fingering (manual stimulation) involves the use of the fingers to massage a woman's clitoris or other parts of the vulva, the vagina, or anus. oral or manual stimulation of the vulva, and in particular the clitoris, is the most common way for a woman to reach and achieve an orgasm. fingering may be self-fingering, one-sided, mutual, penetrative or non-penetrative. massaging inside of the vagina may stimulate a very sensitive area, sometimes termed "the g-spot area." for some women, stimulating the g-spot area creates a more intense orgasm than direct clitoral stimulation. for deeper vaginal, anal or oral penetration, a dildo, strap-on dildo or other sex toys may be used.