The mother seemed to be. I'm not referencing the act of yelling at her for her curiosity. That's totally an asshole move. Shes curious, albeit too young to have her own laptop. 

I was talking about the comments saying not only is her curiosity okay, but her owning a fucking sex toy. That's my problem. Shes 12. I didn't know a single 12 year old who owned a sex toy when I was that age and if they did stupid shit because of that they definitely only did it once! My problem isn't that she was curious, and the dad should have told her she was way too young to be looking at things like that. That there are age appropriate sites and not age appropriate sites and slapped a parental block on that laptop TO BEGIN WITH!