干嘛要给呀，像我就不去喝喜酒也不给钱，毕竟我不喜欢送礼物和出席这些场合她们早就知道了，所以就算有意见也不敢说啥，大不了绝交呗
Why, I don't drink and don't pay, after all, I don't like giving gifts and being here, and they already know, so they can't say anything even if they have a problem with it.