A Midwesterner's view ,
 Chi is now confused.  She want to do the wedding but is feeling overwhelmed 
by all the issues:

Mom
Her sickness
John
Short notice for all involved creating tension
She and Douglas feeling stressed as a result of above
Mom

She seeks advice from a sage Midwesterner.

What do you think - Delay or hasten onward
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