Enable training Llama with model or pipeline parallelism
# What does this PR do?

This PR enables model and pipeline parallelism for Llama models.

The change moves the target tensor to the output device, if needed, for loss calculation.


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_The documentation is not available anymore as the PR was closed or merged._<|||||>Great jobs!<|||||>Could you share a snippet of code that is failing prior to this PR?<|||||>Certainly, here's a relatively minimal example:
```python
import transformers, datasets
from peft import (
    LoraConfig,
    get_peft_model,
)

CHECKPOINT = "decapoda-research/llama-7b-hf"
model = transformers.LlamaForCausalLM.from_pretrained(
    CHECKPOINT,
    device_map="auto",
    max_memory={0:"15GB", 1:"15GB"}
)
tokenizer = transformers.LlamaTokenizer.from_pretrained(CHECKPOINT, add_eos_token=True)
tokenizer.pad_token_id = 0

config = LoraConfig(
    r=8,
    lora_alpha=16,
    target_modules=["q_proj","v_proj"],
    lora_dropout=0.05,
    bias="none",
    task_type="CAUSAL_LM",
)
model = get_peft_model(model, config)

data = datasets.load_dataset("laion/OIG", data_files="unified_chip2.jsonl", split="train")

def tokenize(examples):
    return tokenizer(
        examples["text"],
        truncation=True,
        max_length=256,
        padding="max_length",
    )

data = data.map(tokenize)

#Tell Trainer not to attempt DataParallel
model.is_parallelizable = True
model.model_parallel = True
trainer = transformers.Trainer(
    model=model,
    train_dataset=data,
    args=transformers.TrainingArguments(
        per_device_train_batch_size=1,
        learning_rate=3e-4,
        logging_steps=10,
        evaluation_strategy="no",
        save_strategy="no",
        output_dir="/tmp/"
    ),
    data_collator=transformers.DataCollatorForLanguageModeling(tokenizer, mlm=False),
)
model.config.use_cache = False
trainer.train()
```

Before the change, this fails with
`RuntimeError: Expected all tensors to be on the same device, but found at least two devices, cuda:1 and cuda:0! (when checking argument for argument target in method wrapper_CUDA_nll_loss_forward)`

I found the solution here: [Pytorch Pipeline Tutorial](https://pytorch.org/tutorials/intermediate/pipeline_tutorial.html#run-the-model)
> \# Need to move targets to the device where the output of the pipeline resides.

And after the change, the code example above runs as expected.
