Instead of relying too heavily on compliments, instead, focus on having an engaging, genuine conversation.
1	Instead	instead	SCONJ	RB	_	3	mark	3:mark	Discourse=adversative-antithesis:125->126:0
2	of	of	ADP	IN	_	1	fixed	1:fixed	_
3	relying	rely	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	11	advcl	11:advcl:instead_of	_
4	too	too	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	5	advmod	5:advmod	_
5	heavily	heavily	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	3	advmod	3:advmod	_
6	on	on	ADP	IN	_	7	case	7:case	_
7	compliments	compliment	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	3	obl	3:obl:on	Entity=(131-abstract-giv:inact-cf1-1-coref)|SpaceAfter=No
8	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	3	punct	3:punct	_
9	instead	instead	ADV	RB	_	11	advmod	11:advmod	Discourse=joint-other_m:126->117:3|SpaceAfter=No
10	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	9	punct	9:punct	_
11	focus	focus	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|Person=2|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	0:root	_
12	on	on	SCONJ	IN	_	13	mark	13:mark	_
13	having	have	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	11	advcl	11:advcl:on	_
14	an	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	18	det	18:det	Entity=(142-event-new-cf2-5-coref
15	engaging	engaging	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	18	amod	18:amod	SpaceAfter=No
16	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	15	punct	15:punct	_
17	genuine	genuine	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	18	amod	18:amod	_
18	conversation	conversation	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	obj	13:obj	Entity=142)|SpaceAfter=No
19	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	11	punct	11:punct	_
