Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to criticize constructively [title] Note the difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. [step] Constructive criticism improves a person's behavior, encouraging positive changes. Whereas destructive criticism condemns and discourages the person.

Ending1: [substeps] Destructive criticism compares an individual to someone he or she might have been if he or she was different. Destructive criticism makes the individual more receptive to change. Ending2: Destructive critics treat individuals with a certain, refined outlook, which allows them to reinforce their emotions and express their own thinking positively. They typically state their thoughts, not the emotions behind them. Ending3: [substeps] Destructive criticism demeans, discredits and hurts people. In contrast, constructive criticism improves a specific behavior without personal attacks. Ending4: Consistent use of the word " improvement " is a distinction between passive and constructive criticism. [substeps] Passive criticism burns off more power with an objective, thinking-to-think assessment.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4