Exactly. I could talk to the first 100 people I meet on the street and if I tried to sincerely ask them if 12 year old girls should have vibrators, sure they’d all react with disgust and look at me like I’m crazy. Let’s say, 100 people I know well and could be honest with me - same response.

Anyone I know who owns sex toys didn’t really start doing that until they were in their 20s.

There’s no reason a girl (or boy) going through their 12th year of life without a vibrator would harm their sexuality.

Something is up with the way AitA responds to these things. It really weirds me out how often I disagree with them now. This is the same sub that 2 days ago said it was weird for a dad to cuddle with his 20y/o daughter, and it was ok for OP to shame his girlfriend about it, “because that activity is reserved for SOs”, but it’s totally cool - encouraged, even - for a dad to buy his 12 y/o daughter a vibrator

I’m almost sure if it had been the mom who got angry and posted the thread, the sub would have agreed with her.