to ensure passivity and to enhance the feeling of or actual female submission, a partner may also take part in bondage (such as handcuffs) or in other bdsm activities. during sexual bondage, the restrained partner is generally open to a variety of sex acts and cannot interfere in the ensuing sexual activity. she is dependent for her sexual satisfaction on the actions of her partner, who can choose the type and pace of the sexual activity and can introduce sex toys. for example, a pecker gag can be used to gag the restrained partner as well as to require her to suck during sexual activity in a similar manner to an adult pacifier. the active partner has the role of treating the restrained partner as a sex object to be used for her own sexual satisfaction. the active partner may herself derive sexual satisfaction from providing her sex partner with sexual satisfaction and bringing her to orgasm.