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{ "seeker": { "empathy": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "4", "initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "relevance": "5" }, "supporter": { "relevance": "5" } }

[ { "content": "hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello. How are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve we met on instagram", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$ before I know, she requested for my bank details last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I called her no not reacheable chatted her up not replyig", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "she is a bitch I was lost thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them. Were you able to recover any of your loss?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Question" }, { "content": "i can believe now if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying thanks for your time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use. You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" }, { "content": "okay bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I do hope you were able to recover your loss. I wish you luck and hope you can find someone honest and true.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I love your time amen", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Goodbye. Have a good night. I hope you feel better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "i really love your confidence that m oney has gone", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh, I'm so sorry. At least you won't ever fall for something like that again...", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" } ]

{ "seeker": { "empathy": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2", "initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "relevance": "5" }, "supporter": { "relevance": "5" } }

[ { "content": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been arguing a lot, she's pregnant and that makes the whole situation more difficult", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's a challenging situation for anyone!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes I know! We've been able to keep things going because i had some savings and she is currently working at home! But expenses keep summing up", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there temporary work that you might be able to do from home for the time being? It might not pay as well as medicine, but it could help with the bills.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I haven't think about that option until now, I guess my mind was set on getting the job I've always dreamed of and didn't look at other options that might help my situation", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's understandable. You've trained for a job and you want to get the job. I think that in the long term, you will be able to achieve that!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I am! But for now I guess I will just focus on finding a job to help with the bill and keep trying as hard as I can to find a job on my field!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's a great idea. I think that you can find something in the short-term. Companies are always looking for capable employees.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "You are completely right! You've been really helpful! I'm so glad i had this talk! I needed to vent and just have someone to listen to me!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm glad that I was able to help you! Have a great weekend, and best of luck with the job search.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you! Have a great weekend too! Thanks for your help!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hi there my name is Lisa...how are you feeling today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Honestly, it's getting to me, COVID-19, not being able to leave my house safely, having a medical issue that puts me at higher risk.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i can totally relate to that, I am feeling the same way how long have you been feeling this way?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "I don't know what to do with myself. A year. I haven't left my house once.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "so it sounds like you are feeling cooped up and not knowing what to do, am i right?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, it's more than that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "can you tell me more?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm in this house, and scared. Nothing is getting better for me or anyone else I know.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "may I ask where you are located?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "In Mass.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "it's normal to feel scared. Of course it being normal doesn't make it any better... can you get out for walks?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I live in such a populous area, I am afraid to. Especially with warmer temperatures coming.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i see. are you saying your sidewalks are too busy to be able to social distance properly? i find getting out for walks is helpful. i live downtown in a small city. i wear a mask while I walk and veer onto the grass, into the bike lane or whatnot if someone comes...or I look ahead and cross the street if it's convenient...that makes me feel safer when i walk. i have a medical condition too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I just wish I could do that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "what is it that is stopping you, are the sidewalks too crowded? without my walks I'd go crazy...it's my daily stress reliever....i am at home 23 hours a day are you planning to get a vaccine and if so do you know how long you have to wait? i agree with you it's a scary time...but things will get batter....the more people get vaccinnes, the better things will get for all of us are you still there?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Self-disclosure,Question,Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "I am here. Just sad.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "so if I understand you correctly, being stuck at home for a whole year is making you feel very sad. Do you connect with people by telephone, zoom, online, email and so on? It's important to connect as often as you can with people you care about", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do sometimes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "do you have a back yard or a patio you can go out on, which might be less scary than going for a walk? Sometimes just the fresh air on my face is a relief", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do sometimes each my lunch in the yard.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "thats good you are connecting with people, and have lunch outdoors.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks. It feels good.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "those are both important strategies for your low mood, keep it up", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks so much for talking things through with me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello there, how is your day going? Would you like to talk about anything?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My day has been alright, finally got myself to go to the gym today after 4 weeks of not being motivated/ having the time so that's cool.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there something specific that has caused you to lose motivation? I am happy to listen.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "It is hard to put a finger on it, it's just easy to get complacent for me. Especially when I am not seeing results... but i genuinely like going so I'm glad I forced myself to go.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "A lot of gyms have been closed due to the pandemic .. do you think that that knocked your schedule off kilter a bit?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not necessarily, i mean I have had access for awhile, but definitely when they were closed in my state for a period of time it sucked, this whole pandemic sucks lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes it really does. I know that personally I am much less motivated to do anything at all than I was this time last year. Do you feel that there are other areas of your life that you are struggling with too?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "I mean in school not doing great, and not super happy with my social life", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there a specific problem with school or is it just 2020 fatigue?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Its hard to stay motivated, I don't really enjoy it, i mean I am sure a lot of people dont' but its very hard to focus and I'm worried I am in school for the wrong reasons, covid stuff def doesnt help tho", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I do not know how long you have to go in school but if you have not done very much so far would you consider dropping out and perhaps training for a profession instead? Sometimes things can be more lucrative than just having a degree, if that makes sense", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Information" }, { "content": "lol, not that easy, I dont know what profession I would train for... also I have been in college since late 2017 so I am at the final stretch and have already put a bunch of money in, I totally see where ur coming from though, however no trades really jump out to me and interest me. Maybe i can do research but again I am pretty far into college", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well I would say that if you've got as far as you have you might as well get the piece of paper. But the world is your oyster after that - you do not need to be tied to your field!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I agree! I've always worried about money, Im hoping that it becomes a bit of a nonissue, not to get political but the whole capitalism thing is a huge downer lol, Imagine being able to live life without worrying about money, very nice, but then again financial freedom isnt everything.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Certainly I do not think there is any harm in the status quo being shaken up a little .. or indeed a lot!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "forreal, our system is really weird, we place value on these random things and then force people to fight for pieces of paper their whole life, its an interesting problem I find it more interesting how many people dont think about it too deeply, but they are probably happier that way", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I totally agree. I am not totally sure what the solution is but I am hoping that there is one Do you feel as though there is hope for the future though?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Oh definitely, its just scary comparing myself to others that look like they have it all figured out", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When I was a student I sometimes felt that everyone else knew where they were going except me. But I later found out that everyone has some insecurities. That said, I am still not totally sure where I am going a quarter of a century in so I am perhaps not the best person to take advice from :D", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "haha thats true, and dont sell yourself too short..., it is hard to get out of your own head and look at the other perspective, ill keep everything youve said in mind. anyways thanks for talking to me it was nice! have a great rest of your day!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello there, how are things with you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "well I fear losing my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am very sorry to hear that, can you tell me a little about the circumstances?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I work around food all day and it makes me hungry so I have been sneaking bites of food when no ones looking. I am afraid. I will get caught", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So, you are feeling guilty that you've been breaking the rules and your conscience is catching up with you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Well yes. that is correct. but the food looks sooooo good. how can you no eat?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, you won't be able to eat if you get fired ;) I can understand the temptation though - I used to work fast food and I would steal fries sometimes Do you ever have any sort of compulsion to steal other things or is it just food?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "see you do it too!!!!! just food. like fries", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I think that everyone is sometimes tempted to do things that they know that they should not do so do not worry too much but you don't want to risk your job", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ok. so are you saying you stopped stealing fries?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Unfortunately I was fired. Though not for stealing fries. I was just a terrible cook.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "thanks for saying that. I makes you human. Though I do not know if I will be able to stop eating. how do I stop?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, you could try to have a big meal before you go to work so you'd be less tempted?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "hey that's not a bad idea. Any others?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hmm well do you have any friends at work you could confide in who might be able to stop you? Just tell them to remind you that you might be fired if you keep going!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "that's a very good idea. but I could never confide to a co-worker. any other ideas? you are really helping", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Are you religious? You could make pledge to God that you would not steal from work anymore.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "religion has not effect on my judgements. I wish I had such faith. perhaps the world would be a safer and more peaceful world if god would punish those who tried to game the system", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes I agree. Well, what about talking to family members and promising them that you will stop? You do not want to leave your family penniless. Or, if worse came to worse, would you consider looking for a job that did not involve being around food all day?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "Yes perhaps a job with out food would be the solution . like a gambler should not work at a casino. this is a revelatoin", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Do you think you have an addiction to food in general? There are organisations that will be able to help you if that is the case", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Information" }, { "content": "Addict to free food perhaps", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": ":) I hope I have been able to help you today and I wish you all the best!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "same thanks you helped", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "How are you doing today?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am doing well and how are you feeling today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I'm feeling okay today, a bit anxious for my finals this week", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Thank you for sharing, feeling anxious days before an exam is a normal. I am also anxious about my upcoming exam this week.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "What is the exam for?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am preparing to sit to become a clinical counselor. I can relate to feeling anxious. You are not alone. What do you think is triggering your anxiety?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "I think it might be the fear of failure that triggered it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Research has shown that fear of failure does stem from feelings of anxiety, but is it possible to look at fear of failure from a different perspective?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I think it might be possible to look at it from a different perspective", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you think you can channel your fear of failure into positive energy?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I think I probably could How do you think I could do that?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You can turn your anxiety into extra energy to plan and prepare. Having anxiety can give you a boost of energy, which gives you an advantage to achieve your goal.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Others" }, { "content": "I can probably do that, the anxiety can motivate me to create a studying plan", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes, indeed. Having anxiety will keep you anchored to your study plan which would increase your ability to perform well for the exam.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I can do that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Awesome! In addition, as you follow your study plan, remember to pace yourself.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will do that, thank you for your help", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are welcome, I hope this session was helpful.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "I do not what what to do Do you think I should just stop being friends wither?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Being friends with who?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "My friend does not want to be friends anymore after 13 years, she thinks I am too buys with my kids", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "She doesn't want to be friends, but what do you want?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "To be friends, its been 13 years", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you still want to be friends but she doesn't.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "yes She thinks I put her second to me family", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Have you talked with your friend about your feelings?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes, but she does not understand since she is not married and does not have children", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Does she just want to spend more time with you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I think she feels left out", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there a way you can help her feel more included?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I guess I can reinforce that she is always invited over! But I am just soooo exhausted after having twins", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand, that must be exhausting!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "No time to sleep... ever.... How do I tell her I have feelings too She just wants to go out and doesn't offer to help", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand, I think that you should tell her about your situation and how you feel.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I am not very good at expression my emotions rn with out getting emotional", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It is okay to get emotional, it may even help her understand how you feel better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "ugh you are right! I just get scared to break down that all, even after 13 years.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It is okay to be scared, but having emotions and getting emotional is natural.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "you are so right", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you feel like you have a better understanding of what to do?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes I do! Thank you so much", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are welcome, I hope everything turns out all right.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you! Your help means a lot Have a great day", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Good evening!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What's your problem?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am having anger issues and thinking nasty thoughts toward my husband", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is this because of something he does or you are experiencing angry issue with everything?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Mostly because of how he treats me lately He makes disrespectful comments.... Are you female or male", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "So from what I understand, you think your anger is because of your husband's fault. Have you talked to him about his behavior? I am female", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "No it wouldn't do any good I am afraid. Whenever I try to stand up for myself he says Oh here we go again Poor you etc Like just tonight I mopped floor and he came up and said What are you sick ? Youre actually cleaning. Than I said yes I was actually on my hands and knees last week when I mopped and he said well get used to being on your knees and touched himself", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "That's gross. I can't believe he said all those things to you. I'm sorry you have to hear those words from your husband.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "He's always saying stuff like that and constantly trying to refer to lets just say going down", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You need to stand up for yourself. I know it's difficult and as you said, won't even do any good. However, if you keep your silence, he'd think it's okay to treat you that way because he has power over you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I know even my good friends that know me and everything that is said agrees with you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'd advise you to disclose this to a family member and have them with you (on the phone) when he starts talking like that that way the other person can call him off", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "My mom already knows and his parents are dead and he has no relations with any other family. HE wont listen He knows everything and its HIs way or else He is very controlling", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "if you want, you can talk to him one last time and let him know it's enough. I fhe doesn't change, you will cut off with him You have to stand up for you self first before expecting him to do that", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" }, { "content": "Thats true and its time for a change. Thank you so much . I do feel better", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If he intimidates you, you should practice what to say and then do the talk in public or when someone else is around I believe you can do it", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you . Its sounds like you know what you are talking about. Ill try it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope you at least will be able to settle with your husband", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Well I can try and pray it does I need to get my boys ready for bed as it is a school night. thanks again", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Have you ever threatened to leave him?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes i have years ago and he threatened to take boys", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Then you should do it for real this time and see if he changes.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "and he would prove I am an unfit mom", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The mom always has an upper hand in these issues", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "but he has photos of dirty house and that I was dignosed with major clinical depression", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You should also have photos of clean house to prove against him", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "as for depression, as long as you have proof youre seeking treatment, you should be fine", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I used to but he wont let me get treatment He doesnt believe in therapy for me him familly etc", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "do it secretly, behind his back", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "there is no way I can he tracks everything", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "it all comes down to you have to let him see that you can stand on your own. He's treating you like this because he thinks he can control you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "ok I need to go take care keep safe", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "HI, how are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "hi i have a lot going on. i am depressed because i am soo stressed", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Thats sucks, what's going on?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I work full time, do frelance work on the side, i am a single mom of twin 6 year olds and an 8 year old, and i am in college for my masters degree also my lease is up next month and i was notified they are raising it 300 dollars. i cant afford it. im scared and cant find anywhere cheaper to move", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh wow, that is a lot. Add a pandemic to the mix. I can see why you'd feel overwhlemed.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "sorry, guess i am venting my boyfriend and i broke up 2 weeks ago. that isnt helping.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Its actually kind of nice to vent on these anonymous things.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "ugh i just wish i could get a break thanks, :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Boyfriend too. Anybody around to talk to? Family friends?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "family is about 8 hours away. i dont really have friends. i havent had time to make or keep any. i would love to i just dont even know how to fit in finding time to talk to anyone im an army veteran... i have ptsd so i dont do well with crowds. its hard making new friends", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "How about other moms in your kids friend groups? I've found that cna be an easier way to get to knwo people bc you are all doing childcare anyway?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "thats not a bad idea, maybe i can find a moms group on facebook", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm interested in your free lance work. What kind of stuff are you doing? Is it a passion thing or a paying hte bills thing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "paying the bills. ugh. i do mturk and then i am on upwork. i write articles and edit papers and books.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Got it. Mturk is always there when you can't sleep!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "lol my day is so packed i wish i had more time to sleep! i'm usually up late writing papers for scool i graduate in september. i keep telling myself to hang in till then", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "What are you studying? Any connections through your program?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "of course then i will need to start delivering food or sometihng as an additiona ljob to pay student loans lol im doing an online college. i am getting my master's in organizational managment i really appreciate you talking to me. its actually helping a bit", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Yeah, it took me forever to get through my loans but bit by bit got there. Sounds like a good program that can lead to a better job (and maybe only one job someday!) Investing in the future is defintely a good thing", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I want to be a good example for my kids :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I've been to see counselors a few times when going through tough patches (ask me about divorce, job loss and moving to a new countrey in one year) and have found that it helps to be abel to vent to someone who doesn't know you - ha.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "lol very true", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Kids can be positive motivation for sure. But right now you're in the toughest part of parenthood. Threel ittle ones who need your support and you are doing it by yourself. You are fighting the fight for sure.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thanks for being here today, i hope the rest of your day goes well!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You too!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello. How are you tonight", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi, I feel somewhat concerned, I failed a test. I might fail the class. I honestly sometimes feel like college is too hard for me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand how you feel.i am between classes also are your classes online in person", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "A mixture. I currently have 2 online classes and 2 face-to-face ones.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you have a full schedule Are these mandatory classes for your degree May I aks what your major is", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question,Question" }, { "content": "Yes, I am in a full schedule. The class I might fail is mandatory for my Computer Science degree. That is why I am so concerned.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is it online in person", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "That class in particular is online.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Being online makes it harder.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "You think so? I kept telling myself that they were supposed to be easier, since its on the computer.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Maybe the in person classes can be restructured, maybe you can change your schedule", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "If I fail the class, would you suggest I retake it in person then?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "My classes are online and I can chose my load. Are the i person classes more important then this class I would. But before you fail can you drop the class then pick it up in person", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I don't think I can, the withdrawal period ended long ago...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Can you talk with your teacher for extra credits", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "That could be an option, although he can be very rude at times. I don't think he will accept.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there away to talk with him in person to explain your issue Ask for his advise in person versus the online", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I will consider doing that that. What if he doesn't want to give me any extra credit oppourtinities? I might have to deal with failing the class...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "If you get a failing grade you can take what you have learned and use it for the future", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "That is true, I never looked at it that way. It might not be that tragic after all...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sometimes what we learn can be used to better ourselves", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I agree... I definetely feel a little better now. More calmed.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi. Currently unemployed and this effects my impression of self as a person, husband and father. Doing mturk work and created a Youtube channel to share information gleaned during prison time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi there. I understand how are you feeling. I have been looking for job for the past 5 months and it is a huge challenge.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Sorry to hear of you own challenge. Job search sites seem to have so much garbage out there.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you been looking online and try to apply for other jobs?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes, have emails coming in from several sites. At the same time though been helping out elderly parents with doctors, cleaning, cooking, etc. How about you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I know most of them is not helpful and somethimes waste of time. It is important that you keep ypurself busy during this time", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Hence doing the mturk work and creating content for the Youtube channel. This is part creative and hopefully income producing in the future.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm doing some kinda gig jobs too. I have been selling a lot things on Ebay, same thing i can use my creativity and dont let my mind go crazy Yes, I believe Youtube channel is a great source for new opportunities nowadays Everybody is facing a challenge time right now, we are all together on this", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Sounds like a similar situation. Not sure if these efforts will pay off long term but need to do something to maintain sanity. Youtube can pay something if there are enough hits and subscribers.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sure, in short term is a good choice. The most impoetant thing is looking foward always. For long term we are going to figure out something else", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Having a religious base too can help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "For me this is the powerful tool, I pray every single day We need to be grateful for beeb alive and for been health.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Information" }, { "content": "Unfortunately, too many are at the base of the hill of the Lord and not climbing. Followers, not disciples. Hard to have gratitude when seeing other or thinking of our past.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes but still has few that are on the right path. We need to keep our faith", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Encourage you to continue your journey. This life is but a blip in the eternal spectrum.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sure soon we are going to see the lights at the end of the tunnel.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Unfortunately making amends in some ways depends on having money which requires a job.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What do like to do on your free time?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Working on a notebook of studies I did during my prison time. Content that is becoming the Youtube channel. Also work out to stay fit and mentally healthy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Sounds interesting. I wish I had more ideas to do youtube as well but I am not good doing this things.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks for the effort. This task seems to be taking longer than I thought.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes Im working out too not much as i wish. Thank you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "Hard to work out when your bummed Going to sign out now.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello, how are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Feeling anxious these days", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Those can be really hard feelings to deal with, but reaching out and acknowledging them is a very positive step. Is their anything in particular making you feel anxious?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes I dropped out of graduate school Now, I need to get a job, but I'm having difficulty finding jobs for my degrees And it's just stressful and depressig", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Drastic changes in our life plans can feel very upsetting and looking for a job in these times is ridiculous.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, it really is", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What made you feel the need to drop out of graduate school?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I wasn't finding the program challenging or interesting or a life course I was sure I wanted to go down anymore The only jobs I really can do with biology are lab jobs, which are somewhat boring. There are some others, but not many", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand that and that was a really brave choice to make before you cornered yourself into a degree that wouldn't benefit your future paths.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yea, I think that's true. Other people say that I am a quitter They say I quit everything", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Have you gone and smoke to your local job centers? They can often times find suitable jobs or even creative suggestions that can utilize your skills and even grown them.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "No, I'm not aware of any local job centers around me. I mostly have been looking online at places like indeed.com I'm not sure what you mean by \"job center,\" I guess, either", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Refusing to finish something that does not benefit your end goal isn't quitting its merely switching strategies to your personal end goal", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Oh, yea. That's a good reframe. I like that. I suppose, I'm just getting older and wish I had better, more stable options available to me. All this education hasn't really left with me many hard skills, I feel", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am from North Carolina and in every city there are job centers, you can look them up by that title, they have people there who can help you find work based on your personality and skills. as well helping with resumes, interveiws, computers, all kinds of things.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Interesting. I guess I can look into that. I am from Ohio. That's not bad advice. I am somewhat kicking myself for paying so much money on education that wasn't really worth that much. I guess there isn't much I can do about that, though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Im sorry you feel that way but education is never a wasted effort it can only make you level up even if you choose not to actively use what you acquire. Its always nice to have a big back up arsenal so you have options when something you want does turn up. Im really glad that suggestion might be helpful for you. Have you checked to see if any of the credits you have earned already are transferable to another degree you may find of interest?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Information,Others" }, { "content": "I suppose there can be truth in that. I had a friend say that as well, that education is never a wasted effort. I agree sometimes. I should have thought about the program more before I went into it, but ah, oh well. Nothing I can do about it, now. No, it wouldn't be transferable. I have though about doing some grad school for something bio related. I don't know. I'm 30 now and getting burned out, to be honest Anyway, you've said a lot of nice and helpful things. I don't want to take too much time from you. After all, you won your bonus money. But, I really do appreciate you talking to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "oh man that sucks, I am sorry. Thirty really is not old in our current time. shoot alot of people dont event start school till that age for whatever reason or the other.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yea, people are going to school older and older. True", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hahaha lol thank you so much. I enjoyed talking to you and really do wish you the best of luck.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks. Well earned money there, for you Bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I appreciate your patience with my spelling and grammar. bye bye", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i am kind of depressed how are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry to hear that. These are trying times. Is there anything specific making you feel so down? I'm doing okay today, thank you for asking", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Others" }, { "content": "you are so nice. i lost my job and having trouble finding a new on one", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh, I'm so sorry. I can empathize a bit. I lost mine earlier this year due to covid, but they did bring us back", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "that is good for you! i don't think the job i was at is coming back.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry. It can definitely be difficult finding a new job, especially these days.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "i just feel so discouraged no one is responding to my jobsearch", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you updated your resume? I always forget to update mine when I'm job searching. I leave out so much important information!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "that is a good idea. i updated the contact info. but i could read it again.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That might be good. Try to include all those little details about what you did, even if it doesn't seem significant. I think it shows flexibility and willingness to like cross train and learn new skills", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "i feel like no one is really hiring because of the holidays i can understand that, except i need employment now. i already cut back on christmas and am just making little inexpensive gifts can i ask you something?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's definitely a good way to save money, and I think the homemade gifts are more meaningful and full of love, anyway. And yes, of course!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "i hope that the love comes across!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh, I'm sure it will! Just knowing that you took the time and made the effort to make something personal for them is amazing!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "do you think anyone actually reads the cover letter part of your application?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I honestly don't know. Cover letters are weird, I never know how to do them correctly lol I don't know if they're there just to make sure you're following directions or if they're actually important. I like to think someone does, but I'm really not sure.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Right!?! I agree! Lol.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Applications are so weird! Why do I want to work here? Um, because these bills won't pay themselves lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "thats funny and too real. i just was thinking about what you said earlier and maybe if i took the part of the cover letter where i state my transferable skills and put it at the beginging of the resume it might help. after all i think we both decided no one is really seeing it in the letter. what do you think?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! how are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi ok I guess Very worried", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "What are you worried about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am being evicted I am very scared I will not find a place to go in time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am so sorry to hear that. When will that happen? You should start looking through places online, there are tons of sites online.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "December 31st the CDC moratorium ends alot of people will be homeless Many are fake we are in a housing crisis", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It's true, it's so horrible. I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried reaching out to family?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I may be going to my brother's to wait out the pandemic Hoping many people will speak up", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I think so, it;s great that you have a brother. Family is so important right now to help all of us stay sane in this pandemic.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "We definitely should all pull together. I am also hoping to find some grassrooots charities for people like me without families", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "There are aa ton! If you search online or on social media. I've recently started to get involved with many of them. There are ones providing food, home goods, and even housing for people impacted by the pandemic.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I contacted the community law program, thanks for the idea Sending them an email after this..", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's so great! IT will make you feel good to be proactive and do something. You can also take this time to focus on hobbies and other things that you wnat.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Agreed! Thanks for your support!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It was my pleasure.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I am noy allowed to feel better for 3 more minutes so I guess I am still working on it Where have you found your most useful resources?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "No way! you should try to be poistiive. I\"ve found most of my useful resources by just googling and spending time looking through results. I also have surprisingly found a lot on social media - like twitter.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Twitter seems to be where I have also found most of mine.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's great! IT's also a good place because you can ask questions.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hello. How are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am well, how are you/", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Pretty well at the moment, but not so good overall.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What is it that I can help you with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Well, I can't figure out a good strategy to study for my tests. I keep failing.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What tests are you struggling with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Mainly, the ones that require memorization, subjects like political science, government, history, economics, biology. I don't really struggle with physics or math because it's more whether you can do the thing or not.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So from what I understand, you are struggling with study strategies to help you pass your tests?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "that is correct", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am in school as well and I struggle with ways to study for tests as well. Are there any online study groups that you could join for these classes? I found it is very helpful to study with other students who are struggling in the same way I am.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Well, yeas, that was kind of working for me for a while, but now corona hit us, and all the classes are online. So group studying is no longer as efffective. Do you have any other methods of overcoming it, that you are willing to share?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you thought about connecting through zoom, or google meet? Video conferencing has become very popular since COVID began.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I could. It brings its own complications but it should be fine.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It definitely takes some getting used to, but after you get used to it, it is a great tool@", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you for the advice", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello how are you \\", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am well than you, and yourself?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am good, I was wondering if you could help me with advice from a breakup that I went through many years ago", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You went throught a breakup a few years ago?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, but I still think about it all the time It still bothers me Has something similar happened to you before", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "How long ago was the breakup?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Many years ago this was not recent at all", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I had a bad breakup that I thought about for about 6 months. Then I realized that life moves on. If it did not work out, it was for a reason.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "But none of my partners have lived up to her How did you come to that realization Was it just time or was there something that you actually did", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I thought about the good times and bad. I went over why it didn't work. I realized that it never would have. Then I carried that new knowledge to my next relationship", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Oh that is good advice did it work for you or would you suggest that I do something like this or something slightly different", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "It was time and meeting new people/partners. I knew after the breakup more about myself and what I needed in a long term/life long partner Have you been dating other people?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "Yes since that time I have dated other people , and many of them have been great people", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "They have been great people? You need to learn/remember what you liked most about the partner that you are talking about, what you didn't like most, and find both a new partner.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "It still keeps lingering in the back of my head about my ex even though I have had other great partners Yes this is good advice thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I know you will find the rigt person.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you this is very kind and helpful advice, and it is helpful to know that it comes from experience", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It took my 2 years after my last breakup to find my now wife! Just be patient and keep looking", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Please tell me if there are any other things that I should try that you have not mentioned as well?>", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, you could read a few books about relationships? Do some research", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Are there any particular books or authors that you would recommend", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Not really, I would just look online, and type in relationship books and look at reviews.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "That is good, I have a friend that only reads these types of books, I could ask him for some suggestions, I don't want to seem like I am being a burdun to him though He is a counselor and I am sure that he is frequently asked to help people when he just wants to be a normal friend", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You think you will burden him? You are not a burden We all have different gifts that my benefit our friends. That is part of being a good friend.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I just don't want to ever feel like I am being a burden to people,", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are not. Be confident in yourself", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "That is very true that different people have different gifts that they want to share I never thought of it like that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Glad I could help", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Have a great day and thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You as well", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "oh wait have we reached the appropripriate amount of time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! How's it going today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hello! I'm pretty good today, what about you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm doing really well, thanks. What brings you here today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm just having some old thoughts about a past relationship. IT's making me sad", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can appreciate that. Thinking about lost loves makes me sad too! What about this particular relationship makes you feel sad?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "Yeahhh I re read some old messages from a while back and just started thinking about it again. IT's going to sound quite dramatic, but I regret breaking up with this person. I feel as though they were my soulmate. And I ruined it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh...I see, you think s/he's the \"one who got away?\" Why did you break up?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "Pretty much... but the dumb thing about that is I am the one who broke it off. I was with him since beginning of high school, and so I never knew anything other than him. But Earlier this year I was having second thoughts and thought we should try new things for a while. In the beginning, I was doing fine and he was having a really hard time. But now I miss him more than anything and he is now better off without me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Wow...that does sound painful. I know how hard it is to let go of a guy you really loved. I've had to break up with a few of them over the years!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yeah? Do you miss any of them? Or do you feel like it was right for you in the long run", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "In the long run, I feel that those break-ups were absolutely necessary. I'm in a really good place now. And they are too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yeah that is good. That is everything that I'm hoping for. But it's not coming fast enough", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I eventually learned to think of it like this: every man I loved taught me something important about myself. ANd I taught them things about themselves. ANd it doesn't happen overnight. But eventually, you will probably be able to see how you grew as a result of the breakup. Maybe the things you will learn can help you be ready for Mr Right!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I really appreciate that way of looking at it. Of course I will always cherish my memories and the things I learned from him. And I want to think of those things as happy experiences rather than sad memories", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's a really good way of looking at it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "How long did it typically take you to finalyl be over them and happy with what you ecperienced?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oohh.... I think it really depended on how long I was with them. ANd why I decided to end it. The longer relationships Maybe a few weeks to a few months before I was ready to move on and try again. BUt Only a fraction of that was crying with Ben & Jerry's!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hahaha yes. That really does help honestly !", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "For me it just happened that one day, I thought about Gary and I didn't really feel that sad anymore. I just thought...wow, we had some good times. B&J's and a few good rom-coms ought to put you in a better mood! Lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yeah I guess I am just waiting for that day when my thoughts are genuinely me just grateful for the times we shared but not missing them. And honestly, some days I do feel like that! And then it all comes back. I think I am getting there", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It really sounds like you are making progress! Just remember the old saying \"time heals all wounds.\"", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yeah exactly. You are right! Thanks so much", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It's my pleasure! I hope you keep feeling stronger!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": ":) I definitely will", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "im good. getting tired. had a long day hola?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you worked really hard today. How are you taking care of yourself?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "im good. just talked to my friend who is going in for heart surgery next week", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That must be really hard. I'm glad that you were able to make time for your friend who is going through a difficult time.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thank ya. yeah it's important im there for him right now. he has to be nervous. they're going to open 4 or 5 valves.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you are handling the situation well, given the stressful circumstance. What are some things you are doing to cope with this difficult situation?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thank ya. nothing that much different. i told my sister about it. she seems understanding about it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's wonderful that you have a support network that you trust and that you can talk with about this. I know that talking through things is really helpful for me too. Have you considered seeking professional help during this time?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "nope. i feel that i get enough support from family. it might've been an option if I didn't have a strong support system", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's fantastic. Having family around during a tough season like this must be such a blessing. It's great that you can be there for your friend, almost as if they were part of your family, too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yeah they feel like part of the family. i've known them since i was in college 20 years ago. we haven't always talked the whole time but....", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "20 years is a long time! It takes a lot of commitment to your friendship to not only keep in touch for that long, but also make the time to support them emotionally when it matters most. You are a loyal friend, and your friend is lucky to have you around!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thank ya. him and I are there for each other. We dated briefly at first but have been friends ever since. He said I was the one who got away. But he was the one who ended it lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you and him have had quite the history, but your friendship has proven to remain strong through thick and thin (20 years!). I can't imagine how stressful it must be to be for him to be waiting for surgery, and I'm sure it means the world to him that you are by his side. How has your friendship been in the midst of everything these days?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It's been good. We've been talking about Covid and the election too. I know I'd be nervous to go in for heart surgery.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's great to hear. Both COVID and the election have certainly been stressful. What are some ways that you have been able to support each other?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "just being there for each other as a listening ear", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's so easy to feel alone these days. Sometimes being present is all you can do, but it's the absolute best thing that you can do. Keep going, you're doing great!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thank ya! nity nite", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You're welcome! Thank you for being a wonderful friend, the world needs more people like you. Take care of yourself :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello Are you here to help?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Hello! How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "not to good my wife wants to split and it was after finding out we couldnt have any more kids, we have 1 already", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh no, I am so sorry to hear you are going through this difficulty. I am here to help and lend a sympathetic ear.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks. Do you think there is any way to fix this?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think there is a way to handle any situation. Have you had an honest and open conversation with your wife on both of your feelings on the matter?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes very open and honest. Turns out she has some form of cancer and it is the cause of not being able to have anymore kids.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am so sorry to hear that your wife has cancer. I have had an ill loved one and I know how difficult that can be, not just for the person going through it but for the family too. How do you feel about not having any more kids?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "yes very stessful. I want more kids. I have only had 2 of my own, 1 with my wfie 1 with my former partner.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I see. And is it a deal breaker for you if you cannot have any more kids? Would you be willing to stay with your wife and be content with the children you already have?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "no not a huge deal breaker. But it is at the same time. Its a hard situation", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand, it is a very difficult situation What is more important to you? Your relationship with your wife or having another child?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "a little of both i suppose. Its so hard to choose. I guess time will tell...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes, it's tough. Maybe you should think about both scenarios and write down how it would make you feel. Picture being without your wife and how would that make you feel. Then picture being with your wife and your current family and how that would make you feel.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "thank you for your help. I appreciate it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Of course, I am here for whatever you need", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "of course. I appreciate it so much. I want to stay with my wife, I really do. I guess there could be medication available to help perhaps.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Maybe you can tell your wife that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yeah could probably do that. We are early in this so things could go either way.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "For sure. Is there anything else I can help with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I hope they go good for my and my wife sake.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "me too", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello How may i help you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "I had misunderstanding with my friend and I have fear that I am gonna loose her", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Can you explain to me what the misunderstanding was about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I was bit busy and wasn't able to talk to her for a few days, so she thought I was ignoring her.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ok i see so she thinks you are ignoring her?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, she thinks I am ignoring her, but I never meant to do that. I tried to tell her that I was busy with some work, but she thought I was lying to her and now I'm very sad.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand how you are feeling about that I would be upset to.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "What should I do to still be friends with her? I don't know what to do anymore!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you tried to talk to her again recently?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes. I even texted her and called her. She opened my messages but didn't respond and she even ignored my calls.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I would give her 2 or 3 days to her self then try to talk to her again", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Its been more than 3 days and I have given her time. I don't think I can wait longer. I might loose her.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Maybe you should go up to her house", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Due to the COVID cases right now I am trying to not risk the safety of others and myself. I don't know that going up to her house would be the best option at this moment :(", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Right i can understand", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "We have been friends for so many years and I do not know why she is acting like that. I do not want to loose this precious friendship.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I would suggest just keep trying to talk to her and apologize and tell her you been really busy and was not trying to ignore her Send her a apology card in the mail", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I appreciate your suggestions. This sounds like a good option. Thank you so much for your help!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "your welcome I hope yall will work it out", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I hope so as well.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Things will get better for you to", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hope you have a wonderful Holiday.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "How do you become happy? How do you find something worth living for?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi, I think there are a lot of ways to become happy and to find something worthy living for. Let's start with things that interest you. What do you like doing for fun?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I don't really know anymore, nothing makes me happy these days. I used to like reading a lot but it's become a chore.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "And what kinds of things did you like to read?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Mostly fiction books. Fantasy, historical novels, contemporary fiction, anything really.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's really great! I used to struggle with finding joy in reading as well. I was a graduate student at the time so I was mostly reading research papers.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Do you like reading again? What helped?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you tried picking up a new hobby? Something you have always thought might be fun but haven't ever tried because of lack of time or energy?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I wanted to try rock climbing, but I don't know. I'm not really in the best shape.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I do like reading now. I took some time after school to take care of my mental health by going on walks and being in nature. Overtime, I started to pick up books again. I've found I really like true crime and autobiographies the best", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I feel like people will just make fun of me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Rock climbing is so fun! Have you tried taking a beginners course? I started there. I was very nervous I would be made fun of, but found that it was a really supportive community.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I guess I can give it a try. But I don't know if it will be enough.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You might find it's just the community of people that you need right now. From my experience, they were all super friendly and open to helping me along the way.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I guess you're right. I tend to get caught up in my own thoughts, which never have anything good to say about me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Just from chatting with you, you seem like such a nice person. I don't think anyone would have mean things to say about you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "That's kind of you to say.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I really hope you'll take the leap to trying rock climbing! It was so fun for me when I did it and I can't wait to get back out there to learn more (hopefully COVID will be over soon!) :-)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yeah I think I'll check if any gyms are open right now and try a class.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hello. how was your day?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not very good. I just learned today that my job will be making layoffs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that's sounds good, you are learning about your job", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "No, that isn't good. People will lose their jobs. Po ssibly me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "don't worry my friend believe on your progress and hardwork and the luck too may be yours", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I don't have seniority in my position. I have only been at my job for 5 years.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i could understand your state right now. its hard to be in this position of fear", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, the uncertainty is crippling. Especially in these times.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yes, you are right especially during this pandemic many people face these kind of difficulties", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I'm not sure what to do and I just want to know what my company plans to do.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Always hope for a best result. This will keep you optimistic", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I am definitely trying to stay optimistic and hopeful.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That' sounds too good .At the same time be ready to face whatever the life gives us", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I agree. I am keeping my options open in case there are layoffs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Life is full of surprises and miracles. and the same time life is full of pains and sorrow. it matters how we see even the layoff thing you can take it either as a surprise or pain", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Well being laid off could be painful because I really like my job and it will be hard to find similar pay.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i have also faced the same problem before two years but the luck was on my side at that time and not last for long after some months i was asked to leave but now i become normal", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Well that's good. I am hoping for the best for myself and my collegues. colleagues", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "that's good. you seems to be more optimistic and acceptable in nature and your concern about your colleagues is great", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" } ]

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[ { "content": "HELLO HOW ARE YOU TODAY?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Hi! I am feeling down and upset", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "CAN YOU FIND ONE POSITIVE THING THAT HAPPENED TODAY?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "No! I keep hearing the negative cruel remarks being repeated in my head over and over", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "WHAT DO YOU HEAR?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Also, you typing in all caps consistenly makes it feel like you are yelling at me How I am worst than a pig. I am white trash! Even pigs are cleaner than I am . I am worthless", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I apologize I broke my hand and its easier for me.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Ok no worries . I am so sorry. Please continue in caps. I just sprained my left thumb and wore a splint It was so difficult and painful so ignore my comment", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am sorry that the world has hurtful people. are these people who can be avoided?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No I currently live with him. My ex was way worst", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Can you get away from this situation? I have resources that could help you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have two boys and he said if I left him I would never see kids again.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "we can get the kids to safety as well", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "no I know him and he took photos of the house . He has proof I ve been diagnosed with Major clinical depression so he d prove I m unfit", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "do you think this something to be reconciled?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "possibly but he won't go to therapy nor am I allowed to either", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well thats concerning. He could not prove anything if he is keeping you from therapy. essentialoly denying you medical care", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks for trying . I am going to go lay down and take a nap!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "can i help in anyway", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" } ]

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[ { "content": "Good afternoon.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How are you feeling today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am feeling okay how are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am glad to hear that I am fine as well. How can I help you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Thank you. That is good. I feel I am depressed because I have been bullied and it is still continuing today.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that. How can I help you deal with the bullies? Can you stand up to them in a safe way?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Well, to be honest, dealing with these bullies are pretty tough, Is there a safe way I can handle them?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand your concern, but I feel you have to tell them that you do not deserve to be bullied and they need to stop now.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Okay. I will do that. Thank you. Also, what if one of the bullies starts a fight with me?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Do you need any more advice on this matter or do you have any other concerns? The bully is the problem, not you. Do you have anyone who can stand up to them with you for support?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I do. One more piece of advice before we part ways. I have my fiance for support. I would want to know how I can stand up to these bullies.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Have your fiance approach them with you so you are safe. Be strong and firm and do this in a very public area if possible so you have witnesses. Do you have a meeting place where you feel safe?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes he has. I will thank you. Yes. We are meeting in a park and I have people who are coming down.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope this is all behind you soon so you can feel better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I will thank you so much for your help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When will this meeting take place?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Today at 5 pm.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Please take care and stay safe. Are you nervous?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I will thank you. I am but I think I will be alright.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am so glad to hear this. Good luck!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thank you!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are welcome!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Have a great day!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi from Michigan! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Im going pretty good, just trying to get through laundry", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ugh! That's a never ending battle for me! Do you have a lot of it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not too bad, it's more so the folding and putting away afterward that seems to take the longest.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's the worst part. I've given up on folding. Do you have something that's bothering this evening?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "It does feel good to put things away though, my room has been a tornado recently, just not feeling like doing much these days. The pandemic crazies hit pretty hard recently. I wish I could just see peoples faces again, and go out to eat. It really sucks to be at home all the time. Like I get it, but it's challenging, and lonely.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I can relate. This whole year has been a mess.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I want to be optimistic but its hard when it feels like you're always on the brink of losing everything. It really sucks.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you think you're staying away from people because you're supposed to or you're afraid of getting sick?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I would definitely say both. I also don't live near any family or friends anymore. I moved to a totally new place a few months before the pandemic Lost the job I moved here for, most of the friends I had made needed to move back in with family, it's just a mess. And we're on level red these days, so most businesses are closed around here.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "It's hard to be optimistic when everything seems so uncertain. I can't imagine how lonely that would feel especially in a new place.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yup.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Are you still keeping in contact with your friends and family back home?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "As much as possible, but it's never the same. It's strange honestly. Part of the reason I moved away was to get away from my home and everything familiar, and this whole experience kinda reminded me why it's nice to have that around.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It really isn't. That's such a hard situation to be in. I really can't think of much of a solution unfortunately.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "There's no need to find a solution, really. It's just sucks, and that's okay It's perseverance through hardship that make you grateful in the end, but the process still sucks.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I guess in a way this whole thing has been an eyeopener for you. Are you considering moving back home when this is over?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Haha no way that place sucks. :) I love where I've moved, it's lonely for now, but the small taste I got of the town when I first moved is enough to stay for. We'll see what the future brings.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Very true about perseverance. I think everyone is feeling a bit depressed at this point.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It's very easy to. Just watching old videos with crowds of people is so strange and nostalgic", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You seem to have a good mindset about everything. You should try doing the support side of this next time! lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Lol for sure dude. Thanks for chatting :) It's good to get crap out.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "No problem, you too! These are actually pretty decent hits. Slave wage though lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Agreed. It's better than nothing though I hope you have a great night, seeya!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "How can I help you today? It is Christmas, so I expect there to be help for the lonely.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Information" }, { "content": "Yeah, I'm pretty stressed today with the news from Nashville", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The news from Nashville? What about it is making you feel anxious?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "I had to miss my family Christmas get together yesterday as well", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are totally stressed out?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "oh yeah, there was a bomb that went off in Nashville Tennessee this morning Very stressed", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I can tell that you are feeling bad about not seeing loved ones. Do you have any treadmills you can use or a gym you can access today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have a full home gym actually. I just never am motivated enough to use it lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When I am stressed, I usually take a brisk walk of 30 to 45 minutes.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yeah, some exercise could help get my mind off of other things", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "They say that fresh our is really good for releasing stress. Do you have acupuncturists or holistic healers near you? I try and walk and get fresh air almost daily. I love parks and paths to walk through.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "They do but I'm not very into alternative medicine. I did relax outside for a bit though. Its very snowy and pretty here today we got about an inch of now over the night", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Well, shoveling can be good for releasing tension in the body by exercising by shoveling, even though it is short.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "That's a good idea actually, I've been tracking snow in going up and down stairs, could clear a path", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I like doing a little shoveling but you have to do it right, as to not wear out your back. Do you like snow? We had a rain storm for hours on Christmas Eve. I wanted a little snow to make things look nice. Are my suggestions helping any?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question,Question" }, { "content": "I love snow, winter is my favorite season I hate hot weather. It started christmas eve raining a ton here but it got to 15F over the night so it turned to a pretty heavy snow. They are, helped take my mind off of the stuff I wass stresing over", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Well, there are incense pots that allow you to close you eyes and feel the glow of the meditation sticks. Certain scents can release stress. Do you have any on the home that you can burn?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do have some incense sticks, I usually use palo santo sticks though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have heard good things about Palo Santo sticks and rosemary / lavender oils that can calm and relax,", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I think I have some rosemary essential oil actually", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you have any music or sound effects that you can listen to as to be able to relax?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I do, have some music on currently I love music, I'm almost always listening to something lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I suggest rosemary oils all the time. Getting a few quaffs can calm the nerves. Listening to calming sound effects like running creek water in the woods or dolphins communicating could put you in a good mood. They say its best to stop those racing thoughts and breath in a steady pace.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions,Information" }, { "content": "I will definitely try out the roemary oil", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you need any other insights?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "no I think that helped. Gonna try those out in a few minutes, thanks : )", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You've done great at telling me your thoughts and deep feelings. Ok. You are doing great with being more at ease. I can tell from your responses that my suggestions have got the wheels moving.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance,Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yeah, I feel a lot calmer now Thank you for all of the help", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you are really upbeat and happier. You can click the red finish and exit button to complete the session. :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "do you not have one?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hey! how are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I'm stressed about my college finals.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that is a huge stressor! when are finals? what year are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that gives you a little bit of time to prepare and you have experience with finals, so that's good", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yes I'm glad I have time!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "what specifically is bothering you or is it usualy exam stress plus covid?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "what a great goal! do you have a plan for preparing for exams? i always found that mapping it out with a study plan helped me", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I'm just going to start checking them off one by one.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "you have a plan and you have some time! what else do you need? chocolate? LOL ;-)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "haha yes please! that will make me more happy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "are you on campus? or at home?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I actually just left for home yesterday and am here now. I I will also stay home to do finals instead of going back", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "my freshman has been at home all semester.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Oh wow! Thankfully I was able to go back. It helped to be around friends and not at home.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "fortunately he doesn't know any different", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "yes, it is sad that this semester isn't like last year. That's been hard", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i can't imagine how wierd it is for you, knowing how it used to be", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "yes, it's a bit depressing to be honest. i feel like i'm not living like a college student anymore", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i'm sorry it's been so weird for you. but you are killing it with your grades. you shouldbe proud!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "thank you! its been an adjustment but thankfully im doing good.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "its got to be good being back home", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "for the most part yes. i do miss my friends obviously", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i can tell you your parents have been worried about you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "i think they probably have haha", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "they are glad you are home", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "thank you for your help!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello there, how is your day going?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there something that you'd like to talk about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Wow that sounds like a big problem. Is he aware of how much distress this is causing you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Like, if he gets up and goes to work then he needs to eat out to reward himself.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you feel that he is misunderstanding life? That he feels that he deserves things just for existing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Exactly. And if I push further, he compares himself to other people: \"Well, at least I don't hit you.\" or \"At least I'm not an alcoholic\" Like I should thank him for existing.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like a really toxic relationship - I hear you! I have been in that position also. In the end I felt that I had no choice but to leave. I cannot tell you what to do, though.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "It's hard because we have children. When we were just dating, he was a different person. He didn't start to act this way until after our eldest was born.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ah, unfortunately a lot of men are like that - before you become seriously committed they seem totally different. Have you considered seeking professional help?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "The problem all boils down to money. If I had enough for therapy I wouldn't be worried about his spending habits! lol. But, you're right, that's probably what we both need!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I believe that there are some organisations that will offer free therapy sessions for people in need. Have you considered asking your doctor?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Really? I'd definitely be interested in that. Do they have online therapy like that?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks for your help. You said you've been in similar relationships. Is this behavior common for men?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well no, I don't think that all men are like this by any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately, however, there are some bad apples who give all men a bad name. I am sure that the same applies to women too though!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Haha, true. I just wondered. I had previous relationships, but they were very short. My dad was always the opposite: he was a penny-pincher. Sometimes I worry that maybe I'm just to stingy with the money, but then I remember that we have none, so Idk how to be more generous lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You sound to me as though you are being realistic and sensible about your financial situation and are being neither too stingy nor too lavish.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you for your help and feedback. I appreciate it. I'm going to select Finish & Quit", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! What seems to be the issue?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm depressed...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When did this start?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That sounds really hard. Depression is tough to manage.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can feel that you have a lot of pent up frustration with this, especially after trying so hard.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Lot of research shows that feelings of anger can morph into depression, that is not uncommon.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can tell that this has been very hard for you, especially since it has gone on so long.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is a cure.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why do you think you were angry?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My parents got divorced and it ruined my childhood.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ouch, that sounds really hurtful, but I know you are doing your best now. My parents divorced when I was young, but now I understand it has given me the opportunity to grow stronger as an adult", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "That's a good way to look at it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you participate in any peer support groups? Those can really help let that emotion release?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "No, I don't. I could look into it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Of course, there's lots of information available online for local meetings. Perhaps trying a group like ACA could really connect you with your inner child.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That sounds like a good idea. Thank you so much.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "hello how may I assist you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am just so upset It's like things never get better", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you are missing your mom?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Not really... She just keeps asking me for mone I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I wonder if I should do the same... My grand mother basically gave me a whole speech about how ashamed she is.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "But who knows. Apparently my mom said she'll put the house in my name for all these things I did for her. Kind of annoying to be frank.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Only reason she has a house is because I helped. And if I leave it. Everyone in my family said I would be irresponsible to let my mom lose it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I do not think that would have a reflection on you. It should only reflect on your mom.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yeah, they said they already know my mother is irresponsible. Instead they suggested I should provide extra financial security to myself or at least some future children. Grandma already is giving a home and 2 apartments but... I guess I am the only kid. Christ. My mom lost my om over 100k to be honest. It was crazy growing up to that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "It may be nice to have a bonus house for the future. But even that comes with headaches. In the end you have to do what is best for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yeah. I guess boundaries are good. I left her without much help to be honest but I guess just hearing it frustrates the crap out of me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Or sell it now and pocket the money to recoup what was lost.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I would but it isn't even my property And mom needs a place to stay... sometimes I wonder if she just wants to be homeless", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "So she is just talking circles and not accomplishing what she says?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "More like she keeps talking about doing something crazy like have a police chase and how she doesn't care for anything", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Some people do choose that life to be free of responsibility. Have you had a talk with her about seeing a mental health professional, She may be having some issues that would benefit from care.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I tried to baker act her after she tried to call the cops on me randomly It ended up them asking dumb questions like if she knows what day it is letting her free somehow ending up with her getting herself hospitalized 2 weeks later for low hemoglobin.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Often police officers are not fully trained in helping mentally ill people, they only access if the person is a danger to themselves or others.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "yeah it sucks Tried to get her on disability but they just denied her She was brought up with bipolar depression before I was born. She said she just ran out the hospital.. I don't know how she is just getting the consequences of that now", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "A good first step is taking her to your local mental health provider. Or ask at a major emergency room where this is located as sometimes the places are hard to find.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That was about 30 years ago Crazy they didn't stop her Well I do feel better. Thinking about boundaries. It has been less stressful being so involved.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Without treatment she may just be getting worse. That is good to hear..", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "I've heard she has a lawyer trying to straighten up the whole disability and tr eatment thing My girlfriend just won't let me stay out of it Saying my mom has no one and I would regret it if she just does something crazy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That does make it difficult when a partner encourages you to engage in unhealthy behavior.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yeah. If it was up to me I would probably just be dead silent", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I suggest talking to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel when she insists you continue a relationship that causes so much pain.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yeah. That's a good point. Well I think the point about boundaries really stuck with me I feel so much better now", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "It was nice talking to you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that must be horrible. You were already engaged?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been friends since childhood.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that sounds really hard. that's a long time to know someone. how long ago did you breka up?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "Yeah, it was basically my whole life. We broke up two nights ago and he already changed his number and blocked my on social media.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "that's going to be tough for the next little bit, those sound like some pretty fresh wounds. Have you been able to talk to friends?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I would like to talk to talk to friends but they happen to be his sisters. So, I am cut off from all of my support. Thank You for talking to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I had a break up last year and while it was painful for a bit, i used it as an opportunity to focus on myself and the things I needed. It ended up being a really good self reflective opportunity. Maybe join a gym or a group of some kind to change your network a bit?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have been wanting to join the gym. Is it hard going alone or do you go with friends? I hate doing things all alone.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I like going to the gym alone but that's just my personal preference. There are fitness groups like bootcamps that you could join and meet new people. Who knows, you may meet a new friend.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That is a good idea. I need to be around other people who have goals like weight loss. My boyfriend never wanted me to join groups and only wanted me to be friends with his family. That is why I am so alone right now. I made bad choices.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That sounds hard. You deserve to have friends of your own.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I agree with you. Do you think that I should try calling his friends and asking for his new number?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "there are lots of different kinds of groups you can join, not just fitness. and you can choose how much you want to actively engage with them. I would suggest taking time for yourself. Maybe give yourself some distance from him. If you both decide to reach out again in the future that may be an opportunity, but definitely take care of you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yeah, I can see your point of view. I have been obsessed with our relationship. We had a fight and it was a verbal war between us and he wouldn't forgive me afterwards.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "sometimes you just need some distance. I hate that old saying but as it goes \"there are plenty of fish in the sea\".", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "It is true and I am a really nice person and have turned down other guys for him. I am going to stop thinking about him and just join the gym today. You have opened my eyes!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, how is your head or heart today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hello, I would like to talk to someone about my situation at work.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hear you need someone to talk to. What is your situation at your work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My company is going through redundancies at the moment and I will not find out for another month if I am going to be included. I have a huge workload on at work and the bosses just keep piling more on top which makes me more stressed and anxious.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Being stressed and anxious is something I've experienced as well. I use breathing to help keep me centered, calm.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Breathing calmly will not help pay the bills if I am made redundant. It's not fair, I cannot be made redundant if they keep giving me more work.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That sounds tough. Just from chatting with you, I can feel how anxious you are. It sounds like you don't feel heard by your boss.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Sort of. I feel they have no communication or empathy for their employees. How can a company who is making their staff redundant expect them to work harder?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have also felt unfairly treated at a workplace. Have you tried to talk to a human resources director or a company hotline?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No, only my direct manager. Do you think that will help?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I believe you deserve to be treated fairly. I hear that you also believe that you deserve to be treated fairly. Calling a hotline or talking to a human resource profession is a suggestion.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I think that's a good idea, I will try that. What kind of things should I say?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Expressing your feelings about the companies redundancies. Also, your feelings about the company having no communication or empathy for their employees.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Ok thanks, i will do that. Thank you for your help and advice.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You're welcome. I hope this message finds you well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes thank you. Ah one final thing, other than breathing how else do you recommend for handling anxiety?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "In combination with breathing, I suggest using a thought map to clear your mind. Also going for a walk can help you with your mental or emotional health.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" } ]

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[ { "content": "How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "not really well how about you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "What's wrong? How can I help you? I'm doing pretty well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Others" }, { "content": "i lost my job last week that really shatters me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That’s a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard. Do you live by yourself? Is there someone you can talk to?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "yes the worst situation i met in this year.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hear you. This is tough! It is important to be around other people. Don't isolate yourself.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's too bad. Is there another person, a family member? By the way, how long had you worked at the job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's unfair of them. You don't need to discuss the problem. Just chatting with someone can change your mood.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Six years...That's a long time. I bet you were good at your job. I want to help you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Others" }, { "content": "yes i am, but the compay lay off me to reduce their expences and thats my worst time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "dont think like that, it is very hard in that situation", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Many people are angry with you. Have they tried to help you with the job search? Do you want to reach out to them for that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "try to stay in your job whatever may happen", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I try to stay positive. I talk to people. I think about after the pandemic and how things will be.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I ask them to do so, but they don't give any informaton back", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hmm. That's not supportive. Is there an agency in your city that can help you get that kind of info?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "yes, there is one i know but it is closed because of the pandemic", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's too bad. Normally I would send them an email, see if you can schedule an online chat. I'm not sure what to do in this case. Have you applied for unemployment?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Information" }, { "content": "yeah i would like to get any othe job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That might not be possible at the moment. Work is scarce. I've looked for extra online work, but so many people are trying to get the same work!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "no i did not apllied it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's the next thing for you to do. You might get cash coming in. It will help you stay optimistic.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "i see, i will try to apply for it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes i think so thankyou very muck much", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "You're quite welcome! Best of luck with the job search!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "thank you i hope i will get a better obe one", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I hope so too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "By the way, you need to press the submit button on your end.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "oh sorry i forgot for some doubt, are you not able to subit it by your side", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "No. The supporter cannot submit. The two buttons to the right of the text box should have an option for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi there, how are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "So I'm sad because it is hard for me to find a job with covid and everything and no one is willing to hire me. I'm ok I'm just sad", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That is really hard. I know COVID has had a huge toll on folks. Do you have a good support system in place to help during this trying time?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I do I have my bf and family around I just want to start making a life for myself It's hard and I don't know what to do any ideas?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That's really great! Having a good support system is important right now. I understand it's difficult to find a job during these times. Have you tried looking for an online only - remote position? Like some administrative work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have but I am having trouble finding a call monitoring job I really would like to do that. Any ideas on where to look?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Where are you looking for jobs right now? Some of my friends have had some success by looking on LinkedIn or Idealist.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Hmmm Idealist would be another great source I used Glass Door and Indeed Any other ideas?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "How about Craigslist? Not my favorite personally speaking, but might be worth taking a look.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will look into that as well Thank you for your help I am starting to feel somewhat better about my situation now Thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "I'm confident you'll find something! Hopefully you have some great self care practices in place that will help you through this time", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I do I hope u do too", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I do - thank you for checking :-)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "So how are things for u during this lockdown? You're a Zebra to!! Yay! we're both Zebras together. :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm an introvert / homebody so it's been fairly easy for me. I have a lot of projects at home that I enjoy doing (reading, puzzles, meditating, yoga, etc) that keep me busy. I was also, very lucky to be able to keep my full-time job so that keeps me fairly busy most days. But I like a change of scenery and do Mturk tasks for fun", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I'm the same way I do to and plus it gives u extra cash", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "yes! not a whole lot honestly, but i like it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I just want this to be over with I want to go back to normal That is true though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi Thank you for your time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Of course, I would love to hear what is going on.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Thank you. My name is DJ and I do appreciate your time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What would you like to discuss?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I really have a desire to write a life experience book to help others overcome past failures and struggles.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is great! I am sure so many people would benefit from the advice and outlook.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I am 66 and believe I can help others. I lack so much motivation. Thank you. That is very affirming. Yet, I have a block. I feel unworthy to write. Who am I.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "It seems like it might be overwhelming for you to begin. Maybe you can start small, like think of ideas or maybe just start writing 10 minutes a day. Everybody has a story and we can all learn from others. You don't need to a famous but just honest with what you have learned from your life.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, I have been given this encouragement from other writers. Yet, still feel like I lack motivation and passion. Hmmmm. That is so true. I just get frustrated with myself.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Maybe you can start with a part of your life that you do feel passionate about first. I know for me, it's easier to start with something I enjoy the most.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yeah, thats interesting. I am a Life Coach and that is what I tell others.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes, I understand it is easy to get frustrated with a lack of motivation.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thanks. I appreaciate what you are saying. Have you ever thought about writing....book, blog?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am happy to help. Sometimes what we need is someone who affirms our dreams. I haven't, I'm not much of a writer. However, who knows in the future.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "You said you understand my frustration.....How so? Sorry, I don't mean to be forward. I have had others tell me they understand. And yet, really don't. They are nice, encouraging. And appreciated", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh, I definitely feel frustrated with myself when I was to start a project and don't have the energy or motivation to go through with it. This has happened on many home projects or craft project. Or even with losing weight and make healthy decisions. No, I am glad you asked. It is important to be honest and learn from others.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Wow! Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your honesty and you definatly understand about frustration. Yes, that is so true. That is what I do with those I Coach, counsel and consult with Yeah, I appreciate chatting. This is good.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Well, I hope I encouraged you a little to keep going and start you book, at least a part you enjoy. You are welcome. Good luck with your book.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yeah, I've got some ideas. I need to take my own advice. Thank you for your time. You are good at this. Take care. God bless.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Haha, yes, sometimes listening to ourselves can be the hardest! Good bye!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi, How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I'm not good today. Not good at all.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm here to listen, Tell me about it", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned the things I couldn't. He did the things I couldn't do. I have to basically re-learn how to live by myself again. It's really scary, you know?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments What bothers you the most? living alone or not having him?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Question" }, { "content": "It really is. I don't know how to go on. I've never been through a breakup like this before. I'm scared I'll never be able to find someone else or even think about dating anyone else. Probably living alone and being on my own. I don't really miss him honestly. I miss the comfort of having someone take care of me. We fell out of love awhile ago.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Hmm, First of all stop being scared You can do it on your own I know that's scary for you, but what's the meaning of life without being scared and have our feelings?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "That's very true. I have to think about the future. I can do it on my own. I just have to think...this is the worst it'll ever be.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders! Slowly but surely you find yourself in a better mood You said you felt relieved, and that's an opportunity", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will try. If anything, I can find myself through this instead of relying on another person. Definitely an opportunity. Thank you for hearing me and making me feel better about everything.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "You are free now, Do what makes you happy You and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's great advice. thank you so much.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this? They did and they took control, so you can do it too", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That's very true, I'm not alone.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "You've made me feel a million times better, thank you so much. Tomorrow is a new day.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "You're right. I will.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If there is anything else I can help you with", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "No there is not. Thanks for taking the time to talk with me today", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours Bye", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! How are you tonight?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm doing okay", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's good to hear.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "How are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm doing great, thank you!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "You're welcome", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything that you wanted to talk about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Ya, I just feel down recently", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm so sorrry to hear. that. Is there any reason for it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My best friend and I constantly argue", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's so hard. Was there any cause for the arguing or is it just general tension?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "She hates who I'm dating and wants me to leave him", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "THat's so hard. My best friend hated my ex boyfriend as well and we always fought about it. I tried really hard to understand where she was coming from. IN the end, she was right about somethings. What was really helpful for me, was having us all spend time together so she could get to know him.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Ok I will give that a try. He's very good to me and I care deeply for him.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You should try setting up a fun day for them where they can get to know each other.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's a great idea! Like bowling?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Bowling is gret!! would your best friend be open ot it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes she would", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's great!!! this way you can keep them both in your life.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Okay we will try bowling. Thank you for the help", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Anytime! Do you need anything ese?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello there! How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Im okay How do you want to do this?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Ive been feeling like other people dont like me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It seems you are a bit low on self-confidence. I have been there too. If I may ask you, does this feeling persist all the time irrespective of the situation or it happens after any particular event - say a test or some outdoor game for example?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic about our friendship as i am which hurts", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Right, the feeling of being ignored can be quite overwhelming. Have you tried speaking with your friend over phone or video call, assuming you have access to the technology?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "We have decent phone conversations, I guess I'm just frustrated and sad about my worthiness, now that im typing it out it sounds not nearly as bad Thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Great! You are worthy! Remember that always :) Is there anything else I can help you with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information,Question" }, { "content": "Haha thank you What do you think i should do when i feel this way next time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Good question! Don't let the feeling consume you. After all , you are dealing with another person who genuinely might be busy or held up with some important work.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thats true", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So, even if they don't respond, just think they are driving or working, and try to avoid thinking that you are being ignored.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I always assume since im not busy that they arent too I guessits a little self involved", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That seems like a tough situation! What feelings made you decide you need to breakup with her?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is difficult to live with. I can't see myself with her long term.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I completely understand that. I recently broke up with my boyfriend earlier this year, because I didn't feel like I loved him as much as I used to. Things like that are important! How long have you guys been together?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "It's good that you have had a similar experience and understand what I'm going through. We dated for a while. The thing is she is Italian and has moved countries to live with me. I feel so bad that this has happened.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh I see. That's a huge step to make in a relationship. So you are hesitant to break up with her because she moved just to be with you? Have you communicated with her about your concerns? Such as being difficult to live with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "Yes that's right, I helped her get a job and thought I'd just see how it goes. Her family loves me and thinks I'm great which makes this even more difficult. We have talked about things yes but she sees it as a bit of a joke I think.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think it's great that we got matched up, because I went through also the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I were long distance, and he moved across the country to be closer to me. So when I felt like we needed to break up, I was experiencing similar guilt that you are experiencing.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "It's great that you understand this. I think being the man puts more pressure on me to look after her and make sure she she's safe etc", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I want to reassure you, that doing what's best for you is what is most important! Your partner will understand this if they truly care for you. Things will be tough for a while, but you both will be able to grow from this experience. And just because you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, doesn't mean that you don't care about her! Staying friends after the fact might take the pressure off of you a little bit. You can still help her out and be there for each other, but as friends instead of partner's.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "To be honest, it's amazing that you have suggested this. It's really hard to balance my needs and feelings without breaking her heart. It's hard for the person that's dumped but actually I think it is equally hard for the dumper!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes exactly! It's so difficult for the dumper as well, because of course you still have strong feelings for this person. They just aren't romantic anymore. And that is okay. You don't need to feel guilty for things that you can't control. You can still be there for her without pretending to be in love", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "That's exactly it. So do you think I should just talk to her and tell her how I feel? The thing is it's not like she can move out immediately. It's going to be a long drawn out experience.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think talking to her and being transparent about your feelings is definitely the right move. In doing this, reassure her you still want to be friends and you aren't just \"kicking her to the curb.\" Things will obviously be awkward for the first little bit, because continuing to live together will bring it's own difficulties. But the beautiful thing about that is, you guys are already used to it. :) So it's only hard if you make it hard", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I think I need to emphasize the friends element of it and potentially support her to move on. I suppose I'm fearful that it will never end but I'll need to face into that and stay strong, and obviously avoid being intimate as this would really hurt her if I continued to sleep with her. I need to be careful about that I think!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes exactly. And from chatting with you, I can tell that you are a very caring person. You don't want to hurt her. I believe that you have the understanding of the situation, and you know what you should and shouldn't do in order to make it work. The hard part is simply getting the courage to finally discuss it. But I think you are going to be able to do that just fine!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I must say, you have been fantastic to talk to about this, we have had a similar experience so I think the advice is coming from experience. Thanks for that!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What I've gathered about you as a person, makes me confident that you probably chose a partner that will be able to have this talk with you and you both will come to an understanding. Yes I think it's very great we were able to connect on our issues! It definitely helps. You are welcome! :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" }, { "content": "Thank you for a great conversation. To continue as is wouldn't be fair on her and I see that now.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Of course! And it wouldn't be fair to her, just as much as it wouldn't be fair to you. Your happiness is just as important!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yeah, I need to put myself first but also be considerate of her feelings. Thanks for that Take care and enjoy your day.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello. How are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that. You deserve better", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks, I'm just still in shock.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand you. I went through similar situation", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I just don't know what to do.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you have any friends you can hang out with to get your mind off him?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How about treating yourself to nice relaxing bath and good book ?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That sounds wonderful.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You should focus on yourself and remember you are a amazing woman!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If you are sure you are ready for it then No. However make sure you dont judge them by previous relationships.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I have to think about it more but I am lonely already", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand but wouldnt you rather be alone and focusing on yourself instead of miserable relationship?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I am thinking of pursuing a new relationship and hoping to move forward", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think that would be a wonderful idea for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I just don't know where to find someone.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Dont go looking for someone . Let them find you. Just live your life and love will find you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I have to think positive and love will come when I don't expect it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! Hello, are you there?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Hello how are you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I'm doing okay. How are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Great how is everything going for you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not fantastic. I'm struggling in my job and I feel isolated every day.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why do you feel isolated?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Because even though I work in a large school, I feel like if there are any issues in my classroom with students, no one will help me out.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I completely understand. I don't worked at a school and the teachers did not receive much support. Is that what is making you stuggle at work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I don't understand your question.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is it the lack of support at the school that is causing you to struggle?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes. That's what I said.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sorry I asked about the isolation and you mentioned the reason was the work. So im just trying to confirm your lack of support at school is the reason for your struggle. Does the feeling of isolation stem from that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes. I am feeling isolated because management at my work is not supporting me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Understandable.Do they have any kind of help groups at your school?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Not really. They try to say that we should all make sure we are looking after our mental health, but they do nothing that would actually help us or give us a way to do it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there something you have in mind that might help your situation and theyre not listening?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "If a student is not focusing and causing disruption in a classroom, then I think they should definitely do something to help manage the beahviour of the student. Yes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Agreed with 20 some students after repeatedly trying with a student you cannot keep stopping the lecture to discipline. Of course there should be some help in place.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Okay. Do you have any support or advice?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ive seen this first hand and teachers really have their hands full. I know most parents are busy, but have you tried to connect with the parents maybe they can step in and talk to their children.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's good advice and I have, but the parents are part of the problem. They care less than their own child.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "There are also several community groups with different kids of occupations. Ive seen multiple ones for teachers helping each other by sharing their own methods. That might help with some ideas.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's also a nice idea. Thank you. Okay, thank you for your help today. Hace a nice day. Bye!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "No problem. I hope you find some better ideas. You are not alone and remember you have one of the hardest jobs out there!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you. That helps to hear someone else say that. Have a good day. Bye.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! How are you today/", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry. That's really scary.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It seems like he was in a lot of pain adn discomfort so surgery should really help.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That's what we are hoping. He was sort of stubborn about talking to the surgeon this week for advice, but finally listened to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yeah, it really comes out of nowhere. MY mother was diagnosed with cancer last year and it felt so out of nowhere and unfair. Good thing he has you! he's lucky to have someone like you in his corner.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Doesn't it? So you understand. You can feel so helpless.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I do understand. It's really hard. THe only thing that you can do is try to stay positive as cliche as that sounds.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I think it helps him if I do. He will be in the hospital for 1-2 weeks.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You aren't helpless! So much of this is mental and you being there for him is more helpful than you know. Will you be able to visit him in the hospital?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "I'm a little nervous about what kind of help he'll need when he gets home. Yes! I'm so relieved, with the covid restrictions. but I can. I think only one visitor at a time, but he moved her to be close to me (met long distance), so his closest friends aren't local. The ones he'd want to visit.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Thank god! That will make such a big difference for both of you. Being alone would be scary. Well he clearly loves you! I am happy that he's getting the treatment he needs and has someone so supportive like you helping him.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you... it really helps to talk to someone. I worry about stressing out friends. Plus sometimes, they just don't know what to say, especially if they haven't known someone who has gone through it. How did your mom do? If you don't mind my asking.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Your friends probably want to be there for you, don't be stressed about that. They just may need some guidance on how to be there for you . My mom is doing great! Still in treatment but doing so well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "OH, thank goodness. I'm happy for both of you. It's just a strange year. I lost both my dogs to cancer in six months, then this. Then my cousin died of pancreatic in July. Plus some other acquaintances. It's just felt like a lot. Did your mom have trouble eating? And tons of fatigue?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry. You've had a really tough year. You really deserve a break. She did ! Especially when she was in treatment.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Right, and as I bet you can relate, breaks are hard to get in COVID days. that's what's scary, is right now, he's not in treatment. They think because of the cancer's location and the type, that surgery is the better option. So it's really just the cancer that is doing this to him.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Definitely hard. You'll have to try to find something for you to relax. Even if it's just walking or reading.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's one thing COVID has been good for. Lots of long walks with friends.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes! Definitely.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "And I do have a young dog now who is a big help too. :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Dogs are the best!! Mine gets me through everything.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "It turned out, I got this boy between losing the two I mentioned. I am so very thankful I got him when I did and wasn't totally without a dog. He's been a lifesaver. Even though puppies are crazy.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I'm sure!! Enjoy him. It's great for stress relief. ANd having a puppy is a great distraction.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Now just need to get through this week. But another weird blessing about covid is I am not stressed about thanksgiving plans on top of the surgery.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You definitely will, you seem like you are very strong.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I really appreciate you saying that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's true! i hope this has been helpful.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I try to be, for him. Every so often, I hear a song and want to cry.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Crying can be therapeutic so that's good!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I should take a bath and cry now! Thank you so much. You've been a true help. Have a nice holiday, if you're here in the States.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You too! hAppy thanksgiving!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Take care.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi there! I'm glad you're here", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you're a female and you're married to a female? There's nothing wrong with that at all!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I see. So you're actually legally married - didn't just have a commitment ceremony?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes legally married", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Care to share what led up to filing for divorce?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I can certainly understand how that feels. I have been in your EXACT situation.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It's horrible and hard to move on for sure", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How long were you with her?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Don't laugh Our one year wedding anniversary was this past Sat. Which I know I shouldnt be so miserable but I am. I think because like some people have told me we were still in our honeymoon stage. We were not fighting or having big issues....she just cheated", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that. You realize this behavior, these choices, are a flaw within her, and not you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It's hard to see that. I feel like a failure and not good enough Like why even get married in the first place if you are just going to cheat", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I can completely understand that as well. I blamed myself for quite some time as well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ya you wish you could go back in time and change things or never get married lol", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When you go to bed at night, if you can drift off to dream with a clear conscience, then you're doing significantly better than her! What are you doing to take care of you during this time?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Information" }, { "content": "Not much at all I feel like I'm in a funk and can't get out of it. My house is a disaster. I have a small business I am not in the mood to work on....I\"ve been slacking in everything", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You are important! You matter! Why not do something that is relaxing to you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do need to do something", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you have any post-it notes? Or paper and scotch tape?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Here's what I've done for myself, and other folks that are close to me, going through struggles...", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "ok", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Jot down inspirational messages and hang them up on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car, etc. \"You matter\", \"You deserve the best\", \"You are the shiznit\", etc", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "the shiznet lol I will try that I need to do something", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Then, for the tasks that might be getting a bit behind, make a list, in order of importance -- and include a little reward for each task completed.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thats a good idea", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "We have to take care of ourselves. After doing it for awhile, it just might become second nature to ya. And -- if continued, will show gals in the future exactly how you expect to be treated because they'll see you taking care of you (and not settling for nor accepting any doodie)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I know I keep telling myself if I get my act together (physically, financially, etc) that I would attract better people....the kind I want to be with", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Whether you \"have your act together\" or not, it's up to you to determine who is worthy of being an active part of your life.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yea im good are u a pyschiratrist or something", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "No, I'm just a mturk worker but I'm completely willing to talk to you about stuff. Is there anything you had in mind?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i have things about overthinking about my past sometimes she flashes on and off through my mind when some of my collegues express their feelings of emotions through their relationships", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there someone in your past that weighs on your mind?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "The feelings i put for her the emotions its all gone for waste, she was my first love though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Going through a romantic loss can be a lot to process. You will be able to let go some day.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yea i ve watched a lot of motivation to help me relax my self , and i ve heard a lot of people say good things to me , my friends and family :) as time passes ill get much better i guess soo", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It is definitely helpful to reach out. You got people that like you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yea the only people around is the only valubale thing to u in this world Do i have to keep talking about my feelings to you ? i can trust you right :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Definitely keep talking to those people because that's gonna help a ton. Yeah you can trust me :) I think we have a bit more to go.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "hmmm great!!! i like you a lot so how do i avoid falling for the wrong one", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Take things easy and don't worry too much about it, because things will fall in to place naturally if it is a good fit.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "yea thank you so much Have u ever fallen in love ?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes I have a few times, and even though it hurts sometimes it is generally worth the risk.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi there, let me get a deeper understanding of your existing sleep pattern. Do you suffer from insomnia or another type of sleep disorder?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No, it is not insomnia.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Okay, are you drinking enough water and eating a healthy diet?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I like to analyze my own habits every now and then, it helps me stay in check. You can definitely benefit from meditating and self reflecting.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thanks! What other ideas do you have?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Of course! I always knock right out after a workout. But if you aren't able to, just simple things like turning all the lights off at the same time every night and laying in bed will help. It will align your circadian rhythm!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It definitely is a valid reason to be kept awake. The only good part about something so horrible, is that you have the power to make sure you will continue to be a good person. If everyone was as empathetic as you, the world would be a better place. Thank you for caring so deeply about such a brutal matter.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I wish there were more caring people in the world.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Kindness is contagious, and you definitely have a kind heart. As long as you remain soft in a hard world, people will recognize that and follow suit. The world is becoming more aware, and we have the power to raise future generations with more knowledge and love for one another. Caring doesn't come naturally to many unfortunately, but the ways of inspiring the people that don't care, are endless. We as a society can definitely think of more ways to care for one another.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Correct, but having a kind heart does not keep me from waking up & worrying about my son and other black men in my family.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I worry about my sons and husband and father all the time... I shift my focus on loving them and cherishing every moment we have together. Police or not, the time we have is not promised..", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "That's good advice. Are you still there?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "A hot cup of tea never hurt too! But in all seriousness, I can completely understand your sleep troubles. It is much deeper than just that. Perspective is the key to life. You are a strong and empathetic soul.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "okay Love conquers all", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That is so beautifully true", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I'm looking forward to a fulls night rest.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is good, lavender baths or showers will also ease and relax the troubled mind.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Relaxing is good therapy.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I like to relax with a book and a blanket sometimes too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Self care is needed.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Self care is definitely something we can overlook accidentally. Being self aware is a daily practice.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I agree. Loving ourselves & the ones we care about too.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello how are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi I am not fine at all", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Whats going on?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It definitely is... Whats going on COVID wise with you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That isn't good, are you one of them?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "What a trouble year!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It really has been a troubled year We can only hope this year can be better. What kind of hobbies do you have?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't know what do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have they told you that you were losing your job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Every one in the company are talking about it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm just trying to figure out exactly what you need help with.. Have you lost your job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "We are all scaring Because to find another job is not easy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I agree with you there, we have all had to sacrifice something. You are right. it is difficult to find work right now.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Pandemic is causing a lot of problem and the second face of it is coming", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You may be able to look into unemployment at least if it comes down to it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "We don't know what is going to happen if it comes", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is the scary part. It could come around again and cause more damage than it did the first time.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It is really serious,", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Besides the basic hand washing and hygiene, I don't think we can prepare anymore for it. I think at this point, we will either get it or not until they figure if the vaccine will work or not. It is a very scary thing", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "People are losing job everyday by day,", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you looked into unemployment?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I pray the vaccine will work if it is approved I am try to look for another job now before layoff from this company", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm there with you buddy, I hope it eradicate this from our planet. First and second versions. That is smart", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Nice chatting with you it time to go thanks Bye for now", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand, you feel like your losing everyone close to you and wondering about your own mortality now as well?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you told your aunts how much you love them? It may comfort you to know that you've shared exactly how you feel with them while they are here.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I tell them every time I talk to them and try to spend as much time with them as I can.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I try to let everyone know I love them too just because we never know when we aren't going to be here anymore. I definitely understand where you are coming from. Have you tried looking at any YouTube videos about life and mortality?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "I agree! We never know I haven't but I will check some out. I love You Tube but never thought to look there.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I personally have found some comfort in hearing other people struggle with their own mortality or their beliefs in an after life or different things. Maybe that could be something you could try looking into.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I will definitely try that. It makes me feel better to know that you have found some comfort in hearing other people's struggles with their mortality or beliefs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds to me like you've felt alone in your struggles and you are not alone! Yes I have and I've heard from many others who have as well. That and there are some great books out there also!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Others" }, { "content": "I have felt alone in my struggles. It's good to know that I'm not alone!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm so happy I could be here for you! It's not fun to feel alone, if we can all lean on each other in times of need the world will be a better place.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "do you have a favorite video or book, or one that you found most helpful? I appreciate you being here for me. You have given me some great ideas, listened to me, and have made me feel better. I feel calm and relaxed now. Thank you so much!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I've personally enjoyed looking into all the different types of religions and spiritual beliefs from around the world. It's nice hearing about different beliefs on life and death.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I agree, the world would be a much better place if we could all lean on each other in times of need!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are very welcome! Again I am happy to help and would love to chat any time you are feeling anxious about anything at all! I am always here for you!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "Thank you so much! You have helped me more than you know! So nice to have such a supportive friend to talk to!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You are very welcome! I hope you have a great rest of your day and please don't hesitate to message if you want to chat again!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I hope you have a great rest of your day as well! If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi how are you today", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am so sorry to hear that you want to tell me what happened?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "oh no that is terrible, are you able to support yourself financially without him?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yeah, thankfully, I was basically supporting us both. It was just the shock of it all. I came home from work and he was packing his things, no discussion, nothing just it's over and I've literally been crying all day. I don;t even think I miss him, I'm just mad about how he went about it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is cruel, I am sure you are in shock, to leave without an explanation, or a real one is terrible. So you have no contact withim what so ever?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "No contact, I sort of lost my temper when he tried to talk things over because I think he was going to use this as a threat but I was so disgusted after being tired from work that I just threw my phone and now my way of contacting him is gone", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Maybe that is not all bad, gives him time to think and you too. And if he regrets what he did he will return. But then you would have to make a decission, if you would want him back.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I sort of don't think I want him back. Not when he thinks our relationship is some sort of pawn for him to hold over my head. It sucks because my parents didn't even like him, I stuck my neck out for him and now this happens", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well I am sure it sucks and feels a bit lonely. But if you dont want him back have a glass of wine and celebrate the you, you deserve the best and nothing less.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I think I'm more scared of being alone because we were together for so long, you know? Like I haven't ever lived on my own. It sounds dumb but I think I'm going to miss the company more than my relationship", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I believe it is hard to home is all of a sudden much more quiet, maybe invite a friend over? I am sorry you are going through this.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Or I could get a cat, to be honest being a cat lady might be less stressful A cat would definitely be cheaper", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "They are fun to have LOL, now that is the spirit go to the shelter and safe one of those poor souls. And you can pet it and it is happy to see you any time,", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thanks for listening to me gripe about this, I was just shocked, you know? Like ten years gone down the drain but I guess that's life A kitten definitely sounds like a good idea", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Sometimes it just is, but out of all the bad things something good comes out of it you might not just see it now Take care of yourself", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "Thank you and you too", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello. I'm very nervous about my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hello. im so sorry to hear you're nervous about your job. what are you nervous about specifically?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Well, I just finally got my job about a month ago. I haven't worked for most of covid. But, I think they may start letting go staff because its getting really slow FYI, it's new york, and it has gotten really cold. People might be worried about getting sick. i mean regular sick, as well as covid", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "So you are feeling worried about potentially losing your job? That does sound very difficult. Especially after not working for months and just finally getting a job. I personally lost work for a bit of time due to covid. It can be tough, especially in New York things are not that great health-wise.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Information" }, { "content": "That's true, but they're not as bad as they were. I feel pretty safe. They make us get tested twice a week I can't be unemployed again. I just got on a lease!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am glad they make you get tested and you feel safe. That is the most important thing.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "It was like one day we were soooo busy that we had a waiting list the whole day, then the next it was crickets It didnt help when they forced us to start closing by 10 We just created this amazing winter wonderland and i get to go in this little hut out there and stand by a heater and serve people holday drinks all by myself. its amazing i cant lose that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "That sounds like an amazing job!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm depressed just thinking about it. I only got to work in there because its only for christmas. Before I had to stand outside by the door under a heat lamp and seat people. But I didnt mind Should i pre-emptively start looking for new jobs?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Is the job good only temporarily? Like do you aim to keep this job or is it only a holiday job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I plan to keep it as long as possible. Its the most amazing working environment I've ever had Would it be unprofessional if I ask my manager if my job is in danger? What do you think i should do?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "How would you approach asking the manager if your job is in danger if you were to do that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Idk, really. What should I say?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, I remember once being unsure of my job. I approached my manager and with all professionalism, I asked if there was any way I can do more for the work. That helped me at the time. I never specifically asked if my job was in danger, though.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "so you mean, demonstrate my willingness to be helpful?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yeah, exactly.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Ok thats great advice", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you feel comfortable talking to your manager?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes. thank you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! Hope you are doing well. How may I help you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Good afternoon I am not good at all", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I seems like you are not feeling well. Am I correct?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sorry to hear about it. Due to COVID most of us are trap with certain problem", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's really hard time but we should keep hopes. It will end soon", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand it could be a hard time for you. You try to keep working on your skill. For sure you will find a way", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I pray it works for me, I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it can happen to me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I felt the same way when 50% people were laid off from my previous company. Situation was really stressful all around. I was trying to stay positive and kept working. I know sometime its hard to believe what happen with us suddenly, At that time we should keep moving and try to find a way.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Others" }, { "content": "I don't even know where to star from now I am confused", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Due to COVID Unemployment rate has increased drastically. Most of the people are facing tough time somehow. I would suggest you to keep trying or working on. Try to explore your strength. I am pretty sure you will get it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That is it my friend! A lot of people are losing their jobs on daily basis, that one a lone is scaring", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand its hard to find a job right now. The situation will not gonna stay the same, we should keep trying.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks friend! That is what I was thinking about", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hope my words will help you stay positive at this tough time which all of us are facing. The very important thing right now is to stay healthy and safe. Take care", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm doing okay.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you like to ask something?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "How can I manage the stress of school?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Are you studying from home?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes, and it's depressing not being able to go out because of covid.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "well, it is tough. But it is safe, too. And you do not need to drive, you are close to the fridge, too.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, I have a fridge in my apartment? I do go out for fun, it can be relaxing.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's true.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I find it difficult to stay motivated if I'm in my apartment all day.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you have a balcony? Or can you go out to a back-yard? Or is it too cold now?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, but it is very cold", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, the school is almost over. we are facing Christmas, New Year...", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, but my school starts soon, in a few weeks. It will be stressful again.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "We all need some break from staying in front of computes all the day long. After holidays, who knows...", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, there is hope.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "We do not need to face a risk of driving through the snow.... and be in a good shape... Listening to meditation and concentration music might help....", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ah, I see. I think meditation can be very helpful for calming the mind. That's good advice.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I use some small weights u to keep muscles in tonus.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I see. Thanks for talking to me, I feel more confident about my school.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello my name is Lisa, is there something you'd like to talk about today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Has anyone had more luck since the stimulus check era? I am making slow gains on my art gear project.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "hmm I don't know....I didn't get one. I gather you are in the US? CAn you tell me more about your art gear project? It sounds like you are frustrated that the stiimulus check program has not helped you get your art project off the ground, am I right? Are you still with me?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Question,Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "I have an Canon MkII camera to which of coarse I am searching for an small lense The time it takes to purchase is gonig to be dependant on an budget.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I see. Have you looked into bartering? Someone who has such a lense may be willing to barter it for something you have, or some service you could offer them. Locally here we have some bartering groups on facebook, maybe there is something similar in your area? The other thing you could try is crowdfunding, for example kickstarter, in which you offer some photograply (portrait if you do such?) in exchange for a donation from someone locally", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Information,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Oh, yes that would help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I remember a similar frustration when I needed tools I could not afford to make jewelry. It held me up! Are there any second hand stores near you that might have used lenses? it sounds like it is holding you up from doing your photography, that must be frustrating.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions,Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Oh yes I ebay all the time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! How are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "not too good how are you too", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm doing okay. What's going on? What has you so down?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i was furloughed", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! So many people have been furloughed this year. Do you think they will bring you back?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "i don't know for sure", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm sure that has you anxious and probably a little depressed. Are you looking for other employment opportunities yet?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's good that you were able to find another job, but I completely understand about the take home not being enough. Do you work full time, or is it just part time for now?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Oh, I understand being nervous about covid exposure, especially if you're working with the public, who may not abide by mask mandates and social distancing. Is there anything you can do to limit exposure? Also, are you able to look for a second job at all? The extra hours may bring in extra income while you try to find a single job that would pay enough.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you're really frustrated. That's completely understandable.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "and there is nothing i can do about the covid exposure because folks around here sees nose mask as treat to Pres. Trump i am beyond frustrated. it s soo depressing", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That is very frustrating. I know I find it very annoying when I see people out and about without masks. It drives me crazy, just thinking about how they're keeping this stupid pandemic going and keeping people out of work.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "you got my point", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I wish I had more suggestions for you. I think the only thing you can do is keep looking, make sure your resume is updated and current. If there are any employment agencies in your area, they may be worth looking into. And if there are any public assistance programs you qualify for, there's no shame in seeking help when you need it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "i will keep doing that, may be something will show up", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I sure hope it does. I wish you all the luck in the world.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "thanks, it's nice talking about it thanks for hearing me out", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You're very welcome. I'm glad I could be here for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yea", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "that will be all for now", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Okay. Have a good night!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello how are you feeling today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Well. Not so good i just broke up with my girlfriend and she is packing her stuff to leave How are you doing?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am very sorry to hear that. Breakups can be rough. I'm great! Thanks for asking. Was this a mutual agreement?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Well technically it was a mutual agreement but i feel like I dont want this to happen So what are you up to? Hello? Are you there?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Was there a reasoning behind your decision? Sometimes we let our anger and emotions make our decisions for us.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Well. Basically all started for jealousy and she saw a couple of text messages of my best friend and she misunderstood the conversation and since then its not the same. She doesnt trust me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I see trust is a very important key factor in relationships and without it the relationship stays stagnant. Have you tried reassuring her that your intentions are pure and maybe gave her some words of affirmation that would let her know how you truly feel about her? Just because you guys are best friends all she sees in her head is that you're talking to another female. Maybe she also has her wall up and some insecurities that you can help her with.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I tried in many way to help her with that and proving her that my feelings toward her was pure. I basically stop talking to my best friend to gain her confidence. But it did not work So it got to the point that nothing was the same So she decided to move away and gave us some spaces and think this out", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "How long have you two been together? Sometimes moving on from a relationship and staying single from some time can give you time to reflect and work on yourself for yourself. You never know the two of you might come back together stronger than before cause space might be all that your relationship needs at this moment. I know this might be so tough for you but l want you to know that you are never alone and you can do this. Maybe read a new book or pick up a new hobby for the time being.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "We were together for two years Im trying my best to go through this I hope so. Thanks for all those words It really helps", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "You're doing the right thing by talking to someone about it. We are not meant to be alone in our thoughts because it can be a scary thing. Bottling up emotions is also never good so for you to reach out is very good and the first step to maybe feeling a little better. I've been in your same shoes and trust me it doesn't feel good so just know I am here for you and you can talk to me in confidence.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Well thank so much. You really help me a lot with every single word Well i have to go. Ill talk to you later", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi there, can you help me?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'll do my best. What do you need help with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand why that would make you feel depressed.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Do you have any advice on how to feel better?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes of course. It's good that you are acknowledging your feelings. To improve your mood you could practice hobbies or other things you enjoy doing.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand how you feel that you don't have time.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Parents need to learn to take care of their own needs first before their children. Only then can you be truly available for anyone else.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "You're right, I need to find time for me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Indeed, once you free up some time for yourself, I bet you'll start to feel better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Do you have other suggestions?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes, try meditation for a few minutes each morning.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "What do I do to meditate?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Take a few deep breaths and clear your mind of negative thoughts.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That sounds good, but how will it help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "meditation allows you to set up your day in your mind and let you be calm.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Will that help me get through the day and be happy?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes, it won't happen overnight but be patient with it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ok thanks.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "do you have any other concerns?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "no I think you helped me enough.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm hearing that I have helped enough and you don't have any more concerns?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes and thank you!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello. How are you tonight?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi, I am doing ok.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's good to hear. Can I encourage you in some way?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you are unhappy at your job and want to do something else? What exactly are your fears? I have found writing out a pro and con list helps me -- On one side I look at the benefits, then I put the cons on the other side. They I weigh them, even if there are more cons, sometimes the PROS are much better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand that looking for a job can be stressful and challenging at this time, but one thing is for certain, you will never know if you don't try.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hours, cons are tougher interviews and more rounds Yes, I think I need to give a try but I lack the confidence to put my resume out in the market.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I like the \"Do it afraid!\" method. I can still try even if I feel nervous. You really do not need confidence to put your resume out there, you just need to do it afraid. And when I \"do it afraid\" I realize it was easier than I thought.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "\"Do it afraid\"? Do you mean do it even if I am afraid? It sounds a bit too optimistic to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I used to be paralyzed with self confidence, but the truth is, your confidence doesn't come from your job, your confidence comes from being a lovable person. The confidence that you are the person you want to be. It sounds optimistic but it is the truth, when I step out to perform, I'm always nervous. BEING nervous looking for a job, that is NORMAL. To expect to feel like you are super confident is unrealistic. Most people are nervous, but they do it anyway.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ok, I think it makes sense. I may have to give it a try.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I always felt awkward and nervous looking for a job, I think I went to one interview calm and cool, in 30 years! Hahaha.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I am a good team player, I don't have any inter-personal or communication issues. Just that I need to be at a higher pay to reach some financial goals", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You have nothing to lose, really, you have weighed out that there is only good things that can come, but you think you must \"feel\" a certain way. You don not have to feel confident, you just have to do the work. For example, you don't FEEL like walking your dog, changing a diaper or helping someone, but you DO IT anyway.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Cool! I will try to get motivated and start applying. Your words are just what I needed in this gloomy atmosphere.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Inter personal skills can be learned. I was very shy as a child and I learned how to be more friendly. And I was VERY shy.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Ya, I think the key is to keep my current job and start looking elsewhere. Last time I made a grave mistake of quitting my job and then searching! I was very new, and over confident", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm very outgoing now. I had to learn a lot of skills to be this way and I like myself more too. Hahah. I'm old though, 59. You have nothing to lose, consider it a learning opportunity. Life is a journey. We all make mistakes in the past. I think you are very intelligent actually because you thought of the pros and cons. You just needed a boost.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Others" }, { "content": "Thank you sir, I will definitely try it! You have shared Pure words of wisdom", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Oh my apologies, mam!!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I look forward to your new job! And celebrate with you. Take deep breaths and forge ahead!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Definitely! Thanks a lot for your mentorship Have a great week ahead :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am feeling okay, but I have been better", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Honestly maybe. It is exhausting", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It might be worth following up with. There are organisations that could give you free advice.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this struggle", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You should not have to suffer if you are being bullied. Please contact your local Citizen's Advice!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I guess I could at least try. You're so right", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do any of your colleagues feel the same way that you do?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "They don't. I think that is what makes it so much more difficult.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that. Perhaps it really is the best time to just move on.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "It probably is a sign I need to do something else anyway", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes, the world is your oyster. I wish you all the best with whatever you do!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you. I appreciate you talking to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You're welcome and take care (you need to press quit first .. I can't :))", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Providing Suggestions" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi, I'm Anna", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now? I am Jo, it is nice to meet you! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Going through a break-up. My 3rd one this year.... Nice to meet you too It suckssssss", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Gosh you've been busy :). I am sorry to hear that though - I know how much it hurts when you split with someone, especially if it was not consensual. It's a lousy time of year for it too, isn't it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I feel like a piece of crap, and childish at that. I can't maintain any of my relationships. I think I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is a defeatist way to talk! Just because a couple of relationships fail does not mean that you will never be able to find happiness.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Well, if past experience has any powers of prediction. I get super clingy, and do this push and pull thingy, where I break up and call them names, and then become so embarrassed it's hard to even bring it up. my last boyfriend said he thought i had borderline disorder", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have been in that position too. I hate it when I realise that I am not being rational but I can't seem to stop myself sometimes and this has sometimes let to problems with my inter personal relationships", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yea, that definitely seems to be part of my problem. I really thought he was different, too. And when he broke up with me, I tried to get him to spend the night with me in a hotel, and I felt so pathetic because I was practically begging for sex I think I am an addict.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I hear you on that one too! It's horrible to feel that you are losing your self respect but I suspect that we've all done it at some point. Have you considered getting some counselling?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Sigh.. yes. I have seen several. I also take meds from a psychiatrist.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hear you saying that they are not really effective, is that true?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Well... one told me that I should be put down like a dog to my face. so, yea", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Okay .. I hope you reported him!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I didn't. I was younger then. who knows. not gonna lie. maybe they're right. Sometimes I think I'm a psycho. My last therapist was always doing deep breathing exercises. It didn't help. I also have a lot of anxiety. A LOT! I even got an emotiona support dog", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I understand that as well .. I am on medication for it. A dog is a wonderful thing to have! Do you feel that it has helped you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yea, he's my best friend. At least I have one boy who has to stick around. He's on a tight leash", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Dogs are very very loyal. They never cheat on you or walk out on you!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "So trueee :) I just wish I wasn't such a freak.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think you are probably not anywhere near as bad as you think you are you know :). Anyway I wish you all the very best for the New Year and hope that things pick up for you soon!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Alright, bud. Thanks. You, too", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello how are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct? Why are you feeling just alright?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I just figure she's busy.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "How do I get over feeling like I'm dumping on her? I know she's family but i'm sure she has problems too.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "right I see where you are coming from, remeber she is your family", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I suppose you are right. My aunt is the youngest sister of my mom. We used to see each other at family gatherings. Maybe she won't mind me calling.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "see you got this, a call is all that it takes to feel better", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I'm going to follow your suggestion and get myself out of this slump I'm in. I know I'm not the only person who goes through this, but it feels this way sometimes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I used to feel like that all the time but then I thought to myself that i needed to surround myself with people and not be alone. Im glad that you are going to follow my suggestion, we all go through the same thing but your getting help and thats whats counts", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "You have a good point there. I used to think if I had my family then I didn't need anybody else. But we all need somebody to talk to.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "exactly you got it, we all need to surround ourselves with good people, im glad that you realize this. I hope that my insight has given you motavation to pursue relationships", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Thanks for your help. I'll go now and get my thoughts together to call my aunt.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "alright awesome it was a pleasure talking to you, have a good day.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Enjoy your holidays!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, i am here to listen. How may i help you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not good", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear you are not doing do good. Can you tell me how this feeling came about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I can't do anything correctly in my life No one recongnize me No one love me I am in depression", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "It seems as if you may have some doubt and may feel unwanted and because of this you feel sad. Does this sound correct?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yeah , i am in sad mood Can you help me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": ".good family and good friends too. But still i miss something", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I have been were you are right now and i know you may be hurting at the moment. What is ot you feel you may be missing? it*", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Question,Others" }, { "content": "Do you have any feeling like me now are before", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You mentioned you feel sad and unloved but you have a good family. Do you feel as if you lack a good support systems within your family?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "My problem is i have a good job. But i want to follow my passion . I need my job at the same time i want to follow my passion. But my parents said don't quit my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "No, not any more. I have to reflect on what was causes my feelings to be so negative and i corrected them.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yes you are correct", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "From listening to you it seems as if you love your family and they also love and for sure want nothing but the best for you. The only thing is, is what's best for them seems like it is not best for you. What would you say? Hello?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello, how are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I’m ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and don’t ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family, it’s all the same here Do you understand what I mean?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Yes i understand what you mean.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I’m glad someone does. I try to speak up but get no where", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything i can help you with? To make you feel better?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Question" }, { "content": "It is annoying and sometimes I get really down about it. I just want someone to talk to....I just want to know that someone will listen once in a while. I’m honestly not that needy but everyone needs to know that someone will listen at some point I am appreciative of the fact that you are taking time to hear what I have to say I wonder what I should do sometimes. I try to tell friends and family that I cannot always be the problem solver, I try to make them see that I deserve a chance to ask advice, to just vent, or to just have a light talk about the weather or a party or something. They don’t seem to hear me. One friend said she thought I was blowing it out of proportion. But that’s the way I feel What approach would you take if you were me?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Yes, everyone needs someone to talk to.I think you deserve people who will be there for you when you need them to, and not only just take take and not give anything..", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "How do I get through to these people or do I need new friends?? Lol Because sometimes I think a new friend group isn’t a bad idea....", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "This is probably hard to hear but you need someone you can count on, I think it would be a good idea for you to get new friends that would be their for you and wont take you for granted.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I think it is hard to do that but maybe I should seek out a few new people to be around, some more give and take would be really nice. Not sure how I will do this though...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you go out to any public places?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I’m raising my grandchild. Maybe in a group of others in a situation like mine I’d be able to find what I am looking for? Well, with COVID and my one medication causing a low white blood cell count I cannot go out very much.. Once I can go out more I am sure it would be easier", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Yes that work, and yes i know its a bit risky, maybe you can try joining any online groups of people that have things in common with you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "That’s a great idea. I think I will seek out some online groups for support and some where I have similar interests like a book group or something. That’s a great way to start! I’m actually a little excited to give this a try!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes book clubs are great.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I love to read so I think it would be fun too You’ve been very a very kind listener...thank you for that! Do you think it will be easy to find online groups?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "yes i do think its easy to find online groups, and the people are really nice to. I have tried it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Awesome!! Thank you again! I actually feel a good bit better because you took the time to listen!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I think you will enjoy it, and you are welcome.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I’m going to have to leave now...I hope you have a wonderful night/day!! Thanks for everything!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Im sorry to hear that you are stressed. Would you like to talk about it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes, I am not sure who to tell", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well as a neutral individual i would be willing to listen to your concerns and or stressors. It can help to be able to vent to someone without judgement.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the things I have to do, and sometimes I get a headache just thinking of it all", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I see, it must feel like a lot of pressure to get so much done during an already hectic season.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, and not being able to meet friends or go out much makes it hard to get all my emotions out", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well first off that is normal to feel that way. I think most of us do but just don't speak up about it. Also being away from your friends and family can cause feelings of doubt because you may not feel like you have trusted ones to lean on. However You should try to take some time out of each day to instead of question yourself to congratulate yourself, because you are doing tough things on your own but hey youre DOING IT!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Do you have any tips on how to deal with headaches or being overly stressed or anxious?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "For anxiety and stress i would sugesst taking time out away from all your chores and tasks and just be to yourself. What is something you enjoy? May a cup of tea or an episode of the office. You always have to take a moment for yourself", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "So something like going for a run, or watching a funny movie?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Meditation, yoga, a warm bath these things can also be soothing as well. SOmetimes using kinectic energy up can help as well like going for a brisk walk to burn off the adrenaline that causes anxiety", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thank you for the ideas But what if you get so stressed you can't really think of anything else?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes! Heck go all out and do both is you have a treadmill ha ha ! do what makes YOU happy even if just for a moment IF your stress has become that high, then you go ahead and aknowledge the anxiety that is flowing through you. Give it you attention and close your eyes and start to ask yourself what is the root of what is scaring me. What is the official thoing i am afrad of or worried about. When our thoughts begin to race its hard to focus and we make mistakes and that adds to the stress.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thank you so much, your advice will be really helpful!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Would you like any links to a webpage or group that may also have tips or advice?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I think it is fine, but thank you so much for giving me tips", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I would be glad to. What is troubling you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I have run out of coping mechanisms!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I completely understand and had similar experiences. What were some ways you tried to interact with people last shut down?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compensate for face to face contact. I really need to be able to see people.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Digital contact does have its limitations. Could you meet with people outside at a distance?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Well, part of the problem with that is that I am not sure what the rules are any more! We have been told so many different things that I am out of the loop.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand. Try sticking to the basics to make it less stressful. Wear a mask outside at a distance.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I always do wear a mask.. I think we legally have to :). I really miss little things like going out for coffee or to the gym though. It makes me feel like will never be the same again.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have to talked about this with friends? They may be feeling the same way. Just talking this out with the may be reassuring.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have a little bit but I don't want to burden them. The other aspect is that it is making me anxious about many others things too. I keep having morbid thoughts about what will happen if the pandemic never ends.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That’s understandable. Maybe talking to a professional who you don’t have to worry about burdening with your concerns will allow you to talk about your concerns.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's why I'm here ;). You are being very helpful, thank you! It's just nice to be able to tell people what I am worried about and not have them think that I am just being silly.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Many people are struggling with the current state of affairs. Don’t be afraid to talk to people they may also be afraid to talk to people and you could miss out on supporting each other.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "That does sound like really good advice. The other thing I haven't mentioned yet is that I have been having financial pressures because I am on furlough. I am worried that if this lasts much longer I will end up deep in debt.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry that wasn’t helpful. Have you tried looking into local recourses in your city?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "I felt that you were very helpful. It is nice to just know that someone is listening. I do not think that there is much in the way of local resources at the moment - everyone is very stretched.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is true it has been hard for many people.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I do feel better for having been able to talk to you about this - thank you very much! I think I will be able to carry on for a bit now. Thanks again and best wishes!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello, how are we doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am alright, how are you doing?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am doing swell What's on your mind today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "I really want to ask how you are doing and what issues you are having, I have done like 5 of these on the supportive side. I have been getting migraines lately which is making my depression worse", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How long has this depression been looming over you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Pretty much my whole adult life, at least 12 years or so", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that, you mentioned that you have been getting migraines lately though you have been depressed for a longer duration, lets try to pinpoint that cause first", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I honestly have a pretty good handle on the depression, lots of therapy. The migraines are making it hard to get anything done though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Would you say that the migraines are a result of working?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am honestly not sure, I have gotten one in my entire life before and 6 in the last month. I dont think that it is stress related", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "you'd be surprised as how much stress actually does to the mind itself. Has anything in your daily life, in the past month alone, changed that would lead to increased stress that you wouldn't normally experience?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Honestly not really, things are going well at work and life is actually going well", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "from where I am, most businesses require us to work form home. Is this true for you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No I am stuck going into work, we are essential enough to stay open", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ah, I also know some essential workers who must physically attend work. I am lead to believe that the pandemic inadvertently causes a lot of stress in places that we don't commonly associate stress with. For example, wearing a mask everywhere for us in the United States can become a pain sometimes like when I forget it in the car or the house", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yes honestly covid has definitely been exhausting. masks have been mandatory here for quite some time so I am never without one", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I don't blame you, its impossible to keep this composure especially with a pandemic breathing down our necks. When I worked, I found that smaller problems that wouldn't normally phase me began to have a greater effect when the pandemic hit Thus my stress went up as a result and wearing a mask didn't help the problem", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Others" }, { "content": "Honestly I wear a mask 8 hours a day and its not a big deal", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hmm I guess we all deal with the precautionary measure differently. Has your daily routine changed at all in the past month?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not much has changed", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "are you able to identify any change whatsoever? I ask since any imbalance our body and mind experience is sometimes enough to see a poor reaction, that may lead to things such as migraines", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes its been surprising, I have talked to my doctor and he suggested I try to document my triggers so I will try to do that Anyway I have to get going, You have been very helpful. Have a wonderful day!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, I am feeling very sad because I tested positive for Covid this week. I am in quarantine away from my family.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes, I tested positive for the Covid virus on Wednesday.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It must be hard to stay alone. Are you having fever or any other sever symptoms. Hope there is someone to take care of you for a while at least.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I'm by myself in my house. My wife took the kids to stay with her father until my quarantine period is over. I have mainly cold symptoms - body aches, stuffy head, sore throat. Nothing too serious so far.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I had COVID last month with mild symptoms. Good to know that you don't have any sever symptoms. You will recover fast.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I hope so. I'm on the older side (not senior citizen yet) with high blood pressure, so I'm a little nervous about how it will affect me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand staying alone will be devastating. Keep monitoring your oxygen level. If that is normal, you don't have to worry. You can read watch tv or can do video calling to your family.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Thanks for the advice. We're doing a lot of video calls so I can see everyone. That helps.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I wish for your fast recovery. Hope this COVID situation end soon somehow.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "That's what is so frustrating - I feel like a couple more months or so and I'd have the vaccine. Made it a year, then get infected during the stretch run of this pandemic.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Very true! It is kind of never ending. There should be some permanent solution for it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I don't know if that will ever happen, but if it becomes rare and much less deadly like colds and flu, we should be able to return to a pre-covid life or close to it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "We can still hope for the best right now. Let's stay positive and fight it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I was fighting it, but Covid won this week!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Think other way. You defeat it and you won.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I hope so. I'm only in like the third inning or so right now though.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are a strong person. You are almost there to win. Your family is always there with you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks for the encouragement. 10 days cannot come fast enough.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I know but i week has gone so rest will go too. Wishing you fast recovery and take care of yourself.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks, good luck to you. Nice chatting with you.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi there how are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I feel sleepy but can not sleep", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is not good. Is this a new thing or has it always been this way?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It has always been that way", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you ever tried to get any help for it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes I have but I never was able to find someone to understand", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's shame. Not all doctors are understanding. Are you able to see someone else?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes I did.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What about over the counter stuff? Have you considered that? I personally have found some very useful herbal remedies.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I have tried that but it does not help. The images of my past haunt me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ah I was going to ask if you thought that some trauma had started this, Do you want to talk about it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes my father used to beat my mother and I would need to watch.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That sounds very traumatic. Have you ever talked with anyone about it before?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes I have everyone says to move on", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well that is not very helpful of them! Clearly you are not able to move on or you would not be having disturbed sleep", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes you are right.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope these were not paid specialists you were seeing Are you there?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Question" }, { "content": "Yes I am.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You went very quiet! What else would you like to talk about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am sorry I was thinking about the trama", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that, I did not mean to upset you further. Anyway I hope you can get some adequate help in the future. Anyway, I wish you all the best! Can you press quit and take the survey? I can't do it my end :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thank you.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I don't know.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you mind me asking what it is that caused you to reach out to someone for support?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "When I first called this number a voice said to state what the problem. Do you have that information?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm not aware of there being a phone number for you to call. This is a task that is supposed to be done via Amazon's Mechanical Turk platform. I believe you're supposed to tell me what the problem is. Then, I will help you through it as best as I can.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Give me a minute and I'll restate it okay?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That sounds good!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Friday while out doing last minute Thanksgiving shopping I got a call from my best firend's that my best friend was rushed to the hospital. I hung up and rushed to the hospital. When I got there my fiance and my best friend's family were all there. Hold on let me finish.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Take your time!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "The sister told me my friend has advance Kidney Failure and could die at anytime. I just saw my best friend Thursday and she fine. The sister also told me my friend has AIDS and hasn't been taking her medicine. My jaw dropped because this is my best friend. She went on to say I need to get tested because my best friend and fiance has been having an affair. I couldn't believe anything she was saying. I confronted my fiance know he would say it wasn't true. He didn't deny or confirm anything. He kept saying he was so sorry. I've been at moterl since Friday after i ran from the hospital. I don't know if my best friend is dead or where my fiance is. I'm scared and mad. I dont know if my best friend is dead or alive. I don't want to see my fiance because him being at the hospitalbefore me verifies what the sister said. How couldthey do this to me. There was nothing I wouldn't do for either of the two of them and this is how they repay me? I know its wrong but there 's a part of me that wants her and him to die.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Oh my goodness. I am so incredibly sorry that all of this happened to you. I can tell that you are completely overwhelmed with emotions right now.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "With all the crap happening in the world this had to land on my head. WHY? WHAT DID I DO?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I don't believe that you did anything wrong whatsoever. Sometimes, really unfair things happen to really good people. I can't even imagine how hard this must be, but I would try to look at it in a positive way. I know that losing your best friend and your fiancé must be devastating, but at least you now know that your fiancé is someone who you most certainly probably don't want to spend the rest of your life with. I've been cheated on myself, believe it or not, and it was my daughter's father and my best friend. I can't believe how similar our stories are. I'm not even kidding! I refused to get back together with him (we were engaged at one time as well) and because I refused to get back together with him, he got my best friend pregnant and they are now together and recently had a second child. He has completely forgotten that our daughter exists.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Were you married to him?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think I would start by putting your own health first and getting yourself tested to make sure that you haven't contracted anything from your fiancé. I know this will be incredibly hard, but I wouldn't want to see you getting sick and suffering as a result of his infidelity. No, we were not married. We were together for almost 7 years and engaged at one point, but I broke it off after he cheated on me. He cheated on me several times. It's the worst feeling in the world.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I'm scared to get tested. What if it comes back positive? Was the child he had a boy or girl?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I would be scared, too. However, it's better to act now because to my knowledge, the sooner that you find out and treat it, the better the chances are of you treating it. There are a lot of new medications out there that can be used to treat HIV and AIDS.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Have you been tested for AIDS? What do they do when you get tested?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I know that their first child is a girl. I'm not sure if their second is a girl or a boy. I haven't spoken to him in several years. I found out through a friend about their second child. We haven't spoken at all since I found out about the first one. I have been tested for all STDs because I was cheated on. All of mine came back negative. All they did when I got tested was bloodwork. Have you thought about reaching out to a therapist or counselor who could help you to work through your feelings and everything that you're dealing with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Didn't you say you have a daughter by him? And you haven't talk to him since he cheated? What about your daughter feelings? She has a right to know her father doesn't she?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am so incredibly sorry that you have to deal with all of this at all but especially at the start of the holiday season. My heart absolutely breaks for you. Yes, we have a daughter. He spent the first eight years of her life in prison. I gave her the choice as to whether or not she wanted to get to know him. He had plenty of opportunities to speak to her and chose not to call or show up when he was supposed to. The last thing she said about him was, \"All he does is lie to me and break promises. I don't want to see him or talk to him anymore.\"", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "And no I haven't thought or going to therapy. I'm not the one who cheated on anyone and this just happened Friday. I didn't know where to start. So I called here Are you or your daughter in therapy?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm a great mother and I always put my daughter's feelings first. She made the decision not to see or speak to her father. Him and my now ex-best friend are on drugs and don't have custody of their own children. It's in my daughter's best interest that she doesn't know him. Yes, we are both in therapy. It helps immensely. I know that you weren't the one who cheated, but I would still highly recommend talking to someone about what happened. This is going to be very hard to get through. Again, I am incredibly sorry that you are going through all of this. Our chat session will only last for a total of about 30 minutes. This is meant to be a one-time task, unfortunately.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I'm not sure if you can help me because I've never did drugs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I never did drugs either. My daughter's father did. He still does, and so does my best friend. They lost custody of their kids. I have custody of my daughter. Anyway, I hope that you eventually become more open to talking to a therapist on an ongoing basis. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Others,Others" }, { "content": "Oh okay. I hope you and daughter have a nice holiday. My plan for the holdiay was to tell my fiance he's going to be a father and my best that she was going to be a Godmother. Now I don't know. It was nice talking to you. Good luck to you and your daughter.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello there, how are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "He was killed so soon after you last saw him?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Are you still in touch with his family and friends?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "We weren't married. And of course he didn't have a will. He was only 32. So according to his family I have no legal rights. Thank you for chatting with me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You are very welcome!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Have a good night.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello is anyone there", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "hello there, how are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "sad. i broke up with my girlfriend i do not know what to do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years i had to break up with her though", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from did you go your separate ways on good terms?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Question" }, { "content": "yes you are right. it pained me to do it but it was for the best. no it ended roughly. she ran over my dog and i was angered i broke up but maybe i acted quickly and should ask for her back", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Was it an honest mistake that she made?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes i think so. she was rushing out to get cake for a party and was not looking.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How long have you had the dog for? Did you have the dog before the relationship started?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "my dog was 13 years old. she was very close to me. i had her when she was a puppy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The dog then lived a very happy and fulfilling life from what I can tell. Dogs are among the best companions to ask for.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi, how are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I am not that good I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today? Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes I actually created good profile on LinkedIn", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Its highly competitive nowadays Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What sort of position and in what industry?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working I have a software background with business intelligence Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you? Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So you're interested in going into the startup world?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable Its highly risky", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required. I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's good thinking. Play it safe.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, thanks. I will keep trying I guess. Hopefully I get a job soon.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything else you would like chat about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No, that will be all. Thanks", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ok. Have a good day.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks, you too.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hi is there someone there Can you help me hello did you leave the chat Please talk to me I need help!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "no i am here", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I came here for support Thank goodness", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "How may I help you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I am having a really hard day today", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "what happened today? this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ah i understand. I am sorry about that. Why do you think you should have a boydriend now? Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Restatement or Paraphrasing,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey? Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Why would they worry about my safety? They have raised me to make decisions and I fel like I have made a good one waiting this long and in my own choice of the guy I chose to start a relationship with", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Well, I guess I understand a bit more put like that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Since we might run out of time soon can I give you my advice to you as well?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "please do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hey! How can I help? How are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How have you lost them?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why do you think you were not invited?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Have a reason for what, do you say?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "That's something you would have to ask him, but I feel like I am at peace for now. Let people do their own thing, is what I think.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Well I think you are right. Perhaps I'll do that right now. Thanks for chatting it was helpful!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Your welcome :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes, thanks :)", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello how re you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Doing Ok And yourself", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "good! How can i help you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living Is this a field you always worked in", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Oh wow then maybe I could really pull this off , I dont know how I would manage do call center while my daughter is in Virtual", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Oh wow that is really good to know . I have a laptop and also I could make me a very quite place in my home", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes I am glad to help!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I hope I really do find some online work so I could start making money soon", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope so to! with your skills you definitely should be able to!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you soo much", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You're welcome! I hope you have a good day", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi, how are you? Are you working?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am working today.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I've been working from home since March. Today I get a letter saying I have to return to work. Can my job make me come to the office? Are you working from home? Hello? Do you know of anyone who was in this predicament? Can they fire me? What should I do?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "Different jobs have different policies so you could check into that. I do know people who have had to do that. I would caqll and talk to my boss about how I was feeling and see if there is a solution.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Information" }, { "content": "Who would I check with? The letter says \"failure to return to physical could result in loss of employment.\" We dont have access to our bosses where we can just randomly call them up. Have you helped anyone else with this problem?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You have a direct supervisor or a human resource person that you could talk to at the company. They should be able to answer those questions for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello I'm Sean how are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hi, I'm not good. And you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular? I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight. Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not. Can you give me a few \"silly\" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Affirmation and Reassurance,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "probably it's true", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. listen to me", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes, we're going to talk about it it's better for both of us", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "The eyes is the key for everything I'll do it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "a ultimate for him", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "it's called the take-away in psychological sales.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It's going to help me I didn't know thay", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "of course it will.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "that*", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "look it up. do you love this man?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I'll look it up. Thank you yes, I love him Thank you. Bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens. EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Ok, I'll do it. thanks. Bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! How are you doing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am dong good. You?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am okay thanks but it is a worrying year. Have you been worrying about anything?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I have been staying home since last March due to COVID; getting very depressed.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Ah I hear you, I have been self isolating too. Do you have an online support network?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "What do you mean by support netwrok?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Well, friends you can talk to during this difficult time? I have a lot of friends on facebook and similar that I can talk to.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I have few friends and can talk to but not sure how would they help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sometimes it does just make it easier to know that other people are in the same situation as you :)", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "You mean share experiences among the friends?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes .. or at least share coping mechanisms perhaps? Do you have any hobbies that you can occupy yourself with right now?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I pay musical instruments but do to COVID could not play with the band", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Could you perhaps set up Zoom meetings where you could play together online?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Any idea how would it work? Would there be any delay between the sounds from different instruments?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "No I don't think so :) I think that it is totally live so you could play just as you would if you were together in person.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks for the idea. I will give it a try.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I hope it goes well for you. It has been such an awful year, hasn't it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes, it was.. worst I ever seen..", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I wish you all the very best for 2021. I hope that you get to get together with your band again and rock!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I hope so. As they started the vaccination everything should come back to normal in few months.. Thanks for your time and support.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes, all we need to do is be patient! Have a great New Year and thanks for talking.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hi what brought you here today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am feeling sad and lonely", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "im sorry you are feel that way. i can feel that way sometimes too. is there anything that helps you feel comforted?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Well I would typically reach out to local friends but I recently moved and with Covid it is difficult to make new friends", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "thats understanding. with all thats going on in the world right now its hard to get out and make new friends especially being in a new city.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, i wish i had some ideas on maybe some ways I could still make friends", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "is there a way you could connect with people in your area via social media or chatrooms maybe? I know theres this website i used once called meetup where they sometimes organize activities locally to do things even during this pandemic. sometimes they host virtual meetups to", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I could check that out. I know many of us are doing virtual meetings but in person meetings are really the best. Especially when you are an extrovert.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yes i can understand that. im an introvert and even ive been feeling like needing some in person contact to feel more connected", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I tried connecting with people via this app, sort of like a friend version of Tinder but no one responded back to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yea that can happen ive been on those kind of apps before. sometimes it takes awhile for people to respond.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "It can be so frustrating. Why are you on the app if you don't want to respond to people?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yea it can been frustrating i understand your feelings. its seems like you said you are an extrovert so maybe using an app that you could connect with people in person might help?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes, that is what i was hoping so i tried that. I guess i will need to give it another try to see if i can find someone who is willing to meet.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yea sometimes you gotta give things another go. things can be frustrating at first but it can help to take a step back or breather and think about the situation and how to approach things again.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "True. This has certainly been a year of having to take a breather from time to time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yes it sure has been a challenging year i can relate to that. though i am confident in you that you will get through this and find connections with others", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks for your encouragement", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "you are very welcome. i am glad i was able to help you today", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes, I have two good actions to try now. Have a good one!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello, how are you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Doing okay. How about yourself?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am doing well. Is anything troubling you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Sort of, yes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Would you like to share?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I If that is okay yes.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes I am here to listen.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I feel like my friend group kind of judges me for simply being myself. It makes me somewhat upset. I know they are most likely joking, but sometimes I take some of the things they say to me very personally. Should I still hang out with them even if they are making me feel this way?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "It sounds like your friends can be judgmental and even though they are joking it ends up upsetting you. I have been in a similar situation. I always expected my friends to support and understand me but sometimes they made fun of the way I am. Have you ever talked to your friends about this? Have you expressed how it made you feel?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Right. The people who you think you can go to are sometimes the ones who will not really be there for you. And I have not. I just try to brush it off. I feel like I am afraid to confront them about this because I don't know what they will say.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "From what I have seen if we avoid expressing our feelings they keep building up and can make us depressed.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "That's true. Maybe I might give it a shot and talk to them about how I feel. It's just their response is what I'm afraid of because I don't know if they will react positively or negatively.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I can tell that this bothers you a lot.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Kind of. Sometimes I feel like I am better off without friends but then again, I've known them for so long that I just don't want to push them away or anything.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have found that being honest and expressing our true feelings helps us and helps others understand us.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Ah okay.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It is not easy but you can do it. Everyone needs friends.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "You're right. I may just need to communicate with them more. This was very helpful. Thank you for your time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "No problem. Enjoy the rest of your day.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Hello, I hope you can help me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sure I can", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I work hard at my job in an office. We acquired another company and my job is now twice the work. Two of my coworkers have gotten a raise and I have not gotten anything!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Have you talked to your boss about it?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I have hinted around that my job is sooo busy and he knows it, I haven't come out and said anything yet.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand how you feeling you work extremely hard and get no raise when you deserve it", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, I have been at the job for 15 years and make a decent salary but this amount of work is insane. Do you think I should bring it up to him>", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "oh wow 15 years? I really believe you need a raise and doing more work now. I honestly think you should bring it up to your boss", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes, I think so too. I like my boss but he is funny about things sometimes. Any ideas on how I could bring it up to him. I hate feeling this way, my attitude is really turning sour.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can't believe he has not given you a raise by now", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I know!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Just tell him that you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him straight up what is on your mind don't hold it back", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "So, I guess I'll have to be honest and brave at the same time. Do you think I should bring in proof....paperwork, etc. I have been working extra as well.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes I know you can do it but that is the only way to solve the situation is by communicating with him Yes that would help more by bringing in proof to him", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Information" }, { "content": "Ok, I am just so angry over the whole thing, I'm going to have to keep my cool and let him know without getting an attitude, do you think that will work?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes just remain calm with him", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will try, I hope I don't start crying! I tend to get frustrated and cry.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "getting a attitude with him will not help at all", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Yes, you are right, it will make it a bad situation.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Don't let this situation get to you so much", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "O oops I'll try not to, I have to be calm, like you said", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Everything will be ok", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thank you so much for your positive support! I'll let him know I need to talk and I'll remain calm", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Your welcome i am sure he will give you a raise once you talk to him", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Fingers crossed! I really have gone above and beyond and feel I really deserve it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I will be praying that you get the raise because you deserve it", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thank you so much, you've been very helpful!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Your most welcome", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Merry Christmas!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I am not feeling very good about myself lately", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why are you not feeling very good about yourself, lately?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am a single mother, and I dont recieve any support from my childs father. I am struggling mentaly because I have no one to talk to. I have lost all of my friends since becoming a mom.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand how you feel. All will be well, you are going to be okay.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thank you, but I feel like everyone says that.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So, just from my understanding you are a single mom and your friends have distant from you because oh this?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I think the main reason ive lost my friends is because I cant go out with them or hangout anymore because I have a baby. Im not fun anymore. I had my child young so I feel like I lost out on my youth", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like its been really tough for you and wish you had more support from your friends and even your child's father.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes, thats right. But Im having trouble accepting the fact that I have to do this alone.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I myself am single mum so I understand how you feel. You will find also that there are many others dealing with this issue so you are not alone", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Can I ask, as a single mother yourself, what was something that got you through those hard times? And was it hard financially?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What go me through those difficult times was seeking for counselling also I had family that were very supportive and helpful. The father of my child did not pay child support at first so I took him to court eventually and he was forced to start paying child support, so financially things got better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "My child's father has six other children and said hes at the max on child support. I guess I wont be getting anything from him. But Ive been making it work, its definitely been hard, but Im getting some money saved to give my daughter a better life. Thank you so much for talking with me today", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, how are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Hello Hanging in there, how are you? I need some help", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I'm doing okay. What's the issue?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I have been having too much anxiety after the pandemic started. I have too much on my plate.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry about that. I know that the pandemic has taken a toll on a lot of people. What struggles are you having?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "with that said, I have been angry at my kids. I work full time, have to take care of the things at home, cook, clean, etc, and sometimes deal with my 6 year old when he is distance learning he needs help with the online assignments since he is so young", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It seems like you really do have a lot on your plate. Do you have any other family members who can help with your duties? Older children, a spouse or parents nearby?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "only my spouse, I don't have family in the United States I am from Brazil. my family is there. My husband also has a lot on his plate, he is working from home and helping with what he can.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Do you think that you could ask him to help out more around the house? Since he works from home, it would be easier for him to help out if your job is outside of your home. Is there any way that you could hire help, like a tutor for your child?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "well, I used to have someone come clean my house, but since the pandemic started, I dont feel safe about bringing other people to my house my husband is also very stressed out I went to the doctor and he thinks I should try some medication since I have no help, but I am scared it's an antidepressant and a sleeping pill since I am having insomnia as well", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry about that. It seems like a difficult situation to be in. Do you think that the medication could help ease some of your stressors?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Maybe, I am afraid of trying int but I may not have another option", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I think that you should try it out, at least for a little while, to see how it affects you. I used to be depressed too, but when I was put on medication, it seemed to make my life a lot easier. I had a lot more energy and was a lot happier", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Thank you, good to know. I will fill my prescription I cant live like this anymore. Thank you for your input.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help! Are there any other problems you're facing?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "No, that is it. I guess parents of young children are having a lot of stress with the pandemic and I am one of them unfortunatelly Did you get addicted to the medication Did you get addicted to the medication? I worry about getting addicted", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "No, I didn't. I don't think that antidepressants are addictive, but you could ask your doctor if you have any concerns", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am okay, I am very worried about my friend. I believe she is abusing prescription drugs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Oh no, why do you think she is abusing them?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I don't think it, I guess I actually know she is. She use to have a heroin problem and went on methadone. She has since started taking anxiety medicine in order to get high.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Thats a tough spot to be in, ive actually been both sides of that coin.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I think I know what I need to do, It is just hard.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It is hard. Unfortunately you can only try to direct them to stop for so long before it can really damage your own well being, which should come first.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "I agree, and after going through this in the past with her, I just can't sit and wait for the train crash. she feels like she is doing nothing wrong because she has valid prescriptions. I feel like I should just cut her off completely, I don't have time for her drama. What do you suggest?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I would actually suggest just that. If you have tried, or do not even feel like going down that path. Then that is your decision. You should look out for yourself!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "True, I definitely do not need to be caught up in her mess. I have too much to lose. I just feel bad like i am abandoning her.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The thing is with drugs, that person already abandoned themselves. Sometimes they can get the help they need, but they need to do it on their own terms. Its kind of like a blackhole where everything gets sucked into their life.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "True, I know she has to want to help herself. I hate this disease.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Me too, i dont know how many bridges i burned all those years ago.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Probably a lot, hopefully you made amends. I will talk to her and tell her I am here for her if she decides to get clean.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Thats really all you can do. I made amends with those that would listen.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will talk to her tomorrow, thanks", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Not a problem, thank you for sharing!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "bye and thanks for listening bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi! Hope you are doing great! How can I assist you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I need assistance in sleeping sound at day time.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I looks like you have hard time in sleeping. Correct me if I am wrong.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes. I don't want to go by medicine.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Are you working late at night? is that the reason you want to sleep at day time.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Not late at night. But thoughout the night, starting in the evening ending in the morning. In between I can sleep enough I want, no throughout the night.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can totally understand how you feel without proper sleep. Our body need full rest to function well.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Do you know any kind of exercise that can bring good sleep, not a medicine.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "As far as I understand that you don't have long sound sleep. May I know your schedule please. Just wanted to know how intense is your work and trying to analyze the reason behind sleeplessness.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "Yes again. I have to do something to sleep well. My schedule starts in the evening extends through the night. But I can take sleep as much I want. But not throughout the night.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "When I feel restless and want to sleep well, I take warm shower before sleeping and it helps me. At day time try to keep your bedroom dark so you can sleep for longer. Enough sleep is very important for good health.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Information" }, { "content": "Warm shower helps you sleep. I learn to do that. I was thinking a bath will keep me fresh and will reduce sleep. Thanks for your advice. Also I am making arrangements to keep my room full dark, no small light at all. Thanks again for your advice.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Some people put soothing soft music to make them sleep too. Have you ever tried that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Yes. I like songs. May be that will also help me for good sleeping. I will try that. I think it will help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hope it will help you. Do you any any other help?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thanks. I feel satisfied having some ideas. I think these will work. Thanks again. Shall I take a leave ?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "sure! Have a wonderful sleep ahead", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Bye. ! ! !", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Bye! You may submit the test now", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "The virus is making it hard on me and causing me loneliness even more this season", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I'm so sorry that you are feelingly lonely. If I may ask you a question, when did this start?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It has been for awhile. about 3 months ago", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Were you feeling lonely before the virus came this year?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not really. I had people to talk with", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds that you are feeling lonely because you cannot talk to people face to face. Do I have that right?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I WFH. I am a writer Basically because I can not at least have the nise of the people around me at times", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I WFH as well. It can be very liberating, but oftentimes I feel lonely too. Do you have more than one job that you do at home?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Others" }, { "content": "The only connection we have is like this I try to write for a company. Personal views My current living arrangements does not help either.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I know that it's really difficult right now, but it seems that the virus is going to get better in the new year. We need to push through these next few months and then it will be over.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Do you feel that way? Are you taking the vaccine", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes, I do feel that way. And yes I will take the vaccine.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I won't take the shot I don't trust teh vaccine as it has side affects", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Apparently, the side effects are usually minimal and temporary if you have them at all. The people that are having severe reactions have had issues with vaccines previously. I would keep an open mind. It might help to ease your anxiety about the future. There are going to be several vaccines to choose from eventually.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Im never take the vaccines I never take the flu shot either", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It sounds like you're being selfish because you're not going to take the vaccine. Does that seem like a reasonable conclusion?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "If the vaccine is that great then why did it take so long to make. Why because of my personal beliefs, I am not being selfish. Do you wear a mask every place you go", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "Yes, I do. It's not bothersome and it's the least I can do to keep myself and others safe.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "I protect myself wherever I go. However the people that ignore the mask are more of a health risk than my not getting the vaccine have a good night", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]

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[ { "content": "I'm in depression because i have fair of i will lost my job", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Why do you believe you will loose your job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "because lots of people in my office they lost their job because of this job crises situation of covid", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "This Covid crisis has been effecting so many lives, I totally understand,", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "how is your situation? yes all effect because of this Covid", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I have been holding on and trying to see the positivity daily. I practice gratitude to show I appreciate what I do have", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "yes I'm also trying to come out from this situation", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Have you thought about talking to your boss?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "no i'm trying to talk but i couldn't", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i'm sorry , why were you not able to talk?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I'm just thinking but i couldn't i don't no why", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I sometimes get nervous when I have to speak up about something that is important to me, can you relate?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I think because i have fear of maybe i lost my job that's why", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You will feel like you will loose your job if you speak up?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Honestly, I can see that being concerning for you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you for thinking that much for me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You're welcome. Covid has hit many of us hard and each situation is just as important as the next!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes , Thank you for your support", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Support is needed in this new times!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Thanks, bye", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi ! How re you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "hello, i am struggling with the isolation and lonliness of Covid 19. it has me depressed hello?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am so sorry. It is really so hard right now with COVID Have you been able to virtually connect with people ??", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Question" }, { "content": "a little bit; it's just not the same. i am a big hugger", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am right there with you, i totally understand missing human contact. There is a way to connect virtually in a fun way, i've tried doing cocktail tasting and wine tasting, a virtual cooking class.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "really? i've never heard of that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's very fun! You can find a wine list online and have everyone go get the same bottles. You can download tasting notes and instructions. It's really fun!!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "how do find such chats?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "For my grandmas 80thi birthday, we hired a chef to do a cooking class which was so fun.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "what a great idea!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I find it to be a really good way to connect with everyone . ALso having an activity gives structure to it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "yes, i can see the benefits", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I also have started to exerices and go for walks more. It's a really good way to clear my head. Do. you have any hobbies that you can do?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes, i try to walk outside everyday too; weather permitting. and that does help. it's mostly the evenings, when I'm really bored, and everyone else seems so busy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's true! do you live alone?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes. and i'm self employed and work from home, but right now my business is shut down, due to covid", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's so hard. You must feel so stressed. I am so sorry to hear that. It's suhch a crazy time in the world right now.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "it sure is. and knowing that it wont last forever, helps a little bit too. i just really miss traveling are we done?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "That's true. I really misst raveling as well. Where do you want to go when this is all over? I find helping to plan for trips after to be the best way to get through this!!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Self-disclosure" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Good evening ! How are you on this cold fall night", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Not too good. I am owed a lot of money by my friends but they aren't paying me back blaming covid.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can understand how stressful this could be for you! I would feel taken advantage of too Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you sorry I am not sure why it typed twice Have your friends ever borrowed money before?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question,Question,Others,Question" }, { "content": "Yes, as recently as yesterday, but they keep delaying. And as though rubbing salt to wound, I can see them spending on personal goods instead of returning the money to me.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I would be furious too!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I am not sure if they have borrowed before, but sure as hell, they have not returning any loan I can tell. *they are not", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I just meant if they had borrowed in past and returned it than maybe they were telling the truth but since you saw them blowing money that s rightfully yours is a problem Can you talk to a mutual friend of both of you or if you are close maybe their family ?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Absolutely. This has put me in a tight spot financially I can try talking to their family but I am afraid I am not that close to their family", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand and have been in your shoes and its NO FUN and they don't get to borrow ever again. Have you explained just how much of an issue it is to them and flat out tell them you saw them spending money on junk etc when they could have given to you . Something is better than nothing . Maybe work out a plan of 50 a week if they work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "May be I can try that, $50 a week or asking them to pay in instalments sounds like a good idea. Problem is I loaned hard cash and I need as cash, not digital transfers", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "And depending on how much of a friend they are you need to see if this is worth losing friendship over. I mean if you are great friends I d lay low and never let them borrow again. IF you only knew them a short while and felt sorry for them and lent them money than I D talk to parents or someone", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I don't want to lose my friends, because they are the only people that helped me when I shifted to this city. But I don't like them taking undue advantage of me either.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Id be like I helped you when you needed xxx to do get buyxxx . Now its becoming an issue and I can't pay my bills. I wanted to help you now can you please give me cash of xxx for xxx starting next friday. Yes friends are hard to come by and you certainly don't need anyone to ever take advantage of you. But the other side is do you want this person to be your friend if you can't trust them and they are showing you no disrespect or attempt to pay you back?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "It's a good plan. Due to lockdown restrictions, I am unable to travel places. May be if I show up at their doors, they'll pay me back. I am gonna see if talking to them and asking for small payments works first", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Awesome! Good luck! If that doesn't work we can chat again and try something else. Keep safe and Keep the faith . Personally I would recommend praying if you believe as I do!!!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yes, I do pray and it has worked in the past. Let me try to stay calm and follow your ideas. Thanks!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "what's bothering you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i feel like i cant stop crying", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "why do you feel that way? can tell me more?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i feel like im losing everything", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "ok I understand. would you like to talk why you are feeling like this?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "my other half works so hard and i cant help felling like im not enough that they are going to just walk away", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "just to let you know you are not alone in this. I too was going through a rough time.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "it doesnt help that we lost our baby roo and lost twins not 5 months later", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "talking about it and I'm sorry to hear. expressing your feelings to someone can help relieve so of that emotion.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "how do people move on from a lost of pregnancy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "in the end things will work out. you just have to think positive and live. God had other plans for your twins. god wanted them to be your two angels", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "i get that it was the way it was meant to be but it hurts so bad knowing that we may lose our current pregnancy", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "have you talk to a professional counselor for advice?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "yes and all they say is it takes time", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yes it does. Time will heal all. try to keep your self occupied and mind busy with things to enjoy", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "the things i enjoyed in the past dont seem to be enjoyable anymore. i just cant stop the anxiety takes over", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand it's tough loosing someone. I know, I've lost someone too. just be positive", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "i pray several times a day for this baby to be healthy. but its hard to smile when i know what can happen", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hopefully I ease your mind a little but remember don't be afraid to see professional help. they can offer good advice and things to keep you motivated", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "i see a counsler weekly but so far the anxiety wont let up", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "praying is good and keep on believing anything else?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "how are you? Good day", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am fine. How about yourself?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "i am alright, thanks", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That's good.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yeaa", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything you need today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "well going by my description i believe we are supposed to talk about my previous situation", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes we are. Would you like to tell me about it ?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I m not sure if you saw that Okay easy peasy. I broke up with my boyfriend because he heated on me with my friend", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm sorry, no I didn't see that information. Will you explain your situation to me?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "in details?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I see. It sound like your bothered by that.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I had a friend i thought i could trust. i never knew both my Ex and her where sneaking behind my back I was at the time it angered me But im sure i moved past it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "So how did you handle that situation? That's good that you've moved passed it.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Called it quits", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Are you happy with your decision?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Took me a long time tho to get over it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It takes time for trust wounds to heal but you've handle it greatly.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Yes all things being equal i believe that was the right thing to do. considering relationships cannot work without some form of trust", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Good for you! Have you heard of Cheater's Anonymous?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Is that an app?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Yes it is. They help you learn to trust again if that's what you want. Would you like the web address?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Ohh i see Yes please. that would be nice.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm so proud of you. Here you go. WWW.CHEATERSANNONYMOUS.COM", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Thank you somuch", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "The address is case sensitive so be sure to use all CAPITALS.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Oh right", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "No thank you. You assured me people can work through their issues. Good luck.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I will remember that Ofcos. It may take time but it will sure happen", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I don't think I could have done as well as you in that situation.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Oh really? Are you somuch of an emotional wreck ? I mean it isnt easy but we are strong humans and can pull through whatever.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I just meant if I ever got in your situation I would remember what you did and go from there. Thanks", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "You are welcome", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are right that we are strong humans.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "And thank you for listening", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "it was no problem. I love hearing how people solve their issues.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Good to know", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi, what can I help you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am getting ready to sue my mother and am very nervous about the ordeal.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You're worried about being in court against your mother or are you worried about your relationship after that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Both", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Can you tell me about the situation, why did you decide to sue her?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "My stepdad raped me and got me pregnant and I delivered a still born and i just remember the incident happened 23 years later. So now I am suing my mother. instead of pressing charges because my sister and I dont want it in the papers", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "So she knew about the incident but did nothing to help you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "yes she did not believe me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "that sucks, I understand why you resent her so much I cannot help with your worry about going to court, however, i can offer some help regarding your relationship", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Others" }, { "content": "yes it is very difficult but im not as upset as i was i cried a lot", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Crying is good, you shouldn't bottle your emotions Have to talked to anyone in your family about this beside your sister?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "yes i am kinda numb to it but I have to call the police dept tomorrow for a copy of the police report from when my step dad took the baby to them and I dont want to No nobody knows except one cousin from my biological dads side", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You should talk to someone you trust, they might be able to give you specific advice regarding your situation", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "that might help, i am just nervous about this whole thing i am estranged from my family for the most part so", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Also, you seem to still care about your mom despite what she did. Did you consider reaching out to her after the court?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "yes i imagine that we will talk", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Maybe talk to your friends, it's easier for people of similar age to empathize with you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "i do not have many friends really", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Try to keep your cool, let her know you did it because you wanted justice.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "yes that is what i am worried about thank you that is really good line i can use when she asks me why", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "If you still care about her, make sure to let her know you don't hate or resent her and you still hope to be able to fix your relationship", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yes but what she did you really can't move past a certain point of tolorence and forgivness so i will always wish she had believed me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I understand you, it's normal to feel what you feel. It's a terrible situation and what she did really is unforgivable", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yes it is. but i basically do its just i feel that she doesn't love me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I don't think she doesn't love you. Maybe she just didn't want to believe it happened You should definitely let her know that", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Others" }, { "content": "yes i think you are right. I think that my time is running out. i will thank you. I am going to go now.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sueing won't solve anything, you have to talk to your mom and get all the knots in your mind out good luck with your court", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "hello, how are you tonight ?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Not okay im really depressed and need to talk I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ? was there an argument", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Did you have any suggestions", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Would they help with food and clothing", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated motivated", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Others" }, { "content": "Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ? it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "She refuses to help out with anything but when the paycheck comes she's ready to spend it", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello how are you feeling today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "not so well what about you", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "my love is broken up she left me alonr", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years suddenly she left me", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "she is engaged to a richman and they prepared to get married soon i dont have any idea for what to do", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again which sometimes makes me mad", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me and irritates me so much", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "but its not easy to me tell it to my family members", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I will try to think like that is that really works", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I will try my level best", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Okay that's good. I can tell that you're making too big of a deal of the situation. You can think about the good times you've had with her, but that's in the past now so you should be focused on the future instead.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "thankyou i try to do this", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I'm happy to provide you advice. If you need advice in the future, you could always find a counselor for you. I hope you are feeling a bit better.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello good afternoon.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hello what can i help you with today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "having problems with a friend", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "It started a couple of days ago.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "what seems to be the problem?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "we got into a fight", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What was the fight about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "It was over an item he didnt return", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "content": "really? what did you do?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "so you think I should talk it over with my friend?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "you should approach him with a calm voice", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "Ok I'll take that into consideration.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "He can be aggressive at times.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I can most definitly understand when he becomes aggressive just leave the situation alone and let him calm down", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "that is great advice I think I'm ready to talk to him", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hey", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Can you share the dilemma you are having?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done. Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though. Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all. I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start. Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I thought I did. My husband and I made a couple friends. Theyre a couple and so are we so we go on double dates but they seem more drawn to him. Me and the other girl got very close and then boom she randomly decided she only wants to talk to me when shes mad or bored", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "yeah it seems that way. Most people like him more than me and it's weird because he sucks at socializing and doesn't even like them that much It just doens't make sense but that's just the way the ca rds were dealt", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I used to have a hard time forming a meaningful relationship but then I realized it's because I had nothing in common with the people I was trying to form them with. Once I discovered something I was really drawn to I met people that way like volunteering in my community. Have you tried finding people you have more in common with.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" } ]

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[ { "content": "Thank you for listening to me today.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation. Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Question" }, { "content": "Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances. One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Thank you, I will keep that in mind.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Is there anything else you need help with?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "No, not today I feel a lot more calm and gained a better understanding of my emotions and the situation I am finding myself in.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Good, I am very glad to hear that. I am wishing you the best in the future and definitely feel free to contact me if you need support again!", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "Same to you, thank you for understanding and offering really good advice, i am guessing I had forgotten that there are things I can control I am unsure how to end our chat", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Do you need any help with any other questions? Otherwise, there is a quit button on the side.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "No, thank you for putting everything in perspective for me. goodbye.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, i've been so sad lately.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad? Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Question" }, { "content": "I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs. My friends are mostly single and don't understand.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe? I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution are they close friends or just friends Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends. That's a good approach. I should try it.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related? Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "Facetime mostyl! You can say anything!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "God is on the throne and in Control . I am not just saying this because it happens to be Sunday. I haven't been to church since March due to Covid. I used to go weekly but that doesn't make me any better or worst than those who don't . I am just saying prayers help and most people say nothing left but to pray when it should be our first defense The other thing that comes to mind is since most of us are home more and we have internet maybe you could think of something to buy under 20 or less but would convey to your friend that you are thinking of them / value your friendship and even though you are with love of your life they can be too!! IF they can't accept this after Covid and you talk face to face I am afraid you can make better friends", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "That's a good idea! Maybe even something fun we can do together as an activity! I will browse amazon.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sounds great ! I wish you the best and hope I could bridge the gap. Good luck and Keep safe", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hi how can I help you today? Hello??", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Question" }, { "content": "hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams could you please help me out from this fear", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "I see, that is a problem. yes for sure,", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Information" }, { "content": "is ist ..is that much good app wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know give it a try its an amazing app where are you from?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Others,Question" }, { "content": "sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects sure will try how about collge fees ?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null" }, { "content": "no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information" }, { "content": "oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "don't worry, everything will be good at the end.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "hope so , covid changed entire life", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "true where are you from? you didn't tell me", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Question" }, { "content": "yea..from chicago", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello, how are you? Anyone there?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question,Question" }, { "content": "Hi how are you?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi! so nice to chat with you today.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I am haing a difficult time with COVID-19. I want to go out but can't. And I'm an introvert.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I totally understand, I also identify myself as an Introvert. Never thought that in my lifespan I would want to go out and be around other people. what have you done so far to alleviate the lonely feelings?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "I have zoomed with people but that is not great. Have you done anything to help?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I have also done that as well, though I do miss the human to human connection. I have learn how to knit, hot make bread ( yes! bread lol), and got out of my comfort zone and watched different genres of movies along with books. I am a creature of habit with set routine, I really tried to get out of my bubble as much as I can. Keeping my mind busy makes the days go by faster. have you tried to do something new and challenging? how to make**", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions,Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "I saw that bread trend earlier in the pandemic. How did you do? I am thinking about going to the park...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "well I can tell you, the first 3 times I tried to make 'regular bread' it was a disaster. my bread came out hard as a rock. I kept working at it. You are truly involved when making bread. Cool! I did not know it was a trend? look at me I am a trendsetter, lol. YES! I recommend that wholeheartedly, Ive walked and done more sight seeing during this pandemic than my entire life. Do you have scenic place to go? Do you like to read?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I do not have a scenic place but have some nice trails. I do read. I am reading bob iger's new autobiography.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Trails, offer an experience of letting go, I believe, you become immerse in nature. I would definitely explore all trails. I did not know Iger had a book out. That sounds really interesting, I would actually love to read it, is it dull? or engaging? I do remember the headlines, he forgo his salary despite the risk of Disney losing billions in revenue, that takes guts. Do you have a pet?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "content": "His book is good. Do you enjoy reading to help relax?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I need to pick it up and dive into it. I love reading, I always tend to have a book in my hands. Yes, reading has served to not only help me relax but to teach me how to do other things, like baking. what is your favorite book?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I love the Harry Potter book series. I picked up Sorcerer's Stone when I was 21 or 22 and it provided me with some alternative to the normal drinking and late nights I had grown accustom to. Helped me apprecate books more too!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Harry potter are THE books to dive into and just immerse yourself in. I would Highly recommend The Hobbit books, I was a bit hesitant about, but dare I say I like them more than Harry Potter? If you want something more adult and edgy go with Game of Thrones. I get it, I think this pandemic is a period to learn about ourselves and truly pick ourselves apart and see what we have missing out on.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I have heard good things about Tolkin's books but have not gotten into them yet. I do like the movies though!", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Sounds to me you have been handling the pandemic a lot more better than what you actually think. I have been wanting to check out Lord of the rings, but I feel I wont like, either way, I am hoping to check them out and really see if I dont like. I love movies as well, what is your favorite genre and movie?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Self-disclosure" }, { "content": "I like movies. I usually like spy thrillers or at least have recently. What's yours?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You know what would be really cool to do, to join virtual admission to museums around the world. such a neat option that we now.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I did a bunch of those at the start of the pandemic. I like the Louvre...", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello! Anyone there?", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "hello! it's nice to meet you", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" }, { "content": "Thank you you too", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What would you like to talk about today?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "How I can feel less ashamed My house is so disorganized I won’t let anyone co e over", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "What is making you feel ashamed?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Every single room is disarrayed", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "it seems that you feel ashamed because you are feeling messy? is this correct?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "content": "Yes", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "When did this begin?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "Sorry It started about ten years ago I had emergency restroom call I have moved into this house almost ten years ago At first it was great everything was fine since it was new house but after we got settled it went down hill from that", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null,null,null,null" }, { "content": "What do you feel like brought you into this situation?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others" } ]

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[ { "content": "Hello", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Hi, How are you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "I am feeling down and scared.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "What is having you feel scared at this moment?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Question" }, { "content": "The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic. Have you been able to apply for work recently?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question" }, { "content": "Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort. Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings,Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities. You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Information,Question" }, { "content": "Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work. It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" }, { "content": "Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation. When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition. Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure,Question" }, { "content": "It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google \"places to volunteer online\", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "content": "Great. I will try that today. Thank you so much for your help.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null" }, { "content": "You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you. Best wishes, I'm glad we spoke.", "role": "assistant", "strategy": "Others,Others" }, { "content": "I hope so. I better go get started on the suggestions you gave me. Thanks again and have a great day.", "role": "user", "strategy": "null,null" } ]