The Marriage Decision: Everything Forever or Nothing Ever Again (2016)
&lt;Ctrl-f&gt;divorce<p>Hmm.. no mentions in the entire article?  I think the author has something to address.<p>Keep in mind when you get legally married you are signing a legal contract that entitles that other person, in most states, to half of everything you earn during the marriage.  They also earn an entitlement to continue that support for something like half the duration of the marriage, or more, if the marriage falls apart.<p>I spent 19 years married in California to a spouse to refused to work for the final 10 years of the marriage.  I now have to pay $40k&#x2F;year indefinitely after losing half my savings and retirement.  I had to sell my home to pay her share.  Now, on the flip side I have a girlfriend who is half my age and I&#x27;m finally free of my ex which is worth every penny, but starting over at 42 just sucks.  The state has no concept of a spouse refusing to work.  They assume that because she wasn&#x27;t working it must have been my decision to force that upon her.  By the way, we don&#x27;t have kids.  My friends who have divorced with kids?  $7k+&#x2F;month.<p>It is especially important to keep this in mind if you are a well paid earner.  I know a lot of engineers making big bucks who let their spouses stay home or pursue goofy home based businesses or careers as &#x27;artists&#x27;.