因为她没有找到出路，苦日子苦久了也能品出一点甜味，怕你连这种苦日子都过不上会更苦，就用当年让她屈服的方法去对待你，如果你选择了和她一样的路，那证明她作对了，如果你有能力扛住她曾经承受的压力把自己过好，她也会放心你和她走不一样的路，并且她也已经在她认为对你提供了最好的建议尽力了。
Because she has not found a way out, and she has a hard time and a little sweetness, so that you won't even make it worse, you can treat you the way she did, and if you choose the same path as her, it proves that she is right. If you can handle the pressure she has put on you, she will be assured that you are going on a different path from her, and she has done her best to advise you.