我不懂的是，我觉得性别差异远不及个体差异来得大，为什么她们会对异性产生这种普遍性的敌意？我觉得三观不合的人是不分性别的【
What I don't understand is, I don't think gender differences are as big as individual differences. Why do they create such a general hostility to opposite sex? I think people who don't look at each other are gender-neutral.