我被男的说过几次“你有能耐别结婚”，十分迷惑，不结婚到底需要啥能耐。然后普遍还说不结婚是嫁不出去、剩女。所以到底哪个更能耐一些😂
I've been told several times by men, "You have the power to marry," and I'm confused about what it takes not to get married. And it's common to say that not to marry is not to get married, leaving a girl. So what's better?