James's grins softly and pulls his hand back. "In just a few moments we will Katie. Please just relax. Now, since no waiters are here, you must serve me a little bit. In a small situation that may only include myself, you and my dinner guest, you are the one responsible to keep my glass full of wine." James reached out and motioned to an opened wine bottle within easy reach in front of them. "Go ahead and pour me, and then yourself about half a glass of the wine."<br/><br/>James continued to talk after explaining those instructions. "Now I don't need you to do anything silly like cut my food or feed it to me, but I will required you to fill my plate for me. You will learn over time my favorite items, and gain a sense of the type of foods that I will enjoy. Lift up a few of the platters in front of you. I think you'll find a deliciously sliced ham, some type of potato dish, and a hot casserole of some type. Use the utensils next to each one and put a serving of each onto my plate."<br/><br/>Pointing out the different dishes and utensils as he spoke, James continued talking. "Once my plate has food on it, you are free to fill your own plate. Start slowly, with just a few small items at once. You don't wish to appear a glutton in front of those we dine with. A lovely lady such as yourself should always keep the portions on your plate to a minimum. Multiple servings will still help to fill your body, yet give the illusion to others that you eat almost nothing."