Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to help someone who is grieving [title] Express your sorrow or concern. [step] As soon as you learn about the loss, reach out to your friend and let her know you are aware of the situation and that you care. Your friend will be thankful that you acknowledged her pain.

Ending1: [substeps] Empathy and understanding are ways to show your friend you care and support her. Remind her that your condolences would mean a lot to her no matter what: she just received a horrible blow to the head, but it was really her fault. Ending2: [substeps] Use your level of closeness with the person to determine how you reach out. For example, if your best friend just lost a family member it may be appropriate to immediately go over. Ending3: In turn, she will be happy that you could care for her and that you are feeling sorry for her. [substeps] Explain that your friend is sad due to the loss. Ending4: Telling her you care will demonstrate that you're willing to be a support to her, even if she's a bit down on herself. [substeps] You may want to write down some good feelings you've expressed to her on a piece of paper.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4