你不知道男人的压力，跟了妈姓，入赘还好那没话讲，关键是花钱娶回来，我记得我们这边一男的因为孩子跟妈姓被父母斥责家里没后了，外面有女的嘲笑他说孩子都不是自己的，，结果自杀了，后来他老婆跟了别人，一个人就这么没了，没有后代，收尸都是老母亲收的，
You don't know the pressure of a man, you don't know his mother's last name, you don't have to pay for it. The point is to marry her. I remember a man on our side who died because his mother's last name was blamed by her parents, and a woman who laughed at him when he said that his children were not hers, and then killed herself.