Right.  The questions are (were) a gateway.  What we talk about is certainly factual.  And all too often our days have monotony in them.  What&#x27;s important is hearing how my wife <i>feels</i> about these things in her life, and she hears how I feel about those things in my life.<p>I like to say that one of my biggest advantages at work is that I have an intelligent, invested and attentive counselor at home.  My wife gives me tons of excellent work-related feedback, because she sees things differently than I do.  And that&#x27;s an incredibly valuable thing.