<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=176831.msg8774946#msg8774946">Quote from: BlackestKnight on 21-08-2013, 20:08:00</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Oh please, Wicked Vixen had  just joked about raping belatris in the post above mine so I'm not exactly buying this whole death is no joking matter excuse. If anything, this example proves that who's saying what is more powerful than what's actually being said.  People joke about incredibly dark subjects all the time without anyone so much as batting an eyebrow. I'm not pretending to be some uptight sage who's above making the occasional controversial remark, no one should be held to such unrealistic mechanical standards. I'm not faulting anyone simply by acknowledging this.  I'm just pointing out that personal politics(feelings) trumps the objectivism people claim to uphold (fact) or at the very least it plays a role. It is what it is.<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/><br/>First off I would not have made such a comment if she and I didn't know if 1.) that she has responded positively (when shes in the mood) to such comments lots of posts ago 2.) that I held no harmful intent what I was saying given I meant it for just the playful sexual content, made sure that she knew I was joking (also given what I have said to her before and posted), she knows I have a sorta E crush on her, and once again I make it painfully obvious that I am joking not once, not twice but<strong>three</strong>times in my post--->my very first sentence---->the winky face--->my last sentence plus it's sad face. And for one last thing I am not a guy nor will I ever be one saying what I said would never happen. (Yes we all know you don't need a penis for it to be rape but we are not talking about that nor the fact that rape usually about power/control rather than sexual need/desire as I was saying/implying)<br/><br/>While I didn't mean for you to get kicked out I am going by what everyone else seems to be reading if you read what you posted and just that it is not a very nice thing to say at all. It does look and sound like an attack, and even then it's just incredibly harsh to just simply tell someone to go kill themselves and in your post there is no emphasis there at all, there are no "    " at least I don't see them. And even if you thought it was ok to write why didn't you think twice about what you were posting and making sure it wouldn't offend anyone? I've seen you edit a post three times before to perfect it and I am more than sure we have all done that. In this particular thread no one could have (unless they overcame it and put it behind them or somehow deals with it) actually before have been raped since we are in an rp where we all know Nonconsensual XXX is gonna happen if/when a villain gets his/her hands on us or something similar/degrading or make us do to each other anyways it usually happens when there is a villain involved as it is one of the worst things to do and a perfect way to show dominance anyways if it were a problem they would have likely by now have messaged me for my previous joke before. I am not sure but I think I have at least twice joke to Belatris that I wanted her sexually and would tie her up. It was not something suddenly new