worried dadso grandad died day us taking well one knew long time coming dad really really taking well it help matters mothermy grandma also couple months left cancer long story short keeps getting really drunk telling mum parents die theres point living anymore anyway mum dad exactly get they see mum worked carer elderly people many years looking grandparents dads side family pretty clueless stuff pretty dismissive all saying hes attention id agree dad massive exhibitionist say least style attention seeking all dad pretty volatile character though  hes alcoholic long remember last couple months as grandparents got sicker hes gotten lot worse im worried one parents died going cause go completely handle exactly close as honestly dislike lot dad end all idea approach concernwhat do advice would appreciated lt