There&#x27;s a difference between active discrimination and justly wary. If there has been a rash of Arab men shooting people on the streets, and you&#x27;re around an Arab man acting strangely, common sense would lead you to be alert and on guard.<p>That&#x27;s not discrimination or racism, that&#x27;s reality. I&#x27;m not saying shoot first or discriminate by having him taken away. I&#x27;m saying be aware.<p>For a bathroom, I don&#x27;t see it as the exact same thing. I want anyone with a penis in my bathroom not my wife&#x27;s. Not only could most people with a penis easily overpower her 120lb frame, it does open the door for liars.<p>There was another post above that made the point: are all people with male genitalia a bunch of rapists? I&#x27;m personally spooked to even be friendly to a child I don&#x27;t know, so I understand his point entirely. Or are we going to be able to walk into a woman&#x27;s bathroom unrestricted? Difficult to have it both ways or exceptions for people who are mentally a woman but physically a man.<p>At some point societies have to make some decisions on how we&#x27;re going to do things and it will always end up imperfect. I agree with you that we can do better but how to achieve that isn&#x27;t clear without compromising on other factors that others feel are important.