text_combined: disc sex language dear subscribers help discussing sex language would like feedback anyplace impose limits words ideas ie impose benign selfcensorship talking taboo words ideas different using colloquial variations simple distinction always felt academia dishonest lack forthrightness dealing socio psycho sexual matters topics talk talk unable say example jerk female exluded us might offended others potentially tittilated ultimate body part references historical etymologies please help limits language forum discussion sex language think limits part political correctness play