Do some surgical implants do more harm than good?
Surgery ruined my life and will be the cause of it&#x27;s end. I was scared into having surgery I didn&#x27;t need and told if I did not I would be crippled by middle age. Multiple opinions got multiple variations on what should be done but I was too young and inexperienced to know better. It stole everything from me and has caused so much physical and mental pain as I tried to survive it and society and people turned their backs on me. Then when I became the very thing I was told to fear in all ways...and there was no way out...I tried to end my life and even THAT was denied me and now its all worse.<p>People love to talk about &quot;worth the risk and cost&quot; etc when they have no TRUE idea what the risk and cost are. People love to justify, explain, defend those who do the damage and love to blame, demean, and ignore those who suffer it. Nice little just world package to feel safe and smart. I wish I had never gone to a doctor and I wish I had known the realities of medical mistake frequency and unneeded surgery instead of the whitewashed nonsense that is sold.<p>Even now...post suicide attempt...the system and people are just proving what I believed was true all along...but being correct doesn&#x27;t bring me any solace or pain relief.<p>*I understand it&#x27;s bad form to complain about voting...but when your life is so painful and full of invalidation by family, society, and &quot;professionals&quot; even a person pushing a button to further invalidate you hurts and just reinforces what you believe about ego and selfishness in others. Being &quot;right&quot; or in control is always more important than others to most people. I just cannot fathom the thinking of kicking someone who is down over their experience or a generalized comment. Even if I disagreed with someone I wouldn&#x27;t do that.