Well I'm 23 nearly 24 and she's only 21 so we are just barely flying by the seats of our pants with what to do. And please, don't be in awe. I was scared shitless to do this for a long time and it took a long time of getting to know her to the point I would die for her if I could. She is the kind of girl who would give $20 if you asked for $10. She's the one I'm awestruck by. To be as disabled as she is and to be as positive and uplifting as she acts. I know she has her bad days but who doesn't and I want to give her a full enough life and a home so she isn't spending those bad days stuck in a hospital bed without anyone around til I can get there.

I've never heard of an advanced directive before today, and right now her POA is her prior nurse who's abusive as hell and is lost to the wind. We haven't seen her for over a year. Last we heard she was in a downward spiral and we don't know how to remove her POA but the hospital believes that she fits the qualifications to have it automatically rescinded for abandonment. So that advanced directive is definitely something we will be looking into tonight when I get there to get onto our game.

With that, I introduced her to a game that I used to play back in 2010-2011 that's easy for her to play with her range of movement and it's amazing how much she's willing to open up and speak with me about when we're deep in Alien Oasis III farming Lev Lar with random strangers. It's become our thing to talk about the heavier stuff when we're playing to get the basis and the feelings out there while murderlating some coded assholes, and then get the details later once the feels are out there and we're aware of them on both sides.