''I think that her going to her ex for emotional support is probably not healthy for our relationship and I still do think that.'' TWO of my past relationships broke up because of this. Long story short: My gf's went to their ex (which was my best friend) for problems. They would go for everything to him because ''he has been there all my live and i don't want to tell everything again''. Well i was fine until i realized he just threw oil on the fire and shit talked about me when they came with problems. He even went as far as forcing them to breakup or he would never help them. Phew that gave me a big depression. Hes not my friend anymore and i never talk to those girls ever again.  


So just ask yourself if he is really only going for support of if he still loves her and wants to break you 2.

TLDR: Had the same shit, didn't work out. its definitely not healthy for your relationship and you should talk about it, other ways its doomed to fail