Anxiety and burnout: why kids are consumed with worry
I imagine success like a little island, a hill surrounded by ocean. You&#x27;re born wherever on the hill your parents happen to live. Your effort plus a lot of luck determines how high up that hill you&#x27;re able to climb.<p>The higher you reach, the better the view and the fresher the coconuts. But more importantly, the farther you are from the sea. The next cyclone that rolls by chance sometimes washes anyone living too close to shore out to sea.<p>For generations, Americans took for granted that the hill was getting bigger, the slope was gentle, and each batch of kids could take a couple of easy steps forward and comfortably land somewhere safer and more prosperous than Mom and Dad.<p>But the last forty years or so of increasing economic disparity mean the peak of the hill gets higher and the slope up to it steeper every year. Harder and harder to climb, and easier to slip down, or get knocked down by a rival.<p>Meanwhile, outsourcing, offshoring and automation mean there is less and less shore near the bottom where you can start from. The sea is rising and if you can&#x27;t at least reach the elevation marked &quot;skilled worker&quot;, you better hope you&#x27;re a good swimmer. (On top of this, the seas <i>literally are rising</i>, which will disproportionately harm the poor, just like Hurricane Katrina took out the lowest-elevation neighborhoods the worst.)<p>It is clear that many of the rich in power in this country don&#x27;t give a damn about this. As far as they&#x27;re concerned, the more people that get washed out to sea, the more coconuts there are left for them. They&#x27;re so high up now, they can barely see the rest down there scrabbling to stay dry.<p>My hope is that a new wave of elected officials will change the direction we&#x27;re heading. But right now, the future looks grim, and our childrens&#x27; anxiety is entirely rational.