text_combined: adam l beberg bebergmithralcom alternative kind defeminized oversized selfcentered mercenaryminded lady available british singles scene glad see american culture making way british bars god bless us uncivilized bastards every one still definately something right people cheaper decent laptop ok knew already selling wedded bliss big business thailand thu aug 291019 et andrew marshall bangkok thailand reuters english dentist ken moylan came thailand looking wife took two hours find first day went wan came back hotel hung clothes tidied room thought marvelous said knew something special moylan 49 one thousands men use introduction agencies meet marry thai women lives england 28yearold wan expecting first child critics marriage agencies say exploit grinding poverty women developing countries offering dreams new life west often turn sour moylan says regrets coming thailand search wife got thailand 2 pm 4 pm id met wan said knew found attractive could tell straight away caring moylan spent week thailand returning england kept touch wan phone mail six months later came england couple married mr marriage lawrence lynch 49 runs thai professional introduction services agency moylan used meet wife lynch calls mr marriage started company also marrying thai woman introduction agency since helped set hundreds marriages last five years weve done 400 said best knowledge successful male clients pay 2213 service although men countries require handle visa work get discount clients get view catalogs videos hundreds thai women looking husband like see come bangkok clients introduced several women chaperoned meetings lynchs office encounters often awkward given mutual shyness language problems find gentlemen usually nervous ladies lynch said start meeting ladies soon relax first meeting couples decide go dates get know better within two weeks arrival lynch says almost every client found potential wife end fortnight rare guy go back think hasnt made mind said cases marriage follows usually within next year roongthip kamchat managing director thai 1 connections bangkokbased agency says introduced 1000 couples less 10 percent broken roongthip says sometimes difficult time calming men arrived bangkok looking wife sometimes nervous said sometimes impatient say give lady want get married say calm ok well talk men really hurry roongthip says find wife get married within week lynch says clients found wives include blind man man one leg man posttraumatic stress disorder similar marriage agencies found many developing countries critics say thrive neediness lonely western men unable form relationships country desperation impoverished women believe find better life west moylan says arrangement makes partners happy reason object talk people needy think everybody wants someone love wants someone love yes need wan said thai women dissatisfied life thailand think theres secret looking better life dont problem return willing give lot love care future husband lynch says men dissatisfied western women choose use agency brochure promises alternative kind defeminized oversized selfcentered mercenaryminded lady available british singles scene says make dreams come true even men gods gift women roongthip said many western men found difficult meet women countries found thai women attractive dont know meet women even go pubs discotheques restaurants department stores ask people marry impossible said many thai girls slim long hair black eyes small nose good taking care joking laughing strict different ladies countries although many couples married agencies considerable age gap agencies say problem say language problems also major obstacle thai ladies ageist qualms whatsoever husband significantly older lynch said met wife couldnt speak word english muddled along phonetic dictionary ladies keen learn english pick quickly many agencies also offer tuition woman expect move west kitchens study classes roongthip said teach eat make tea pitfalls dreams come true bee 26yearold thai woman went switzerland two years ago man met agency back bangkok sad angry friends lonely said tried make happy wanted sex somebody keep house clean never spoke bee came back bangkok earlier year thought would happy said worst time life lynch says agencies badly run makes checks ensure unsuitable candidates weeded ethical professional said take comers moylan says despite possible pitfalls marriage proof arrangement work wans sister signed lynchs company looking foreign husband perhaps cases women exploited im sure moylan said majority cases women get good deal thu 5 sep 2002 190740 0700 pdt selling wedded bliss ouch