I&#x27;ve talked to a few girls about this. While some are absolutely just out for all the freebies they can get, others have said that men will get increasingly aggressive when you turn down offers for stuff like that - like they <i>insist</i> on being &quot;a provider&quot; and you turning that down is an insult to their manhood.<p>Seems like a no-win situation all round, really. If you take it, you&#x27;re encouraging his behaviour (and making him feel like you&#x27;re indebted to him). If you reject it you&#x27;re going to find out how he deals with rejection, which, particularly in drunken scenarios, can literally be dangerous to you.