As I read it, he doesn't particularly want everyone to suffer, but since in game, everyone will have a lot of work, a lot of struggling to do to make the colony successful(the part we skip,) so he's not going to just let everyone do whatever they like. I saw it as his character is the type to not sugar coat things and allow the people to not work hard, instead choosing to work them hard so that they wont be surprised later on in the game and will be ready for it.<br/><br/>The sexual part of this game has nothing to do with his wanting to "condition" characters, that is unless you are planning on having your character sleep with him, and than that's between them.  If you don't want his character to "condition" your character he can't force you to, your character is your own.<br/><br/>No we do not know who will be in charge yet since we haven't gotten to that part in the game yet.<br/><br/><br/>