a lot of times, people tend to think that they know  exactly what it is that they want because they know what they don't want  so incredibly intensely and so, instead of our focus being on what it is that we desire, even if it hasn't manifested in the physical yet, we tend to just look for the evidence of the lack we go home and if we may be  experiencing an issue in a relationship our focus isn't on the parts about our partner  that we love anymore our focus is on all the little things we can't stand, this is where people...