正常调情讲的是双方都互相有意的前提，和一方明显表示不愉快不愿意另一方强行能一样？想象一下，这位兄dei要是被个gay天天调情，都拒绝了还继续，甚至被gay强行亲密动作，真能不觉得很恶心还带恐惧？
What is normal flirting about is the premise that both sides are interested in each other, and that one side clearly expresses displease with the other. Imagine if this brother, Dei, is flirting with each other every day, refusing to continue, or even being forced into closeness by the other, is not nausea or fear?