Masturbation is kind of unavoidable since it is the topic. Our issue is that you say "sure use your fingers to get yourself off. But anything else is a nono." I say that's just playing naive. You know that she will go around looking for stuff. so please be careful and use something safe. (like a toy designed for it.)

I will refer to her as a pubescent teenager in this case. She is clearly showing interest in the subject (you know masturbation) and figured out that she isn't the first in the world to use a tool to increase pleasure. Classic teenager shit. haha, he is fucking apple pie come on this shit has been around forever. As for whether or not she should get a toy I would leave to the discretion of the mother in this case. She knows best, perhaps her kid is sexually ready for it perhaps not. She came off as a very capable parent from the aita thread. Some kids grow into this sooner then others.