haleem comes from the root "hilm", which has the following classical arabic connotations: to be forbearing, mild, lenient, clement; to be forgiving, gentle, deliberate; to be leisurely in manner, not hasty; to be calm, serene; to manage one's temper; or to exhibit moderation. having "hilm" can be understood to have a wisdom and a forebearance that allows a person to control their anger. hilm is an intelligence that, in our terms, allows someone to control their anger, even if their anger is justified. it allows you to, when you are justifiably angry, control it and not manifest it.