I...don’t think this is a left/right issue? 

Glad you didn’t feel the need to. Again, doesn’t invalidate the fact that millions of other girls do. Or they find a nice guy to put his penis in, and gets them pregnant accidentally. 

I’m not saying that sexuality is beyond control. I’m saying we should let children know that sex is not a scary, bad thing, and should encourage them to explore their body in a safe and sane environment. 

(Also, by building that relationship, you can also build a relationship where you talk about affirmative consent and what it is, so that if your child is raped, they don’t feel embarrassed to come and talk to you about it. So, you know, I don’t think there’s any “encouraging rape” happening here 🤷‍♀️)