Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to act when your significant other finds out you self harm [title] Find a quiet, private place to talk. [step] You should try talking to your significant other about your self harm habits face to face, preferably in a quiet, private spot. This may be at your home or the home you share together in a neutral spot, such as the kitchen or the living room.

Ending1: [substeps] Start off by saying something like, " i don't want to talk about this, but i'm afraid i will. Can you help me figure out what to do? " [title] Identify triggers for self harm. Ending2: [substeps] You can also talk to your significant other in public if you live together in a more controlled area. Your significant other may notice the change in the way you act and intervene in a manner that improves. Ending3: An area where you can talk without distractions is ideal. [substeps] You can also also try asking friends, family members, and co-workers where your private place is. Ending4: You may also talk to your significant other in a place that you both like to go to together, such as a park near your home or a quiet spot outdoors. Pick a place where both you and your partner will feel comfortable and safe.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4