Generate: validate `model_kwargs` (and catch typos in generate arguments)
# What does this PR do?

A common cause for issues in generate is around it not behaving as expected, as arguments can be silently ignored as part of the selected generation submethod (greedy_search, sample, ...). Typos also often fly under the radar, as the method accepts **model_kwargs, which in turn are passed to models that also accept **kwargs.

This PR solves the low-hanging fruit (derived from https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/pull/18218): validates `model_kwargs`, which notifies the users about problems in model arguments AND about typos, as they will fall in `model_kwargs`.

Will open a PR with TF and FLAX equivalent after this one gets merged. A solution for the other generation arguments is also on the way :) 

Fixes https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/issues/18130

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Here is an example of the output for

```python
from transformers import AutoTokenizer, AutoModelForCausalLM

tokenizer = AutoTokenizer.from_pretrained("distilgpt2")
model = AutoModelForCausalLM.from_pretrained("distilgpt2")

prompt = tokenizer(["hello world"], return_tensors="pt")
model.generate(**prompt, do_samples=True, foo="bar")
```

![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/12240844/180473721-1e216e12-b25a-470e-b4cd-2d3236f8e8ff.png)

_The documentation is not available anymore as the PR was closed or merged._<|||||>@sgugger ready for a final review :) [equivalent TF and FLAX changes will come in separate PRs, as they might need test corrections like this one]<|||||>Super-useful, thank you, @gante!