sister recovering addict recovery almost two years feeling redflaged anxious overwhelmed life told worried relapse suicide gets overwhelmed try talk help alleviate redflag life done things like clean house make sure peaceful space worry that got doctors contact information need insurance card call make appointment asked couple times time overwhelmed already asked right then cannot ask much push hard gets overwhelmed freaks out house two children worry children much stimulation one year old want help care her also afraid leave alone afraid anything actually afraid talk try keep kids away give quiet think upset afraid try talk going overwhelmed afraid talk things provide distraction show upset think care overwhelmed help idea do know