无论在哪里，首先收到的就是对于外表的comment “瘦了”“白了”“好看了”似乎女性只是一个被观摩的艺术品。在这种极具追捧外表的风气下，女性的能力反而不被看重 “好看就行了嘛，差不多得了”。而有没有人问女性到底想不想要被外表define呢？抑或他们根本不关心，而只关心自己的快乐？
Wherever it is, the first thing that comes in is that it's "white" and "white" for appearances, it seems that women are just a visual art. In this extreme culture, women's abilities are not valued as "good-looking," almost fine. And does anyone ask women whether they want to be define by appearance, or whether they don't care at all, but only about their own happiness?