I am definitely a bit emotionally clammed up, but I ask her hard hitting questions all the time. Why would this make her feel better about herself instead of worse? I try to discuss my emotions openly with her, but I don't know if it's always a good thing. Sometimes I think the best thing is to just let her talk to me about it and just listen, but if I try to dig deeper into some of the things she says, it usually ends in frustration. I don't know if I can just sit there and listen to her without sometimes telling her that her reasoning doesn't make complete sense and that it requires some re-evaluation. I'm trying to help her by being someone she can talk to, at the same time I'm not going to sit there and listen to her be delusional when some things are blatantly hurtful to me or even hurtful to her.

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If I didn't remark on some of the things she said I would feel like I'm just using her for sex instead of even just being a friend or a lover. I feel like it's something that should be both ways, and that she should be considering my feelings just as much as I consider hers.