so  you know, i say things like oh i'm going down to see zoey now before dinner and like she'll follow me down or something and i'll say oh are you going into the saloon or like to try and get her to not come with me, then i feel so guilty i think well poor marina, you know, she's here in a foreign country, she hasn't got any friends and she's all by herself and i wouldn't like it if i was in her position