&gt; My mom and I put our foot down. That’s not what grandma wanted, and it sure as hell wasn’t what she deserved. It was a fight but we won in the end and she was able to go without a fight when it was time. 

And this is why I have power of personal care over my parents.

I don't care about the rest of the family, I know my parents wishes and I am going to stick to them and not drag it out. 

Best gift my parents ever gave me, was me, their sole power of personal care.