friend lives florida mom recently diagnosed condition left unable work source income disability enough cover rent friends dad originally covering rent longer so friend tells mom thinking moving another family member since either homelessness problem said family member history sexual abuse towards friend younger friend tells kill end moving thereshe attempted several times past worried safety needs professional intervention threat need resources voluntaryinvoluntary hospitalization resorting reddit local crisis hotline totally useless called waited hold hour ended falling asleep woke shocked disbelief still hold  hours later call need advice help friend