1.他的反应来自家庭和传统，就跟结婚的女生都去男方家庭生活到老是一样的！其实问题很简单（只是妳平时的语气和模式让感觉他没有尊重和认可）问题的本身就是他没有了男人的自尊2.姓谁的姓需要名正言顺（尊重传承）男去女方家普遍女姓 、女去男方家普遍男姓（如果个人搞特殊，男在生活圈无法解释）
His reaction comes from the family and tradition, and it's the same thing as the married girls go to live with the man. The problem is simple (it's just your usual tone and pattern that makes him feel disrespectful and unacknowledged). The problem is that he doesn't have a man's self-esteem.