Bug in contrastive search with GPT2-decoders crossattention using batches
### System Info

- `transformers` version: 4.24.0
- Platform: Linux-5.10.133+-x86_64-with-Ubuntu-18.04-bionic
- Python version: 3.7.15
- Huggingface_hub version: 0.11.0
- PyTorch version (GPU?): 1.12.1+cu113 (True)
- Tensorflow version (GPU?): 2.9.2 (True)
- Flax version (CPU?/GPU?/TPU?): not installed (NA)
- Jax version: not installed
- JaxLib version: not installed
- Using GPU in script?: yes
- Using distributed or parallel set-up in script?: no

### Who can help?

@patrickvonplaten @gante

### Information

- [ ] The official example scripts
- [X] My own modified scripts

### Tasks

- [ ] An officially supported task in the `examples` folder (such as GLUE/SQuAD, ...)
- [X] My own task or dataset (give details below)

### Reproduction

Load the models and prepare example inputs:
```python
import torch
from transformers import EncoderDecoderModel, AutoTokenizer

model = EncoderDecoderModel.from_encoder_decoder_pretrained(
    "bert-base-uncased", "gpt2"
)

in_tokenizer = AutoTokenizer.from_pretrained("bert-base-uncased")
out_tokenizer = AutoTokenizer.from_pretrained("gpt2")

model.config.decoder_start_token_id = out_tokenizer.bos_token_id

inputs = in_tokenizer(["This is a simple test","This is a simple test"], return_tensors="pt")
input_ids = inputs['input_ids']
```

Calling the generate method:

```python
model.generate(input_ids, top_k=4, penalty_alpha=0.6)
```

Leads to a Runtime Error in GPTs crossattention layer:

```
[...]  
File "[...]/transformers/generation_utils.py", line 1511, in generate  
    return self.contrastive_search(  
[...]  
File "[..]/transformers/models/gpt2/modeling_gpt2.py", line 895, in forward  
    outputs = block(  
File "[..]/torch/nn/modules/module.py", line 1190, in _call_impl  
    return forward_call(*input, **kwargs)  
File "[..]/transformers/models/gpt2/modeling_gpt2.py", line 417, in forward  
    cross_attn_outputs = self.crossattention(  
File "[...]/transformers/models/gpt2/modeling_gpt2.py", line 336, in forward  
    attn_output, attn_weights = self._attn(query, key, value, attention_mask, head_mask)  
File "[...]/transformers/models/gpt2/modeling_gpt2.py", line 182, in _attn  
    attn_weights = torch.matmul(query, key.transpose(-1, -2))  
RuntimeError: The size of tensor a (8) must match the size of tensor b (2) at non-singleton dimension 0
```
# Notes:  
I have tried some combinations. The error appears only with plain gpt as decoder. And only when using batches greater than 1 . 
Beam search works although it also sends batches of size batch_size*num_beams to the gpt model. Therefore the error is probably in the contrastive search.

To produce the same Error without calling generate:
```python
encoder_output = (torch.rand(2, 7, 768), None) # shape: (batch_size, seq_len, hidden_dim)
encoder_attention_mask = torch.ones(8, 7) # shape: (batch_size*top_k, seq_len)
decoder_input_ids = torch.tensor([[0],[0]]) # shape: (batch_size, 1)

model(decoder_input_ids=decoder_input_ids, encoder_outputs=encoder_output, attention_mask=encoder_attention_mask)
```

### Expected behavior

Calling contrastive search method with batches should return batches of generated ids like beam search.
Hi @josh-oo

I believe that issue has been fixed in the latest version as you can see in  [![Open In Colab](https://colab.research.google.com/assets/colab-badge.svg)](https://colab.research.google.com/drive/1q25nXzjuvaYHMTtosH2VVzDuSk877Ta6)

Also I believe in the reproduction of the same error without generate, you shouldn't have `batch_size*top_k`, instead the following should work
```
encoder_output = (torch.rand(2, 7, 768), None) # shape: (batch_size, seq_len, hidden_dim)
encoder_attention_mask = torch.ones(2, 7) # shape: (batch_size, seq_len)
decoder_input_ids = torch.tensor([[0],[0]]) # shape: (batch_size, 1)

model(decoder_input_ids=decoder_input_ids, encoder_outputs=encoder_output, attention_mask=encoder_attention_mask)
```<|||||>Hey @josh-oo 👋 

Since the release of v4.24 we have standardized a few internals of contrastive search, which may have fixed existing bugs (like @kiansierra pointed out, thank you for pitching in!)<|||||>Hi @kiansierra and @gante , thanks for the quick reply. The new version seems to solve the problem.<|||||>This issue has been automatically marked as stale because it has not had recent activity. If you think this still needs to be addressed please comment on this thread.

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