If your heart is in the wrong place, and you only take part in singles activities in order to shop around and get 'the best deal for yourself' and raise a brood of superkids, or if you go and get married in a fever, you're just wasting your time and everyone else's. You should choose a mate on the basis of personality and character. "
兩性擇友，還是要回到雙方的人格特質。」