而且腩人这一招很有用，很多平泉女怕被说极端田园，主动不要彩礼，出房出车出子宫，美名其曰新时代独立女性
It's a very useful trick, and many girls are afraid of being told about extreme fields, taking the initiative not to present themselves, going out of the house and out of the womb, and calling them independent women of the new era.