Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to admit you've done bad things [title] Determine the extent of the damage. [step] It's important to understand exactly how bad a mistake is before admitting to it. If you underestimate the damage, you run the risk of coming across as incompetent or uncaring.

Ending1: [substeps] The one thing to consider before admitting that you've done something is whether you have been responsible. Mistakes cannot be made knowingly, though. Ending2: [substeps] You may need to speak with a neutral third party to accomplish this task. This is particularly true if you've hurt somebody, whether physically or emotionally. Ending3: [substeps] Don't compare yourself to others. Work on developing your ability to identify valid excuses and clearly identify the behaviors that are affecting you. Ending4: [substeps] If it's too late to say you're sorry, realize that you haven't done anything wrong. Even if you accidentally make someone's reputation hurt, you've prevented it.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4