别说眼光高吧。不知道你是男的女的，找个对象，过去你要一起负担对方父母几十万的医疗费账单，你有这个能力吗？有这个意愿吗？如果是赚钱能力一般的，一辈子没有生活质量可言。
Do you have the ability to pay hundreds of thousands of bills to your parents without knowing you're a man and a woman? Do you have the will? If you have the ability to earn money, you have no quality of life for the rest of your life.