少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲，真的很适合女人了。,对于年轻女孩来说，有个男人养着，婆婆伺候着，只要生个孩子就可以享受各种买买买，不劳而获的诱惑太大。等结婚多年面临一系列婚姻问题时，才发现这么多年自己放弃了社会地位，变成了没人养就不能活的寄生虫。这种时候也没什么谈女权的资格了，路都是自己走出来的，女权不是男人的怜悯和不劳而获。
For a young girl, there is a man who feeds her, and her mother-in-law waits for a child to be bought and bought, and the temptation to do so is too great. After years of marriage and a series of problems, it turns out that she has given up her social status and become a parasite who cannot live without her support.