bit long back story here adopted child proper legal adoption residency order live aunt uncle underdetermined amount time year aunt uncle split uncle kept my aunt one actually related to social services never really got involved past point uncle adoptive father started dating woman would come know mum i always knew werent biological destructive relationship adoptive father incredibly abusive towards like attempted stabbing  trying set fire front me never abusive towards fact treated like untouchable fostered resentment mum eventually spilt   years ago ive spoken dad sincemy mum works hospital informed admitted ward works potentially lung cancer mum practically gleeful cosmic karma horrible person im uncomfortable happy hes ill ive really spoken shes one suffered cant really tell deal seems bit much happy