Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to date after the death of a spouse [title] Take your time. [step] Don't be in a hurry to start dating once you have lost your spouse. You have spent many years with this person, and whether your relationship was happy or not, you should fully grieve before moving on.

Ending1: [substeps] Try calling an old friend for advice or call a new family member for advice. If you still feel pressured to date your spouse after a year and a half, this is a good time to make an effort. Ending2: Remember, there is no right or wrong way to grieve, and there is no exact time when grieving ends. [substeps] If you are unable to discuss your spouse without an extreme emotional display, you may need to wait longer before getting back in the dating game. Ending3: Think through what happened and understand how you were confronted and hurt, both physical and emotional. [substeps] Keep in mind that while most good relationships go well together, something else can go badly when your spouse dies. Ending4: Don't rush back into the dating arena immediately after dying, or you may wind up awkwardly doing the same. [substeps] At first, working towards your relationship is a fun thing to do, but in time, that no longer feels pleasant and rewarding.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4