不是意淫男方母亲不好，是已经前提说明是因为婆婆重男轻女，对儿媳妇不好，所以儿媳妇不愿意出钱
It's not because it's because your mother-in-law prefers her son-in-law and treats her daughter-in-law better than her mother-in-law, so she doesn't want to pay for it.