Pregnancy is really tough on women. For the couples on HN, how did you manage having kids while holding down jobs ? I know that companies provide maternity leaves for the first child but its only for the woman not the husband. How did you manage to have more than one kid ? I know that most companies are lunatics when it comes to maternity benefits. Did one of you quit your job and start consulting or something ? If you did take a break how did it affect your career ? After the ordeal how is the mother doing and how much care was needed for the baby ? I have known people who quit their jobs to start their own small or medium business.