是的，这才是田园，伸手要好的谁不会啊，但是这样被搞了那就闭嘴啊，又本事自己去挣来，不找别人要。其实婚姻中谈平等最主要的就是经济实力和家务分配，想要家务少做，那得有相应的经济责任，想要坐享经济好处，就干活儿吧
Yes, that's the field. No one can reach out, but if you're fucked, shut up and earn it yourself, and don't want it. The most important thing about equality in marriage is economic power and the distribution of household chores.