I have a promising career, but I am not happy with my life and have no motivation to work anymore, because of my lack of romantic success.I am very lonely. I need the intimacy that is only present within a romantic relationship. But I cannot have that. I do not know why, but I cannot manage to attract any woman. Unfortunately I have lots of things playing against me. I am extremely unremarkable in both appearance and character, and to top it off I am also a foreigner in a strange land (a career move). I have no social life either. A big problem is that I very rarely meet women, despite going out loads and trying my best to be social. My standards are not high, but despite this I meet a good prospect maybe twice a year. 95% of the time it is an instant rejection. 5% of the time, they lose interest after a very short time. I wish I could know why.Because of this, I have no will to live anymore. I am 30 and have never experienced mutual love. I feel like a slave working for the benefit of others, but not for myself. I could not care less about the money. I have no use for it. I am not materialistic at all.The depression and total lack of motivation from this issue has already hurt my career in the past. I just do not know what to do. I feel like I have no good options. I cannot take the thoughts out of my head.