需要父母正确的引导吧，要让你意识到，你这么做，会伤害她一辈子，只要你不是以伤害别人为乐趣的变态，引导好了就还有救。
You need the right guidance from your parents, to make you realize that if you do this, you'll hurt her for the rest of your life, as long as you're not a pervert who's happy to hurt someone else.