Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Finance and Business: [header] How to get alimony from a cheating spouse [title] Ask friends or family for recommendations. [step] Particularly when you're looking for a divorce attorney, recommendations from your family or friends may be the strongest options for you to find an attorney. These people know you and your situation, and may be best suited to recommend someone with whom you'd work well.

Ending1: They may not be able to provide an objective and reasonable factual opinion, but they can give you concrete advice on how to find the best attorney who meets your needs. [title] Check your state and local bar associations. Ending2: [substeps] Ideally, you want someone who has experience in divorce and who's bonded with your ex. Your friends or family might also be able to give you recommendations for attorneys who deal with divorcing couples. Ending3: [substeps] Find the general practitioner's " friends " list. Save lists of such people and ask for a referral to a lawyer who has experience representing divorcing spouses. Ending4: [substeps] You are already dealing with the feelings of betrayal and personal trauma that come from discovering that your spouse is cheating on you. For this reason, you need an attorney you trust and who makes you feel at ease.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4