In defence of garlic in a jar
Go deep into any topic that excites or interests you, and you will find the worst of people's behaviors on display.  Very often there will be a vocal, toxic minority whose opinions sit firmly in the realm of gatekeeping and polarization, and a silent majority will stay silent as it's simpler to avoid confrontation, or not think about the implications of such.  Author's unfortunate disability made them realize this, though you can see this pretty much everywhere.<p>At the same time, a lot of people put too much stock (ha...) in what other people think is right and 'proper'.  It's entirely possible to love cooking and use prepared ingredients, do what works for you.  It's entirely possible to enjoy pineapple on a pizza, and a well done steak, with a cocktail, eat what you like and for yourself, don't eat for others.