I don&#x27;t think you&#x27;re the massive ego. There is a competition nowadays to who&#x27;s done more. Actually when people tell it, it&#x27;s not that they want to be the best. It&#x27;s that they want a minimum, and that minimum is perhaps &quot;At least my partner has to be able to enjoy travelling&quot; or &quot;At least my partner must have seen enough different situations so he will be flexible and compassionate if I become broke&#x2F;superrich or if we have friends from variety X or Y&quot;. Maybe try to decrypt what she was asking for and she&#x27;ll notice you&#x27;re on the same wavelength. Don&#x27;t let that mold into a competition.