面对这种挑战有人选择放弃“女性魅力”反其道行之，也有人选择迎合利用（？）使之成为一种手段。个人觉得两种选择都有合理性，但是得到的反馈却是两极，男性视角往往贬低前者追捧后者，女性主义对两者的评价相对mix一些，但同样挺让人五味杂陈的。
In the face of this challenge, one chooses to abandon the “feminine charm” and to use it (?) as a tool. The individual feels that both options are reasonable, but the feedback is twofold, and the male perspective tends to devalue the former, and the feminist evaluation of the two is relative to the mix, but it is equally vexatious.