My point was being that being a prude is much different than some idiot saying something stupid. Prudish people literally turn their nose up at even mild levels of violence and or sexual content. 

If some rebel yuppie type of person calls someone a prude for not partaking in their "hardcore style" of living that's just not the same thing and shouldn't even be considered. Hence the ignore the stupid comments comment. 

But the real point is is that this is certainly not a common circumstance nor point of view so using it as the basis for the entirety of our "culture" is pretty flawed.