男方想要女人为他打点家务、做好饭菜、多生孩子；把自己的时间投入在打点好家务、照顾好孩子和丈夫上是对家庭好；把时间花在健身、工作提升情商眼界、充分休息保持颜值上是对自己好。前两项基本是统一的，但与自己的诉求背道而驰。很早就发现这种矛盾，一直困惑
A man wants a woman to do his chores, cook his meals, have more children; devote her time to doing his chores, taking care of her children and her husband is good for the family; spend her time on fitness, working up the market, getting a full break, and keeping a good face. The first two are basically uniform, but they run counter to their own claims.