yeah, i worked with a voluntary group for a while and i remember helping one lady go through, she was raped, and go through the courts, and  all her past life was brought up, i mean i was so upset for her and yet the fact that he had actually raped twice before wasn't brought up, but her past life was brought up and the man actually got off in the end because she just could not cope with being on the stand and dealing with it all and it was just so terrible that, that, that the, the ina,