No, but there&#x27;s no need to render it more complicated than it has to be.<p>If the person on the other side loses interests because you are indeed being yourself, take it as an advantage. 
If they don&#x27;t want to make the effort in the period when they <i>should</i> make the effort, they&#x27;ve saved you time.<p>The flipside, of course, is that if you&#x27;re somewhat like the author and have an fretting behavioural trait, you&#x27;ll probably scare off a lot of people - which is still a good thing. The ones that stay are worth your time.