Today is the end of sheloshim for my beloved husband
Paul Buchheit wrote a wonderful post, after similar circumstances, that I often re-read:<p><i>> On a more practical level, what matters most in our day-to-day lives is that we're good to ourselves and to each other. It's actually not possible to only do one or the other -- we must do both or neither, but that's a topic for another time. Sometimes, when I write about startups or other interests of mine, I worry that perhaps I'm communicating the wrong priorities. Investing money, creating new products, and all the other things we do are wonderful games and can be a lot of fun, but it's important to remember that it's all just a game. What's most important is that we are good too each other, and ourselves. If we "win", but have failed to do that, then we have lost. Winning is nothing.</i><p><a href="http://paulbuchheit.blogspot.com/2012/03/eight-years-today.html?m=1" rel="nofollow">http://paulbuchheit.blogspot.com/2012/03/eight-years-today.h...</a><p>May Sheryl and her family be free of suffering.