Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to change someone else's behavior [title] Identify the behavior. [step] Pinpoint the exact behavior that you want to change about the person. If you want the person to just " be less annoying " or " text me more often, " you will not get the results you want.

Ending1: This behavior can have consequences for the person over time, so you may need to start seeing a behavioral therapist or mental health professional before you can deal with this behavior without taking some steps to correct the behavior. [title] Explain to the person why they are annoying you. Ending2: Pinpoint the exact behavior you want to change and mark exactly how you want it to change. [substeps] For example, rather than saying that you want your friend to " be less annoying, " plan to say that you want your friend to " stop interrupting conversations she's not a part of. Ending3: You need to think what behaviors you want to change and then experiment to find the right ones. [substeps] For example, if you want to improve her behavior, take this to heart, and use the old adage that " do what you want to do. Ending4: Before you can work on changing the person, you will need to identify specific areas or patterns in the person's behavior that you would not like to correct. [substeps] For example, if you know they tend to come up to you at school and call you name, you will need to identify that behavior before moving on to another.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4