Work.  My relationship with my wife is the most important project in my life, period.<p>I work hard on important projects.  So does my wife.<p>We sit down and <i>communicate</i> about an hour, most every day.<p>For years, we asked each other these six questions, and listened to the response:<p>1. What&#x27;s the worst thing that happened to you today?<p>2. What&#x27;s the best thing that happened to you today?<p>3. What&#x27;s the most surprising thing that happened to you today?<p>4. What&#x27;s the most interesting thing that happened to you today?<p>5. What&#x27;s the worst thing you did today?<p>6. What&#x27;s the best thing you did today?