There's been a surge of paedophile acceptance movements saying that kids should "be able to explore their bodies and sexuality". Bullshit. Children do not have the mental capacity to perform sex safely. Children do not have the mental capacity to realise that they are under threat. They are too trusting and naive. The longer a child holds their innocence, the better they will be. That is why sex toys are off limits to 12 year olds. You should have been a better parent and prevented them from getting to this point.