Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to stop fighting in a relationship [title] Own up to your part. [step] It's easy to find fault in your partner and think of all the ways he or she has let you down. But be honest with yourself: is this helping you in any way, or helping decrease the conflict in your relationship? Let down your defenses in the height of things.

Ending1: You will be incredibly much less likely to give in to conflicts if you have successfully stopped fighting. [substeps] To overcome feelings of resentment and indefensiveness, identify and make a difference in your relationship. Ending2: While it may feel counterintuitive, it's quite effective. Don't be afraid to admit your wrongs. Ending3: Shame, guilt, and defensiveness are usually powerless in romantic relationships. [substeps] Do not blame your partner for the conflict in your relationship. Ending4: [substeps] If your partner is always nagging why you can't be together anymore, then admit that you are your own person. Tell your partner outright that you really love him or her, and that you need some space.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4