Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to forgive someone who hasn't forgiven you [title] Stop viewing this as a blame game. [step] If you're waiting for the other person to offer forgiveness first, then you will likely be waiting a long time. Ironically, it's probable that you're maintaining the reason for a lack of forgiveness, in that it's competitive or about proving you're right after all.

Ending1: There's no need to get in an argument with this person because this will only make the fight more painful. [substeps] Try to rephrase all of the bad things that you or your friend (s) did. Ending2: You'll need to step back and remove the blame aspect of it. [title] Realize that you cannot make anyone feel something you want them to feel. Ending3: The other person might even be coming around to forgive you because the two of you are the same person. [substeps] Give yourself credit for deciding to forgive. Ending4: Nevertheless, resisting any urge to forgive is out of the question. If the " reason " is weak or insurmountable, then you are one step closer to forgiving and compromising this person.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4