&gt; Would you be okay if your child married a neo-Nazi who believed strongly in the white nation&#x27;s victory in the coming race-war?<p>I would probably be unhappy about that. But - as you say, lesser degrees of disagreement are lesser degrees of disagreement.<p>I don&#x27;t think that it&#x27;s <i>always</i> making politics too personal, to be upset about the political opinions of your child&#x27;s spouse. I do think that if those political opinions are held by ~50% of the country, then that does seem to be making politics too personal.