Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Education and Communications: [header] How to file a complaint [title] Identify the core issue (s). [step] Focus on the actual events that took place. It's important to separate facts from feelings, particularly in emotionally charged situations.

Ending1: Instead of blaming the abuser, however, try taking responsibility for your own actions in that situation. [substeps] If there were factual events leading up to the abuse, you can claim responsibility by stating what this situation looked like and how you felt. Ending2: Think about whether or not these emotions caused the anger on your part. [substeps] For example, look for context clues: was someone irritating you? Were there other people in the room who teased you? Think about whether or not the person taunted you. Ending3: [substeps] For example, there may have been wrong time frame for your relationship. If you were dating someone who was abusive, your spouse also might have been in an abusive relationship when the abuse took place. Ending4: [substeps] If the situation is particularly complex, you may find it helpful to write your thoughts and feelings down in a journal. Getting a better sense of your feelings may help you separate them from the facts of your complaint.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4