I agree with you and that is why I am commenting on it: Because &quot;men are assholes&quot; if they comment on it.<p>I think the reason for that is because men have so much more economic and political power than women and there is a lot of expectation that heterosexual women will get financial support for their male lover. So a woman who is not &quot;picky&quot; is &quot;a whore, just selling it&quot; and a man who is too picky about things like looks is &quot;just treating women like sex objects.&quot; The sex for money deal is only socially acceptable when they <i>love</i> each other and <i>marry for love</i> and then the defacto situation that he probably brings more money to the table is somehow OK.<p>I think there are legitimate concerns there, but I don&#x27;t agree with the way we resolve those issues. I do what little I can to try to change the conversation about such things.