Incels are usually misunderstood-  but the community is a self-destructive echo chamber that propagates self-sabotaging thoughts and behavior.

I was originally part of it, and got the hell out when I realized what I was doing to myself.

Also - a lot of 'Incels' aren't actually ugly, but believe they are and internalize destructive ideas and thoughts. Frankly, I'd call part of the problem what I call the "Galahad/Predator" complex, similar to the "Madonna/Whore" complex that afflicts perceptions of women.