这一套搁在封建社会是有一定道理的，女的出嫁人身权都几乎没了，现在还这样。。。。。有这精力建议去工作多赚钱，实在不行养娃投资孩子也比讨好外人划算。
There is a reason for this system to be built in feudal societies, where women's right to marry is almost lost, and it is still the case.