关键是不知道。男方是否表态帮助，女主是否需要帮助并表达需要帮助。最关键的一点是，国外的女生比较独立，认为什么都需要男方帮助是一种无能的行为。个人认为，关我屁事
The key thing is not to know. The man says anything about help, the woman needs help and the woman needs help. The most important thing is that girls abroad are more independent and think it's incompetent to need help from the man. Personally, it's none of my business.