seriousi afraid friend may try kill herself need advice xpost rmentalhealthhi reddit concerned life friend mine need know get help needs despite her order possibly prevent taking life going try stick facts know them intertwine opinion  s  started showing signs illness early s diagnosed anxiety disorder bipolar disorder  knows mental health issues state mind appears to dictates willing accept mental health issues meaning one day may agree fully diagnoses another day say nothing wrong doctors wrong days cross two think issue one part symptoms sometimes events cross matter minutes instead days conversation say one help mental issues moments later claim mental health issues contradicting herself  extreme paranoia causes hate distrust doctors jump doctors much possible especially tell things like refuses believe paranoia also slowly ruining relationships everyone loves loves ill discuss bit outright refuses take responsibility action deems negative distort reality to justify beliefsviews  due jumping around different doctors shes lots different kinds medications know ones when know kept single cocktail medications months  paranoia surrounding husband became extreme would become abusive would go old pictures ask women background relationships them would show work try meetings superiors regarding behavior female coworkers became physically abusive started hitting him go rage local psychiatric hospital years now year visits increase year already  times always hold  hours release her  husband understood sick desperately tried seek help her turning blind eye abuse himself one day work attacked one small children cps became involved told could protect children would taken away them criminal case brought da protection order put place kids emergency custody provided husband  moved parents husband choice start divorce proceedings afraid cps take children away requirement getting restraining order since living parents raged them twice year call police forcefully committed psychiatric ward however mom trying seek help beyond specific incidents  sabotaged every relationship had cheated husband friends become paranoid accuse things illogical extreme blame everyone else everything going wrong life done extent one left including myself care her forced distance due behavior  cannot hold job sleeps day parents house one talk her forcing state isolation husband friend still wants help her however due divorce put kids her increasingly found situation wanting help odds protecting children  told started increase discussions ending life started bring increasing rate even going far say believes death would benefit people however end time brings up say really plan it like said mother issues enabling daughters situation seeking help her recently another family member tried commit redflag know concept brought forefront mind husband literally know help her feel like true way assist would require cooperation mother refuses accept severity issue however would really rather wait friend tries commit redflag get help her know do sorry jumbled mess tried explain everything clearly possible however timelines jump around somewhat thanks help edit formatting