Question: What is the ColdFusion Process Name?

Answer: 
Alright, I have found the process name for ColdFusion:

`jrun.exe` - The process JRun JAR Launcher belongs to the software Macromedia JRun Application Server or JRun.exe or ColdFusion Graphing Server or Macromedia ColdFusion MX or jrun.exe by Macromedia Inc (www.macromedia.com).
In ColdFusion 10 there is a separate process named - coldfusion.exe found in cfusin/bin

There is also a running coldfusinsvc.exe (which is the ColdFusion Service Application) which might interest you as well.

CF10 onwards the application server is CF+Tomcat bundle.