and no i havent been avoiding you two ..my freetime comes in bursts depending on who is burning what down where..ill send you each my number but i doubt it will do any good..im starting to feel im fit for no woman..if i cant even make my mind up about two women ive never met what makes me think i can make my mind up at all..turning one way or another is like a kick in the chest..and id take the physical acts of touture over what im experienceing now..*sighs and goes back to work* ill reply in village after work as well