on the set of the film "shadow of the wolf" (1992), he met jennifer tilly to whom he was briefly engaged, although the two never married. he later married "penthouse" model and television extra, kelly phillips, with whom he has three daughters: grace and isabella (twins born in october 1997), and lili born in september 1999. the couple separated in 2004, their divorce was finalized in july 2007, and the children reside with their mother.