The data are clear: The boys are not all right
As a F&#x27;ing &quot;straight cis White male&quot;, here&#x27;s my experience:<p>WTF can I do? Work is sparse and obtaining one is never clear. Being stronger is not even an advantage now. Now I&#x27;m a programmer and now workers are in short supply but that was hell back in the days.<p>In primary school a lot of female teachers would explicitly felicitate the &quot;girls for being better than the boys&quot; and give them privileges for being &quot;better&quot;.<p>School is clearly designed for girls. 8 hours on a chair listening patiently and being nice? Please.<p>Most things that seems fun and worth doing are &quot;dangerous for you and others&quot;.<p>Lifting weights is &quot;dangerous&quot;<p>Nothing to do except eating and playing video games (if any).<p>When young, being strong, resilient and stoic is boring and even frowned upon. Being a victim or in a victim group is celebrated and pretty much the only way to get attention and getting ahead.<p>Violence and insults are <i>always</i> bad, including rough and tumble play that could go &quot;too far&quot;, but somehow girls will go for these kind of assholes.<p>&quot;Who hurt you? &#x2F; You can&#x27;t see because you&#x27;re privileged (except for those with the proper ideological goggles) &#x2F; You&#x27;re angry, your emotions are invalid &#x2F; You&#x27;re mad because you can&#x27;t get women&quot;<p>If you get abused nobody will believe you as a boy&#x2F;man (we were explicitly told this by the social workers making speeches at school). If you get accused everybody will believe you are guilty as charged however.<p>The dating market has been ruined by dating apps and OnlyFans. I&#x27;m in my 30s and it&#x27;s getting easier, but man I wouldn&#x27;t want to be a 20 years old guy in my parents&#x27; basement.<p>Saving for having a house. Haha.<p>There&#x27;s a limit to the number of men ruined by family courts that you can see before simply giving up entirely on relationships and starting a family.<p>As a personal anecdote, I have met and befriended a few Africans over the years. They more or less express the same concerns about their children growing up here and dating North-American women. They all tell me I should go in Africa, make great money and have &quot;beautiful metis children in a traditional marriage&quot;. Somehow I&#x27;m tempted haha.