Why forgiving someone else is about you
As somebody who&#x27;s struggling to forgive somebody who&#x27;s wronged me, I find this article to be a bit wishy-washy, like this:<p>&gt; Reexamine your perceptions of life events that have trapped you in the role of victim.<p>well, what if somebody really truly was a victim?  What if one&#x27;s parents have condescended and belittled them for decades?  What if one&#x27;s mother is abusive and drinks too much?  What if somebody spent their entire childhood planning their escape from their parents (successfully!)<p>That kind of stuff doesn&#x27;t just go away.  Is it even possible to forgive somebody who honestly doesn&#x27;t think they&#x27;ve done anything wrong?