I was born into a sex negative cult that required me to be married ("sealed") before I could get laid.

But I had still fingered girls and had some contact with vaginas. 

It sucked being voluntarily celibate just to end up with a girl who never took care of her vag.

There was nasty goopy shit in her underwear all the time too when I'd see it in the hamper. 

It's been over ten years, I've had &gt;20 sex partners since and never come across anything like that