Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to avoid gossiping [title] Sort out negative gossip from the rest. [step] Not all gossip is necessarily bad, so you don't need to completely eradicate it from your life. You should, however, learn to differentiate between harmless gossip and the kind of gossip that hurts people.

Ending1: While non-malevolent gossip is bad, it may be the kindest thing you can do, especially if you take the time to get to know toxic friends. [substeps] How often you crush someone is somewhat dependent on your judgment, so try to recognize which ones you notice and which ones are pointless. Ending2: For example, gossiping about your ex online isn't part of the same report about it, but it can be important to consider all of the other people in your friend circle and decide who is right or wrong about the gossip. If someone repeatedly reminds you of their ex, you may want to evaluate how to avoid gossiping. Ending3: [substeps] People who are spreading gossip (and most people do at some time or another) don't spend a lot of time getting facts. In fact, they have usually heard the information they're spreading second or third hand. Ending4: It's easier if you're fairly certain of what you believe in, but you can analyze this question so you know how people around you are judging you. [substeps] Don't be judgmental of others.

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