Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to not be obsessive [title] Evaluate your needs, wants and goals. [step] You may be preoccupied because you see your obsession as part of who you are. Instead, you need to focus on yourself.

Ending1: Mentally separate yourself from your obsession by considering what other areas of your life contribute to who you are. Think about tasks, roles, or jobs that reward you as much as your obsession. Ending2: Oftentimes, obsessive people suppress their needs and find it difficult to think critically about or motivate themselves. [substeps] Mindfulness can help you identify the true shape of your thoughts or passions. Ending3: Try to identify in clear terms what you desire, need, or want the person to spend time with and you work toward validation. [substeps] For example, you may get something at work because you have a big craving. Ending4: [substeps] Determine if you need to add or subtract thoughts, feelings or behaviors from your obsession. Analyze the qualities or people in your life that you need to look to as being the same.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4