嗯，要正视现实。长辈不适当催一下婚很多年轻人就耽误了，几年时光一眨眼就过了，后悔都来不及。不过还是不赞成包办。可以催，但不要包办。强拗的瓜不甜。,是的，我也赞成把思想上的大压力算作强迫的方式之一。看来包办的比例比我估计的高。,应当以父母子女间意见明确不同时，父母是否强逼子女同意其意见来界定。
Well, let's face it. Many young people get married without a proper reminder, and a few years pass in the blink of an eye, and regret is too late. But they still don't agree. You can hurry, but don't.