Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to spot your conversational blind spots [title] Watch other people. [step] Start paying attention to other people in conversation. Notice good conversationalists and pay attention to what they do well, then notice what people who struggle in conversation do poorly.

Ending1: Others who say well are good conversationalists and those who do poorly sound put-together and confident. [substeps] Look for people who stand your best, as this is often the best way to compare the true us and the fake version. Ending2: Try to spot cues that anyone who approaches you would think very well. [title] Watch tactics that don't work. Ending3: Try to model the good points and do away with things that don't aid in conversation. [substeps] For example, notice specific things you like from people who are good at conversation. Ending4: Don't judge their accomplishments in school, at work, or on family. You may notice that another person trying something different leans on personal insight, which can provide clues.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4