Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Food and Entertaining: [header] How to stop being controlling [title] Stop being a perfectionist. [step] One of the reasons you may be so controlling is because you have the desire for everything to be perfect. You may not want people over if your place isn't spotless; you may spend an extra hour scanning a report for typos without finding any.

Ending1: If you find that everything you do is absolutely perfect in a given situation, stop doing it. You need to establish a goal for yourself. Ending2: These unrealistic instincts are not due to your irrational self-talk: you want perfection, and you would not judge others based on their list of flaws. You need to develop a work ethic that works to get what you want. Ending3: After a while, this kind of behavior doesn't help you or anybody else. In fact, it is only hurting you and holding you back from living your life. Ending4: Stop being a perfectionist, and try to play things down until you are in control again. [substeps] Perfectionism is one of the most common behavior issues associated with controlling people.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4