nice but honest!</div><div class="spoiler_body"><br/><em>what you planned? </em> did you ever even consider what had already been planned or that the mission had started and Elisa had been assigned...guess what I checked the OOC and ICC it was 2+days after the mission and 4+ after the last non mission post that you said anything anywhere in ooc...you may have sent Wargtass something but the mission had launched...If I had been running it and especially after the 2nd or 3rd whiny post you made asking everyone to not ever mention Elisa, I would had told wargtass the entire mission needs to be restarted and your situation addressed so EVERYONE could deal with it...as it stands you gave nothing to work with.<br/>What did you expect...everyone to stop the mission and do a scene removing Elisa from the team...Erich had already made assignments, Elisa was expected to be at a certain point and the opening posts were done with that in mind. Its how I read them.<br/><br/>I will tell you and everyone else upfront now... I have already told this to wargtass in IM. If Elisa is allowed back I am gone and I don't care how my character is removed... I refuse to play with someone that takes my pleasure away. I see your actions here as selfish, arrogant and uncaring about anyone but yourself. If you had allowed any give on how Elisa left then maybe I and many others here [i know becuase we have discussed this behind the scenes] would not be as pissed off about this as we are...<br/><br/>I bear ill-will toward how you treated everyone here...deal with it!!!<br/><br/>I do not know if this is how you normally act and will keep open mind should we meet up in a different thread...I can say this...as far as I am concerned in this thread and story I do not want you here or around!!<br/>and just to be sure you understand I am saying what others here feel and have been to nice so far to say...I had been as well....I do not want your contribution and perfer you not even to read the discussion or IC thread {I can't stop that but now you know my feelings}<br/><br/>Phaia<br/></div></div></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>Firstly, it was never my intent to affect anyone else’s enjoyment of the game; if I inadvertently did such, then I do apologise to those that I may have offended. It was not my intent to cause any disruption, nor to break up the flow of the game or the like. I also admit now that I could have handled things better; while I had communicated my intent regarding Elisa’s departure to Wargtass at the time that I quit the game, I probably should have made an IC post to that effect as well to prevent any ambiguity.<br/><br/>With all that being said, Phaia, I do take issue at several points that you raised. As said, it was not my intent to disrupt the flow of the game at all, nor to hamper others in their enjoyment of it. I had made several posts in the OOC thread after my departure regarding unrelated matters (Jan 21, for example) and not one person save for you objected in any way to my doing such. After I left, and after my requests to remove mentions of Elisa, I have not received one single reply via post in this thread or PM from anyone in the game, save for you, objecting to my presence here, my posts or my requests.<br/><br/>While, yes, my withdrawing from the game on Jan 11 was posted two days after the first IC post regarding the operation, my last IC Post was over two weeks before that.  At that point, I felt that it was a fair assumption that I was pretty much removed from the game regardless. Again, it was a mistake on my part, and I do apologise for any problems that I had caused over the matter. I should have been more clear, both in OOC and IC about what was going on, and should have addressed the problem more directly.<br/><br/>When I withdrew Elisa from the game, I had hoped to do such for a number of reasons, not the least of which was so that I could return her to the game at a future time should my situation change and doing such became an option for me. As said, I was not happy about what happened, but at the same time, I know that I was far from blameless as well.<br/><br/>However, I am sincere about my intent. If I have caused any problems for anyone, I would like to know. If anyone has had any issue with me, then please, feel free to tell me via PM or via posting here. I continued to post because nobody had said anything, and nobody had objected to my presence. Aside from Phaia’s claims that she had discussed this “behind the scenes” with others, there was not one indication of any problems.<br/><br/>Thank you<br/><br/>KM<br/>