虽然我不知道发生了什么，但孩子跟谁姓，除了孩子父母别的人管的着吗？至少我自己的孩子，跟我姓或者跟我老公姓，只要我们小两口商量好就行了。哪怕孩子不跟我姓也没关系，她总是我的孩子，不妨碍我爱她。也更不碍着无关的人了。
I don't know what happened, but does the child have a last name, except for her parents? At least my own child, my last name, or my husband's last name, as long as we're two kids. Even if the child doesn't have my last name, she's always my child, and she doesn't interfere with me, and it doesn't bother anyone.