猜疑和冷眼后期最让人反感，女生如果不学会保护自己，估计幸免于难的特别少，我也是，如果我没那么聪明学会了在各种环境下保护自己，我自己也不能安全成长到现在
I think it's very rare for a girl to survive if she doesn't learn to protect herself. Me, too, if I'm not so smart to protect myself in a variety of settings, I can't grow up safely.