Nah, everyone's got their kinks. I'm fine with that and my friend also understands. It's just a personal issue, nothing against you.<br/><br/>it's hard to be someone who's intersexed because people always think "male" or "female" and if not, then people usually assume that any in-between area is covered by either gender benders or hermaphrodites when in reality the huge majority of intersexed people have bodies that lean in one or the other direction of the binary. Being someone who shows a bit of both in their body means that they're at once under immense scrutiny, branded as a freak and could never live up to anyone's expectations.<br/><br/>I've learned a lot in the 7 years I've known this person so I'm older and wiser, so to speak. But before that I was pretty much in the boat with everyone else. So I can understand what it's like on both sides - particularly because the intersexed only make up about 3% of the world's population, so this is a really rare thing.<br/><br/>Please don't feel bad over it - it's their personal decision.