前夫，他母亲的第二个儿子，用他的话来说，从小就是二等公民，被母亲忽视，他从小一边愤愤不满，一边渴望得到认可，心态扭曲以至婚后家暴，个人认为就是他母亲对2个儿子的区别对待导致他内心仇恨女性而他却并不自知，导致他性格阴晴不定，喜怒无常。
The former husband, his mother ' s second son, was, in his words, a second-class citizen, ignored by his mother, who grew up angry and angry at him, who yearned for recognition, distorted his mind and went to marital violence, and who thought that his mother ' s differential treatment of two sons had led him to hate women in his heart while he did not know it, causing him to have a chilling and irritated character.