"I believe Aribeth's suggestion was that some players like to plan those things out, and to keep the game rolling, some people<em>may</em>want to decide those things ahead of time. However,  we are trying to establish the basic rules for how to make sure everyone goes each turn (preferably without having the same person always 'Truth or Dare'-ing the same person each time) and what happens if someone 'chickens out' (which is common in real life games of ToD)."