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 Hello V-Man737 

 Looked at the user page and we learn: 
 *1. he has issues with his ethnicity,  
 *2. he has issues with religions  
 :He has issues 
 *3. Nothing at the top of the page says, this guy is an administrator who acts without reaching consensus. It is tucked into a small corner that took me some time to find. And as we all know administrators do get their pants pulled down and and spanked from time to time so he is not the final word and he has not served our purpose here by making his call clear or relevant. He has undermined the process of mediator/arbitrator. 

 Important point here: Civilised people introduce themselves. A simple. ""Hi, I am Q. I have been assigned to review this request. I have made decison Z since A, B and C criteria are not met. Let's take another look at this in a couple of weeks and see how it is going,"" would suffice 

 Here is another considerationhow many parents with small chidlren run over to the site on Winston Churchill looking for some ray of hopeor Chemistry, or Muons? They don't. Their child is behaving in a very distrubing way and they do not know whydoctors will be called but long after their fears have begun to snowball. We are cheap and some pretty good rags say we are as good as Encyclopaedia B. Now they come over here and they get ""LUKE WELBURN HAS AUTISM THE FUCKING TARD"" repeated 20 times. Great. 

 We have full-protection for edit wars coming out of our earsdealing with pettiness and self-absorbtion is a prime concern. Ironically, the protection we would like here for the community who have very real needs is well down on the list of concerns. The problem with guys like Tariq is he or she is buried in the box of WP culture so deep our extension into the non-cyber world is no longer apparent. (He can not even offer a real identity. This is often little more than a stage for people who hide behind masks and not a real community with a very serious and significant purpose as it is to people like myself and this is also a primary reason why WP is getting hammered justly by its critiques and why Sanger et al are doing something else.) 

 Teachers and parents read this article and others like it for very serious reasons about very serious concerns and they get ""exhibits tendencies to suckle on mother's breasts and vagina until mid-teens."" What utter shite! 

 Bottom line, Tariq is not civil enough nor socially skilled enough to be admin of anything here, all other concerns aside. And he is just wrong about this as well.  

 NIGYYSOB is ""Now I Got You You Son of a Bitch."" It is a game described way back in the 60s when books by people like Rolla May and Carl Rogers were all the rage. The goal is to deliberately trap people and put them on the offensivethis one is where the policy wonks on WP are going off on minutia buried in small print in myriad pages with multiple interpretations and pretending that the points they try to shove down people's throats are obvious and readily accessed is classic NIGYYSOB. Who can find it? What does it mean? Normal questions for educated adults are disregarded for the primary purpose of trying to control the situation and just basically blow people off or put them down. Not the WP ideal really. 

 Regards, Thom Simmons 

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