langston hughes sometimes went out with women, but he never married. people who have studied his life and poetry are sure that he was homosexual. in the 1930s it was harder to be open about being gay than it is nowadays. his poetry has lots of symbols which are used by other homosexual writers. hughes thought that men who had very dark skin were particularly beautiful. it seems from his poetry that he was in love with an african-american man. he also wrote a story which might tell of his own experience. "blessed assurance" is the story of a father's anger because his son is "queer" and acts like a girl.