Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to build a child's self esteem [title] Praise their effort rather than a trait or accomplishment. [step] When you praise a child, acknowledge the amount of effort they put into their activity. This encourages their hard work--they realize their hard work is noticed and valued by others.

Ending1: Try saying things like, " you are great at this " or " that's great of you " instead of " how's it going? " [substeps] Praising children often doesn't mean encouraging them to be perfect. Praise your child as they do their best work. Ending2: [substeps] Show gratitude by saying, " that's amazing how much you set aside for that exercise! " or " why don't you do that for me? It's so high! " praise [title] Be very active. [step] Some good ways to be active : [substeps] Play the piano. Ending3: Focusing praise on a result or a personality trait, however, emphasizes you value something they may not necessarily able to control. [substeps] For example, if your child shows you a picture they drew, praise the effort that went into it. Ending4: Praising a child shows them that their efforts were relevant and that they deserve to be celebrated. [substeps] For example, say " how creative is jake? " or " how brave is jake? " [title] Compliment the child's ability to be " brave.

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