Illegal memory access when using Trainer API on GPU with PyTorch 2.0's Inductor backend
### System Info

### System Information

- `transformers` version: 4.26.1
- Platform: Linux-5.15.0-1028-aws-x86_64-with-glibc2.10
- Python version: 3.8.16
- Huggingface_hub version: 0.12.1
- PyTorch version (GPU?): 2.0.0a0+git8693604 (True)
- Tensorflow version (GPU?): not installed (NA)
- Flax version (CPU?/GPU?/TPU?): not installed (NA)
- Jax version: not installed
- JaxLib version: not installed
- Using GPU in script?: Yes (A10G/A100)
- Using distributed or parallel set-up in script?: No

### More information

1. Training is successful in eager mode with batch size of 128
2. Training is successful in dynamo + eager mode with batch size of 128
3. Training is only able to succeed with dynamo + inductor with batch size of 2
4. [Dynamo benchmarks](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/benchmarks/dynamo/huggingface.py) which use the same HF models without Trainer API are able to succeed.


### Error Signature 

| 1677525140847 | Traceback (most recent call last):   File "./run_mlm.py", line 694, in <module>                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140847 | main()   File "./run_mlm.py", line 635, in main                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140847 | train_result = trainer.train(resume_from_checkpoint=checkpoint)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 1631, in train                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    |
| 1677525140847 | return inner_training_loop(   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 1898, in _inner_training_loop                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         |
| 1677525140848 | tr_loss_step = self.training_step(model, inputs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 2640, in training_step                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           |
| 1677525140848 | loss = self.compute_loss(model, inputs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 2672, in compute_loss                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     |
| 1677525140848 | outputs = model(**inputs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_dynamo/eval_frame.py", line 82, in __call__     return self.dynamo_ctx(self._orig_mod.__call__)(*args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_dynamo/eval_frame.py", line 215, in _fn                                                                                                                                                                  |
| 1677525140848 | return fn(*args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/nn/modules/module.py", line 1501, in _call_impl                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140848 | return forward_call(*args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/transformers/models/bert/modeling_bert.py", line 1324, in forward                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           |
| 1677525140848 | @add_start_docstrings_to_model_forward(BERT_INPUTS_DOCSTRING.format("batch_size, sequence_length"))   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_dynamo/eval_frame.py", line 215, in _fn                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               |
| 1677525140848 | return fn(*args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 2816, in forward                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              |
| 1677525140848 | return compiled_fn(full_args)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 1222, in g                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140848 | return f(*args)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 2383, in debug_compiled_function                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         |
| 1677525140848 | return compiled_function(*args)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 1895, in runtime_wrapper                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140848 | all_outs = call_func_with_args(   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 1256, in call_func_with_args                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             |
| 1677525140848 | out = normalize_as_list(f(*args))   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/autograd/function.py", line 506, in apply                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                |
| 1677525140848 | return super().apply(*args, **kwargs)  # type: ignore[misc]   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 2148, in forward                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             |
| 1677525140848 | fw_outs = call_func_with_args(   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_functorch/aot_autograd.py", line 1247, in call_func_with_args                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              |
| 1677525140848 | out = normalize_as_list(f(args))   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_inductor/compile_fx.py", line 248, in run                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                |
| 1677525140848 | return model(new_inputs)   File "/tmp/torchinductor_root/rj/crjch2m3bp6tuhd3s6n2apgbibxay4o6o5jlrfbwsfiokrv2rkep.py", line 4483, in call                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        |
| 1677525140848 | triton__49.run(primals_208, buf513, buf514, 128, 128, grid=grid(128), stream=stream0)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_inductor/triton_ops/autotune.py", line 184, in run                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  |
| 1677525140848 | self.autotune_to_one_config(*args, grid=grid)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_dynamo/utils.py", line 163, in time_wrapper                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 |
| 1677525140848 | r = func(*args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_inductor/triton_ops/autotune.py", line 171, in autotune_to_one_config     timings = {   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_inductor/triton_ops/autotune.py", line 172, in <dictcomp>                                                                                                                                                                           |
| 1677525140848 | launcher: self.bench(launcher, *cloned_args, **kwargs)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/_inductor/triton_ops/autotune.py", line 153, in bench     return do_bench(kernel_call, rep=40, fast_flush=True)   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/triton/testing.py", line 144, in do_bench                                                                                                                                            |
| 1677525140848 | torch.cuda.synchronize()   File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/torch/cuda/__init__.py", line 711, in synchronize                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       |
| 1677525140848 | return torch._C._cuda_synchronize()                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             |
| 1677525140848 | RuntimeError: CUDA error: an illegal memory access was encountered                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

### Who can help?

@sgugger

### Information

- [X] The official example scripts
- [ ] My own modified scripts

### Tasks

- [ ] An officially supported task in the `examples` folder (such as GLUE/SQuAD, ...)
- [ ] My own task or dataset (give details below)

### Reproduction

Training Command: ['python', './run_mlm.py', '--model_name_or_path', 'bert-base-uncased', '--output_dir', '/opt/ml/model', '--fp16', '--dataloader_drop_last', '--dataset_config_name', 'wikitext-2-raw-v1', '--dataset_name', 'wikitext', '--do_train', '--evaluation_strategy', 'no', '--logging_strategy', 'epoch', '--max_seq_length', '128', '--num_train_epochs', '50', '--overwrite_output_dir', '--per_device_train_batch_size', '128', '--save_strategy', 'no', '--torch_compile_backend', 'inductor']

### Expected behavior

No exceptions when using Inductor backend with the trainer API.

Pretty much the same as #21826 , inductor backend is not yet supported.<|||||>@ArthurZucker  Can you elaborate on this ?

Do you mean the Trainer class is using a piece of code that is unsupported by inductor backend ?
Is this something that you will wait on PyTorch to fix or are you amenable to workarounds in the Trainer class for the inductor backend ?

Is there already a root cause that boils down to a few pieces of code ?
<|||||>Hi @Lokiiiiii We haven't investigated the issue yet, to make sure if it comes from a bug in PyTorch or in Transformers. Stay tuned!<|||||>I can reproduce this issue and have something smaller:
```py
import torch

import transformers
from transformers import AutoModelForMaskedLM, AutoTokenizer, DataCollatorForLanguageModeling

def main():
    model_name = "bert-base-uncased"
    tokenizer = AutoTokenizer.from_pretrained(model_name)
    model = AutoModelForMaskedLM.from_pretrained(model_name)
    
    texts = ["This is a text for the example."] * 16
    tokenized_texts = tokenizer(texts, padding="max_length", truncation=True, max_length=128, return_tensors="pt")      
    data_collator = DataCollatorForLanguageModeling(tokenizer=tokenizer)
    batch = tokenized_texts
    batch["input_ids"], batch["labels"] = data_collator.torch_mask_tokens(batch["input_ids"])

    model = torch.compile(model, backend="inductor")
    model.to("cuda")

    batch = {k: v.to("cuda") for k, v in batch.items()}
    outputs = model(**batch)
    loss = outputs.loss
    loss.backward()


if __name__ == "__main__":
    main()
```
Reaching out to the PyTorch folks as it is raised in the model forward, so not something in Transformers at first glance.<|||||>See https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/95794<|||||>This issue has been automatically marked as stale because it has not had recent activity. If you think this still needs to be addressed please comment on this thread.

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