是，自己有能力为自己捍卫权益再谈其他，不能赖着人家，一边伺候老公，一边让社会上的女人帮她制衡老公，她家务事自己不管，谁傻吗给她出头。
Yes, she is capable of defending her rights and interests and cannot rely on her to serve her husband while allowing a woman in society to help her balance her husband. She does not care about domestic matters.