做一个假设哈，有个高知女性，可以自担其父母和孩子。大部分家务劳动她可以请人来做。这个时候，如果她找不到比她能力还强的配偶（赚钱能力，生活能力等），那她的婚姻其实是没有意义的，甚至是拖后腿的。在独生子女框架下，这种女性其实还不少。由此带来的社会矛盾，其实不单单是家庭内部能解决的。
In a hypothetical way, there is a woman who can take care of her own parents and children. Most domestic chores can be done by inviting someone. At this point, if she does not find a spouse who is more capable than her (making money, life skills, etc.), her marriage is meaningless or even delayed. In the case of a single child, there are many such women. The social contradictions that result are not just solved within the family.