虽然怎么拿行李当事人没意见旁人也没啥好说的。但是两个人的行李男方多拿，或者男的全拿（如果不多）觉得正常不是很正常吗？男的力气比女的大那么多是用来干嘛的？
There's nothing to say about taking the luggage without the consent of the client. But it's not normal for two men to take the luggage or, if it's not much, for a man to take it all. What is it that a man's strength is so much bigger than a woman?