In a society obsessed with success, how do we come to terms with failure?
&gt;&gt; Because who I&#x27;d be was just another ordinary, mediocre 12-year old girl. I rubbed at the calluses on my hands, sat in front of the TV and felt terrified that I&#x27;d never again be good at something. Nothing is scarier than that.<p>To some extent, this is common in th west. But why is this so important to not be ordinary ? Why isn&#x27;t it good enough  to be good at something at your friends group, family, etc ?