text: Title: [FEATURE-REQUEST] Support Google Colab installation without runtime restart
  Body: **Description**
  When running `pip install vaex`, the runtime of the colab is needed to restarted (see attachments)
  
  **Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**
  The problem is some dependencies update matplotlib to larger then 3.22 (which runs on Google Colab)
  **Additional context**
  [Here is a Google Colab that shows the problem and a workaround](https://colab.research.google.com/drive/19O8H2n947R4g5PEMKrOHvIb7pvec3VPg?usp=sharing)
  
  
  Example of runtime restart needed:
  <img width="1197" alt="Screenshot 2022-09-20 at 15 27 03" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/18228395/191348197-88ec9c97-d03f-4eb5-b612-2aa3522aa1c7.png">
  
  
  Example of installing the packages in a way matplotlib is not updated:
  <img width="1547" alt="Screenshot 2022-09-20 at 15 27 56" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/18228395/191348378-4da6ee8a-1eb5-4b33-b920-6df407a55052.png">