对方权力再大，又不可能强迫你坐到他旁边吃饭，还让你兴高采烈。照此逻辑，那些性工作者都可以控告对方强奸，“他给我钱，我没办法。”
It's impossible to force you to sit next to him for dinner, and it makes you happy. So, you know, sex workers can sue each other for rape, "He gives me money, I can't do it."