Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to handle internal conflict in relationships [title] Recognize the problem. [step] If you have a conflict with someone, the first step in handling it is to figure out what the conflict is. The conflict may be large and complicated, or it may be a small issue.

Ending1: Figuring out the cause and middle ground will help you take steps to get rid of it. [substeps] Ask your partner if the conflict is serious and if you respect each other. Ending2: Spend time thinking about the issue before making an action. Determine if your problem is very small or very large, and if there's a balance in the larger conflict. Ending3: Certain issues can cause tension within the relationship and may require intervention. Identifying what the problem is can help you manage your relationship and solve it. Ending4: No matter how big, you should figure out what exactly the conflict is so you can have a clear idea when you handle it. [substeps] For example, what is the main problem? If you think the conflict is that the other person " doesn't appreciate me, " then that may be too broad.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4