我以前理解不了有人明明靠自己能挣扎出来为什么还要待在烂泥里，后来我发现，对那些人来说改变真的很可怕，除非有人愿意跳到烂泥里带ta出去，要不然你就算递根绳子想拉ta，ta也不愿意抓住的。所以特别佩服基层妇联的工作人员。
I didn't understand why people struggled on their own to stay in the dirt, and then I realized that it was really terrible for those people to change, unless someone wanted to jump into the dirt and take it out, and you wouldn't want to grab it even if you handed the ropes to pull it. So I really admire the staff of grass-roots women's unions.