This needs to be up higher. 

My ex treated me horrible on and off over our 8 yr marriage. It started while I was pregnant. I never in a million years would have thought he would cheat. 7 years later he did. While I was cleaning out his stuff I found homemade cards from women. One had a photo on it and they have dates on them. I popped it off and saw the date was during my pregnancy. He had been cheating on me and lying to me the *entire* marriage.