Hey, don’t be so hard on yourself. I know this isn’t going the way you expected it to go, but that doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong track! You both have an agreement for the future. Sure the roles are reversed and she’s the bread maker and you’re currently not. But that doesn’t make you any less of a man. Pull yourself together. This isn’t going to last forever. It’s amazing that you have a loving, supportive wife whose mind and heart has been focused on taking care of you guys while you prep yourself to do the same in the future. It’s blessing that your wife is in a position where she can financially take care of you guys. Chin up! You’re doing the best you can for you and your family. Don’t let any negativity get inside of you. You are no less of a man/husband because of your current situation! I think it’s wonderful that you both are able to this and still be secured. You guys will be fine. Look, just think about it, when this is all over and you’re done with school and getting the career you’re working so hard for, you’ll realize how everything happened for a reason, and you’ll be proud that things worked out the way it did. You both will look back years from now and see it’s worth! Shake off the insecurities and welcome positivity! No matter what you think, you are still important! Wishing you and your family the best.