i mean, you can think of any, any disaster you know, if you, if you. &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; disaster, yeah. &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; if you don't talk about it and if you don't tell children about it, they don't know about it. &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; well, but the problem with that, since we're onto disaster and genocide, the problem with that is that if the truth dazzles not gradually, if it just comes on you like a thunderclap, you are so alienated and so unable to cope, that there's a kindness in delivering it gradually.