leads to abhorrence, if things do not happen as per expectation and if things happen as per expectations then attachment arises we want to dissolve that intensity gradually, we should bring about this [understanding] that this awareness (jagruti) should remain with us that this is the knot of doership and we must make all the efforts to save the glass [from falling], but once it falls and breaks then it is vyavasthit then those emotions that arise after, that "if i had saved it this way this would have happened because i did not save it this way, this happened, he should not do it this way or he should have done that, you did that.." that entire [knot of] doership overrides the intellect whatever the stock of doership, then it comes to the surface like a fire so, wherever there is this conflict, or if it happens opposite to your expectation, or there is a kind of loss then that intellect of doership overrides it entirely and that time we can see [realize] that it is those knots that,