Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to show support to a transgender family member [title] Don't rush them. [step] If a family member has recently told you that they are trans, the best thing to do is not rush them. They have most likely had a very hard time speaking up about being trans, so don't ask them a lot of questions at once.

Ending1: Let them talk as much as they would like and then wait until they bring it up again before asking more questions. [title] Try to learn as much as you can about transgender identities. Ending2: [substeps] If you can, try to take the pressure off their family if it becomes difficult for them to speak up. You could ask about school or work, for example, or inquire about what the family's healthcare plans are. Ending3: Respect the person's privacy and the relationship they have had with someone else. Don't invade their space unless it is absolutely necessary or makes you uncomfortable. Ending4: Instead, try to keep them at a calm place where they can come to terms with the news without stressing you out. [substeps] Asking questions can cause your loved one to become defensive or confused.

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