I actually had a rather lengthy debate about clothing with my fiance. It comes down to perspectives and social norms which may need to change to have equality.<p><i></i> Disclaimer: I do understand that this is sociologically complex topic <i></i><p>A woman may choose to wear what someone might consider a revealing piece of clothing for no other reason than she wants to and finds it &quot;cute&quot; (omitting why she has gotten to that conclusion e.g. marketing, etc). To that woman, she chose to wear something that make her happy.  She is NOT responsible for the actions of the people around her based on how they view that article of clothing. This ends up always with either victim blaming or claims of &quot;common sense&quot; when really she should be able to go around topless if she so chooses without having to fear others&#x27; actions.<p>In your case, you are already assuming reactions from others which is a whole other route in this conversation. When all is said and done, I find this to be a terribly interesting and complex topic.