and that's all now  so val said  she said i said to cheryl now don't you go and take mervy away cos me and ken certainly aren't gonna go and sit  sit with erm  the  's all  dinner time  so she said what they're gonna do, they're going out for the meal and everything and then they're  ken  are gonna go to cheryl's for the rest of the day  so i said so that's upset your plans then val  she said isn't it just!