I agree, Marcus is going to have to continually walk that line.  I imagine at times, he will overstep.  That's why I liked his reaction to Nicci's distress so much - it seemed very in character for him to assess the situation and try to fix it.  I think it's going to be overstepping, realizing he did, and then pulling back.  I can actually see this happening with the other two guys as well.  After all, they are ALL natural leaders.  I think these actions and reactions are what is going to make this the development of a family rather than a big fat orgy.<br/><br/>As far as 5th's post - thank you for the explanation.  It seems then that everyone is writing their characters' reactions as they think is right.  Can I make a suggestion?  Can we include some of these thoughts and feelings IC?  So that there doesn't seem to be such a dichotomy?<br/><br/>Maybe it isn't necessary... *shrugs*<br/>