&gt; Show some respect for yourself and move on.

She did. She's saying she doesn't want him to approach her, as her friend warned he might. But that was at the bottom of the post, I assume some readers didn't quite make it there.

&gt;He still chose her.

While high off his titties. lmfao As soon as she started blabbing about their arrangement to their friends in a desperate attempt to make it official he ran away in utter fucking humiliation. So your "guess" about why he "chose her" is really weird because he like. Didn't. He literally fucked her for/while on drugs and then ran away. Doesn't make him innocent but don't go making up some weird story about him falling madly in love with his coke dealer because his ex was somehow worse.

&gt;too embarrassed to be honest with you. Bullshit. He knew what the hell he was doing. He was doing drugs and fucking other women.

Oh, I don't doubt that he was humiliated but I do agree with you here, he's no better than the chick.

&gt;Get some counseling for your co-dependency

Again, she already moved on, if you get to the bottom of the post she very clearly said she doesn't want him back and doesn't want to see him so her concern is not wanting him to even show up. I get that, they were together for 4 years and yeah, it can feel humiliating and kind of disgusting at first to find out you've been cheated on. It really hasn't been that long since she found out, she doesn't have to want him back to still feel grossed out and betrayed. If you can flip a switch and suddenly feel nothing negative that fast, you've probably got a personality disorder you may want help for.