I'm not demeaning men who have lots of sex, either. While having sex is often a shortcut to high self esteem, charisma, and mental and emotional health, it's by no means the only way to achieve all of that. It may take a lot of time and effort, but by working out everyday, keeping your house clean, and learning basic skills like how to solve a Rubix cube, new languages, instrumental efficiency , fixing vehicles, plumbing, ect, you'll eventually find that you feel much healthier physically, mentally and emotionally, and that, virgin or no, people trust, rely on, and respect you a lot more than if you had just went on Tinder or forced yourself into an awkward relationship that didn't suit you so that you could get laid, which is what not all, but a good chunk of people end up doing.