boyfriends friend female recently started texting say recently mean like yesterday girl call aiyaaiya wanting kill self guy dating  months dumped feeling depressed horrible right sounds awful saw problem ex kept texting aiya realized problem mostly her annoying dealt type stuff since middle school high school may think oh simple fix reassure convince make changes easy would think genuinely want live said everything needed say says literally everything says wants back thing aiya  aware doing knows worth feel shit guy knows giving ex wants see suffer doesent want help doesent want get better know first time come reddit ask advice this pretty good convincing people stay alive whole different caseit may simple talk anymore let deal problems brain let leave even problem needs actual helpits nearly probably impossible convince move on extreme attachment issues seen anyone starting think life lost hers anyone advice wants input would great know report her lives way virginia live utah cannot anything friend trying kill hurry answer anyone please