Its far worse because it prevents their further development.  Slut women can bond over "girl power" and pretend that their slutty behavior is because they are attractive or powerful.  
Basically slut women can play mindtricks on themselves to confirm that their behavior actually is an asset.  And they have legions of young women and instagram escorts to cheer them on in their thought process (and simpleton men who want access to their pussy).
Slut women can just lie and "put it in the past" and it basically ceases to exist (at least on the surface).

None of this exists for men.  If you are a virgin, you probably also suck in many other aspects of life.  Women BELIEVE this.  It doesn't matter if you think "its not true waaaah".  Its believed.  Its relevant.  It matters.  Moreso than your "but but but...."