you are one that is hardworking but why have opinion about others? your prakruti is like this but our intellect shows us faults of the other person, it shows us [the other persons] negative so we especially want to observe this "knot of doership" and this samayik, is especially important to do... because, if things happen according to our opinion of doership, then the sweet juices of doership (garvaras) arise and if the opposite happens then internal suffering arises and the thing is that, one sees the instrumental person(nimit) as faulted