yeah for  sure,

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So my buddy hooked up with this gen z girl , funnily enough she went to  evergreen college. anyway her and her friend(who i was already banging) and my buddy were hanging out at my apartment. So me and my girl wanted them to leave, but she would have to get an uber so instead shes like Ill just go crash at (my friend)s house.  Anyway apparently they made out a little bit,  and she took off all her clothes in his bed. so naturally he goes in to try an get some, but she says no; he stops; like 30 mins later he tries again; she says to stop. well that was it for the night. Anyway the next day this chick was like asking my girl if she was raped or not? so my girl asked her "well did he rape you, do you feel raped?", she says no but she cant shake the feeling that something was wrong. anyway this girl makes this big awkward deal about it; doesn't cry rape or anything,  but like keeps talking about it for a couple weeks. My buddy feels super uncomfortable. over what would in any other circumstance be a pretty ordinary awkward thing. I mean SHE took all her clothes off in his bed, like wtf was he going to do with that signal. But in her mind she played no part  of it, because I guess she's been taught that it's ok to completely give opposing signals and expect a non awkward reaciton.

She wasn't drunk,  he made in HER own words two very non agressive advances,

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Now not all gen Z is this awkward, but if this is the norm of what casual sexual encounter is going to become. I can see why they might avoid it.  Awkwardness is part of sex, somebody has to be the assertive one or it wont happen, and thats generally the dude (as of 2019).  I will say that had my buddy been less timid himself, it could have been avoided. I probably would have just said something like "I'm going to fuck you", and waited for a response; instead of  awkwardly petting her and trying to kiss her body or whatever the fuck nonsense he did.

back when I was in my early 20's (13 years ago)  we didn't have these awkward fucking situations. Of course rape was probably ignored more, so I'm not saying it was better or worse. But times have a changed.