<div class="quoteheader"><div class="topslice_quote"><a href="https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=80648.msg3563181#msg3563181">Quote from: Sophina on 31-08-2010, 09:59:10</a></div></div><blockquote class="bbc_standard_quote">Oh yes, and for me personally there's a lot of disconnect: many of the things that are fun or sexy to read about, I find unappealing IRL. I love the idea, for instance, of being spanked to the point of tears, and then penetrated, but we tried that quite recently, and I was just sore, tired and cranky. ^^<br/></blockquote><div class="quotefooter"><div class="botslice_quote"></div></div><br/>BWAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA!<br/><br/>Yep, I can see how that would be the case!<br/><br/>I think the same holds true for dommes too. I love the idea of tying someone up and flaying their breasts, belly and back until they bleed, but... seriously, IRL, the thought of<em>actually</em>doing it just makes me cringe and squirm.<br/><br/>I think that applies to extreme violence too. For example I have a RP going in which I'm a seriously cold-blooded killer. In real life I have trouble killing spiders! My RP persona, Chrystal Dark, is pure evil. The lady behind her, sitting here typing this, is (I like to think) a fairly nice person.<br/><br/>It's all about contrasts!<br/><br/>*gently strokes MSG between her legs, trying not to get<em>too</em>explicit*