Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to identify your attachment style [title] Define attachment. [step] People with secure attachment styles have high self-esteem and are comfortable receiving and giving love. They don't look towards others to find value with themselves and feel comfortable with intimacy, but aren't co-dependent.

Ending1: People with attachment styles will genuinely want to be with their partner and aspire to be loved in return. [substeps] Self-attachment styles often differ from other styles that you might perceive as co-dependent. Ending2: The perception that you value your partner's trust, regardless of your relationship status, should motivate your attachment style. It's often hard for people with obsessive attachment styles to connect. Ending3: The people with a secure attachment style often feel as if they have zero self-esteem and are not submissive or self-dependent. [substeps] Consider your attachment style when analyzing which forms of attachment you practice. Ending4: They also stay calm in arguments and are mentally flexible. [substeps] People with secure attachments often had stable and loving upbringings.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4