evelyn fowler grubb (august 9, 1931 – december 28, 2005) was the wife of an american vietnam war air force pilot who became a prisoner of war, she was also a co-founder and then later served as the national coordinator of the national league of families, a nonprofit organization that worked on behalf of vietnam-era missing in action (mia) and prisoner of war (pow) families. grubb also oversaw the creation of the famous "you are not forgotten" pow/mia flag that still flies in front of all u.s. post offices, many firehouses and police stations, all major u.s. military installations as well as most veterans organization chapters in the united states.