但现实与法律不同，父母要偏向谁是没办法的，我毕业六七年没得到家里任何支持，但是我的弟弟没有毕业家里已经买好了房子，这就是冠姓权的问题，简单说财产是跟着姓氏走的，这其实没有错，但是要给大家商议来决定随父姓或随母姓，而不是默认就随父姓
But unlike the law, parents prefer who they can't, and I don't get any support from my family for six or seven years of graduation, but my brother has bought a house without graduation, and that's the question of the right to a first name, and it's not wrong to say that the property goes with the last name, but it's a matter of agreeing to take the father's or the mother's name instead of defaulting on the father's last name.