Kate looked over at Simon as he began to speak. It sounded simple enough and she felt a stirring of anticipation. This was something that seemed to ring true, in some form. The little joke about criminal records, though, it was cute but that was twice now that Simon had joked about the farther side. 'Only a little pain... nothing to jeopardize criminal records' It only peaked Kate's curiosity more. She was kind of interested in knowing just what it all entailed if Simon was speaking about such things. But maybe they really were just jokes.<br/><br/>Poor Phillup had been agonizing over this desire he had and being so lovely and such a gentleman, he didn't even push her for even regular sex at all. Kate felt awful about that, she always had, which had somewhat snow balled into their sex life being almost non-existent more recently.<br/><br/>Swallowing her nerves, Kate nodded at Simon as she took the collar from him. She wasn't sure what to do, whether she should put it on now or wait till after dinner that evening.  She did have a question beyond that.  "When you say that Rumpelstiltskin is not something one can just say randomly, that means, that once I put this on," She caressed the collar as well, "I must do what either of you say and cannot say the safe word because I don't feel like it or something, is that what you mean? I need, or one of you needs, a valid reason to say it, correct?"  She looked at Phillup as well.<br/><br/>"I think I can do this. I want to try."  She said softly and put her hand on Phillup's knee. "I want to say that you could have brought this up sooner but, honestly love, I think this was perhaps a good way for it all to have come about." She smiled a little at him, the nerves were there in her eyes but so was her curiosity. It was possible Phillup might not recognize such an expression on her face.<br/><br/>Looking back at Simon she had one last question for the moment. "Um, when should I put this on first? Well, how do I know when to put it on?" It seemed a silly question as she would be the only one who could predict that but Kate already suffered at not being able to make advances to her husband without this new aspect. "I know that isn't a fair question, I just don't know how to move forward... But I want to." The last she said quickly and then blushed brightly again.