我同意你说的“只计较了自己的生育成本而不顾丈夫的付出”，平等还意味着对两性差异的尊重而不是各方面完全相同。而且我觉得她语气对丈夫“非女权”没那么愤怒，反而更在意的自己“因为不容置疑的女权觉醒而甩了优质丈夫并且对方依旧想打动自己而自己为了大义放弃丈夫孩子”的虐夫人设
I agree with you when you say that equality means respect for gender differences rather than the same. And I think she's less angry about her husband's “non-feminine rights” than she's more concerned about her abusive wife, who “dispossesses her husband because of her unquestionable female rights awakening and who still wants to impress herself and abandon her husband's children for the sake of justice.”