Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to tell a parent you hate them [title] Calm down. [step] When you feel that your parent has wronged you in some way, you might be tempted to lash out in anger. For instance, if your parent has recently taken away your car or phone, you might feel anger towards them.

Ending1: Allowing yourself to feel anger will prevent us from taking control of our lives. [substeps] Focus on taking control of your life by taking a few deep breaths before you approach your parent. Ending2: However, you might find that you tend to say things that you don't mean when frustrated or mad. Step away from the situation or conversation that is affecting you and take a few moments to breathe and calm down. Ending3: Instead, calmly calm down and raise your arms to explain why you feel that way. [substeps] Think about how you feel when your parent is making you feel this way. Ending4: When you realize that it is their fault, you should calm down enough to think clearly and without anger. [substeps] Remind yourself that this is their responsibility.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4