I don’t think people are really *encouraging* masturbating, rather they’re not *discouraging* it, since it’s a normal part of being a person. Obviously, encouraging underaged people to view adult material isn’t right, but I don’t think a young person should be punished or shamed if a parent finds a dirty internet search. Perhaps part of “the talk” should be geared toward explaining that pornographic videos aren’t necessarily accurate depictions of typical sex?