"i will explain my idea by a practical example, to make it clearer. you know the sort of man he is. at present his only failing is that he is crazy about that captain’s widow, and he cannot go to her without money, and i mean to catch him at her house today for his own good; but supposing it was not only the widow, but that he had committed a real crime, or at least some very dishonourable action (of which he is, of course, incapable), i repeat that even in that case, if he were treated with what i may call generous tenderness, one could get at the whole truth, for he is very soft-hearted! believe me, he would betray himself before five days were out; he would burst into tears, and make a clean breast of the matter; especially if managed with tact, and if you and his family watched his every step, so to speak. oh, my dear prince,"