I’m with you 100%. I’m in a 4 year relationship but we live together so it’s a little different than OP’s situation. Even still, if he randomly started ghosting me, you can bet your ass I’m going to find him! I mean, this is *4 years,* not 4 months. No way in hell I’m letting that slide.

Btw I’m not harping on OP’s methods here, I realize people have different ways of doing things, this is just my perspective coming from a relationship with a similar timeline.