没那么多男女的事，就是人与人之间的越界。我之后也讲了，“有时点醒她们，甚至帮助她们，是一种不怀好意的善意”。当然这里的点醒和帮助的定义也有待商榷。那再退一步好了：提出。
Not so many men and women are people crossing the border. And I said, “Sometimes it's bad will to wake them up, even to help them.” And of course, the definition of awakening and helping here is yet to be negotiated. That is a step back: put it forward.