<s>[INST] It seems as though whenever I'm in a relationship, I always try to take care of my partner. I try to help them, be there for them, and do everything I can to make them happy. But the thing is, my own happiness seems to suffer in the process. I always end up losing myself and my sense of identity in the relationship. I feel like I'm constantly sacrificing myself for the other person, and it doesn't feel right. Is this unhealthy?[/INST]