Fifty Shades of Grey honestly did a piss poor job of representing BDSM, but I get what you're saying.  And yes, I had the dubious (mis)fortune of watching the movie and reading the first two books against my better judgment lol.  That said, it's cool Doomsday, but BDSM isn't so bad depending on how far down the ladder you go with it.  Most of the stuff I go for, IF I do anything related to it, is simple blindfolds and being tied down more than anything.  Just throwing that out there.  :P<br/><br/>........A cat?  Kinda like that squirrel I heard about that's also a GL?