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 ::::There is no way ""Andrew, you are raving mad"" can not be a personal attack, and you conveniently forgot to mention that. And characterizing someone else's edits as vandalism, when they clearly aren't, just a difference of opinion (however misguided),  is incivil. Go look at Wikipedia:Vandalism#What vandalism is not. You just can't defend incivility. I am asking you to stop. You are free to do what you want to your talk page, but that doesn't make it impolite to delete the message, especially if I want to respond. · "