why didnt reach help did didnt care enough point help themtldr people ask someone committed redflag didnt reach help usually saw warning signs brushed nothing even flat ignored them constantly seeing posts quotes asking friend relative significant other etc didnt reach help committing redflag many cases person actually try ask help take weeks get therapist psychiatrist nearly soon enough help even help all emergency rooms psych wards expensive many the psych wards treat patients horribly lot people avoid them even need immediate help people say come help whenever need them usually actually dont care listen much ive made numerous posts facebook family others went school with worked with etc friend list terrible situation typically one responds unless explicitly say thinking seriously redflag stopped years ago one cares last summer feeling lonely depressed asked facebook friends anyone would like friendsin real life received responses except rude woman said dont friends dont like children wish friends mothers record childfree would much prefer childfree friends  didnt think people age would already kids do made another post saying falling deep depression again didnt receive comments message responses alot people facebook supposed people meat least thats said people post things saying youre suicidal message theyd rather hear story funeral eulogy whenever messaged one them either dont respond never return message saying ill respond later meant people could ask help me bad reputation hometown formed middle school early high school everyone still holds crap me one lives wants talk me even im crisis get responses people trying pull religious cults people put signs sometimes even explicitly asking help others dont care enough point notice care second find dead why didnt ask help begins reach out gave warning signs everyone else pretended see them