男的看中一女的，会想法让女的落单，这样容易搞到手。同样，父系要控制女性，也是设法让女性落单，让女的嫁入一个陌生的环境，生的孩子是男人的，婚姻让她一辈子落单。人最大的敌人永远是自己，女性也不例外，不是男性，是女性自己。如果女性继续做着恋爱和婚姻美梦，主动往圈套里奔，谈什么其他。
A man who sees a woman in the eyes of a man will think of leaving the woman alone, and it will be easy to do so. Similarly, the patrilineal line is to control the woman and try to keep the woman single, to marry her into a strange environment, to give birth to a child of a man, to leave her alone for the rest of her life. The man's greatest enemy is always herself, not the man, but the woman herself. If a woman continues to dream about love and marriage, she goes into a trap and talks about anything else.