The hosts SHOULD forget about them... the whole point is you welcome them with open arms, give them a little help to get them started, and send them on their way.  This isn&#x27;t &quot;handouts for life&quot;.  This is &quot;here let us give you an opportunity, it&#x27;s your job to make something of it&quot;.<p>If they can&#x27;t survive on their own, they SHOULD go back to where they came from and make a life there.