I think you and vinceguidry are really missing the point.<p><i>&quot;I, and she, would rather deal with the consequences of being really attractive than to stop.&quot;</i><p>There should be no consequences to how you look, in general, but <i>especially</i> not the kind of consequences that women have to deal with.<p>Some people (probably most people) don&#x27;t wear clothes just to get a reaction from others. They wear clothes because they just like them, and don&#x27;t expect, and should not be forced to comply with, unwanted attention from anyone, simply because of how they choose to dress. vinceguidry stated as much, but then seemed to just go &quot;oh well, that&#x27;s how things are I guess.&quot;<p>The &quot;real answer&quot; of &quot;what should I do&quot; about being treated this way is to fight this misconception that unwanted behavior is simply expected and has to be either accepted or you have to change your looks. Nobody should have to change how they look to prevent being mistreated. This is not an acceptable choice, and you should not put up with it, nor should anyone.<p>And as far as comparing yourselves to women&#x27;s experiences, yes, you may both get &quot;undesireable attention&quot; for the clothes you both choose to wear. But this treatment is not even remotely like the abuse women receive just for wearing a skirt, or having the audacity to have big breasts or a nice butt or a pretty face.<p>While you are welcome to have your own opinion, lumping your own experiences in with theirs and expressing an opinion about both as if they were one experience is not only factually inaccurate, it prevents discussion about the issue at hand, which is <i>women receive unfair and undesireable treatment from men</i>.