Well... after the IC thread went up, I PM'd purpleartemis and asked if it was cool that Bella and Ardara knew something of each other.  I thought it might make sense for my character to have even a little bit of connection, since in her background she sold jewelry equally to the Seelie and Unseelie Courts.  I'm not sure how the others did it, but I presume working something out in private or in this thread.