Hmm if you guys are busy all day and don’t communicate much, but when you get home you want to and he shrugs your conversation away i think thats a cause for some concern.

I don’t think you’re controlling, you seem to just want to be involved in one another’s day and at the same time not being confined independently 24/7

Life gets boring if you’re living with someone who is suppose to love you yet doesn’t like talking to you..