The outsize influence of middle-school friends
&quot;But there is also a dark side to the social world of middle school, as anyone who has been through it will remember. Sixth graders who do not have friends are at risk of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. About 12 percent of the 6,000 sixth graders in Juvonen’s study were not named as a friend by anyone else. They had no one to sit with at lunch and no one to stick up for them when bullied.&quot;<p>Very relate-able, unfortunately.  In many ways, it set the tone for my life.