How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
I&#x27;m not sure I buy this. In my experience at least, it all comes down to standards — it sounds like this woman has higher standards for what constitutes a &quot;running household&quot;, and gets frustrated when her husband doesn&#x27;t share those standards. It sounds like he would be content with boxes on the floor, dirty bathrooms, etc. When she asks him to raise the house to her standard, she is asking him to adopt her perspective of what is acceptable and what is not, which is not trivial. He needs to be asked to tidy up because he genuinely does not see a problem with things being messy.<p>Why isn&#x27;t the solution for the woman to compromise on her expectations, finding a middle ground for cleanliness and organization? Why must the man fully adopt her perspective?