Ask HN: What made you decide to marry your spouse?
Step 1: If your girlfriend is also your best friend then move to step 2.<p>Step 2: if you both want kids then move to step 3.<p>Step 3: If you want to protect your assests against your best friend with whom you want to build a family, go ahead and setup a prenup. Though, you might get stuck at that step because you&#x27;d put your money or your career first then your wife (best friend and mother of your kids) second. Why not? It&#x27;s totally possible. Thought, I would NOT recommend a marriage in this case because it doesn&#x27;t make any sense.<p>Step 4: let&#x27;s say you skipped step 3 and made it to step 4. At this stage, you can pop the question, it makes sense.<p>Congrats.