Devils advocate: What is so dramatic about refusing someone? If it is unwanted, can one not merely be distinct about the denial?<p>If someone is wasting your time, then they&#x27;re wasting your time. Then walk away. But if they are not wasting your time, then it turns out they are feeling a sexual way where you are not, then what is there to say about this? That is it, it&#x27;s over. So, is it really a plague like this article suggests, or a font of opportunities that actually aren&#x27;t afforded to men, but exist for a woman to or NOT TO take advantage of?<p>Is it impossible to conceive of any advances as a complement, or are they patently lacking all merit what-so-ever and are completely despicable?