我是女的，去找前任要我曾经给他买好多东西的钱，他口口声声“我也给你买东西了，我上你你也爽了啊”，就是不想给，怎么破，要不要去他领到那哭诉闹事(我演技还行，眼泪说来就来)
I'm a woman, looking for the money my ex asked me to buy him a lot of things, and he said, "I've bought you something. I'm having fun with you." I just don't want to give it. How can I break it?