<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=56447.msg2588689#msg2588689">Quote from: Haibane on 29-12-2009, 20:50:06</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">I will have to say now then that if we have cross gender play in the game I will drop out. <br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>I know how you feel.  I'm not wildly comfortable with it either.  If you're like me, you like to have the words and emotions expressed in your erotic writing spark something inside yourself - and having the genders muddled makes that hard.<br/><br/>One thing I remind myself of, is that we don't know, really, if anyone's designated gender is who they really are.  For all we know,<em>you</em>could be a guy at the keyboard.  But we trust as best we're able.  I have much more respect for a man role-playing as a woman, than I do for a man who designates his gender as female, and then plays one.<br/><br/>I suggest, that instead of dropping out, you give it the "old college try", and we'll find a graceful way out for you, if you find you can't continue.  Would that be OK?