Honestly bro if you feel deep down like you can move past this, it can’t hurt to try. A lot of the people telling you to quit have never been cheated on so they can only provide you with rational advice. That’s fair, but love isn’t always rational.

I’ve been cheated on (I ended up leaving her so I can’t really say shit) but if I could go back and try again with her I would have for 2 reasons.

1) I realize now that if I had stayed with her she was totally down to do anything to keep me. Literally anything. That’s every horn dogs dream tbh. You can get what you want and then leave after. Live out all your sexual fantasies while you can. (Now is the perfect opportunity to get a threesome lol) like I said you can always leave later but it’s not always so simple to come back if you change your mind.

2) I was only with her for a year but I’ve never connected with anyone like her and don’t think I ever will tbh. Sometimes there are underlying issues you can decipher and break. (Maybe deep down she’s wanted to cheat cause she wants to spice things up but can’t tell you etc) all I’m saying is that there is ALWAYS a deeper psychological reason for every choice a person makes. If you can get into her head and break that you might actually make your relationship stronger.

In general I’m just trying to play devils advocate so try not to get on my head guys lmao. I’m a little weird in the sense where my girls cheating (The physical act itself) didn’t really bother me because I’ve always viewed sex as a physical transaction. Something anyone can do with anyone without it meaning anything (i.e FWB)
The thing about the whole situation that got to me was the fact that I couldn’t trust a word she said after. In hindsight, if I had spent the time to work things out I wouldn’t have spent the last couple years single. I’d be having some freaky sexy with a girl who believes she owes me something. 

Btw, the whole marriage thing is different cause now there’s money involved so yeah...unless money isn’t an issue dump that hoe and secure the bag homie lol. Just something to think about.