I understand the other side, it just doesn’t sit well in my spirit. 

I remember finding things to masturbate with but I made sure to clean it before and after. Getting my child something to *really* simulate sex at the age of 12 is too intense imo. 

I just think of finding things to satisfy your growing sexual urges as part of growing up. At 16 when you can work in most states and afford your own, I say go for it. But 12? I need you to figure out how your period works first.

Now I’m not saying no introduction to sex talks, but I can’t fathom buying a 12 year old a dildo or something of the sort.

Again, doesn’t sit right with me.