结婚男女双方的总体价值应该大致相等，如果这男的没有硬条件缺点，那他最大的缺点就是脑子瓦特，这么凶恶的岳父母也敢结亲,男女各自在当地办，高标准高要求是女方父母提的。彩礼六位数，没回礼。女方父母明确说了嫁女儿必须男方负责全部费用，女方虽然也有房产，但一切沉没成本全部男方出
The overall value of married men and women should be roughly the same. If the man has no hard conditions, his biggest disadvantage is that he has a brain watt, and the ferocious parents-in-law dared to marry each other locally, and the high standard is raised by the woman's parents. The bride price is six places, there's no return. The woman's parents explicitly stated that the husband is responsible for the full cost of marrying her daughter, and the woman has a real estate, but all the costs of sinking are paid by the man.