he has stated in interviews that he suffered from depression in the late 1980s, even to the point of contemplating suicide, for reasons having to do with his troubled first marriage and his perceived failure as a husband and a dad, his father harold's death, and freddie mercury's illness. may is married to former eastenders actress anita dobson, whom he met in 1986, and who gained fame in the 1980s for providing vocals to the theme tune to the aforementioned soap, entitled "anyone can fall in love". may himself produced the song, which reached #4 in the uk singles chart in august 1986.