以我周围的亲友看去，恋爱史多的人（不是滥情），结婚后反而稳定，恋爱史少的人，甚至跟初恋结婚的，反而离婚的多，是因为恋爱经历多了，所以明白自己适合怎样的配偶，更会处理感情的问题吗？或许什么都需要经验教训吧。当然一家之言不一定对。可是现在人还是对女子有偏见，看不惯女子恋爱多或婚前同居
In the eyes of my relatives and friends around me, people who are in love with Stodo (not abusive) are stable after marriage, people who are in love with little, even first love, are divorced more often because they've been in love so much that they know what kind of spouse they're fit for, and how to deal with emotional problems. There's probably a lesson to be learned. Of course, the family is not right. But people are still biased against women, and they don't like women in love or living together before marriage.