我试想过一种场景，如果我岳父是李嘉诚那种级别的，养育的所有费用都是女方承担，我巴不得孩子跟母性呢，但是现实情况是，你经济上不独立，要这要那，花巨资娶进来，又给彩礼，结果生了孩子你跟我说，随母姓？你特么逗我呢
I thought of a scenario in which if my father-in-law was Li Ka-chung's class, and all the costs of raising children were borne by the woman, I wouldn't want to have children and motherhood, but the reality is that you're not financially independent, and that's what you're going to do.