::::Pedophilia is usually an exclusive sexual attraction to pre-pubescent children; it's what makes it so difficult for them to have a happy sexual life with adults...because they generally have no interest in adults sexually. For instance, a man who may have sexually abused his daughter or son, but when tested, shows to really favor adults sexually, would not be labeled as a pedohphile by psychologists...at least not a true pedophile. He would rather be called a situational offender, mainly because he is not beyond their help.