Why are young people having so little sex? (2018)
Lack of eye contact. That&#x27;s what I see among both sexes under the age of 30. Almost to the level of autism. An inability to have basic conversation. And the boys are totally ineffectual and terrified of trying to kiss a girl; it&#x27;s been made faux pas to show any inclination. It&#x27;s hard enough as a teenager to get up the courage to kiss a girl. Imagine if you think there&#x27;s a 50&#x2F;50 chance she&#x27;ll completely destroy your life on social media, rather than just say &quot;no thanks&quot;.<p>In my mid-30s I ran through a spate of recent divorcees who all had almost exactly the same complaint. Their husband of 10 years hadn&#x27;t slept with them in 5+ years, and was always in the basement playing video games or watching porn. Which he didn&#x27;t want to watch with her. Two of them - totally separately - told me they would dress up in lingere and go to the basement and the husband would say he was too tired. A third said she felt &quot;unfuckable&quot; and started crying recounting it. (I said, oh no! You&#x27;re totally fuckable! I also said, I would never play a video game rather than lay in bed with you. And it was like... <i>holy shit</i>) This is literally what&#x27;s going on.