Hm... See, for me, this is mostly about how I emotionally recognize and experience things. For me, giving someone a bonus feels good! I'm giving someone a bonus! Yay!<br/><br/>But for me, it is much, much harder to go to someone who has assumed that there is a bonus and say "you know, I don't think it's worth that." And then have to engage/argue with them about whether that's true... It just takes a great deal more out of me, and the thought of it makes me mildly anxious.<br/><br/>While I can definitely accept it happening in combat, I just feel like... when are you going to decide an action before you know how it turns out?