Basic Social Skills Guide (2012)
While some of you may make light of the fact that I am giving you advice, my single most important piece of advice to people who are highly analytical and&#x2F;or always solving problems is to not give unsolicited advice to friends, family, acquaintances, or even strangers.<p>People will ask for advice if they really want it. People are not “broken pieces of code” begging to be fixed.<p>I’ve lost friends over this, until one dear friend pointed this out to me in a “look, I have to tell you something really really important” manner.