恐惧源于未知，我们对于性侵害的恐惧一部分原因是：似乎对方的行为在社会上并不稀奇，为什么我的感觉不对，为什么对方会做这样的事。如果两人情投意合，那自然不存在什么性侵害，因为双方能感受到对方的感受。而有一类心理不太健康的人，他感受不到他人的情绪，就像用了迷幻药一样活在自己的幻觉中。
Fear stems from the unknown, and part of our fear of sexual assault is that: it seems that the other person’s behaviour is not unusual in society, why I feel wrong and why the other person does something like this. If the two are in agreement, there is naturally no sexual assault, because both sides can feel each other’s feelings. And there is a group of mentally ill people who do not feel the emotions of others, and who live in their illusions as if they were using ecstasy.