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 :I never accused you of attacking me.  You simply believed that I acted incorrectly.  Though, if you're looking to help improve the article, usually it helps to be more specific about your confusion over another editor's concerns.  While wikipedia isn't censored, the current consensus is that it usually helps to avoid using words like ""fuck"" unless they're critical to illustrating your concerns or the article's content; otherwise, it is generally viewed as incivility.  It's kind of like the difference between saying ""Sorry, guys, but I've gotta sit this one out,"" as opposed to, ""Fuck this! You guys can deal with this shit yourselves, motherfuckers!""  The former is clearly more conducive to people working well with you in the future, while the latter only serves to make the situation worse.  After all, who wants to deal with someone who's hostile? P  \  / "