Not really, depending on what type of text it was she&#x27;d reply instantaneously. Also, honestly in this day and age is it really appropriate to take at minimum 4 days to respond to a question from your &quot;significant other&quot;? That is not normal. Everyone is always on their phone, like she was. In any case, regardless of whether she was faking it or not, it&#x27;s difficult to maintain a relationship with someone  who is always either unavailable or unreliable. Eventually I start to mimic their stiffness despite how well intentioned I may be and how petty I may  think my actions are.