My college boyfriend did this to me. It started with him saying he didn’t want to go out then I would see him go out with his friends. Then it evolved to him not wanting to be around his phone, to not get “attached to technology” or whatever the line was. It escalated to the point where I was in a different country and he didn’t call on Valentine’s Day because... he didn’t want to. He had told his family that we were broken up because he couldn’t face that he was cheating on me. He wanted out but couldn’t make himself break up with me, so he made me the bad guy and I did it. 

I felt relieved once it was over. I mean it hurt that I felt okay about ending a 3+ year relationship over the phone but it got to the point where I couldn’t take it anymore. I was tired of being ignored and not prioritized. 

You deserve better. You deserve someone who prioritizes you! Someone who doesn’t hide his feelings. 

Take the support of your family and friends and don’t look back. It was a hard pill to swallow, I totally recognize that. But you learned from it, you are a stronger person now, and you can move forward! 

I wish you well!!