Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to pursue romance if you suffer from an eating disorder [title] Ask if you're ready. [step] Being honest with yourself about how well you are battling your eating disorder will help you know if you are ready to pursue romance. Assess whether you are doing the things that you need to do to take care of yourself.

Ending1: If your eating disorder is causing you to struggle and become depressed, then you may need to seek help. You can get advice about pursuing romance with your loved one through family therapy, a marriage counselor, or physical therapy or cognitive behavioral therapy. Ending2: Are you willing to leave your eating disorder out of the equation? Is this uncomfortable for you? [substeps] For example, perhaps you are able to resume normal eating after undergoing treatment. But you are unsure whether you can resume eating despite your eating disorder. Ending3: [substeps] While your lack of a support system may be a fight or flight response, you should recognize that any relationship you have with someone is doomed to fail. This is why pursuing romance should be the first step. Ending4: If you aren't then romance might not be a good idea right now. But, if you are, then pursuing romance might work out well.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4