I met my wife at a past work and... I still disagree with you.<p>Look, my future wife and I shared an office but were on different teams and projects. We befriended each other. Neither of us embarrassed the other at work by making unwelcome passes that aren&#x27;t easy to back away from <i>in a work-related situation</i>. We never really shared work responsibilities, but if we had, neither of us would have replied to a request for work-related help with an invitation to discuss the color of each other&#x27;s eyes. Neither of us was in a position of power over the other. Our relationship developed outside of the office, in a context where it was obvious our interactions were not work related, and where if anyone wanted to back away from that, it wouldn&#x27;t have impacted our jobs <i>at all</i>.<p>&quot;Hitting on someone&quot;, in the context of writing unsolicited flirtatious messages on a support channel, prompted only by the fact the profile picture of support staff looks like a girl is unambiguously creepy. Was there any indication the girl wanted to be invited to coffee in a different country just because she, uh, looked like a female human?