我觉得我妈爱我，同时也希望我被欺负，她不要我的钱还一直给我钱用，给我寄腊肉，土鸡，河里的鱼虾，但是她总是说女人不都是这样吗（受委屈）你是欠打的之类的。我不太理解
I think my mom loves me, and she wants me to be bullied, and she doesn't want my money to be used on me, sends me bacon, potatoes, fish shrimp in the river, but she always says that women are not always like this, and you're in a bad mood. I don't get it.