Aiden: My understanding is most of those groups are on Fetlife. Your friend's wife may have connections - if she's into it, she probably does, but it may depend on your um freedoms. :)<br/><br/>Caela: That sounds like quite a night! I've always wondered what goes on at those parties.<br/><br/>We've been to the munches here over the last couple of yrs. It's a relatively small city and there is a munch group, so maybe there is one there and you just don't know about it?<br/><br/>I've stopped going though, as they make me a bit uncomfortable. They're just drink meet-ups, though there are much larger events in another city a couple of hours away and I know there have been play parties, which I haven't been to. I think in many cases there are similar people there to who I'd meet on E and I ran into a guy there once who was in my web design class, and I had no idea he went too. It just makes me a bit uncomfortable. Like people are wondering what I'm into or whether I would have sex with them. I have no interest in discussing my sex life or experimenting outside my marriage in the RL sense. I have already done that and I know where it got me. My husband really loves the munches though so he goes along by himself now on the weekends he isn't busy. I may start going again - but I don't know. It just really puts me on my guard, though I know it doesn't really need to.<br/><br/>