I meant to clarify.  I volunteered at a hostel this summer doing activities.  So every morning I had to talk to girls at breakfast and invite them to hikes or beer pong.<p>I also met a dozen girls or so girls a week out in LA.  I was going out almost every day and night though.<p>I also had a friend with a ridiculously amazing condo so I&#x27;d bring girls there.  The condo didn&#x27;t help that much but the confidence probably did.<p>Even with all this, it was exhausting and annoying to meet girls.  99% seem uninteresting and mean; only text me to invite them somewhere.  And I was just friends with most.<p>I&#x27;m somewhat of a misanthrope.  People in general are selfish and weird.  Accepting people as flawed creatures and focusing on the positives have helped a lot.<p>Edit- Travelling and staying in hostels rejuvenated my faith in others.  I highly recommend it.