SEXUAL ABUSE Tick the ones you have experienced vaginally, anally or orally with a lover into the house objects as well as penis about your sex life to others prostitution without your consent to watch, copy or re-enact unwanted sexual contact pornography breasts or genitalia in front of others passes on sexually with others transmitted disease or HIV virus in sexual acts to infect you with these recordings or photos to to sexually or physically others without consent abuse children with animals to have sex with children if you don’t fulfil their demands sex children to watch sex sex children to join in sex has affairs you to sexually abuse children about sex with others affection or sex your sexual performance you to do particular types of your body sex e.g. sado-masochism or role play calling e.g. frigid, whore you to dress sexually sex after a physical assault, on demand e.g. to you have forgiven them ‘prove’ you unfavourably with in other ways unless others sexually pleased eg. No money Note: Marital Rape - When sexual abuse occurs within marriage, the victim will often feel very confused as to whether or not it is It seems obvious that when a woman (or man) is ‘rape’. raped out on the street by a stranger, that rape has occurred and is wrong. When rape occurs within the marriage, neither abuser nor victim may consider it legal rape. Many believe it is their duty to fulfil their spouse’s sexual demands and that they have no right to say No. Where no physical force has been used (ie. coercion or verbal force-only) many will deny that rape has actually occurred and treat the abuse as though it was normal and by joint consent. If the victim does not have the choice to say without consequences, it is still rape. ‘No’
SEXUAL ABUSE Tick the ones you have experienced vaginally, anally or orally with objects as well as penis prostitution to watch, copy or re-enact pornography in front of others with others in sexual acts these recordings or photos to others without consent with animals sex sex has affairs about sex with others your sexual performance your body you to dress sexually on demand you unfavourably with others a lover into the house about your sex life to others without your consent unwanted sexual contact breasts or genitalia passes on sexually transmitted disease or HIV virus to infect you with to sexually or physically abuse children to have sex with children if you don’t fulfil their demands children to watch sex children to join in sex you to sexually abuse children affection or sex you to do particular types of sex e.g. sado-masochism or role play calling e.g. frigid, whore sex after a physical assault, e.g. to ‘prove’ you have forgiven them in other ways unless sexually pleased eg. No money Note: Marital Rape - When sexual abuse occurs within marriage, the victim will often feel very confused as to whether or not it is ‘rape’. It seems obvious that when a woman (or man) is raped out on the street by a stranger, that rape has occurred and is wrong. When rape occurs within the marriage, neither abuser nor victim may consider it legal rape. Many believe it is their duty to fulfil their spouse’s sexual demands and that they have no right to say No. Where no physical force has been used (ie. coercion or verbal force-only) many will deny that rape has actually occurred and treat the abuse as though it was normal and by joint consent. If the victim does not have the choice to say ‘No’ without consequences, it is still rape.
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