Vince ~ after Nicci spoke<br/><br/>Vince nodded as Bo answered.  The man's tone sounded less authoritative and more reachable.<br/><br/>"I didn't tink yeah did but it did nay com oot quiet that way." Vince explained. "Seems proper to check before ah gent takes offense. But I do have ah question for all an want tu put it open for discussion."<br/><br/>Vince looked at Nicci first then at the rest, "It goes along with gettin tu know everyone. We'll learn each other sure enough as we go along, it's as natural an hard as any family."<br/><br/>"How shall we go aboot makin guidelines. An shall we expect guidelines for everything or just sex, relationships, or what?"<br/><br/>"I've been in polies tat died from guidelines. I've seen some of what nay works. An I'm worried we're goin in tat direction already. ...Because hard and fast rules wit-out consent are ah breedin ground ta jealousy an bitterness. Tis certain  death tu the likes of us. Ah death I'm sure we'd like tu all avoid."<br/><br/>"So I'm beggin... Tomorrow, after breakfast. Let's struggle wit our fears together at thu table round an speak of what we each know an want in ah formal way. So tonight we can do as we please in light company with thu others."<br/><br/>Vince looked at each face imploring their help. "What say yah ta tat?"<br/>