Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to overcome problems [title] Talk it out. [step] Communication is the most important tool in your relationship. Talk about things that you are bothering by, your likes and dislikes, and discuss solutions to your problems.

Ending1: It is important to recognize and stay on your best behavior by allowing the other person to know you are coming to them for help rather than doing the work yourself. [substeps] This person may request that you give them a call and vent. Ending2: Be as honest as your possibly can, and dig deep to get at your feelings. [substeps] As you communicate with your partner, listen and be open minded. Ending3: [substeps] Be polite and appreciative when trying to figure out what the problem is, and if a friend has a problem, be willing to find a solution to the problem. [title] Realize that communication is often a " solution " in relationship terms. Ending4: Walk into the conversation as neutral, polite, or calm as possible. [substeps] Take whatever the other person might say, but don't take it personally if they don't make sense.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4