如果真的看中冠姓权，想争取平权，那重点也不在冠姓权，而在于女方自身经济实力强大或者至少和男方持平，这样才有得谈。我身边有同学姐妹俩一个和父姓一个和母性的，也遇到过男方入赘女方把自己姓氏改成女方姓的（儿子也和女方姓），说白了强大才是硬道理，现在在网上扯别人家事有啥意义。
If you really look at the right to a name and want to win equality, the focus is not on the right to a name, but on the fact that the woman herself is economically strong or at least equal to the man, so that I can talk about it. I have two sisters with me, one with the father, and one with the mother, and the other with the man who changes her name to the woman's (son and woman), and it's hard to say that she is strong, and what is the point of talking about someone else's family online now?