== Indefensible behavior == 

 There was a time when one of you could have said that you're defending yourself from the other, but at this point both you and  are being puerile and are violating WP:Civility and WP:NPA. The comments that I've seen at Wikipedia:Votes for deletion/WikiProject Wikipedians for Decency and on your respective talk pages are over the line. I strongly suggest that you take an extended break from Wikipedia and get some perspective. You are both good editors and it would be a waste if one or both of you got an extended block over this.  /