About the being kicked out/homeless comments. The place we pay for is in her family or otherwise I wouldn't be as worried. Our relationship is great but family would come first if she left me and I have always known that.

They have supported us fully but in that instance she would have the right-of-way.

I do have friends and family I could stay with but I need to be more stable before I can comfortable move out and spend money (gas/food) job searching those areas.

I am most conflicted because other than occasional changes in mood or behavior everything else is unchanged in our relationship. Just as goofy and loving as always.