Piggy backing on the comment you’re replying to - when you’re attractive a lot of people are within your reach, you don’t automatically “cross” everyone who’s less attractive than you, you actually have *more* options. 

I am not a 10 (or at least I don’t think myself as such), but I tend to get pretty good feedback. I see all of the other qualities you’ve described as superior than appearance, and so did some stunning girls I’ve met (girls much more attractive than me). Some of the few guys I’ve been interested in were mostly not very attractive physically (average if maybe even a bit lower), but they were amazing people in other aspects. Kind, emotionally intelligent, highly driven or funny (I find goofy guys awesome btw). Those things can make someone attractive in a heartbeat. If I were you I’d be more concerned about the emotional affair at this point. But just don’t rule out his physical appearance like that.