对方是真的把我当作[一个完整的人]而称赞我的相貌或所谓气质，还是别有用心的[不尊重地凝视]，应该还是很容易就能分辨出来的。所以我想说的是，[男性凝视]更确切的说法应该是[物化凝视]，它的本质是对对方人格完整性（心灵与肉身的一体性）的不尊重甚至无视和践踏。而打量这个举动本身不应背负恶名。
It should be easy to tell whether the other side really praises me as [a whole person] for my appearance or what I call my temperament, or whether it is ulterior [to look without respect]. So what I'm trying to say is that the more precise term [men look at] should be [to look at], and that its essence is disrespect for the integrity of the other person (the integrity of the soul and the body) and even disregard and trample.