er and she said i'll ring you ag i said oh dear someone now coming to the door, she said, never mind i'll ring you on saturday, so i said alright and er and she lives at wyndham, norfolk, my husband's niece and erm, you see, and then there's the other one and she said, auntie you're always so cheerful , i said, well i try to be cheerful because like everybody else i get a little depressed sometimes because, you see, i have no sisters and brothers, i have three elderly cousins who live away and who i, who i see, one was here a fortnight ago  er er er my cousin and his wife er, you see, it will be on a wednesday, a fortnight today, no thursday, yes, you see, a fortnight ago and they said, we'll come again an we've always bought you a bunch of daffodils so we shall come again when the daffodils are  and er and they bring me over bits and pieces because er she was a cook and they bring me something nice to eat