Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to give up self criticism as a perfectionist [title] Spot your inner critic at work. [step] Feelings of inadequacy are a major sign that you are experiencing a negative inner critic. In order to effectively quit your self-criticism habit, you must first recognize when you are being critical.

Ending1: Observe your thoughts and feelings for a few days to spot critical and unhelpful statements. [substeps] Pay special attention for judgmental statements like " because i needed help, i am a loser " or " my coworker performed better than me, which means i don't do my job well. Ending2: There are often times when you feel and act like a failure for no reason. You may notice that you are avoiding work as much as you and not taking the good things in your life seriously. Ending3: Work out the source of your internal critic, and rely on that person to remind you of your strengths. [substeps] After you identify why you are critical of yourself, identify specific ways in which you improve on those strengths. Ending4: It could go way beyond your body, like your walk, or it could also mean that you are becoming self-conscious of your appearance, like your nails or piercings. This is because you value your body's best features, whereas being critical can become an unhealthy behavior.

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