i dont know shit about long term relationships but i do know that everyone deserves someone better than a person that treats them like that. you cant even blame post partum depression for most of that legitimate criticism.

jealous, lazy (as a mother and a person), AND mean? 

bye felicia

also a bit from personal experience; a broken home and two stable houses are very different things... i grew up with parents that dont love each other but stuck with it (religious, stupid, married fresh out of high school) and they just hit 32 years together. ive known since i was 8 that my mom didnt really like my dad much. i grew up thinking that unhappiness and passive agression were totally normal.

in the end all that matters is why you came here and posted in the first place: What is going to make you happy and what is best for your daughter in the end? 

If these behaviors aren't new then they're not gonna change. good luck bud.

also cheers for being a good guy cop, i mean that non sarcastically. cops beat people into the hospital in my city. legitimate lawsuits. so thanks for intending to be one of the decent officers