关键是，有些人，可能不论男女，到了一定年龄就开始找不到人生目标，不生儿育女就不知道干啥好，人生就没有动力了。所以，怎么说呢？还是趁年轻多探索一下，寻找一个能为之奋斗终身的目标/兴趣爱好/事业之类的，也省的动不动把所有希望放在孩子身上，这样对孩子也不好吧？
The key is that some people, both men and women, may not be able to achieve their goals at a certain age, and they don't know what to do without having children, and they have no motivation. So, what do you say?