called transphobic classmate hi so back school classmate transphobic completely disrespectful til day remember clearly im studying music studies gymnasiet fellow swedditrs  years  year mandatory school end every school year put musical local theatre asigned changing rooms year one two three separetly one breaks next rehearsal were changing room chatting changing clothes snacking everybodys good time many different conversations across room boom said transphobic classmate drops disrespectfulness sometimes like lives bubble world spinning around her news flash doesnt now good trans friend came like two months prior this sometimes struggled say right name always apologized try learn asap with we literally mean almost whole class teachers time time classmate just said everyone dressing room heard hey dead name always dead name me always dead name me whole room everyone one dressing room fell silent moment i turned around fast facing calling it  excuse me say  everyone peeked intrest unfolding eyes us how disrespectful hard learn name dare continuing using dead name get it basic human rights this said day whole time trans friend trying soothe thing want make big deal it said take this said this girl storms room apologies straight out walked out ugh really ticked wrong way friends were showing support callout trans friend incident girl practically ignoring me made effort talk either there rant moral story can call transphobes out