Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Holidays and Traditions: [header] How to talk to someone with disordered eating during the holidays [title] Talk with them privately about the holidays. [step] The holidays can be time of large social gatherings and big meals. For someone with disordered eating, this can be particularly stressful and anxiety-provoking.

Ending1: Make sure to find a private and safe space to talk with someone about their eating and behaviors, rather than in large, public holiday gatherings. [substeps] Choose a safe place that is away from distractions. Ending2: Try to have this conversation private so that they can be alone with you. [substeps] This may not work well for your significant other, particularly if they're diabetic or under the age of 21. Ending3: [substeps] Make time to talk in person before the holidays. You may have plans to do so, but they may be too busy so you couldn't go as often. Ending4: While you may feel that the holidays itself are the largest moment of celebration, the holidays actually provide you with opportunities to calm down or maintain distance. [substeps] Once you've gotten to know someone you feel comfortable speaking with directly, you can talk with the person about your feelings.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4