Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to talk about sex [title] Be frank. [step] Lay out your thoughts as plainly as possible. Avoid euphemisms, and try to work past your initial discomfort.

Ending1: For example, don't say, " that's what i love about you. " or, " i feel really hurt when you kiss me and flirt with me. Ending2: If you aren't comfortable referring to " sex, " try using a similar but " softer " phrase. Instead of saying that you are " having sex, " say that you are " making love, " or " being intimate, " or " getting down. Ending3: [substeps] Don't have evidence that describes how you feel. People who tell me different things can't give me those words. Ending4: For instance, try saying " i know you like someone new, but i still want to talk about something important to me. I love her, but i can't focus on this right now.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4