nyimang have different views depending on the gender and the age of a person. the father/husband is supposed to lead the family. if the father has died or is away for some reason then the eldest son leads the family, but the women are never in charge. adult men and women go to work on the farms early in the morning. when there is a wedding, the father and brother(s) of the girl chooses the husband. the bride has no say in who she wants to marry. spouses are chosen according to the man's bravery, courage, and so on, because a brave man is at a high position.