Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Youth: [header] How to cope with hurtful insults [title] Speak to the person privately. [step] Oftentimes, it is beneficial to privately address the individual who has insulted you. Speaking privately is best to avoid the situation from escalating in front of others and to lessen the insulting person's likeliness of becoming embarrassed or defensive.

Ending1: This will save time, but it might also make things worse. [substeps] Don't respond to the person directly by sitting quietly and waiting for them to stop. Ending2: Before speaking with the individual, take a deep breath, and calmly ask the person to speak with you privately. [substeps] Once alone, let the person know that you did not appreciate his insult, and inform him of your expectations and what action you'll take it happens again. Ending3: The person with the upper hand will quickly become angry and won't be able to continue the conversation. [substeps] As a consequence, you can cite the person when the other person has said or done something inappropriate. Ending4: Simply calling the person out in private can still be hurtful and also often make someone feel like they aren't worthy of your attention. [substeps] Before you call the person out to apology, consider what they really meant and try to avoid getting angry when they don't get your full attention.

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