help acquaintance suicidal lives usa live overseas basic info herhere situation facebook social group quite members share common interest tonight one members posted startling message indicated might commit redflag tonight know well friends fb least see city lives in employer family unfortunately live overseas know best course action is sent fb note son grandson expressing concern m worried might seen tried calling employer hours large employer im know would able help called local crisisredflag hotline city spoke counselor understanding asked would worth calling local police seems without specific home address police cannot anything distressing else situation even proper course action would be  miles away makes even difficult good handle situation based said take seriously anyone advice could point would greatly appreciate it