Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declined
Throwaway. I’m looking for advice.<p>I live in a decently big city, I make very good money - close to 200k which is far above what most people here pull in. Lead teams of people. Am in mid 30s, well over 6ft. White. My (few) sexual partners couldn’t get enough. I work out with a generous physique, get compliments that I can’t even accept these days.<p>I’m extremely jaded. I stopped talking&#x2F;interacting and even making eye contact with women despite working in an industry essentially dominated by them. I’m not sure what to do because the idea that a few men are getting all the women does not sit well with me at all. Even if I could be one of them, to me it’s a society-ruining move and I can’t in good faith participate.<p>So I feel disgust and this disgust is turning me into a misogynist.<p>I’d like to hear some thoughts as to how to get out of this rut and interact with women again without feeling like I’m  being used, and that the average man out there can only dream of being in my position as he faces insurmountable rejection and will also be used in a far worse way than me. It just sounds like a kick in the balls.