To Stay Married, Embrace Change
&quot;Embrace change&quot; may be a great idea, but I don&#x27;t think it gets to the heart of the issue.  I think the key to staying married is having two people who are committed to staying married.  From that, other things follow: embracing change, learning to be a better spouse, etc.<p>I&#x27;ve only been married for 12 years, but I can absolutely say that my wife and I have always been very happy and willing to be accommodating, precisely because we&#x27;re committed to lifelong marriage for religious reasons.  I&#x27;ve met a lot of people who think that sounds like a prison sentence, but for me it&#x27;s been bliss.