那要以后才知道，大钱没有给你都给儿子，哪来的脸要你养老,这是中国父母对女儿好的小手段，小恩小惠不断，让你感恩他们，给他们养老
Then you'll have to know that you don't have all the money to give to your son, and you don't have to take care of your face. That's the way Chinese parents treat their daughters.