Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to answer questions about self harm scars [title] Don't feel obligated to talk about the scars. [step] Your scars are personal. If you don't want to tell anyone how they occurred, you don't have to.

Ending1: If someone asks about them, it's okay to politely say that you'd rather not talk about it. [substeps] For instance, you could say something like, " i'd rather not talk about that, " or, " it's a long story, but now isn't the time to tell it. Ending2: If you do want to talk, ask the person how often the scars disappear. But you should respect their privacy and privacy. Ending3: However, don't give them out too often. Avoid talking about the scars over the phone if you are at work or at home. Ending4: It's not a personal responsibility to be honest with them. Some people don't like to talk about their scars.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4