而且虽说孩子是自己的，但是能做到让家里老人完全不插手估计也挺难的，百分百要放弃工作在家里带娃了,这个而言现实生活中并不现实，如果婆婆真的不帮带小孩的话那就意味着小孩两岁前只能夫妻双方之中的一方放弃工作留在家中带小孩，一般来说不会是男性吧，那女性要保住自己的工作就得叫娘家人来帮忙带小孩就会变成女方和女方家人在带孩子；或者女性放弃工作留在家中带两年孩子，那么问题来了
And it's hard to be able to keep the old man out of the way. It's not realistic if she doesn't really help with the baby. If she doesn't, it means that one of the couples can't stay at home until she's two years old. It's not usually a man. If a woman can keep her job, she'll have to ask her parents to help her bring the baby and the girl's family to take the child; or if a woman doesn't work for two years to keep the child at home, that's a problem.