aita dealing ex girlfriend way didthis whole thing happened   seems showed true problems now m started dating old friend rd grade f long distance bother much time sucked able see like young notredflag were something grew around mom military got deployed lot also planning going military week thought bother much would talk phone early hours go school things fine while started acting strange first pay mind right set leave go spend thanksgiving fathers side familybig thing trust mom father mom hated due time military together best friend tells everything going behind back cheated multiple times multiple different guys girls one  days birthday rest day before day of day birthday found information sick honestly made upset confused emotions confronted everything huge fight much truly loved girl decided going give second chance believed said would change ended going spending time family honestly overall great time left kind sad moment everything stayed fine while worst part came hit like bus said sent guy photos meaning send genuinely seemed upset apologized it forgave looking back wish ended things found everything her later finds best friend one told everything also forgot mention would tell best friend helped cheating  time open relationship found furious called screamed it well asked logins everything gave except one damning all hated going messages time something felt like needed asked give login last piece social media lied saying nothing it oh worse yet come pushed giving login eventually cracked let specifically looking one person deleted messages unadded him well best part go find messages time best friend start scrolling found everything needed screenshot everything messages cheating dates times stamped logs point utterly destroyed especially around time coming prom already bought suit plane ticket out already bought dress hid everything needed evidence needed case tried spin things mefast forward week comes prom feelings period least none like before completely killed side me set forth plane executed almost perfectly flies bring back house things best eyes like nothing wrong guess skill almost whole time darkest times people never knew except best friend well taking prom worst mistake made absolutely ruined me take home days later go take airport leave gets plane cannot talk me blocked everything go contact send everything cheating friends familyreally sent home wanted know exactly kind person daughter friend was cheated ton different guys girls worst part  guys friends boyfriends disgusting cousin cheated with went contact found sister tried kill successful simply told problem anymore years later present day seem still bad feelings ended come find dad facebook ended turning okay breakup ended taking life one people left letter told dad sorry lost daughter truly care want letter got upset blew me still haunts me asshole responsible someone taking life sorry long felt like needed give almost whole story left red flags saw sooner change outcome advice would helpful thank taking time read this wrong