How to resolve a conflict when both sides are right
I&#x27;ve seen this pattern a few times now: someone encounters NVC - claims that his interpersonal skills have massively increased - starts trying to recruit others into it - others don&#x27;t follow because he&#x27;s mostly talking in canned robotic phrases - when others point it out to him, he uses NVC tools to ignore&#x2F;deflect - all efforts to reach him fail. In contrast, I&#x27;ve never seen anyone who could be described as an NVC success story.