So what if she was? He just let her talk for 10-15 minutes, contributing little. If I were her, I&#x27;d be a little annoyed too. He had all this time to participate, why didn&#x27;t he?<p>I&#x27;m sorry, but I&#x27;m way more inclined to think that it was him that was lacking in social adroitness than that she was so unbelievably insulting that he couldn&#x27;t even talk to her.<p>I don&#x27;t want to analyze it too much, in the end it&#x27;s just a bad date. But I get asked stuff like that all the time, and it doesn&#x27;t piss me off. Some coders really aren&#x27;t very adventurous. If I was one of those coders, I wouldn&#x27;t get mad either. I&#x27;d just realize she&#x27;s not my type, enjoy the conversation as much as I could and move on.<p>Why be so quick to take offense?