Of course. Crying <i>helps</i>. Hell, I cry plenty of times when watching sappy movies.<p>But while crying <i>helps</i>, it doesn&#x27;t <i>solve</i>.<p>At least not outside your immediate social circle. And even inside, only in passing as a request for help and support. Eventually you have to <i>do</i> something, or decide you don&#x27;t care enough to solve the problem.<p>Children (maybe people in general?) should learn that doing is better than crying. In the case of Diablo, parents might do better to ask &quot;So what are you going to do now? How are you rebuilding your character? Can you do it faster now that you have experience?&quot; than to say &quot;Oh you poor baby, that bully was super mean to you!&quot;<p>One is empowering. The other is victimizing. Important difference.