I feel like I should address this, TS, since it is my character who feels judged.<br/><br/>I, as a writer, knew exactly why Bo suggested waiting until the next night.  I had not forgotten our OOC conversations.  In fact, I was a large part of the OOC discussion, as I was one who wanted the first time to not be the first night, and to be in a group setting.<br/><br/>However, the way you wrote Bo's reaction:<br/>1) takes the spontaneity out of the game the next night leading to sex.  Bo's already made a suggestion as to the timeline, and so, at least Mila will be hyper-aware that she's expected to have sex the next night, possibly.  I'm not sure how to bring the spontaneity back into it once someone says 'why don't we wait at least a night and a day' or if we even need to, and<br/>2)  Mila's reaction was normal for her.  I don't feel like the others are thinking Bo judgmental, with the exception of Vince.  Mila's reaction was negative, but it didn't turn really bad until Vince jumped in.  Both Bo and Vince were trying to be helpful, and she reacted poorly not because of them but because of her past.<br/><br/>As a writer, I know that Bo meant no insult to her.  I completely get your motive, TS, and even agree with it.  But along with it comes an honest reaction from my character, just as yours was honest for your character.  I do not think that Bo owes Mila an apology.  I don't even think he should give her an apology.  If she feels like she deserves one, she can very well get off of her high horse and figure out that everything said is not directed towards her.<br/><br/>What I think it will take for it to be fixed is for them to have about two minutes together for him to explain that he did not mean to insult her, and for<em> her</em>to apologize to<em> him</em>for misunderstanding him and reacting the way she did.