PyTorch FSDP integration in Trainer
# What does this PR do?

PyTorch recently upstreamed the Fairscale FSDP into PyTorch Distributed with additional optimizations. This PR is aimed at integrating it into Trainer API. 
- It enables Distributed Training at Scale. It's a wrapper for sharding Module parameters across data parallel workers. This is inspired by Xu et al. as well as the ZeRO Stage 3 from DeepSpeed.
- PyTorch FSDP will focus more on production readiness and long-term support. This includes better integration with ecosystems and improvements on performance, usability, reliability, debuggability and composability.

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_The documentation is not available anymore as the PR was closed or merged._<|||||>Opened a new PR on the branch of main repo instead of fork [17136](https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/pull/17136)