为什么总有一种“为别人生孩子”的想法。孩子难道不是自己的吗？婆婆带娃老公亲职投资这些跟他姓又如何，我都觉得是男人在帮忙养自己的孩子了。
Why is there always the idea of having a child for someone else? Isn't the child not herself? I think it's a man who helps raise his own child by investing in her husband's family name.