是的，我也有这样的经历和感觉。不管做什么，工作能力和成绩经常被轻视乃至无视，被过分聚焦于外表穿搭身材变化以及和男同事说的每句话。而且很难改变，哪怕自己天天肥t牛仔裤运动鞋随便乱搭，认认真真本本分分工作，还是经常只被看到性别。
No matter what you do, your ability to work and your grades are often despised or even ignored, over-focused on appearances and changes in your body, and everything you say to your male colleagues. And it's hard to change, even if your own pairs of fat jeans and sneakers are scooting around, you know what you're doing, and you're often only seeing your sex.