Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to build self confidence in the elderly [title] Ask them for advice. [step] Often times, your elderly loved one has gone through a breadth of life experiences, helping them develop gems of wisdom along the way. They have likely encountered struggles similar to the ones you are dealing with presently.

Ending1: Therefore, whatever you do, don't allow these challenges to get in the way of building self-confidence. [substeps] Make a point of talking to your loved one about their struggles as often as you can. Ending2: Take some time to ask your loved one for advice about a situation you are in, whether it is big or small. Doing so will help remind them of the ways that they have overcome obstacles and will help them feel useful in their daily life as they help you with your own. Ending3: Instead of feeling frightened, be gracious about your experiences and ask them for advice regarding help that they could offer. [substeps] Try saying, " i got a new novel next month and can't seem to find anyone to read it. Ending4: Talk with them about any struggles you have had in your life, and remind them of healthy ways to deal with family problems. [substeps] A good idea is to ask them how they handle stressful life events such as violence or regular arguments.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4