Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to respond to someone body shaming another person [title] Identify body shaming. [step] If you hear people gossiping about someone's who's not there, nip the talk in the bud. They're not there to defend themselves, and you are.

Ending1: Plus, the more body shaming talk you let slip by, the more likely people are to do it when you're not around. [substeps] You could say something like, " hey, that's not cool. Ending2: Try to identify the person's intentions and find what kind of stand they're putting down. [substeps] A body shaming undermines both you and the other person, so you'll either want to respect their boundaries or excuse yourself from the conversation for a while. Ending3: This opens a door to deeper conversations and helps you determine who's trying to get your attention. Recognize that this person wants to be judged and attacked: they are trying to put someone down, but don't give them the opportunity to strike you back or regret it later. Ending4: Try to identify what's being said, and whether it's about someone you work with or the other person you're criticizing. [substeps] If someone's talking to you about his or her own flaws, you'll know by then whether the person you're making the comments to is talking negatively about themselves.

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