Sad Mary's Bar and Girl is, as the name suggests, a bar...and then some.  It's crowded, even this early in the day.  There are three stages along the far wall, and a fourth roped off stage in the middle of the main floor.  Right now, all four stages are occupied by dancers--three girls, one guy, all shaking their respective money makers to some utterly forgettable top 40 pop song.<br/><br/>The main question remains, where do you try to go first?  To the bar?  Further back, to find a table and watch the gyrating scenery?  There's a lot going on in here...