Self-improvement is embracing your messy, imperfect life
I wholeheartedly disagree with this defeatist attitude, which is supposed to magically lead to change more than actually planning and actioning chance itself.<p>Nowhere in life change happens without trauma. Get good at trauma and you'll get good at life.<p>I suggest to learn one's own limits through suffering and systematically repeated failure. It's the only way to build not only a map of current yourself, but also a trail towards your future self.<p>Time is ticking, memento mori, the beatings will continue until morale improves.