Divorce does funny things
I am going through it right now too.<p>Very short background:<p>* Wife abusive from the beginning<p>* Sexless marriage as she refused<p>* Beating <i>herself</i> up for years<p>* She&#x27;s not earning (highly qualified)<p>* Did not take care of child or home either<p>* Tried to frame me however I figured and escaped<p>* Living separately now<p>* She filed false and frivolous violence complaint against me<p>* Not letting me meet my child<p>* Court granted overly high alimony&#x2F;maintenance to her<p>* Lawsuits running delayed due to the pandemic<p>* She is failing to supply evidence for her case<p>* Is not even honoring prior court orders<p>* I have and am diligently filing everything<p>* Lot more has happened, above is just a summary<p>Yet, the system is failing to do due diligence and is so far against me nevertheless.  I do have good lawyers helping.<p>I can connect with many comments here on the OP, some of which say that no action is taken against women even if it is proven that they were blatantly lying.<p>I am facing degradation of cognitive abilities due to prolonged stress, some of which seem permanent.<p>I am losing trust over the legal system.  Marriage as a notion itself feels wrong.<p>I have little interest left in life other than wishing for justice and taking care of the teenage child.  Thoughts of suicide come and go.  I have been taking professional help.<p>Separately:<p>* I am very reputed in my circles for my honesty and talents and am seen as a role model.<p>* They share quotes from self-help books -- That it&#x27;s all meant for good ultimately, trouble is intended by the divine to strengthen good people, it&#x27;s a beautiful life after all.<p>* I do recognize that many people are worse off with not even food to eat.