This happens when you question (or at least seem to question) their appearance, intelligence, athletic abilities, or anything else relating to their self-image.
1	This	this	PRON	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	2	nsubj	2:nsubj	Discourse=elaboration-additional:35->34:1|Entity=(32-event-giv:act-cf2-1-ana)
2	happens	happen	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	0:root	_
3	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	5	advmod	5:advmod	Discourse=contingency-condition:36->35:0
4	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=2|PronType=Prs	5	nsubj	5:nsubj|10:nsubj|12:nsubj:xsubj	Entity=(2-person-giv:act-cf1*-1-ana)
5	question	question	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	2	advcl	2:advcl:when	_
6	(	(	PUNCT	-LRB-	_	10	punct	10:punct	Discourse=adversative-concession:37->36:0|SpaceAfter=No
7	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	10	cc	10:cc	_
8	at	at	ADP	IN	_	9	case	9:case	_
9	least	least	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	10	obl	10:obl:at	_
10	seem	seem	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	conj	2:advcl:when|5:conj:or	_
11	to	to	PART	TO	_	12	mark	12:mark	_
12	question	question	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	10	xcomp	10:xcomp	SpaceAfter=No
13	)	)	PUNCT	-RRB-	_	10	punct	10:punct	_
14	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	15	nmod:poss	15:nmod:poss	Discourse=same-unit_m:38->36:1|Entity=(34-abstract-new-cf4-2-sgl(1-person-giv:act-cf3-1-ana)
15	appearance	appearance	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obj	5:obj|10:obj	Entity=34)|SpaceAfter=No
16	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	17:punct	_
17	intelligence	intelligence	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	15	conj	5:obj|15:conj:or	Entity=(35-abstract-new-cf5-1-sgl)|SpaceAfter=No
18	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	20	punct	20:punct	_
19	athletic	athletic	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	20	amod	20:amod	Entity=(36-abstract-new-cf6-2-sgl
20	abilities	ability	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	15	conj	5:obj|15:conj:or	Entity=36)|SpaceAfter=No
21	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	23	punct	23:punct	_
22	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	23	cc	23:cc	_
23	anything	anything	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	15	conj	5:obj|15:conj:or	Entity=(37-abstract-new-cf7-1-sgl
24	else	else	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	23	advmod	23:advmod	_
25	relating	relate	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	23	acl	23:acl	Discourse=elaboration-attribute:39->38:0
26	to	to	ADP	IN	_	30	case	30:case	_
27	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	30	nmod:poss	30:nmod:poss	Entity=(38-abstract-new-cf8-4-sgl(1-person-giv:act-cf3-1-ana)
28	self	self	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	30	compound	30:compound	SpaceAfter=No|XML=<w>
29	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	28	punct	28:punct	SpaceAfter=No
30	image	image	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	25	obl	25:obl:to	Entity=38)37)|SpaceAfter=No|XML=</w>
31	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	2	punct	2:punct	_
