Your relationship isn't balanced, so it is up to you to demand (nicely, of course) that the relationship becomes balanced or you need to end it.

As far as she is concerned, things are balanced, she probably feels it is normal and fair for you to pay for everything. Perhaps she's old school, or perhaps she does things for you she doesn't quite enjoy but feels the fact you pay for everything makes it worth it.

You need to **talk to your girlfriend** about these things. Maybe she doesn't really want a job or doesn't want to work enough hours to have viable job options available.

But the main point is that you feel things aren't balanced and you either need to change how you date or leave her.