Chloe: Then I pay. Kristen: Really? Chloe: Yeah. Then I offer to pay. Kristen: You know what that’s like? When you call someone and they pick up and you just go and then you it in their ballpark to “Hey,” start the conversation and they’re thinking, but you called me? But that’s the same thing with approaching too. A lot of guys approach women and they spit out their first line, and then they’re like, I’m done. It’s your turn to carry the conversation.” So “Okay that’s interesting. I like that rule the one who invites is the one who – pays. Chloe: See, I always think of splitting the bill. I sent a tweet the other night, words women never want to hear let’s split it.” “Three … Kristen: Unless they’re talking your jeans. Splitting the bill is not going to get a woman’s legs to split. It’s not hot. Emily: Marni: But I hate saying that because people always ask me and I’m like, guys should pay for the first few dates,” it just feels so “Yes unfair for the guys! They just should, that’s how we all feel; I’m an independent Emily: woman and I make my own money, but it’s not hot to sit and talk about money on the first date. Eventually I’ll take you to dinner, you’ll take me, and we’ll have a balance. It’s not like I’m a gold digger. Also, take her somewhere you can afford so that when the bill comes, you’re not freaked out about it. Chloe: And make sure you leave a good tip. Honestly, I think that leaving a bad tip (or no tip) is a huge turnoff. I always peek to see what kind of tip he leaves.
Chloe: Then I pay. Kristen: Really? Chloe: Yeah. Then I offer to pay. Kristen: You know what that’s like? When you call someone and they pick up and you just go “Hey,” and then you it in their ballpark to start the conversation and they’re thinking, but you called me? But that’s the same thing with approaching too. A lot of guys approach women and they spit out their first line, and then they’re like, “Okay I’m done. It’s your turn to carry the conversation.” So that’s interesting. I like that rule – the one who invites is the one who pays. Chloe: See, I always think of splitting the bill. I sent a tweet the other night, “Three words women never want to hear … let’s split it.” Kristen: Unless they’re talking your jeans. Splitting the bill is not going to get a woman’s legs to split. Emily: It’s not hot. Marni: But I hate saying that because people always ask me and I’m like, “Yes guys should pay for the first few dates,” it just feels so unfair for the guys! Emily: They just should, that’s how we all feel; I’m an independent woman and I make my own money, but it’s not hot to sit and talk about money on the first date. Eventually I’ll take you to dinner, you’ll take me, and we’ll have a balance. It’s not like I’m a gold digger. Also, take her somewhere you can afford so that when the bill comes, you’re not freaked out about it. Chloe: And make sure you leave a good tip. Honestly, I think that leaving a bad tip (or no tip) is a huge turnoff. I always peek to see what kind of tip he leaves.
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