I like the thought you are all putting into this! :)<br/><br/>My general approach, GM-wise, is that while<em> I </em>have a certain way I look at gender as it pertains to a game, when it comes to someone wanting to play a trans* character, if I don't know that person well, I have a talk with them about what their expectations and needs are, and in a system game if the decision to play such a character affects lore or mechanics, how that affects gameplay. I tend not to want to put other trans* individuals in a box they don't want to be in since I've had that happen to me.