and he bou he bought me this top and he bought me a, a polo neck and bought me a c d and then we went out to supper and then we went to a pub and everything and erm, you know, had a really decent conversation with him and just talking to him makes me think, you know, and it dawns on me that he's just a  big  he's just a big child  and he's not, he's never grown, he's not, you're not gonna grow up.