erm i find  i'm not sure that any of us can erm cope with what's going on at the moment in the gulf without having just ways of distracting ourselves, erm and i think that perhaps might be more of a problem for adults than it is for children, in the sense that erm most of us have access to more information than most children do erm and more information about what death means, and what suffering means, and what pain means, than erm most children who have been brought up in this country.