当一个人在感情中一直都在强调自己付出了多少，而没有看到对方对他（她）的付出，那么他（她）的感情观是畸形的，物质的，这样的往往会错过真爱，而奔赴他（她）认为爱他（她）的那个人的怀抱，最后把自己弄得遍体鳞伤
When a person has always stressed how much she has done without seeing what she has done to him, then his feelings are deformed, material, and often miss the true love and run into the arms of the person he believes to love him, and end up hurting himself all over the place.