I’m going to latch onto a particular point you’ve made, because everything else you said, I’ve already addressed.

&gt; truly damaged people

Who are you to decide that? 

EDIT: some questions

Why would early sexual experiences damage somebody?

Are you saying that one who had lost their virginity at the age of thirteen would be irreparably negatively affected psychologically? 
Why? 

How old were you when you lost *your* virginity? Relatively older than the average? Does that maybe have something to do with your views on youth sexualisation?

Are you open to my previous proposition that in the US people ‘grow up’ slower? Why, or why not?