labeled as socially and emotionally mala just now from what you've learned today was that a jackal school system where a giraffe school system yes it sounds like a year example that the person was really disappointed and wouldn't let them not letdown who died must ok he really does this look like really hurt cell how could they expressed that without being a demand but not suppressing the fact that they really despite they could say so you have a lot to do the right now and that too would really meet you need to be about yourself the kind of the moon and right now really trust that you would need it to the better than anybody else i know is there some way that uh... we could find that you worked on it and still replied connection that's what we called on burning shows respect for the other persons means i'm not trying to use any guilt manipulation just another find a way to get everybody doesn't did the person interpersonal cannot think of somebody to replace them it will not be a problem it will only be a problem if i've put on these years and recvd what they say the rejection cassie fight here in rejection that's the problem you can't say i'm disappointed as long as you don't say you disappoint me and as long as you don't stop after saying i'm disappoint she produced a point that's just another way of saying you disappoint and disappointed we always have to interfering at the very end of it is going to be a request that we don't just say i'm disappointed we'd have to say their take responsibility for asking for what we want given the other person has a southern england would you want to and from ramshackle doesn't like like to have to be responsible for what they wanted rather sick well if they love me if they were any kind of friend i think it's only fair that they they wanna controlled by guild source code is pretty asked me to work with these students that were labeled socially and emotionally well adjusted poor school system doesn't realize that labels lead a self-fulfilling prophecy when you label people that way we're going to be havior kamon be honest if you are labeled socially and emotionally well adjusted you're one of those doesn't that give you permission to have fun in school