The money, job, marriage myth: are you happy yet?
There is nothing which will make you happy. You must choose to be happy.<p>There is no job, no amount of money, no relationship, which will make you feel whole and happy and content and done. The opposite doesn't hold - there are jobs and relationships and financial strains which will certainly keep you from being happy.<p>The goal isn't for a job or a relationship to make you happy. It's to enable other things which are your goals, which may or may not be happiness related.