其实有时候一个人的立场只有在有选择的时候做出才能真正代表内心，比如你可以走进婚姻但你毅然选择追求独立自我，而不是转一大圈反正找不到结婚对象而将这种处境自我合理化并且企图推上神坛，转而去踩踏另一种生活模式。
In fact, sometimes a person ' s position can really represent his or her heart only if he or she has a choice. For example, you can enter into marriage, but you choose to be independent instead of trying to rationalize the situation by trying to put yourself on the altar and trample on another way of life.