Have you ever been to r/OffMyChest? Every 3 months is someone venting about how traumatised they are that a twelve year old molested them when they were ten. Fuck off with your bs. A person isn't physically or psychologically developed enough to have sex even at 16. Most of the girls I knew at 16 didn't even know they could say no. At 13 one girl didn't even know she could tell her BF that him touching her mound made her uncomfortable, she just moved his hand to her tits which also made her uncomfortable, just less so. Piss off with your predatory BS. Giving toys isn't going to change things, it won't stop kids exploring. Giving an education on consent and relationships to boys and girls will.