Please don’t put yourself though something like this I understand the desire to keep all that you’ve gained and pretend she didn’t throw it away but I can guarantee if she ever does it again it *could* enrage you against the fairness of everything. She has a great excuse to only do it once. I’m sure she’ll have a great excuse next time. Make sure your not gone when any other cousin/sister/brother/father/mother/grandfather/grandmother/son/daughter/uncle/aunt dies because it’s ok to cheat if that happens.