Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Finance and Business: [header] How to get a paternity test when the mother refuses [title] Talk to the mother of the child. [step] Let her know your concerns and that you want to establish paternity of the child. Pursue the paternity test, if possible, without having to file a paternity lawsuit and request a dna test.

Ending1: [substeps] If you are concerned about the health and well-being of the child, ask to see their doctor. Lab studies show that a doctor's blood test is less likely to detect and be positive for paternity than a blood test from another child. Ending2: [substeps] Remember that you cannot have a dna test if the baby hasn't yet been conceived. You must wait until the developing twins are born. Ending3: [substeps] The child can agree to the paternity test if the mother agrees it is genetic. If the mother agrees, however, the role of custody and visitation is reversed. Ending4: Remember to remain calm, friendly, and non-threatening. [substeps] Find out why the mother does not want to submit herself or the child for a paternity test.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4