What Schrödinger’s cat REALLY means

Maybe a different perspective could contribute to have a better understanding about where the problem has its roots.
What exactly is a number? What is the reality of the number one besides being written on paper? If I say there is one cockie on my table, where is the "one" in that cockie - how do I measure the "one" in the cockie? If it is something about our perception of the world, our observation only pass through our filter of how we perceive and describe the world. If there isn't any number, then a single particle has only a meaning when it comes to our language and the perception of that "one" particle - not from the phenomena as apart from our perception about this concept that we call reality in order to organize our perception into a world which conceptual design only exists in our worldview but not out side of it. Particles - because we define them by perceiving them interact according to their own reality interfering with our our sense of reality and thus creating for us conflicting notions about what we like to call reality.