Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to deal with elderly alcoholic parents as an adult [title] Avoid conversations while they're drinking. [step] If your parent picks up the phone and you can tell they've been drinking, say that you will call back or talk another time. Talking to someone who's been drinking can be difficult and cause you to become angry.

Ending1: [substeps] If they call and not respond to you, end the conversation and let them know there will be a better time. You could start a conversation by saying " just remember that i am your parent and i want to talk to you about this matter. Ending2: It will also be difficult for your parent to absorb or respond appropriately to what you are trying to say to them if they are not sober and rational. Even if you're upset, avoid expressing that while your parent is under the influence. Ending3: When you talk to them, speak in a calm and peaceful voice. [substeps] If your parent picks up the phone and you know they're likely to pick up, answer the phone first. Ending4: Instead, talk to someone who's stopped drinking and then pick up the call immediately. [title] Correct your parent when they use the word.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4