text: Guy is hot and cold?
  i really like this guy and he keeps being hot and cold with me. first he was pushing me away, so i let him have his space, a few weeks later he said he likes me and he's afraid of getting hurt and he thinks about me all the time and now i feel him start doing it again. he says i'm the only girl who shows interest in me. i like him but it's so emotionally draining and heart aching thinking all time wether he really likes me or if he's just leading me on.
  Tell him that his hot cold routine is a turn off for you. Tell him to either get in or get out. If he still cannot clearly be in the relationship, walk away. You deserve somebody who is into being with you.