I have seen and experienced this, from the inside.<p>I&#x27;m an educated black man (MS Degree) with a good job (Fortune 500 company) and my female relatives, many of whom are also educated and successful have difficulty with establishing and maintaining relationships.<p>Obviously not all, but many black women have unrealistic expectations. As other have already pointed out, women are adverse to marrying &quot;down&quot; so when a woman reaches a certain level of education&#x2F;career advancement, it&#x27;s extremely difficult to find a mate that meets her criteria. Lists of things, like Over 6 feet tall, lots of muscles, Bachelor&#x27;s degree or higher, Churchgoing Christian, no children, good relationship with his mother, not domineering but not too passive, earning at least 6 figures and other wish-list type stuff. There are women who won&#x27;t give a man the time of day unless he meets all of them. They, as you can well imagine, are lonely.<p>There are cultural taboos against black women becoming romantically involved with non black or hispanic men. I have only personally known one black woman who was involved with an asian man(his family came here from Vietnam and he grew up in &quot;the &#x27;hood&quot;) and only a few who are involved with white men.<p>I have never been in a relationship with a black woman. A date here and there. A fling here and there but never a relationship. Where I live, a video game playing, Dungeons and Dragons fan, comic book collecting, politically active guy doesn&#x27;t tend to get much romantic interest from black women. Then, there&#x27;s also the phenomenon of the black women who don&#x27;t want anything to do with you getting upset because you&#x27;re dating outside of the race.<p>I have also noticed that as we approach and pass 40 years of age, these women with their stratospheric standards are forced to carry on alone and bitter or drop their standards. Some of them get rid of them entirely just to get a man. I have even heard a fair bit of professional women getting involved with street dudes.<p><i>I guess my overall point is issues black women face are very different and unique to what Hispanic&#x2F;White&#x2F;Asian women face.</i><p>Agreed. Some of the issues are cultural, some are societal and some are of their own making.