And your reasoning is basically "because I didn't actually read what was said and jumped to conclusions, and now that multiple people have pointed out my claims are objectively false my confirmation bias won't let me change my mind." Christ, get the fuck out of advice based subs.

Your excuse is that he didn't immediately try to blame himself when she refused to work with him on it. Who hurt you? Why are you so hellbent on blaming OP for him being unhappy his sex life took a plummet and his GF refuses to address it?