Depends on where you go. In Christian circles virginity is a social asset. You lose street cred if you've tapped in your past. You're a lesser human being (they even say that part of your soul is taken with every girl you plow 😂).

You can't win with people. So fuck people. Determine how YOU wish to express your sexuality and roll with it.

I will say this though: girls and guys who shame dudes who can't score a lay are pathetic. Sexual theater is a game; it takes practice and work to get good at "scoring." Exceptionally attractive people get lucky egregiously more often, sure, but why are exceptionally attractive people the "standard" for sexual theater? Most of the 9s or 10s I've slept with are lousy lays (both guys and girls). The BEST lays are in the 6-8 range. These are the people who have fought tooth and nail to be who they are. Fuck they are so hot in bed...

If you think you can't have sex with the type of people you want because you are ugly, work on yourself. The gym, the gym, the gym. Fashion, fashion, fashion. Start partying and dancing just for the sake of partying and dancing. Work on your career. Believe me son: your sex appeal will blossom.