Well, that&#x27;s the rub, isn&#x27;t it?  Everyone thinks they are working in the best interest of the children.  At least that&#x27;s what they tell themselves, regardless of whether their own agendas are coloring their perception of reality, which is probably happening somewhat on both sides.  Unfortunately what&#x27;s best for one child may be the opposite of what&#x27;s best for another child in this situation.