Fix gpt2 fp16 training when tracing is enabled
# What does this PR do?

With the PR #20061, the tracing will fail during mixed-precision training, as the dtype for the inputs of a where node are not the same, which is invalid while reusing the ONNX model for inference.

The node:
https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/blob/3ac040bca1efbf5cfe9604a5b2a10a5392917c20/src/transformers/models/gpt2/modeling_gpt2.py#L201

Error message:
```
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ERROR: test_ort_trainer (__main__.TestORTTrainer) (model_name='gpt2', dataset_name='sst2', inference_with_ort=False)
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Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "test_onnxruntime_train.py", line 131, in test_ort_trainer
    train_result = trainer.train()
  File "/workspace/optimum/onnxruntime/trainer.py", line 349, in train
    return inner_training_loop(
  File "/workspace/optimum/onnxruntime/trainer.py", line 615, in _inner_training_loop
    tr_loss_step = self.training_step(model, inputs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 2523, in training_step
    loss = self.compute_loss(model, inputs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/transformers/trainer.py", line 2555, in compute_loss
    outputs = model(**inputs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/torch/nn/modules/module.py", line 1130, in _call_impl
    return forward_call(*input, **kwargs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_utils.py", line 371, in _forward
    return ortmodule._torch_module.forward(*inputs, **kwargs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_utils.py", line 351, in _forward
    return torch_module_ort._execution_manager(torch_module_ort.is_training()).forward(*inputs, **kwargs)
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_training_manager.py", line 273, in forward
    self._fallback_manager.handle_exception(
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_fallback.py", line 162, in handle_exception
    raise exception
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_training_manager.py", line 210, in forward
    self._initialize_graph_builder()
  File "/usr/local/lib/python3.8/dist-packages/onnxruntime/training/ortmodule/_graph_execution_manager.py", line 478, in _initialize_graph_builder
    self._graph_builder.initialize(self._onnx_models.exported_model.SerializeToString(), grad_builder_config)
RuntimeError: /onnxruntime_src/orttraining/orttraining/python/orttraining_pybind_state.cc:731 onnxruntime::python::addObjectMethodsForTraining(pybind11::module&, onnxruntime::python::ExecutionProviderRegistrationFn)::<lambda(onnxruntime::training::OrtModuleGraphBuilder*, const pybind11::bytes&, const onnxruntime::training::OrtModuleGraphBuilderConfiguration&)> [ONNXRuntimeError] : 1 : FAIL : Type Error: Type parameter (T) of Optype (Where) bound to different types (tensor(float) and tensor(float16) in node (Where_223).
```










A little bit more context on the issue, I previously fixed the tracing issue in #18017, but it will harm the performance due to host<->device synchronization, which has been targeted in #20061, but cause the tracing once again failed.

It seems that we can't guarantee the tracing correctness and inference performance with the same line of code while using PyTorch at the same time, that's why in the PR, I distinguish two cases to solve it:
* Case 1: Tracing
* Case 2: Inference with PyTorch<|||||>Also @michaelbenayoun I saw this: https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/pull/18017#issuecomment-1197597894, does the current modeling won't have an issue while doing mixed-precision training for torch.fx?
 <|||||>Feel the same, If/else removed!<|||||>_The documentation is not available anymore as the PR was closed or merged._