<s>[INST] I have a friend who is super intelligent and super nice. However, in my opinion, they are also super lazy and entitled.
 
I value their friendship, but I'm feeling frustrated with their lack of motivation and constant excuses. I'm concerned that their behavior is going to hold them back in life and I also feel like they take advantage of me sometimes.
 
I have tried to address this issue with them before, but they become defensive and dismissive. How can I approach this issue again without damaging our friendship?[/INST]