These posts are always the same lol.

Thot tells her BF he ain't shit in bed compared to her ex. BF then buys the whole 'manipulative, abusive, narcissistic' shtick from the thot, whatever other meaningless buzzword these losers on here eat up. 'B..but you're a better guy than my ex sweaty!' Then BF comes onto reddit to figure out what's going on.

Bro she's not over her ex and is trying to mold you into him. You're the rebound guy.

If you keep ending up talking about her ex, it's not an accident. You don't just wander into that conversation. It's deliberate.