That as they said was that.  The collar was out there, the game was explained and his wife had accepted it.  It was so damned simple, so damned easy, and it completely had Phill at a loss.  Simon was there of course, and his presence and smile was reassuring, but now that he had it to this point, he honestly did not know what to do.  Should he kiss her, like in a wedding?  She he spank her?  He could.  He wanted to.<br/>His mind was trafficking so many thoughts he almost misses what Simon was saying.  Looking back to his friend he blinks in a bit.  Though he tried to hide it, there was a look on his face like boy being handed the best present ever, and then told he couldn’t play with it just yet.  While he wasn’t sure what he wanted to do, he was sure he wanted to do something.  He forces the look away and smiles, oddly glad that Simon had a plan as he really didn’t. Still he blushes as she speaks, “Only three times?  Well, that shouldn’t be a problem.”<br/>Looking over at Kate he smiles and runs his hand through her hair. “Yes.. we need valid reasons to say it.”  It was odd to see Kate… tense, he guessed, but nervous?  She was always so controlled; he hoped that the nervousness was a good thing.  “That’s easy, m’Love.  We tell you to, and if you don’t want to, you politely decline with the safe word.  Technically, you wouldn’t BE collared, but to keep things simple, I think… I think that is best.”  His eagerness getting the best of him he gently takes the collar from his wife and slowly wraps it around her neck, pausing as it nears the clasp, then closes it.  Leaning forward he kisses her neck just above the collar.  Smiling her looks at her, “You can still safe word out… but the game is afoot now. “   Glancing over at Simon he looks back at Kate, “For this evening.. refer to Simon as ‘Sir’, and me… “  Phill blushes, “Me… as… ‘Master’.  While in the house.  Outside…  I guess… um… use your discretion.”   Phill frowned slightly, he own command hadn’t been as smooth or well thought out as Simon’s had been.<br/>