是这样的，没享到福，苦有时候也白吃了，婆家人可不会心疼你，反正男的也吃不了亏～～,我就是，结婚时没要房子和彩礼，婚后很被动
It's true, you don't get well, you sometimes suffer for nothing, your mother-in-law's family doesn't feel bad for you, I don't want a house or a bride price when I'm married, and I'm passive when I'm married.