最折磨的就是用美化的“爱”说服自己还能活着还能让日子过得没那么绝望，到后来有一天会发现自己的这种美化可能会有更多的受害者成为另一个自己，反反复复地悲痛，这件事背后根本不是什么真相大白，而是如何让这个社会保护那些已有和潜在的受害者。
What is most painful is to convince yourself with a glorified “love” that it can still live without such despair that one day it will be possible to find itself with more victims to become another, to repeat the grief that lies behind the fact that it is simply not true, but rather how it can be protected against existing and potential victims.