&gt; I need to stop letting people live my life for me. I’m typing this from my sisters house and I’ve DECIDED this is where I’m gonna stay until my lease is up and then I’m going to go get my things from my apartment.

Good on you, this is a good attitude to have. Grab the wheel of your life's ship and steer it where you want to go. It's not that you don't know where else to go, it's that YOU'VE decided that you're going to stay there for a while. There's a lot of power in taking ownership of the choices you make, and this is your choice.