upon this, he told me another story. the people of his island of rokovoko, it seems, at their wedding feasts express the fragrant water of young cocoanuts into a large stained calabash like a punchbowl; and this punchbowl always forms the great central ornament on the braided mat where the feast is held. now a certain grand merchant ship once touched at rokovoko, and its commander—from all accounts, a very stately punctilious gentleman, at least for a sea captain—this commander was invited to the wedding feast of queequeg’s sister, a pretty young princess just turned of ten. well; when all the wedding guests were assembled at the bride’s bamboo cottage, this captain marches in, and being assigned the post of honor, placed himself over against the punchbowl, and between the high priest and his majesty the king, queequeg’s father. grace being said,—for those people have their grace as well as we—though queequeg told me that unlike us, who at such times look downwards to our platters, they, on the contrary, copying the ducks, glance upwards to the great giver of all feasts—grace, i say, being said, the high priest opens the banquet by the immemorial ceremony of the island; that is, dipping his consecrated and consecrating fingers into the bowl before the blessed beverage circulates. seeing himself placed next the priest, and noting the ceremony, and thinking himself—being captain of a ship—as having plain precedence over a mere island king, especially in the king’s own house—the captain coolly proceeds to wash his hands in the punchbowl;—taking it i suppose for a huge finger-glass. "now," said queequeg, "what you tink now?—didn’t our people laugh?"