&gt;I appreciate the time you’ve taken to write on my post, but I made this for advice regarding my recovery and moving on from these behaviours I’ve developed, not to have people insult the man who has stood by my side

OP, if your prose is any indication, you seem a very kind and generous person. I am sorry for making fun of your bf. I didn't find his jumping you to be very considerate, but I see now that making fun of him was indirectly throwing shame in your direction which isn't fair. Sorry about that.