&gt;If it was one of those cases where the pill doesn't work for some reason, her efforts to prevent a pregnancy were on point and getting pregnant was not her fault.  
  
I was taking the pill some time ago and actually made the effort to read that big ass sheet that was included in the box. And you know what it says? Out of 100 women that take the pill, less than one will get pregnant in one year. You know what that means? That the pill is not 100% effective in preventing the pregnancy. So the risk still remains, although very small.  
  
&gt;You don't need to involve a one night stand in that decision. In my opinion, you don't need to involve a FWB either. Or your SO in a three month relationship.  
  
Well that's your opinion. If I knew the person I would at least contact them and tell them about it because you don't know their stand on this.  
  
&gt;He never brought it up.  
  
Neither did she.  
  
&gt;and will leave you with an at least 18 year commitment.  
  
Ever heard of adoption? I know many people who can't get pregnant but would love to have a child.