&gt; While I mostly agree with you, if someone acts like they don&#x27;t want a relationship at all (or plays super hard to get), then I&#x27;ll just move on to someone who does, because I don&#x27;t have time to waste trying to get someone interested in me.<p>I didn&#x27;t say that you should hide your interest in relationship to get it. I only said that pursuing something you imagine word &quot;relationship&quot; means, instead of paying attention to particular person, will not do any good for you.<p>In my opinion, if you like someone – say so, if you want to engage in some activity with the person – tell them so. If they reciprocate – good for both of you, if not – get over it and move on.