towards the other as though the other is at fault and abuse and malign the other. Deep down you long for the other and your pride will not let you go back to the other. Here you will find the ambivalent attitude of and avoidance” in your relationship. “approach 30. Vulnerability There were times when I felt that I was strong but it did not last long before I realized I am more vulnerable than strong and this plunged me into deep emotional crisis. I feel defeated and down with no defence crushed to the ground with no wholeness I gather my strength but feel like ashes scattered on the hollow wind. Is not more strength in me than weakness but what makes me feel so down and defeated? Nothing made me more vulnerable than to love and that love being rejected. It feels like that there is no way out except to feel the ruin fully and mourn like a dove on the top; could it be the nature of love? Perhaps, I it is so. ***** Vulnerability is not a weakness but a great strength. To tell someone that you love is vulnerability and it is a great strength. To tell someone that you hate is pseudo-strength but a terrible weakness. If you have the wisdom to understand the difference between these two, then your life is blessed. 31. Betrayal I have endured enough and dismay
towards the other as though the other is at fault and abuse and malign the other. Deep down you long for the other and your pride will not let you go back to the other. Here you will find the ambivalent attitude of “approach and avoidance” in your relationship. 30. Vulnerability There were times when I felt that I was strong but it did not last long before I realized I am more vulnerable than strong and this plunged me into deep emotional crisis. I feel defeated and down with no defence crushed to the ground with no wholeness I gather my strength but feel like ashes scattered on the hollow wind. Is not more strength in me than weakness but what makes me feel so down and defeated? Nothing made me more vulnerable than to love and that love being rejected. It feels like that there is no way out except to feel the ruin fully and mourn like a dove on the top; could it be the nature of love? Perhaps, I it is so. ***** Vulnerability is not a weakness but a great strength. To tell someone that you love is vulnerability and it is a great strength. To tell someone that you hate is pseudo-strength but a terrible weakness. If you have the wisdom to understand the difference between these two, then your life is blessed. 31. Betrayal I have endured enough and dismay
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