<i>Height for men is like weight for women. Women want taller and men want lighter.</i><p>No no no no no. Height for men is like <i>age</i> for women. A woman can lose weight if she wants a particular man, but, just like men cannot make themselves taller, women cannot make themselves younger.<p>Also, some men like a BBW. I suspect this is much more common than women who actively prefer short men. (I have been a BBW. Some men really, really like that.)