Tf trainer cleanup
New version of #6015

Will harmonize the public customization hooks and document everything properly once this is merged.
# [Codecov](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143?src=pr&el=h1) Report
> Merging [#6143](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143?src=pr&el=desc) into [master](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/commit/54f9fbeff822ec0547fd23d0338654456925f6b7&el=desc) will **increase** coverage by `1.02%`.
> The diff coverage is `25.00%`.

[![Impacted file tree graph](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/graphs/tree.svg?width=650&height=150&src=pr&token=9qOlN6Hb1c)](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143?src=pr&el=tree)

```diff
@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master    #6143      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   78.35%   79.38%   +1.02%     
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  Files         146      146              
  Lines       26403    26416      +13     
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+ Hits        20689    20970     +281     
+ Misses       5714     5446     -268     
```


| [Impacted Files](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143?src=pr&el=tree) | Coverage Δ | |
|---|---|---|
| [src/transformers/trainer\_tf.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy90cmFpbmVyX3RmLnB5) | `16.14% <25.00%> (-0.41%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/modeling\_tf\_gpt2.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy9tb2RlbGluZ190Zl9ncHQyLnB5) | `65.42% <0.00%> (-29.91%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/tokenization\_marian.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy90b2tlbml6YXRpb25fbWFyaWFuLnB5) | `68.14% <0.00%> (-25.67%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/tokenization\_xlnet.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy90b2tlbml6YXRpb25feGxuZXQucHk=) | `66.66% <0.00%> (-23.43%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/file\_utils.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy9maWxlX3V0aWxzLnB5) | `82.20% <0.00%> (-0.29%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/generation\_tf\_utils.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy9nZW5lcmF0aW9uX3RmX3V0aWxzLnB5) | `85.96% <0.00%> (-0.26%)` | :arrow_down: |
| [src/transformers/modeling\_tf\_mobilebert.py](https://codecov.io/gh/huggingface/transformers/pull/6143/diff?src=pr&el=tree#diff-c3JjL3RyYW5zZm9ybWVycy9tb2RlbGluZ190Zl9tb2JpbGViZXJ0LnB5) | `96.77% <0.00%> (+73.38%)` | :arrow_up: |

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