[male] your thing was sexual abuse... [male] i have to be very very carful with you in the bedroom [male] ...when we are active.. ok... [male] i cant ask certain things of you ... because of what happened to you ok [male] guess what.. i was yelled at so fucken pointless, [male] ...and beaten so fucken pointlessly that the only thing that pops in my fucking head [male] when some one starts yelling at me.. is to get ready to fucken fight!... [male] and to get agressive, and to become defencive... [male] just like you become defencive when i fucken say certain things to you [male] its gonna make very fucken defensive and make you wanna start smile about it [male] because your starting to get so fucken angry [female] you know you smile when you become treaten .. when your gettig in my face. can you control that smile?