Hmmm, I mean I don't see Tomas having a real issue with being the non dominant one in a relationship but unless she sought him out for any reason or it was just a drunk fling, I don't see them having had spirited engagements in the past. If she was 'claiming' her husband, then he'd pretty much leave well enough alone. Now that's not to say they can't be friends or seek each other out now.