Question: What is the ColdFusion Process Name?

Answer: 
Have you taken a look with [Process Explorer](http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/sysinternals/bb896653.aspx)? Though some services share a process, non-builtin services probably don't.

If you can't tell which "svchost.exe" instance is running a particular service, hover over it, and it'll display the services it is hosting.
Have you tried using [Process Monitor](http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/sysinternals/bb896645.aspx)?