The meal sounds great.  I like the idea of each person introducing themselves to the others.  Maybe the others can follow up with questions if they have any?  The posts would be shorter than we've been writing, though, more interactive.<br/><br/>I see some competition naturally developing between the men.  There has to be that development into a partnership - they are too alpha to start out having such a relationship with each other.  The one thing I don't want to see develop is favorites for the men or the women.  I think we'll all have our own chores and roles within our family, and our own place, but I don't want to see where we start picking favorites.  And I don't want anyone to be more important to the family than the others.  What do you guys think?<br/><br/>As far as the women are concerned, I don't see competition developing between them.  All three of them already seem too at ease with each other for that to happen.  And they are all showing a lot of support to one another.<br/><br/>I've chatted briefly with DD about this, and briefly with Tootsie.  I'm posting here so we can all get on the same page about contact between the women.  Mila can be written as bi or straight.  I didn't address it in her bio, just said she's still discovering her limits.  I think she's the only one in the group who has not had sex in a group setting, so it's going to be new for her.  I'd been thinking of some contact between the women if they are close enough to each other when we write the first sex scene.  I thought holding hands, looking at each other.  Tootsie (I keep typing Grape and then erasing it!) thought maybe even non-sexual kissing to show support.  And she thought maybe at some point, Mari and Nicci could touch each other to expose Mila to women's role in a group sex setting.  Thoughts?