call police best friend tells wants commit redflagtheres group whatsapp chat three best friends im going give pseudonyms preserve identity shayla me gertrude camille camille clinically depressed couple years now since early last year multiple occasions texted suicidal goodbye messages group thanking us weve done her saying made mind wants end life even though knows selfish thing do course lose fucking shit every time go panic attack never know saying it actually going it heres thing every time says going kill herself never actually it wakes next morning apologising saying felt posessed texted us suicidal messages happened least five times frankly speaking cycle staying til morning make sure fine anything stupid extremely exhausting live near her end rushing house make sure anything stupid everyone kind knows going nobody wants take chances either heres disagreements start ive decided next time camille sends us im going kill myself love thank done im going call fucking police give shit hates it decides cut life mad friend always better dead friend want responsible death know made assumption kill herself ended anyway gertrude friend telling shouldnt says leaping call police good idea says find information first decide make phone call stand personally would talk try assess serious is rather leaping dial were experts gertrude believes bringing police potentially make things complicated everyone including us parents family part really ticked gertrude said needed realistic make educated guesses considering camille often claims wants kill ends so gertrude basically saying going it understand gertrude coming from see incredibly idealistic way looking situation perhaps rational hear out  calling redflag prevention country get immediate help police respond much faster  redflag prevention website country states know someone immediate physical danger call police immediately  police trained mental wellness checks respond redflag  come firstworld country generally competent police  trying talk phone helpful either god knows could decide present camille selfharms hero  course camilles parents around help her need anything parents know handle situation im talking situations parents presentsleeping cant help her  interested making assumptions camilles wellbeing also expert think qualified assess situation determine whether call police id rather call let police experts take there  sincerely believe act camille says rather speculate intentions aware actual chance committing redflag high regardless intend stupid maybe im fucking selfish want feel guilty calling police could please give advice know do want anything would emotionally damaging much help would appreciated referencehttpwwwmentalhealthtodaycomredflagsuihtm