用好眼光找一个好男人，不用等你提补偿，他自己就能了解女人生孩子的不容易起，去体谅你珍惜你好好爱你，付出他的所有。索要和别人主动给真的是两码子事，但很多人却不明白。（但我还是选择丁克，因为养育一个孩子太难了）
Find a good man with a good eye, and without waiting for your compensation, he can understand how hard it is for a woman to have a child, to understand that you cherish your love and give him everything. It's a really different thing to ask for it from someone else, but many people don't understand it. (But I still choose Dink because it's too hard to raise a child.)