The mortifying ordeal of pairing all day
Pair programming generates visceral responses due to it being introduced as if it were fact, which for me always triggers my spidey senses. People who didn't like it were told "you're doing it wrong" or "you didn't give it a proper chance". Dismissing criticisms out of hand only furthers distrust, regardless of the actual value of the idea.<p>I played along and paired for awhile, but now steadfastly refuse to pair, ever. I work best within my own mind, and the distraction of talking to someone breaks my concentration such that I'm unable to keep the big picture in my head anymore. The irritation of being that close to someone and having to engage with them for even half an hour is draining, and I took more frequent and longer breaks because of this (much to the annoyance of my pair-partner, who couldn't work while I was away).<p>There may very well be people who work well in pairs, but rest assured that there are those who aren't built that way. Don't disparage them, don't discriminate against them, and don't play the moral superiority game with them. Accept their diversity and be a better team for it.