I wrote a really long thing supposed to help but it ended a bit self indulgent.<p>Short version:  I failed my &quot;high school exams&quot; after coasting for so long I didn&#x27;t know how to learn.  I became afraid of trying in case I failed.  So I didn&#x27;t try and embraced failure.  Worked as a chef for long hours and little money.<p>Turns out it&#x27;s never too late to take control of your life and do something else.  I went to uni at 23 via a foundation course (requiring no exams).  I got a good job, am working towards a professional qualification and was sponsored through an MSc.<p><i>It&#x27;s never too late, but it is often to early to reach your potential</i>