孩子又不是东西，是个独立的生命个体，祂降生就属于祂自己～跟谁姓都不重要～夫妻关系是在一起彼此更好，舒服，不是竞争比较关系，谁比谁更强，比优秀是去外面～找一个相爱的，滋润你自己～他又优秀的，给孩子好基因～你他都优秀，孩子成长环境好，起点高，多好～祝福你😄
It's not a thing, it's an independent human being. His birth belongs to himself. It doesn't matter who's last name.