I'm not the GM here so I can't speak for  snow but perhaps discussing with him first how the father figure actually was and how he would like for us to portray him and his memory might help. In my own opinion the character just seems more suited to an entirely different game concept but as this is in the Bondage forum I can see why you might have thought the game was to lean towards BDSM.<br/><br/>snow perhaps you can underline the 'overall' tone of the plot for us which might help Sharon with the bio.