I’ve Had a Cyberstalker Since I Was 12
There&#x27;s a moment in the pilot of The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt where the women are rescued from the bunker and put on a daytime talk show and Matt Lauer asks one of the women how she ended up in the bunker:<p>&quot;I had waited on Reverend Richard at a York Steak House I worked at, and one night he invited me out to his car to see some baby rabbits, and I didn’t want to be rude, so… here we are.&quot;<p>And Matt Lauer responds: &quot;I’m always amazed by what women will do because they’re afraid of being rude…&quot;<p>It&#x27;s often hard for men to understand the societal pressure placed on women to be accommodating and not be rude and how this can be manipulated to constrain female agency in the world.