Until relatively recently, basically the entire population of the western world was sexually repressed based on culture and religion.

A huge proportion of developing countries still show the exact same trend, where most women are shamed into not wanting to display desire or sexual needs.

'normal' doesn't mean right. Being different from normal is not inherently wrong, and when half the population still believe men's and women's sexuality should be treated differently, it's hard to argue that 'normal' isn't specifically wrong in this case.