"I did read some eastern books that do talk of understanding what is NOT is also exploring the same border of what IS. Interesting concept, from cultures that exist for long periods of time a fair amount of sages appear"<br/><br/>Alice finished her stretches and started kneading her fingers<br/><br/>"I think though it is true subjectively, your right if you choose to beleive it so. Let me give you an example - with that Major I did have thoughts of doing her personally, intimately - if what you beleive is relevant is something other than this talking about the appropriateness or use of what I am thinking stops you thinking about whatever else your mind would wonder. If you don't agree, when do you think silence or changing topics is more appropriate than engaging one with a view of disagreement?"<br/>