是要经历很多困难，但会越挫越勇。可能是我的性格比较女汉子，也很自强自立。所以常常被认为不需要被照顾啊，就酱紫养成了独来独往的性格，到新环境里被很多人关心，常常很不舒服。我生长在潮汕，家里女儿就我一个，并没有重男轻女，但是我爹啊，常会说如果我是男孩就好了，可以不用出嫁，常伴他身旁。
It's hard to go through a lot, but it's hard to get worse. It's probably my personality that's better than a woman and self-reliant. So it's often thought that I don't need to be taken care of, so that soy-violet is a solo personality that many people care about in the new environment, and it's often uncomfortable. I grow up in tidal waves, and my daughter is the only one with no preference for boys, but my father often says that if I was a boy, I would not have to get married and always be around him.