借楼，我们应重视：1高等教育和事业。 2属于自己那份财产和不动产继承权。 3养不起或不想生一定别生孩子，想生又养的起可单身生育不用结婚。4生育有死亡风险。5学门外语（如英语）和职业技能。 6不婚并且与异性保持安全距离，不和已有婚恋关系的异性交往。7在生活中和国内外女/男们交流增强社交能力。
We should pay attention to: 1 higher education and career; 2 the inheritance of property and real estate belonging to ourselves; 3 the inability or unwillingness to have other children; 4 the risk of death in childbirth; 5 the study of foreign languages (e.g. English) and vocational skills; 6 the absence of marriage and the safe distance from the opposite sex, and the absence of contact with the opposite sex; 7 the socialization of women/men in life and in domestic and foreign exchanges.