反正我觉得，不管男女/女女/男男，就一条标准，对方拒绝了就不要纠缠，她/他说了“不”，那就是不行，你再缠着就是性骚扰，如果对方不想直接伤你而给你发了好人卡，那也该有点自知之明，别再自讨没趣了，因为真的很烦
Anyway, I think it's a standard for a man or a woman or a woman or a man, and he says, "No," and she says, "No," and that's sexual harassment, and if you don't want to hurt you directly and send you a nice card, it's a little self-aware.