the nurturant parent metaphor draws on parenting style. the ideal, effective nurturing parent gives his children both "roots in the ground and wings to fly." he or she does this by imparting, conveying, role-modeling and enforcing boundaries which encourage the child towards personal freedom (try out your new wings). the nurturant parent model has a healthy respect for children's inherent intelligence. as safe and appropriate, they can and should be allowed to explore their environment. parents are responsible for protecting their child from serious mistakes, by offering guidance. a child will be picked up if the child cries because the parent wants the child to feel safe and supported. if a child grows up believing its needs are likely to be met, it will be more confident when facing challenges.