i think its possible to fall in love with the same person more than once, you fall in love with them and you get married for that as well as other reasons perhaps, and then you have children and you hardly see them really for the next ten years, at least this is what every one  sort of understands and then and then erm and then when you have more time again you can fall in love all over again with exactly the same person, i think this happens to lots of people, which also doesn't happen to a lot of people so  you haven't