not just on my own  he just said that, it was a bit bad cos i, i said to him, you know, who's going and he listed like er reeled off, i can't remember, reeled off a load of blokes yes last night and i said are there any girls going and he said well i'll see if i can get laura  and giles to come  and i said yeah i feel much better about that, you know, whatever and then today he said erm look   can't go and  was a real,i dunno he's got something and he's usually like the real medium and he, you know, if there's e if there's ever like a pregnant pause then he's the one that like keeps it all going