The Rings of Share – the unsolved problem of sharing
Can someone explain to me why sharing stuff with a whole bunch of people at once is something they want to do in the first place?<p>Most of the things I do are completely irrelevant for most of the people I know. If I do something that I think could be interesting for someone in my social circle, then I share it with that specific person. If I&#x27;m right and they do find it interesting then we might even have a conversation about it.<p>This approach obviously requires more effort, but it strengthens individual connections and acts as a very effective filter&#x2F;indicator for the importance of people in my life.<p>Instead of creating the illusion that I have an active connection with tons of people because they are automatically kept up to date, I&#x27;m forced to acknowledge that some connections are past their prime and that that&#x27;s okay.<p>If there&#x27;s stuff happening in my life that makes me think of people whom I haven&#x27;t had contact with in a long time, then that&#x27;s the moment to share that stuff with them.