That was a really good comment, thank you.<p>&gt; there were no massive can&#x27;t-stop-thinking-about-you highs, no obsessive yearning, few intrusive thoughts. It just felt natural - we enjoyed being together<p>This pretty much describes how I&#x27;ve felt while dating girls I&#x27;ve liked. I&#x27;ve never really had or experienced the &quot;drug-like intoxication&quot; obsession-love, and I&#x27;m glad I&#x27;m left out of it.<p>I&#x27;m intrigued by your theory of why that it might due to a desire for &quot;completion&quot;. I don&#x27;t know if you&#x27;re right, but it definitely is an interesting theory.