I'm thinking about going for Doji Diplomat, but without knowledge of the setting, I'm worried I'm either going to need to take a Common Sense merit (which I can't seem to find), or you'll need to be egregiously patient with me and ask me to make a lot of edits every time a faux pas kicks in.<br/><br/>For example, I can invent things like giving someone a slight by bowing<em>almost but not quite</em>deep enough, but I'm not 100% on who she'd even be supposed to bow to.  I don't want things to get grating on you as a GM if I'm playing a character who's supposed to be schooled since birth on etiquette and I the player make lots of obvious errors.<br/><br/>I also want to ask Velatha: are these the same character?  How common is white hair for the Crane clan?  I've had games where I accidentally used the same face claim, and if so, you have the picture first and I don't want to poach.<br/><br/><div class="spoiler_container"><div class="spoiler_header" onclick="hideSecond (this);" role="button">Spoiler: Click to Show/Hide</div><div class="spoiler_body">(http://pre01.deviantart.net/993d/th/pre/f/2012/195/c/a/legend_of_the_five_rings_female_samurai_by_phantom_cz-d579ozg.jpg)</div></div>