Hmm, I hear you!

Just one more thing to add: Even as a fellow hopeless romantic, it's just truth that relationships arn't always totally magical. Sometimes a relationship will stop being the primary focus of your life here and there, and it's actually more common when the relationship *is* happy. The relationship stops being a novelty, and just becomes an integral part of your life. A more important part, than mere novelty.

You don't get that exciting, new relationship feeling forever. As I said, like you I am a hopeless romantic :) So I am a pretty passionate person even years on in my relationship... but even in mine, with me being that way, there are times when we're just happy, and content, and comfortable, and have other things we both need to focus on. We become a solid team and support, rather than Romeo and Juliet (... or a better and not-so-tragic couple D:).

I personally think there are definitely problems if a couple can't ever be excited and happy together, or get that magic back when they are able to focus a bit more on one another or need to... but yeah, it wont be like that constantly.

I think you need to perhaps not dwell/linger on these feelings yourself. Perhaps you have the situation down to a T, but you need to let him figure that out for himself I think. I'm sure this guy isn't *actually* a dumbass who thinks marriage is the only way to fix an unhappy relationship lol. Give him time, spend longer weighing up the situation... but don't dwell on him, for sure. Go date other people and stuff, live your life *as if* he's just gonna marry her and that's that.

You can always change things if his situation changes and you still feel the same then :)