Please choose the correct ending to complete the given sentence: Relationships: [header] How to talk to the resistant parent of a gay child [title] Talk with them. [step] Talking with the parents of a gay child has to be done very delicately to determine if they want to discuss the situation. Determine if the parents are even willing to have dialog.

Ending1: This is the most critical step to resolving this matter and if they are willing to talk about the matter politely (without being tactless). [substeps] Calmly approach the parents or step outside. Ending2: If they discuss it privately, they'll likely move into the conversation cautiously. [substeps] Stay calm and casual when you're talking to the parents. Ending3: If the parents don't want to talk to you or they may be afraid of confronting you, then communication may be the best option for them. [substeps] Don't force your way in. Ending4: If they are not willing, then there is simply nothing that anyone can do. [title] If the parents are willing, then do your best to reassure without being condescending.

Answer format: ending1/ending2/ending3/ending4