过年回家，父母长辈觉得听不懂年轻人讲的话，我们该如何调整这种代际的隔阂？
No "adjustment" is required. Intergenerational differences are shaped by manycultural elements of history and precipitated into deep-rooted "psychologicalstructure" or "collective unconsciousness". Just as it is difficult forilliterate people to have a direct dialogue with university professors onacademic issues, it is also very difficult for children to communicate withtheir elders.

The generation that came from the era of modern agricultural civilization hasexperienced the hoe and shovel of labor tools, the ox and wood plough, thesteam engine revolution and the electronic information revolution, but thepoor life experience of the childhood is engraved on the soul, and is at aloss for the rapidly changing world. So he stuck to the cultural ecology ofhis early years, lived frugally, and stuck to experience in behavior. Healways felt strange to those avant-garde lifestyles and cultural styles. Hewas difficult to understand because he was strange, and he always resistedconsciously or unconsciously because he was difficult to understand. This isoften called the "generation gap".

For this kind of "generation gap", many cultural scholars advocate "filling".Once filled in, it means eliminating the differences. A family or societywithout differences means "homogenization". Homogeneity also means stagnation.

To get along with the elders is to be "skeptical" and tolerant, but not toargue and distinguish, no matter how long you are or how short you are. Forexample, if the old people like to smoke dry tobacco bags, there is no need toexplain the benefits of smoking dry tobacco bags to the young people; "I" wearclothes in the style of Andy Lau or Maggie Cheung, and there is no need forelders to understand.

It is enough for everyone to stick to what they think is a "good life". Lifeitself is not something that needs to be understood or seen by others. " Aslong as you feel comfortable and don't hurt others, just do it ". (Russell'slanguage) "Harmony but difference", not seeking the same, can achieve"communication", understanding is enough, and can not attempt to change eachother.