Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Food and Entertaining: [header] How to convince someone not to return to an abusive ex [title] Share your concerns gently. [step] You may be tempted to speak out defiantly against your friend returning to the abusive partner. But, intense emotional displays won't help the situation.

Ending1: Approach your friend calmly and let them know your concerns. [substeps] You might say, " lori, i know zach is begging you to come back. Ending2: If you state your point in a gentle manner, your friend won't feel the need to vent or ask questions. [substeps] Use your words, not you words, to let your friend know you're willing to cooperate with their request. Ending3: Allow your friend to hear you out rather than beating around the bush. [substeps] Use your concerns as a learning experience. Ending4: Draw out your concern in writing and display it for at least two weeks, and try to keep it distinct during that time. [substeps] Let others know what you're concerned about by sharing photos and videos with this goal in mind.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4