Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to determine if you should stay neutral in a fight between loved ones [title] Determine if your loved ones are being reasonable. [step] Certain fights actually have valid points. Some, however, seem completely irrational.

Ending1: [substeps] Come to the conclusion that anger and sadness are valid in every situation, even when neither party necessarily means it. Sometimes anger can be a sign of helplessness. Ending2: Children usually know that it is reasonable to try not to fight. Children sometimes understand that they don't deserve to be beaten or slapped when in a fight, and can end up being so frustrated or upset that they excuse themselves to use the bathroom without any rights. Ending3: If, for example, they try to cut you off or remove you from their lives, then they might be fighting. [substeps] Usually, your loved ones are not willing to tell you how to behave if you are feeling frustrated or left out. Ending4: Look at both sides from an unbiased perspective and ask yourself if it's a fight that should actually be fought, or one that is ridiculous. Chances are if the argument doesn't make sense, you'll want to stay out of it.

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