是真的没所谓还是压根没有可选余地只有当事人自己心里清楚。不过我更好奇男性中“没所谓”的比例有多高，不知有没人调查过。
It is true that there is no room for choice, or that there is no room for choice, but it is clear to the person concerned. But I am more curious as to how high the proportion of men who are “no” is, and no one has investigated it.