首先，要自由，觉得婚姻铜臭味，就别结婚，谈恋爱之初明确表示自己的态度。对方无过错，感情无问题，那么为什么要在结婚后高呼自由？想要冠姓权，生孩子前就协商好，可以因为这个离婚，但不能让孩子承担后果。如果是女孩才要抚养权，这是另类性别歧视。这不是女权，是做事欠考虑且极度自私
First, to be free, to feel like marriage stinks, not to be married, and to be in love when you're in love. Why do you want to be free when you're married? If you want to have a name, you can negotiate before you have a baby, but you can get a divorce because of it. If it's a girl who has custody, it's another form of gender discrimination. It's not a woman's right, it's a lack of consideration and extreme selfishness.