分享一下另一面的被凝视吧：从小并不符合主流审美，所有学术成绩或志向，都会被归结于stereotype的“果然不好看的女孩子自然是nerd呢”。渐渐会形成为了证明这个stereotype的错误性而鞭策自己屈于主流审美的压力。年纪大一些会意识到这同样是一个自我阉割的过程，但依旧时常感到束手无策。
Share the other side of the picture: from an early age, all academic achievements or aspirations will be attributed to the “naid girl” of Stewetype. It will gradually become pressure to pressure yourself to submit to the mainstream. Older people will realize that it is also a process of self-censorship, but they will still feel helpless.