Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Food and Entertaining: [header] How to cope with separation [title] Set expectations with your loved one. [step] If you are going through a temporary separation, you will need to redefine the ways you handle your shared life. You will also need to understand what the other person thinks of the separation.

Ending1: [substeps] If your separation is deliberate, make sure you both agree on what the goal of the separation is. Take the time to sit down with a third party mediator if possible and discuss what you each want out of the separation. Ending2: Ask yourself what works best for you and how you can alter those expectations. [substeps] Separate your behaviors from feelings, experiences, and expectations of your family. Ending3: [substeps] Before you become that person's employer, reflect on this to be sure you and your loved one are on the same page. Do you feel a sense of pleasure when someone visits you? Or do you feel emotional when they are there? Do you prefer this person to work with you? [title] Determine your contact history and needs. Ending4: You can then reevaluate your expectations when the separation is over. [title] Focus on your relationship with the other person.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4