lol think of it like this, the staff do not have to have sex with the family. they are paid with food, a place to stay and all that. the only rule they can not tell anyone about the family life.<br/><br/>to that the staff get the joy or joining in if they want to, they can not eb forced but also can say now. so if someone trys to force them they can do what every they need to to stop them wit out getting into trouble.