Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Food and Entertaining: [header] How to cope if your spouse self harms [title] Ask them to seek treatment. [step] Do what you can to be supportive to your spouse. Often, this includes asking them to get help.

Ending1: Don't give them an ultimatum about seeking help, as this can lead to more guilt or resentment in your marriage. Instead, say that you think the self-harm is a serious issue and should be treated seriously. Ending2: The most important thing is to make sure they know you support them. To do this, you can talk to them and suggest the best treatment plan for them. Ending3: If they find mental health professionals they can talk to, they may be able to work out a plan that works for them. [substeps] Being with your spouse in the moment will help them understand the severity of their self-harm. Ending4: Suggest that they talk to a counselor, therapist, or religious leader if they are struggling to cope. Some abusers are going through tough times, like losing their parents, and they may require social support.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4