a situation i hear quite often, mom is swearing, mom would never swear, you know, and i would say everyone knows what swearing and curse words are, some people choose to use them all their lives, some don't, but that filter is gone, it's gone and so things come out that family members are embarrassed about, they wouldn't want to take them in public, because they don't know what they're doing to say or what they're going to do.