Parent-baby unrealistic expectations realistic expectations relationship concerning perception of perception of unborn child baby's needs normal inability to prioritise baby's appropriate preparation needs above own understanding or awareness foetal or neglect of baby's including alcohol or drug unborn baby's needs abuse prioritised no ante-natal care co-operation with ante-natal concealed pregnancy care unwanted pregnancy sought medical care identified disability (non- appropriate and regular ante- acceptance) natal care unattached to foetus accepted/planned pregnancy gender issues which cause attachment to unborn foetus stress treatment of addiction differences between parents acceptance of difference- towards unborn child gender/disability rigid views of parenting. parents about parenting. Social poverty inadequate housing no support network delinquent area. Future unrealistic plans realistic plans no plans exhibit appropriate parenting expectations and plans exhibit inappropriate appropriate expectation of parenting plans change uncertainty of resistance to willingness and ability to change work in partnership no recognition of changes willingness to resolve needed in lifestyle problems and concerns no recognition of a problem or a need to change parents co-operating equally. refuse to co-operate disinterested and resistant
Parent-baby relationship unrealistic expectations concerning perception of baby's needs inability to prioritise baby's needs above own foetal or neglect including alcohol or drug abuse no ante-natal care concealed pregnancy unwanted pregnancy identified disability (non- acceptance) unattached to foetus gender issues which cause stress differences between parents towards unborn child rigid views of parenting. realistic expectations perception of unborn child normal appropriate preparation understanding or awareness of baby's unborn baby's needs prioritised co-operation with ante-natal care sought medical care appropriate and regular ante- natal care accepted/planned pregnancy attachment to unborn foetus treatment of addiction acceptance of difference- gender/disability parents about parenting. Social poverty inadequate housing no support network delinquent area. Future unrealistic plans no plans exhibit inappropriate parenting plans uncertainty of resistance to change no recognition of changes needed in lifestyle no recognition of a problem or a need to change refuse to co-operate disinterested and resistant realistic plans exhibit appropriate parenting expectations and plans appropriate expectation of change willingness and ability to work in partnership willingness to resolve problems and concerns parents co-operating equally.
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