two days later you what's the matter k you come up with the man you how lonely i want if you look good melissa requested she's we can't tell from home actually at that we need to see how the person treats us when we don't do what they want that's when we trust that they make requested not to me so we're going to pay every time in the past but we used any coercive means to get what we want so now at least we don't want to pay for dad anymore we want to be sure whenever we make a request is requesting that doesn't mean you know the personal trust that even if it is because unfortunately there's been so much coercion in our world even if we are making a sincere request heather person might hear it in there was working in one school system with a group of students at the school district