彩礼拿去送给弟弟的有多少啊……不然家里是独生子女的，哪个爸妈拿孩子生活的钱，都是给小两口用的。再说还有嫁妆呢，金华那边几百万嫁妆的都有。结婚不大多是门当户对的。中产家庭，自己家里也买房的姑娘有多少，几个孩子跟她姓了?
How many do you have to give to your brother at the bride price? ...If you're an only child, any mother and father have to pay for the child's life for the younger ones. Besides, there's a dowry for millions of them. Not much of the marriage is for the family. How many are the girls who buy their own home, and how many are the children who have given their last name to her?