[WIP] Add helper function to align labels between datasets and model config
# What does this PR do?

This PR adds a helper function to align the `label2id` and `id2label` mappings between a `datasets.Dataset` and `PretrainedConfig`, with the alignment performed on the dataset itself.

This will help us with the Hub evaluation, where we won't know in advance whether a model that is fine-tuned on say MNLI has the same mappings as the MNLI dataset we load from `datasets`.

An example where this is needed is if we naively try to evaluate `microsoft/deberta-base-mnli` on `mnli` because the model config has the following mappings:

```python
  "id2label": {
    "0": "CONTRADICTION",
    "1": "NEUTRAL",
    "2": "ENTAILMENT"
  },
  "label2id": {
    "CONTRADICTION": 0,
    "ENTAILMENT": 2,
    "NEUTRAL": 1
  }
```

while the `mnli` dataset has the `contradiction` and `neutral` labels swapped:

```python
id2label = {0: 'entailment', 1: 'neutral', 2: 'contradiction'}
label2id = {'contradiction': 2, 'entailment': 0, 'neutral': 1}
```

As a result, we get a much lower accuracy during evaluation:

```python
from datasets import load_dataset
from transformers.trainer_utils import EvalPrediction
from transformers import AutoModelForSequenceClassification, Trainer

# load dataset for evaluation
mnli = load_dataset("glue", "mnli", split="test")
# load model
model_ckpt = "microsoft/deberta-base-mnli"
model = AutoModelForSequenceClassification.from_pretrained(checkpoint)
# preprocess, create trainer ...
mnli_enc = ...
trainer = Trainer(model, args=args, tokenizer=tokenizer)
# generate preds
preds = trainer.predict(mnli_enc)
# preds.label_ids misalinged with model.config => returns wrong accuracy (too low)!
compute_metrics(EvalPrediction(preds.predictions, preds.label_ids))
```

The fix is to use the helper function before running the evaluation to make sure the label IDs are aligned:

```python
from transformers.modeling_utils import align_dataset_labels_with_config

mnli_enc_aligned = align_dataset_labels_with_config(dataset=mnli_enc, config=model.config, label_column="label")
# preds now aligned and everyone is happy :)
preds = trainer.predict(mnli_enc_aligned)
```

cc @thomwolf @lhoestq 



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Closing this in favour of implementing generic functionality on the `datasets` side here: https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/pull/2457