anyone else feel like subreddit besides teenagers really mean ive noticed reddit maybe two years every time post another subreddit people really cruel tried posting ask reddit post got trolled hell direct messages filled really hateful stuff tried posting life pro tips literally entire comments filled people calling bad person understand perspective wish willing bit nicer it every time try posting casual conversations post gets removed facilitating conversation even though make effort include phrases like anyone relate this anyone else different perspective honestly feel like impossible interact reddit community without delete half posts avoid opening direct messages maybe thats collateral damage teenage girl internet dont understand way everyone always talks social media terrible fake literally every social media ive nicer accepting reddit made arbitrary rules cant talk instagram account use emojis frankly anything without receiving public hate find teenagers subreddit people react posts without immediately trying think hate comment hit hardest know reaction post going stop using reddit thats entirely valid reddit provides unique community interact people share specific passions opinions dont want loose that may true im sensitive need learn take joke fault first place posts suck even fact im making post know cant person feels alienated community thought would find acceptance in want people know theyre alone thank teenagers subreddit downvoting posts hell half time hope future reddit little accepting