Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Health: [header] How to respond to passive aggressive comments [title] Avoid reacting defensively. [step] When someone makes a passive aggressive comment, you may feel the need to defend yourself, or make accusations about them. Getting upset will likely do little good to change their habits.

Ending1: [substeps] Don't fall into their trap of getting annoyed. Passive aggressive people act in under-handed ways to get your attention, because they lack maturity in communication. Ending2: Getting angry is generally not the right way to react, so give yourself a few minutes to calm down and resist the urge to express your anger. [title] Process your feelings and determine how you would like to respond. Ending3: Making a passive aggressive comment can also help you realize exactly what you are doing. [substeps] Immediately take a moment to breathe or do something to calm yourself before you react. Ending4: If they attack you, you may feel threatened, too. [substeps] Take a few deep breaths before responding.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4