At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on
My wife passed this year from cancer.  Looking back we had no idea how close we were to the end, and in the last few weeks her beautiful mind was influenced by the disease.  I’m sure someone on HN is going through this at least adjacently and my recommendation is to not wait to the end to have important conversations.  For those that aren’t going through this now, maybe for a little while live life like you are...it might inform your priorities and perspective.<p>My 17 year old daughter was already dealing with a life-altering chronic disease and losing her mom plus all of this pandemic bullshit has really made a mess.  She broke down crying last night struggling over the idea of death and that everything seems to be pitted against her.  It’s hard to know exactly what to say in those moments, maybe some of these words from a person at the doorstep will help her.<p>For what it’s worth we do have her seeing both a counselor and a psychiatrist but that only goes so far...at the end of the day it’s you and your thoughts staring at the ceiling while you’re trying to get to sleep for the 5am shift tomorrow.