Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to stay calm in an argument [title] Be mindful of your body language. [step] Your opponent may get the wrong impression of you if you exhibit aggressive body language. You could come off as mad or even snobby if you aren't mindful of what you are doing.

Ending1: [substeps] Crossing your arms, pursing your lips, and slouching could give you an angry appearance, even if you aren't. Instead, stand straight up, place your arms in a neutral position, and keep your face relaxed. Ending2: Being distracted by uncomfortable body language may cause your to demonstrate extreme self control and try to anger your opponent to redirect the conversation. [substeps] Staring at yourself is not the best way to convey how angry or sad you are during an argument. Ending3: For example, avoiding eye contact or crossing your arms may be sufficient to keep your body composed and demoralizing. [substeps] Focus on your emotions to avoid overplacing yourself in a tense situation. Ending4: [substeps] Say things like " what does my body language mean? Does it indicate aggression? " if you are aggressive and frustrated, you may snap at your opponent and/or fall back in your seat. If you are calm and collected, you will be more willing to escalate the situation.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4