he was born in taumarunui, and his family moved to otara in auckland when he was seven years old. he attended mayfield primary school, papatoetoe intermediate school and de la salle college. he has fond memories of his early life, saying "they were generous, generous days". his life growing up has been described as centred on family, church, school and community, while parents tom and ngaire were described as strong believers in social equity and social justice as well as active in the community life. while he did not grow up in auckland, his family often travelled to see relatives there, because his parents had moved to taumarunui from south auckland.