Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?
When my then-gf/now-wife and I first moved in together, I got really mad at her because she kept "hiding" my stuff when I left it out for more than a day. I couldn't find anything!<p>At some point, I yelled, "It's like you don't even want to see any of my things when I'm not using them!" Then I stopped for a second. For the first time in my life, it made sense.<p>The whole point of putting things away is to hide them! No one wants to look at your crap when you're not using it.