I agree with you.  I always tell my husband he needs to go to bed at the same time every night and get on a sleep schedule.  But he won't. So he is always super tired, and then takes it out on me. 

 And we are working on getting my son to bed earlier.  He has been having so many tantrums every day it's been exhausting.    We also have a 6 month old daughter that has been sick the past 4 months and in and out of the hospital, which has caused a lot of stress all around.