Sharing Sharing observations, a hunch or ideas, examples and information. Knowing how much and when to share. Checking out the relevance by asking key questions as I share. Skill #1 - Listening OVERVIEW The goal of good coaching is to listen to what is being said and to what is not being said but needs to be heard. When we listen effectively to what is being communicated we save time by not having someone need to repeat what he or she said. With intention to hear others out allows us to grasp the full understanding of what others are trying to get across and gives others a feeling that we care. Listening leaves the listener and the person being listened to with a full sense of integrity and respect. Listening Definition There are four modes of listening: Superficial listening Self-referential listening Fix-it listening Engaged listening The Four Listening Modes Superficial Listening I’m listening to you, but focusing on what it means to me. In this situation, it’s really all about me. Self-Referential Listening I’m listening to you, but I here only what relates to me. So now it becomes all about me.
Sharing Sharing observations, a hunch or ideas, examples and information. Knowing how much and when to share. Checking out the relevance by asking key questions as I share. Skill #1 - Listening OVERVIEW The goal of good coaching is to listen to what is being said and to what is not being said but needs to be heard. When we listen effectively to what is being communicated we save time by not having someone need to repeat what he or she said. With intention to hear others out allows us to grasp the full understanding of what others are trying to get across and gives others a feeling that we care. Listening leaves the listener and the person being listened to with a full sense of integrity and respect. Listening Definition There are four modes of listening: Superficial listening Self-referential listening Fix-it listening Engaged listening The Four Listening Modes Superficial Listening I’m listening to you, but focusing on what it means to me. In this situation, it’s really all about me. Self-Referential Listening I’m listening to you, but I here only what relates to me. So now it becomes all about me.