<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=264819.msg13088556#msg13088556">Quote from: Top Cat on 30-03-2017, 11:01:30</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Can't sleep, this is weighing on me. <br/><br/>I owe Aiden and Gnothi an apology. As I see it, I made three mistakes here. <br/><br/>1.) I intruded on an RP without checking with them. At a minimum, I should have at least come to the OOC thread first, and said that my character's actions and reactions meant that he was going to head to his bedroom, which would interact with their scene, and given them a chance to plan or suggest alternatives for me. <br/>2.) I "God Moded" the thread - by entering and leaving the scene in a single post without giving them a chance to respond/react, I robbed them of that. <br/>3.) I laughed at Aiden's being upset about the intrusion. While my snickering was because I thought he was overreacting at the time, my thinking about the whole situation made me realize that he was not wrong. By laughing at it, I made the problem <em>worse</em>. <br/><br/>And, for all of these, I apologize to <em>everyone</em> for being an inadequate GM who should have seen this to begin with. As a group game, we do need to cooperate, coordinate, and communicate. I failed on that (and, in my enthusiasm, I may have done the same, to a lesser degree, with the KPop girls). And for that, I absolutely do owe an apology here. <br/><br/>I will try to be better in the future. <br/><br/>And now, I will try again to get to sleep.<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>Thanks TopCat. I can really respect that.<br/><br/>It's just a learning process, for everyone I think. Let's just learn from it and move on and have fun.