my, my sister- in-law, she w had to go in just before christmas, had to rather suddenly she's  was diagnosed in the summer as having diverticulitis and they planned a sort of diet out to keep her really well and she was in terrible pain and they rushed her off for a scan  and er she goes privately cos vernon, i think actually his is bupa that he's in, he joined when it first came out  and she wrote to me and she said oh i'm, i just feel so lonely, there's nobody to talk to, i've got nobody to see or anything and she felt a bit cos she wasn't really that ill