Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to get over heartbreak [title] Don't judge yourself for having feelings. [step] It's common practice to beat yourself up in the midst of heartbreak for feeling a certain way. Go ahead and suspend those judgments.

Ending1: It can be exhilarating to admit that you're in love with someone, and to feel a certain way about someone. Remember, you aren't to blame and that whatever your relationship may be, it's ultimately just normal. Ending2: But keep in mind that there's nothing wrong with beating yourself up. It doesn't mean that whatever happened are awful or bad-but stop beating yourself up for feeling that way. Ending3: Make an oath to allow yourself to feel sad, mad, rejected, disappointed, confused or whatever comes. [substeps] If you find yourself judging, replace those thoughts with positive ones. Ending4: There are many reasons you may judge yourself for feeling your way: after you met your ex, you're conditioned to feel like a victim. You are judged for your mistakes without letting go of them.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4