text: Title: Tabulator sometimes renders with invisible rows
  Body: #### ALL software version info
  panel==1.4.4
  
  #### Description of expected behavior and the observed behavior
  Tabulator looks like this:
  <img width="1340" alt="image" src="https://github.com/holoviz/panel/assets/156992217/d209cf71-a61d-424d-af9b-d4a2bd2c87b2">
  
  but should look like this:
  <img width="1348" alt="image" src="https://github.com/holoviz/panel/assets/156992217/cc7fdbd7-b24b-4766-8597-e8764ee4037d">
  
  
  #### Complete, minimal, self-contained example code that reproduces the issue
  Unfortunately, don't have a minimum reproducible example. This seems to be a race condition, but I'm hopefull that the error message provided by tabulator is sufficient for a bug fix.
  