i mean, in a much more, erm, a le a less severe example, but we're having a road safety week, at school, this week, erm, and it was my class's turn, yesterday afternoon, so i was just there keeping a watching brief with my my children while the, road safety representative was talking to them, and she put them us through the usual hoops of erm, did any of them play on the roadside  un unattended.