We didn&#x27;t. I met a girl overseas and within 24 hours we moved in together. Obsessive, all encompassing, &quot;can&#x27;t take my eyes off you&quot; love.<p>I moved continents to be with her; 8 years together, married for 4.<p>Then suddenly, early last year, it all fell apart as quickly as it started. Finalizing divorce next month.<p>It was crazy, but I feel blessed to have experienced it. We&#x27;re still good friends, but the thrill is gone, well and truly. I was actually relieved when she said she was having an affair. Good, I thought, better you than me; now let&#x27;s end this.